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*issyJ
writes:hi, bit of an embarassing question but recently me and my boyfriend have tried having sex but im too tight and cant even get anything in! so i tried stretching myself with my fingers, so far i can fit them all in fully individually but im more worried that my hymen is still intact even though we've tried breaking it. if i can fit my fingers in fully is this gone? and also what is the thick muscly skin on the upper half of my opening?is this always here? or is this my hymen?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2007): search hymen on the web and look a the pics
also if you feel to thick in the hymen for penetration, go to doc, he will help.
Really get some lubrecrcation from the chemist
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): hey just been reading your comments and things and i have had this problem i tried having sex and coudlnt even get it in!! im so so so worried i have a problem is this normal? we did do foreplay so i dont understand, should i have done more or should i worry........?
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reader, Reebe +, writes (4 January 2007):
 No your not to tight.
Your just tense, and worrying even more will make you tighter still.
Try having a "make out" session with your boy friend. Ask him if you can just kiss and caress each other, ask him to stroke you and get to know each others bodies.
When you are fully relaxed, and feel ready, ask him to put a couple of fingers inside, being very gentle. Ask him to move his fingers around inside you and get used to the feeling inside you. After a few sessions of doing this when your used to it you'll wonder what you ever worried about!
Good Luck!
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reader, Pretty and proud +, writes (4 January 2007):
 make sure when you and your boyfriend have sex that it is special and you both are comfortable. you cannot get enough foreplay, make sure there is enough foreplay untill you are comfortable, i had this problem my first time and my second time i tried i felt comfortable because we did lots of foreplay. lubricant is also a good idea just make sure your sex is safe and you feel comfortable and that it is special because you would like to be one of those people who doesnt regret thier first time rather than one who does.
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