He wants to bring another man into bed to please me (strictly for me), but I'm not so sure...
Q. My boyfriend thoroughly enjoys pleasing me beyond my wildest expectations and has a fantasy of bringing another man in to have sex with me while he is having sex with me. He says it is strictly for my pleasure and he gets off on that and simiulated ...
A. 7 March 2008: Hi
lots of guy want to see thier wife/gf with another guy. it upto you. when i was younger i could think of anything worse. but as my wife and i both got older we wanted to try new thing and that was one of them . over the year we have done it ... (read in full...)
He wants to bring another man into bed to please me (strictly for me), but I'm not so sure...
Q. My boyfriend thoroughly enjoys pleasing me beyond my wildest expectations and has a fantasy of bringing another man in to have sex with me while he is having sex with me. He says it is strictly for my pleasure and he gets off on that and simiulated ...
A. 7 March 2008: Hi
lots of guy want to see thier wife/gf with another guy. it upto you. when i was younger i could think of anything worse. but as my wife and i both got older we wanted to try new thing and that was one of them . over the year we have done it ... (read in full...)
I recently noticed a change in the anatomy of my vagina...is this normal?!
Q. I just started having sex about a year ago. However, I have recently noticed a change to my anatomy. A large piece of skill now hangs down, it almost looks like a penis. I've been embarrased to be with anyone ever since. Does anyone know what ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi
its normal as you develop. the same happend to my wife when we first met. and as she got older more came out. she too was shy about it and didn't like the change, look in porn mags and see the differant type.
i think the outer type is mu... (read in full...)
Are threesomes just a fantasy or do they really happen??
Q. Are threesomes only a man's fantasy or do they really happen that often? I believe it might be fun with the right circumstances. ...
A. 2 March 2008: Hi
yes 3 some happen. like the other but be very carefull. my wife and i have had several, our first whilst we were in our 20 and the last late last year. i think we are better suited now that we are in our late 40.
you both need to discuss ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is never interested in sex!
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 6months but he never seems that interested in sex. he says he's gone past that stage (hes only 30) and says it doesnt make people happy. i feel rejected in a way, that maybe i dont look good enough for him ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
get him to read the book women are from venus and men are from mars. it explain that men and wemen are differant.
men reach thier sexual high at 17 women in thier 30. explain you need sex or it will affect your relationship
... (read in full...)
My husband has lost interest in sex, I have tried every sexy seduction method, what do I do next?
Q. Hi all, I'll get straight into the problem..i'm married for 7years now and i've got three beautiful children and my problem is my husband...he doesn't wants sex anymore i tried everything wearing the sexiest clothes offering massages, scented ...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
stay right there and i will be round soon. sorry just had to say that. you are doing nothing wrong. all those thing work and should work.
my thought are you need to sit him down and as some hard question.
is he seeing someone, has he g... (read in full...)
I didn't turn him on
Q. Hello - I am not sure if i just need to sound off, or need some feedback...I think feedback to be honest. I recently met a man who is 43. I liked him alot and fancied him alot. I am mid 40, divorced and (about a year ago) out of a LTR. Th...
A. 24 February 2008: Hi
Like one of the others said he may have an issue getting hard and is embarraced. most men go through that at some stage of their life. meeting a new women could bring that on.
have you given him a massage. i expect when he gave you the mas... (read in full...)
Sex in the shower....any tips??
Q. My lover and I are trying sex in different places. What information/advice do you have about sex in a spa/bath tub? What sex positions work well for sex in a spa/bath tub? What are some fun things that can be done as part of spa/bath tub sex? Wh...
A. 19 February 2008: Hi
Fist be carefull as the others have said. for the spa we have found that my wife love to site on the spa jet. this will massage her and bring he to the boil depending on her body type then for the sex part she bends over the side and do it fr... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want sex.
Q. My husband is no longer interested in having sex... I am 27 years of age, he is 33. We are both (physically) in fantastic athletic shape and have no kids. We have been married for almost 6 years now, and we are both working in the same industry ...
A. 17 February 2008: Hi
Your sex life is important to a healthy relationship. several thing you need to do. first it could be work related no time to switch off. have you had a holiday etc.
secondly men go through stages in their life when they cannot get hard ... (read in full...)
I asked if he wanted a threesome, now I'm worried he wants to have sex with other girls.
Q. I asked my boyfriend if he'd like to have a threesome. He said it's one of his fantasies, but that he wouldn't try it, because I'd get too jealous and because he'd be too jealous if I asked for an MFM. I asked what would he do if I wasn't the jea...
A. 12 February 2008: Hi most guys if they are truthfull would like to have a FFM 3- some. its only when you get older are you willing to have a MMF 3-some. now i prefer it that way. why do you want a 3-some, is it for you or your b/f? be carefull as when we had our f... (read in full...)
Can only orgasm during masterbation
Q. I am 25 and can only orgasm from masturbation. I enjoy sex with my boyfriend but it's frusturating and we change positions and try new things?! help.......
A. 12 February 2008: Hi
over the years i have found very few women orgasm during the sex part. they need to be very hornie.
what we found best was forplay. this alow you to orgasm several times then fishish off with sex. my wife love it that way and it took us y... (read in full...)
How can a marriage survive without sex or affection??
Q. My husband is struggling with impotence, with no medical causes,or known reasons. It suppose to be psychological,but we don't know how to go about that. He seem to feel very bad about this, but We just stuck,we have no other idea what could be ...
A. 11 February 2008: Hi
ou are not alone with this issue and you should rush in. its nobodies fault and lots of med go through it. i did last year and my wife had the same issue as you.
she thought i was seening another women and all kinds. my fist advise is. ... (read in full...)
Sex films and best mates
Q. My wife often lets me film her perform sexual acts on herself and me. I had never considered showing them to anyone until one day she told me I could show them to my best friend aslong as I pretended she didn't know. At first I was shocked by this....
A. 11 February 2008: Hi
i have done that same with my wife approval and without and yes its a great turn on. you know your mate. message me if you want to know what happend. most others dissagre... (read in full...)
Love sex, but can't orgasm.
Q. I Love Sex!!!! My question is: I am in my 50's, and am I looking for a man. When I have found one, we go out, usually have sex after the event. The problem: I can't seem to seem to organsim. We try all different positions and nothing wor...
A. 7 February 2008: hi not sure if it will help but do you orgasam when you either masturbate or are played with by a man. my experance is women orgasam much more being stimulated that way than with the just stright penis. the penis dose the finishing part af... (read in full...)
Do men fantisize about ordinary people and is it normal?
Q. I am married with two young children and found porn and a 2 pictures of my husbands colleague on his PC. I am convinced that he masterbated to the porn as well as pictures of his work collegaue even though one was of her at a christmas party and ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi
the short answer is yes, when you are younger you may think of movie stars etc, but as you get older real people are much better.
I know you have a young family and time will be short, but have you not thought about one of your friends.
... (read in full...)
My husband has ED and hasn't taken steps to improve it... and it's killing me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have 3 children. I know he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me, but he has ED and will not talk about it or try to resolve it. I got him t'to take Viagra and it helped for about a week and that ...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi
A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008):
message me and i will tell you what worked for us. but things have been very good since... (read in full...)
My husband is having Cyber sex
Q. i have been married 28 years i recently discovered my husband was having internet sex with web cam. he said he was looking at chat line and was very excited by what women would show him he bought a camera because they expected something in return w...
A. 4 February 2008: Hi my wife caught me doing that a few years ago and boy did she go off. i don't think she spoke to me for a month. if you are up for it ask him is it ok for you to do it on the net. that what my wife did to show me how much she was hurt by... (read in full...)
My husband has ED and hasn't taken steps to improve it... and it's killing me!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have 3 children. I know he loves me and doesn't want to hurt me, but he has ED and will not talk about it or try to resolve it. I got him t'to take Viagra and it helped for about a week and that ...
A. 3 February 2008: Hi
First of all you its no ones fault. these thing happend. it happened to me a year ago. I didn't want to talk to my wife about it and it got worse. as i tried to hide it. she thought i was seening someone else. My wife and I had had a great se... (read in full...)
He wants to have a 3-some!!!
Q. My boy wants to have a threesome, but I was just wondering, what if the other woman keeps interfering? That's what I'm worried about when we do do this. Any advice???...
A. 3 February 2008: Hi i agree with the others, see if he will do a MMF. if so he may just want it for the sex expearance. my wife and i have had several 3 somes over the years and our best have been MMF. We have both injoyed that kind best as women last longer than... (read in full...)
I'm curious - is a vibrator better than a penis?
Q. Hi I am considering getting a vibe. I orgasm readily anyway with my partner who is attentive so don't need it to achieve orgasm. How much better is the orgasm is the intensity different or the length? Or is it preety much the same? Thanks!...
A. 24 January 2008: Hi
my wife and i have used vibrators for a number of years as part of forplay. we would recommend a rabbit type but my wife say they are no substitute for the reel thing. she always wants me to finish with.
we found the rabbit was by far the b... (read in full...)
Advice on sex in hot tub please!
Q. Hiya abit of an awkward question but me and my wife are going to my sisters soon and she has a hottub thats normally outdorrs but it can be brought indoors which is what they have done in the winter. They have onverted one of the garages into a room ...
A. 21 January 2008: Hi
Go for it, my wife and i have had sex in hot tubs and spa many time. she loves the water flow onto her vagina and get off on it. The clorine kill bugs if it kept right.
the water can make it hard to get into her sepends how turned on she is... (read in full...)
Advice on sex in hot tub please!
Q. Hiya abit of an awkward question but me and my wife are going to my sisters soon and she has a hottub thats normally outdorrs but it can be brought indoors which is what they have done in the winter. They have onverted one of the garages into a room ...
A. 21 January 2008: Hi
Go for it, my wife and i have had sex in hot tubs and spa many time. she loves the water flow onto her vagina and get off on it. The clorine kill bugs if it kept right.
the water can make it hard to get into her sepends how turned on she is... (read in full...)
Our threesome with the well-endowed black man has my wife craving more action-but without me!
Q. My wife offered to spice our sex life up by asking me to find a girl to join us, we posted on the internet and we had a great threesome with a younger girl, then my wife wanted to do the same with another man, I was a bit uneasy with it but went ...
A. 22 December 2007: Hi
we did the same a few years ago, my wife always wanted to try a black guy and she did and loved it. she wanted the same as your wife and i was unsure. so we met up with him several time together. but i think she was holding back
i did a... (read in full...)
My girlfriend suffers from low self esteem and bulemia, I came up with some ideas to boost her confidence but my friends say I will drive her into the arms of another man
Q. I have been with my grilfriend for a over a year now, she has recently told me she has suffered from bulemia and is desperate to feel good about her self and more importantly to feel sexy again. She is gorgeous and has a beautiful face and the most ...
A. 20 December 2007: Hi
not sure i can help with the Bulimia i agree with the others you need to get her help.
as for the low self esteem my wife wasn't happy with her body for years after kids and thought nobody would think she was atractive. i got he to wear n... (read in full...)
What kind of sex toys should I get my wife for christmas?
Q. Hi With Christmas almost upon us I wanted to get my wife a new sex toy. She is sick of our current toys, balls vibes etc. She likes to use them when I am away. anyone any ideas? ...
A. 11 December 2007: Hi female reader, anonymous we currently have and use a rabbit, a black dildo and the silver balls when we go out. i will look for the glass dildo when i am next out. does that help. what i want to get is somthing that gives the whow factor that... (read in full...)
Swallow or not? Pros and cons please!
Q. Ok, this area REALLY worries me - Blow-jobs!! Firstly, do you have to swallow after giving a blow-job? Secondly, would anyone think less of you if you didn't? What is it like? And finally, is it actually a good thing to do?...
A. 10 December 2007: hi
its upto you, my experance has been if you are realy turned on it will just happen. i have had both and both are just great... (read in full...)
I cant help screaming when my man and I have sex, but it wakes the old lady next door, I cant help it though, is this normal?
Q. I like to scream when I come. My boyfriend asks me not to make too much noise because there is an elderly lady living next door. Not long his neighbour complains about it. I feel embarassing and bad to wake her because we always make love after ...
A. 30 November 2007: Hi not sure if this will help but go for it, my wife has been very noisy all our married life. she too enjoys it best when she is free. and when we stay at friends she has the same problem and has tried to hide it. as she as got older she's not ... (read in full...)
My wife's getting frustrated.
Q. I'm 33 years old and happily married with 2 children. When having sex i lose my erction halfway through. I withdraw and my wife will restimulate me. When i restart having sex i then feel the need to ejaculate immediately. This is so frustrating as ...
A. 15 November 2007: Hi
i have gone through the same problem, you need to get rid of the stress. you sould go and see your dr about the depression as it curable with help.
i tried to ignore it and in the end could get an erection and hope that it would go away bu... (read in full...)
Advice on MFM threesome... I'm a little nervous.
Q. I am about to have my first MMF threesome with my boyfriend and another guy, both straight. I am a little nervous and just wondered can anyone give me some advice? Its all going to be at my pace, I wondered should I have the new guy first, then my ...
A. 11 November 2007: hi
hope i am not too late but speaking from a guy part it won't make mucd diferance. a friend of mine ask me to have sex with his wife and him. they both undressed me and it just happened. we spent the next 4 hours doing anything that came to ... (read in full...)
He's not interested in having sex anymore.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for 2 years, we live together and everything. We have been though alot, and I'm starting to wonder if I'm fighting a losing battle with him, just last summer we were having problems with a girl texting and calling his ...
A. 11 November 2007: Hi
i don't expect there is anything wrong with you, and guys playing with themself is normal. do you play with him and do you do the same old same old we like to try new things. not sure if this helps but replay if you need ideas
bye... (read in full...)
He reaches the finishline too quickly! How do I slow him down?
Q. I am seeing/dating this guy whom recently we became sexually involve. The first time he came too quickly within minutes of intercourse. So I didnt say anything. Now it is our fifth times or sixth times and it is still the same. What can I do to he...
A. 6 November 2007: Hi
do you use forplay or do you go stright into sex. many years ago my wife and i learned the rewards of spending time playing with each other so that when the sex part came she would it was the last part of a multiple orgasam. if i took 1 min or... (read in full...)
I'm very confused
Q. hi need some help i have 3 children from previous relasionships. the bf i had before has left me feeling hurt and with a barrier holding all my felings inside. the problem is that i have recently met a lovely man who is so lovely and kind his ...
A. 31 October 2007: Hi
i am not sure how long you have been with this guy, but if he make you feel good out side of the bedroom he must like what he sees in you.
there are only a few people in this world with a perfect body, and you only have one life, so please ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my partner's porn watching?
Q. hi i know my partner watches porn he also downloads it on the internet it bothers me sometimes because he trys to hide it i would rather him tell the truth, it also makes me feel am not enough for him but recently i found a half naked local woman on ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi
a few years ago went through the same phase looking at porn on the internet and tried to hide it from my wife. we too were having a great sex life and i didn't realy know what i was looking for on the net.
she caught me several times an... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'
Q. My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like ...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi a few basic questions, is he seeing someone else as at that age he should be able to recover quickly, have you asked him about it what turns him on. next get him to the point of cumming then leave him see what happens ... (read in full...)
Do dildo's hurt?
Q. Hiya I really need your help I get orgasmic when i rub my pussy but i am too scared to use a dildo up me does it hurt and and how can i masterbate so i can orgasm good Thanks Lou...
A. 30 October 2007: Hi
I bought the first dildo for my wife over 20 years ago, it was hard plastic. she didn't think much of it and we only used it a bit. then i bought a black soft one that she would use and we got very good use from it. Over time she got use to i... (read in full...)
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