Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 12 January 2013: My friends and I were discussing penis size down the pub lady night as you do! We all agreed men who are big tend not to put much effort in during sex and are very arrogant, average size is well average and men with small penis's tend to perform ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if he stares at you but won't talk to you?
Q. Why would a guy do this? What does it mean? What does it mean •when a guy constantly stares at you, but looks away when you catch him in the act •goes out of his way to open doors for you •Is really friendly and talks to everyone b...
A. 3 January 2013: Not really enough info to go on, you will have to try and make conversation with him and see where things go. This could carry on fit a long time if one if you doesn't make a move, go for it!!... (read in full...)
It's legal in my country to marry a cousin. I seek your thoughts on my ideas about marrying please?
Q. I think the West may frown on this but I don’t care . I don’t live there anymore. In my country not being married by age 30 is weird n nor normal generally. I’ve been in relationships and they have failed in part because of immaturity and ...
A. 3 January 2013: Marriage is one thing kids another. You shouldn't purposefully inbreed there could be all sorts of health issues for the child and obviously they will have reduced intelligence.
If you want to get married to your cousin and she is up for it do what... (read in full...)
Why does my wife insist on lying about my penis size?
Q. As I have said on previous posts, my wife has had about of 25 sexual partners before me (we met each other when she was 40). She is a very well educated and very kind person. At the begining we were very open during our conversations and at that ...
A. 3 January 2013: You don't sound that small don't worry! I'm sure if you keep pushing her she will eventually tell you that you are small just to shut you up! Will it make you feel better? If she enjoys it whose complaining! Do you compare vagina sizes of all your ... (read in full...)
What do you think this message means?
Q. What do you think this message means ?. It's from a guy that i know. He said "i want us to be close but you never reply much and yes we got on great and i ruined it as i didnt want a relationship and now your with your boyfriend i am just wanting ...
A. 3 January 2013: He is asking whether if he could still have you if he wanted to. It's an ego thing so I wouldn't go there!... (read in full...)
My sister is verbally and mentally abusive to her children. What can I do?
Q. I have an older sister that emotionally, verbally, and mentally abuses my 13 year old niece and 15 year old nephew. Every day she calls my niece all kinds of nasty names and calls my nephew everything but a child. She mocks their looks, tells them...
A. 3 January 2013: I'm not sure what happens in other countries but in uk reporting her annonymously to social services would help. They wouldn't take her kids away but would probably make her attend parenting classes or arrange support for the children.
The o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is constantly rejecting me for sex and its making me feel ugly and not at all confident
Q. I have been with my boyfriend now for quite some time. We have always had a wild and awesome sex life, and I can't say I've ever really been disappointed... until recently. My boyfriend has always had a very high sex drive for me, and I for him. La...
A. 3 January 2013: It does sound a bit odd but impossible to know why without asking him more questions or finding out if anything else is going on.
Maybe he doesn't have the high sex drive you thought he did.... (read in full...)
She refused sex. Is this a red flag in our LDR? Or am I just being paranoid?
Q. I’m in a LDR with my girlfriend; we see each other every two months because we are in different countries. I’m currently visiting her, our sex life is good but I believe I have a higher sex drive than her. We don’t see each other that often so I b...
A. 3 January 2013: Surely if you want more sex in a relationship you don't get into a long distance one!! If you move nearer to each other and still don't get much sex then there is a problem.... (read in full...)
He talked me into a long distance relationship, then dumped me saying he couldn't handle it. Now he's in another LDR!
Q. I met my ex boyfriend online, it was long distance (he was in New York and I was in California) so we started talking on the phone. He told me in our first conversation that he had moved to New York from Europe as a foreign medical graduate to get ...
A. 3 January 2013: I'm always wary of men who are really keen at the start, often means they are more interested in the chase, once they know you are keen they back off.
In reality you are better off without him - flying out to New York regularly sounds like a lot ... (read in full...)
Why, after 23 Years am I having trouble over this? My view of my wife is shattered
Q. so after 23 years of being married this question has come up. Why now I don’t know. Before I met my wife, she had a boyfriend in in high school. They waited until after graduation to have sex. While she was at collage he cheated on her. I me...
A. 2 January 2013: I think you are being very judgemental. you haven't mentioned how many women you have slept with? Surely she can still have morals despite not being a virgin! Most people would be flattered that you were the one she chose to commit too.... (read in full...)
Why does my wife pull away from me when I want her this bad?
Q. So I posted not so long ago a question because my wife just doesn't ever have sex with me, she may maybe one every other month use to be once a month but anyway yah thats still an issue, but we've talked about it. We do have a 5 month old and stuf...
A. 2 January 2013: Sounds like she has a lot on her mind, young child, work, house work. She probably can't concentrate on enjoying her time with you while she could be spending the time doing something else. Maybe she would like time to enjoy sex? She doesn't want to ... (read in full...)
He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?
Q. Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...
A. 2 January 2013: If I was your parent I would probably hate him too, but it is your life. Unfortunately in this situation time is the only way to prove you are serious. If you can stick this relationship out for a decent amount of time and your parents will see he ... (read in full...)
Do we go on with our family life as is and very rare sex? How do I fix this?
Q. Hi everyone. I am sure this is a common question on here but I will ask anyway because I am really depressed about the situation. Here goes…I’m 37 and wife is 38. We have been married for 12 years and have three awesome kids, 10, 6 and 4. My ...
A. 2 January 2013: What about working out more, changing your clothes, taking up a new hobby - something to remind your wife you are a fanciable man. She obviously loves you so its about working on the physical side of things. Charm her the way you did when you met.... (read in full...)
Where would I find more information on how to french kiss?
Q. Okay , one day my boyfriend and i tried to make out for the first time and it was going well until he stuck his tongue in my mouth and I got so nervous and pushed him away . What do I do ? How do you French kiss ? I'm so nervous and when we see e...
A. 2 January 2013: Sorry the only way to learn is through practise. You want to try and go along with what he does until you get the hang of what you like/don't like. Tongues aren't compulsory! I very much doubt he would complain whatever you do so relax. ... (read in full...)
Our Families are close. So how do I cut my ex out of my life? He still wants sex.
Q. He told me a couple months ago he was coming to my state to see his father and wanted to see me. This gave me anxiety because he made sex comments on Facebook a few weeks earlier. He has been trying to get to me for years!! We have a very mess...
A. 2 January 2013: Block him on Facebook. It takes a long time to get over someone but no time at all to fall for them again.... (read in full...)
I don't enjoy sex with him! Is there a way to work through this?
Q. When my boyfriend and I got together, it had been 3 years since my last boyfriend, and even longer than that since I had last had sex. Since we started having sex, I just don't enjoy it, he can't make me orgasm unless there's tons of foreplay ...
A. 2 January 2013: He doesn't sound like the nicest of men but obviously it is your choice if you choose to be with him. I don't think giving a blow job is ever that nice for a woman, the enjoyment is seeing it pleasure someone you care about, maybe if you felt you ... (read in full...)
How can I get through to my wife?
Q. How can I get through to my wife ? For 6 or 7 years now I've been trying to get her to talk to me and discuss many things including our virtually non existent sex life. She's refused. She seems to want to live in some odd scenario which is more like ...
A. 1 January 2013: I think if you feel you have tried every option you may need to discuss breaking up, with her or living without sex, I don't think using the law to push her into having sex with you is the right way to go!
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Why do guys have to give up their porn but girls get to keep their toys?
Q. So I've been reading post about women upset about their boyfriends using porn and post about guys upset about their girlfriends using a vibrator. It strikes me odd at the double standard women have for vibrators and porn. Every post I read consist ...
A. 1 January 2013: My issue with porn has always been the way women are treated in the making of it. How many women really want to be doing the things that are asked of them. Just because they are being paid doesn't make it ok for them to have to do anything men ... (read in full...)
Is my female boss taking advantage? She wants me to provide her with sex. What can I do?
Q. it is with big pain and confusion I write this. I have never told this to any one. I have been away for a month for work and my boss (female, may be around 38-40) was also there. Though she was my boss, we were in good friendship. As the bed was...
A. 1 January 2013: I don't think you were used in this situation. You both made a mistake though. You were the one who enjoyed the sex and then did not want to continue the relationship further, she could feel that you used her! Just because someone is your boss does ... (read in full...)
How do I stop being so needy?
Q. I have been broken up with my ex of 7 and a half years for four months. I had been thinking about it for a few months before - we barely had sex anymore and he was a bit controlling I now realise. I started seeing someone about one month after ...
A. 1 January 2013: Fill your time with other things that make you feel good, seeing friends, exercise etc. Gradually your self esteem will improve and therefore your relationship.... (read in full...)
Why am I so emotional?
Q. I don't know what is going on with me recently! I keep finding i'm very emotional, i tear up over nothing or the littlest thing! I get angry at everyone so easily, it's actually becoming a problem because now i'm getting into arguments with my ...
A. 31 December 2012: it does sound like it could be your hormones. you keep a diary of your mood for a month and see how it varies with your menstrual cycle.
Unless there is something worrying you, possibly from the past.... (read in full...)
Should I respond to ex's new GF's message?
Q. I was in a long distance relationship a few years ago which lasted two years. Now we're just friends, although we don't keep in touch, we do meet up whenever we happen to be in one another's cities. Recently, his current girlfriend for about a year ...
A. 31 December 2012: if she messaged you then it is only fair to respond if you want to. If he is lying to her she has a right to know.... (read in full...)
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