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Swallow or not? Pros and cons please!

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Question - (10 December 2007) 21 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Ok, this area REALLY worries me - Blow-jobs!! Firstly, do you have to swallow after giving a blow-job? Secondly, would anyone think less of you if you didn't? What is it like? And finally, is it actually a good thing to do?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2010):

Quite simple. Yes swallow.

There is a 100% correlation - every BJ I've had from a spitter was at best mediocre and worst awful. All the best girls swallowed and either loved it or did a perfect act of loving it.

If you don't swallow and he says it's good there are only 2 possibilities - he's lying and probably getting decent ones elsewhere or he's never had a good one.

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A male reader, olderthandirt United States +, writes (22 September 2010):

olderthandirt agony auntNot really, it don't do nothin' for me.The mere fact you allowed him to cum in your mouth is the part that's sexy.

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A male reader, Mitch Man United States +, writes (17 August 2010):

Hi fellas and ladies-

YOU SHOULD ALWAYS SWALLOW. How's that for emphatic? It's a kind, loving gesture. It's important you let the man know he is worthy. Plus, you'll find it tastes good.

Love, Mitch (swallower)

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A male reader, duggers90 Australia +, writes (9 December 2008):

Before answering i would like to know the age of the writer.t can make a lot of difference to my answer Duggers.

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A male reader, duggers90 Australia +, writes (9 December 2008):

It would all depend on the degree of relationship one has withuj the suckee.

Let us look at the mechanics of the situation, Are you listening guys and dolls,??

The vas deferens holds X amount of fluid. At any ejaculation 50% of said fluid is expelled, NOW , if a blowjob is performed correctly `100% will be expelled and increase the wonderfuil feeling a thousand fold.

It happened to me once only in my first marriage.She blew me at 6 am. I could still feelit 6 hrs later, itwas magic.

I laid fllat on my back, erection pointing to the ceiling.She gave me a handjob untill just before, then she went ddown on me with a sucking, up down, up down action.I blew and it was fantastic. By the way. I am 90yrs old and have known almost 250 ladies intimately.

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A female reader, chloe lin United Kingdom +, writes (23 June 2008):

There's not much point in sucking and spitting - you're missing the best part. I love the whole greedy business of cock-sucking, the delicious moment when he comes in your mouth and the pleasure of swallowing his semen. But then I'm an earthy sort of woman. If you are fastidious and if you don't like it, don't do it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008):

I love it!!!! My bf tastes like a lollipop with

Whip cream on it! I'm going to do it all the

time! :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008):

I just started giving my bf blowjobs and he seemed really pleased by them. When he finally came in my mouth i loved it and swallowed it all no problem. It really varies person to person, but i love it. It really makes him feel good too! :p

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A male reader, daletom United States +, writes (11 January 2008):

As a guy, it doesn't matter much to me if you swallow or not - just stay on me until the main contractions are over. Then, if you wish, use the towel or napkin that one of you has thoughtfully pre-positioned for the purpose. And kiss me! Long and deep!

The WORST you can do is make a scene as if I had just filled your mouth with battery acid or some other poison.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008):

You don't have to swallow, at all, most guys are thrilled to get a blowjob, whether you do or don't swallow.

Most guys do prefer if you swallow, but, it's like prefering your free Caddilac comes with tinted windows... he's getting a blowjob, he's not going to mind if a tiny preference isn't exact.

What's it like, the taste? As a male, I've only tasted my own, and I'd say mine is a totally neutral thing as per my normal diet, I honestly wasn't bothered, but I didn't have a burning desire to do it again either.

Cum is all protien, so, it's Atkins friendly, but if you're bothered by meats, it could bother your stomache in the same way that any protien could, it's not bad for you, but, it's not "healthy or good" for you either, it's neutral.

If he really makes a huge deal out of you swallowing (which, I highly doubt he would), ask him to change his diet, drinking a decent amount of pineapple juice supposedly makes cum taste very good, though I've yet to try it myself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007):

I get sick to my stomach when I swallow...I don't let him know whether or not I do...I just have a towel handy and take care of the problem (like eating out in a fine restaurant and getting a fish bone...handle it discreetly.)

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A female reader, Bee92 United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2007):

Don't do it if you don't want to.

My Boyfriend asked me to and i tryed.. But it made me gag as i hated the taste and he doesn't mind me not doing it anymore though:) x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

i do not like the taste so i do not swallow.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007):

If you're not gonna swallow, then just try to still act sorta pleased about it when he's orgasming. Even if you don't want his cum in your mouth at all the same thing still applies.

Myself I don't see what's the big deal about whether a girls takes it into her mouth & swallows or not. But I think maybe some guys just can't help feeling like their orgasm is a nasty choir to her if she avoids his penis when he's about to go. That feels like a mood killer right at the worst possible time.

I have another suggestion for you too. Don't completely leave his penis alone the moment after he shoots. My GF usually keeps sucking or rubbing me for a few more seconds afterwards and that feels great. And orgasm has a peak but it doesn't just end in an instant after that. There's a few seconds of slowing down.

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (10 December 2007):

hi

its upto you, my experance has been if you are realy turned on it will just happen. i have had both and both are just great

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (10 December 2007):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

it doesnt matter one bit. Although you will get a type of guy who it does matter to - they have posted on here and are all insecure about why their girl doesn't swallow - these are usually the type of guys who also moan about their partner's previous lovers. It's best to avoid these type of self pitying losers.

If he's a real man he will be delighted you are giving him a blowjob - whether you spit or swallow is irrelevant.

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A male reader, keith5 United States +, writes (10 December 2007):

keith5 agony auntIf you give a guy head until he cums than thats great.

you deciding to spit or swallow is totally up to you.

talk to him be open about if, it will only make it

more relaxing for you and him.

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A female reader, vodka-tearz United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2007):

vodka-tearz agony auntHey there babe, there are also different positions in which you can give blowjobs. Lying down, standing up, kneeling, etc. The easiest for your first blowjob would probably having him pressed again a wall with his back to it, and you on your knees in front of him.

Begin Slowly, Then speed up the pace.

If your jaw begins to ache, alternate between hand job and blow job, it's likely that he'll prefer the blowjobs but put yourself first, it's a memorable experience for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007):

Hey hun

First of all don't panic!

Whether you spit or swallow will make no difference. It's completely up to you. Every man has a different taste. If your guy smokes or eats foods such as red meat often then he's more likely to have a stronger taste than a guy that doesn't. More importantly though, he's not gonna judge you what ever you do. If you really don't like the feeling of him coming in your mouth then just get him to let you know when he's about to climax and finish him off with your hand

Good luck hun!

x

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (10 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntIf you dont like the taste dont a guy isnt gonna complain if you dont swallow or let him come in your mouth he will just be enjoying what your doing, i personally dont like guys coming in my mouth hate the taste and the texture but i know people who do its all up to personal prefrence.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007):

Any blow job is better than no blow job, unless you advocate the use of teeth like peoriaman does.

It's not neccessary to swallow, and probably better for you to shoot it over your shoulder or something. I wouldn't think any less of you if you did so.

Previous answers to much the same question of 'What's it like' came up with answers ranging from 'Gross' to 'pleasant' with 'salty' in between. I wouldn't know! But I guess it's all a matter of taste and the strength of your stomach.

Some would have you believe that semen is full of protein, but again, I wouldn't know. Maybe that's a myth. It's certainly full of millions of microscopic 'tadpoles' unless he's had a vasectomy. If I was a woman, I think that's the part that would put me off!

Phil

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