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Why would a lad show all the signs he likes you but then claim he doesn't?

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Question - (11 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok quick question.

Why would a lad show signs he likes you, constantly stare at you and really show he has feelings for you and then when hes asked by afew of the girls friends, who one of is his friend to, he says he doesnt? And then once he's found out the girl likes him to he doesn't show the signs as much but like still does abit? Surely he would stop comepletly or feel very awkward with it all surely?

And no this lad is not a player, infact hes a very nice lad, would never use anyone, pretty quiet, well not quiet but not on eof the loud flirty ones. Just wanna know because its not like hes the dlirty type and surely when your getting deep eye comtact from someone it means they like you!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2008):

Hey,i am a guy and its hard for a guy to openly speak his heart out,(just maybe hes a shy to ask u)like me i am on de other end of your situation i can tell all my friends nd her friends dat i dont have feelings for her;-),(BTW:me and dis we r best friends)but in fact i do have feelins for her,and if shes next to me they ask i just kip quiet.so dis guy is the who truly loves and won't dare screw u around jst to man to woman.

hopes dis help darling best of luck

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A male reader, saltwater United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2008):

saltwater agony auntHey...

it sounds like he does like you (the constantly stare bit gives it away...) but is simply nervous. Nice, quiet lads around your age (if he is around your age lol) usually deny liking a girl for all sorts of reasons; more often than not it is just out of being nervous or feeling awkward.

You haven't said if you like him too, but if you do just try talking to him to coax him out of his shell. Just things like "hi, you alright?" work fine. Good luck.

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