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| Latest articles: Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex
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16 March 2009: Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...
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Is she embarrassed by my age?
Q. Hello to you, I've been seeing my girlfriend for a year on Tuesday. I love her with all my heart and soul. The thing is, I've just turned 19 and but my girlfriend 34. She has been divorced for 4 years and has two children. A boy whose 12 and...
A. 14 July 2008: You simply need to ask her yourself.
You could interpret her actions in a number of ways; she could be embarrassed; or she could be protecting you from her friends and family who may give you a hard time because they take offence to you going ou... (read in full...)
Views on condoms - sex more pleasurable without?
Q. I now feel ready for full sex-my boyfriend is too. We've talked about contraception and condoms.Some of my friends saythere's no difference in the pleasurable sensations for a woman whether a man wears one or not.Others say the feeling is much bet...
A. 12 July 2008: You should always practice safe sex -- especially in your teenage years.
Going on the Pill and him wearing a condom will ensure that you are virtually safe from unwanted diseases, pregnancy, infections etc.
There are also many types of condoms... (read in full...)
What can I do to not be such a party pooper?
Q. This may be a stupid thing to ask, since most of the questions are about relationships, but this does have to do with my relationships with other people. For the past few years, I've been living in London (recently moved to UK). The whole partyi...
A. 12 July 2008: Welcome to Britain ;)
We do have a big party culture over here in Europe (UK especially...) but there is nothing wrong with not going out if you don't want to; or wanting to do more relaxed activities.
I don't live in London (but have been t... (read in full...)
Quiz on guys!
Q. I have couple of fun questions on you GUYS !!! 1. Why do guys loose intrest in kissing after couple of months of dating? It seems to me, that first you are all into it, beeing kissed and such, and than, you just loose intrested and its more lik...
A. 12 July 2008: For the record I would just like to say that I disagree with all those statements...
...except the toilet seat bit ;)... (read in full...)
Why would a lad show all the signs he likes you but then claim he doesn't?
Q. Ok quick question. Why would a lad show signs he likes you, constantly stare at you and really show he has feelings for you and then when hes asked by afew of the girls friends, who one of is his friend to, he says he doesnt? And then once he's fou...
A. 12 July 2008: Hey...
it sounds like he does like you (the constantly stare bit gives it away...) but is simply nervous. Nice, quiet lads around your age (if he is around your age lol) usually deny liking a girl for all sorts of reasons; more often than not... (read in full...)
Should I stick to my plans to save myself for marriage?
Q. For the past few days, I have had a pretty high/medium sex drive. Currently, I am 17, and I've only had one boyfriend - When I was 14. I'm still a virgin, but I find myself wanting sex. My plans are to save myself for marriage, but lately, I've...
A. 12 July 2008: There's no rush! Many teenage girls rush into, or get rushed into sex at a young age and later regret it -- and the experience can put them off sex for some time. Of course you are getting sexual feelings and urges...after all sex is the mos... (read in full...)
I won't have an opportunity to lose my virginity until I'm 18, what do I do?
Q. Hi, im 15 turning 16 this year and my mom got a job in Bamfield and there is nobody under the age 25. I come back to my home town for 1 week of the month. Ill be 18 when i come back permenantly. Im dont want to be 19 and a virgin. I dont want to ...
A. 11 July 2008: What's the rush? Be proud that you are a virgin!
Sex and relationships will come naturally later in life when you meet the right man. Enjoy your youth first!... (read in full...)
My father degrades me and is constantly bringing me down. Please help.
Q. I just need some help, and it might be long but i hope someone will have time to read. i am a 19 year old girl, still living with my parents. Through my early teens i was very depressed and often had suicidal thoughts, which led to me attending a co...
A. 11 July 2008: Hi...
Have you tried just simply talking to your dad? Maybe there is something happening in *his* life that is affecting him which results in him treating you the way he is; or maybe he just doesn't even realise the grief he is causing you.
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My boyfriend loves me but it is so hard to accept that he admits there are better looking girls! Should I go off relationships?
Q. DearCupid, I'm 19 years old. I'm a nice girl, I know I'm smart and talented, witty, a bit shy and kind. I hate sounding arrogant, I like to consider myself as humble and a lot of people think I'm humble. The thing is, I'm a good girl. But I'm no...
A. 11 July 2008: There are always going to be better looking women with bigger boobs that make a girl insecure; just like there are men that are tall, dark and handsome with broad shoulders that make other men insecure...these type of men probably make your ... (read in full...)
I gave my teacher a letter explaining my feelings, but he has not opened it, I'm worried he won't...
Q. I love my teacher, but he see's right through me. I think he knows to some extend I love him, yet he ignores me and doesn't act so friendly with me. He always acts friendly to others, and blanks me out. I don't know what to do anymore; because it ...
A. 11 July 2008: I'm sure it hurts, but even if you were to start a relationship with your teacher the situation would be ten times worse for both of you.
The first poster is right, the teacher isn't blanking you, he is avoiding leading you on...though you have... (read in full...)
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