My husband has been watching real life couples having sex on a porn site whilst he is working away, is this normal?
Q. been married just less than a year and found out that my husband who works away has been viewing real life couples having sex on a porn sight. i am shocked and wonder if anybody thinks that this is what men do when working away and is it normal?...
A. 13 January 2010: hi
i see your point has he put stuff on and have you spoke to him about it... (read in full...)
Why does husband need to masturbate when I'm home?
Q. I have caught my husband masterbating and i'm wondering if there is something wrong with our sex life why do he feel he needs to do that when i'm in the house? I can see us doing it together or me watching but, he is doing it without me when i'm in ...
A. 9 January 2010: hi
you said you seeyou both doing it together or you watching does he know that as i think its normal what he is doing and you may find you are in his thoughts whilst he is doing it. you sould ask. pm if you like... (read in full...)
I want to walk around in my underware
Q. I feel like taking off my clothes and leave my underwear and bra on only but afraid that my family will find out but I cant resist doing it because my kids would see it...
A. 7 January 2010: hi
as nili would say, just do it. i have a female work friend who does her cleaning of the house like that and like it... (read in full...)
My husband has been watching real life couples having sex on a porn site whilst he is working away, is this normal?
Q. been married just less than a year and found out that my husband who works away has been viewing real life couples having sex on a porn sight. i am shocked and wonder if anybody thinks that this is what men do when working away and is it normal?...
A. 7 January 2010: so what do you think about it and if you knew before you married him what as changed. pm if you like... (read in full...)
My husband has been watching real life couples having sex on a porn site whilst he is working away, is this normal?
Q. been married just less than a year and found out that my husband who works away has been viewing real life couples having sex on a porn sight. i am shocked and wonder if anybody thinks that this is what men do when working away and is it normal?...
A. 6 January 2010: hi
first i think it is normal but you should talk to him about it. have you looked with him that may bring a whole new chapter in your relationship and if you do he may not look when he is away. ... (read in full...)
Why not me?
Q. My guy an me had a great sex life until 2 months ago. He then could come, lost it with me. I find out he has been getting himself off. He has blamed loads of things. I have now given him ultimatum as ( he says I turn him on?!) but today he can get ...
A. 23 October 2009: try and add some spice to what you do, sock the socks off him....... (read in full...)
He uses porn for sex instead of me!
Q. Since me and my partner have been going through a bit of a rough patch for the past few weeks, we haven't been having sex. I recently found some porn websites on his phone...(I was borrowing his phone, as mine broke.) and he had googled up 'hot ...
A. 18 October 2009: yes look at it with him it will open up communication between you both may even lead to sex... (read in full...)
My husband wants to have anal sex with me.
Q. My husband wants to have anal sex with me.We have never done it before,and I'd like some advice on how to go about.I'm a little bit scared about,is it safe or healthy for my body if he cums on my back?...
A. 18 October 2009: hi
i allways wanted my wife too and she was unsure we found when the time is right and you are both hornie let him lub you up and you will enjoy. now when my wife wantd to take control she sets it up. lets us know how you go but make sure you are ... (read in full...)
My doctor gets me hot and bothered!
Q. I just stumbled across these posts through google. I cannot believe what similarities I'm reading. I have such a "huge" crush on my doctor. He's always been a hot guy and I've been seeing him for about a year now. However just recently I can't se...
A. 16 October 2009: hi
i maybe able to put a husbands view on this we have been married for over 25 years. i know for a fact that my wife as fantasised about other guys andi know she is a little flerty some times. in fact she and i have done it as a turn on when we ... (read in full...)
He's not interested in seduction. Do I resort to a sexless relationship?
Q. i have a fabulous and close relationship with my partner of 16 months. he is unfortunately not interested in sex/love making. the first 2 months was brilliant since then we probably have had 10 minute sessions about 4 times. i probably 'nag' a bit ...
A. 15 October 2009: hi
try and talk to him as some men at that age find it hard to get hard, i am not sure if that is the issue only you will know and then they hide this by doing what he is doings. lets us know or pm if you wantto discuss further... (read in full...)
Over drinks my boyfriend brought up a threesome. Am I a drama queen for how I reacted?
Q. about two weeks ago my partner and a friend of mine were having a good old drink or two, when my partner suggested a 3 some and within seconds of him saying this my friend a girl, then came onto me. i responded at first as my partner was glaring me ...
A. 15 October 2009: hi
i think there me somthing hidden here and they may have worked it out to get you in bed. it upto you if you do or not but you shouldn't if you are not comfatable with it. 3 somes are good but you both have to be hold it as a differant part of ... (read in full...)
What can I do to fix our sexual problems?
Q. im a 51 y/o female my partner is a 54 y/o male, we have been together about 8 mths and at first our sex life was FANTASTIC, as usual, he said he had a high sex drive which suited me just fine, he has been on anti-depressants since before we met, and ...
A. 14 October 2009: hi
how about you watch it and masterbate with it you need to try new things to turn him on does he have any fantacies.
pm if you like have you been out for dinner and a nice place lets us know i am in oz too... (read in full...)
What can I do to fix our sexual problems?
Q. im a 51 y/o female my partner is a 54 y/o male, we have been together about 8 mths and at first our sex life was FANTASTIC, as usual, he said he had a high sex drive which suited me just fine, he has been on anti-depressants since before we met, and ...
A. 13 October 2009: hi
you could try looking at the porn with him and seeing if that turns in on with you there
or pm me and i can sugest more... (read in full...)
He thinks a threesome will save our relationship, but will he lose respect for me instead?
Q. My boyfriend of about a year wants a threesome. (If you have read my other post, you might laugh and think it is a crazy idea.) Last week he said he would like to have a threesome. Since we do not know anyone to do it with it is mostly all fa...
A. 3 July 2009: Hi
it a very good question you have. for years in our early life i always wanted and 3 some with my ife and another woman. we would talk about it but it was a fantasy.one day when we were much older my wife said she would try it but also wanted t... (read in full...)
Ideas on pleasurable masterbation without a toy?
Q. ive been masturbating for a while. Ive been using my hands... but Ive gotten bored of my hands and my mom found my dildo so I cant have any sex toys a around the house. what else can i use to masturbate and gain pleasure?...
A. 16 June 2009: Hi
my wife as used an electric tooth brush, we saw the idea on big brother once so when we were on holiday we tryed it. be carfull with the brush side but the back works very well. let us know how you go... (read in full...)
If you really loved your wife would you let her sleep with another man?
Q. How do you know when a man truly loves a woman. What do they do, say, act like? For the men if you really loved your wife would you let her sleep with someone else? ...
A. 6 June 2009: hi
not sure were you are coming from here, do you want to sleep with an other man. pm and w ecan discuss further... (read in full...)
Why does he want sex only when he is ready?
Q. Why does my husband only want to try and have sex with me after I am already asleep and then when I wake, he will not kiss me, love on me or anything, just wam bam, and if I try to proceed any other time he turns me away, it is always only when he ...
A. 6 June 2009: Hi
could it be that he is bored, have you tried anything new, you should talk with him about it and try and add the spark back. my wife and i have been throught this from time to time. she is the one that will not talk about it. message if you w... (read in full...)
Threesome with partner & friends?
Q. My partner Mark and I have been together for a few years now. About a year ago, we were approched by one of my friends for a threesome. After considering pros and cons, we decided not to gof or it for the sake of our relationship. Ho...
A. 9 March 2009: hi
be carefull and my advise is stay clear of friends. my wife and i wanted to try sevaral years ago and did it with complete stragers and yes it was very hot as you said and we both got a great deal out of it. she suggested we try friends and we d... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife wear spandex to work?
Q. is it okay for me to let my wife out the house wearing tight spandex to work?...
A. 24 February 2009: hi
not sure why you asked this, what do you think and why ask. i think there is somthing behind this?... (read in full...)
Can his problem be fixed or Is it his age?
Q. I am a 34 year old women and my boyfriend is 46.my boyfriend was real sexualy active and big.up til about 2yrs ago he has not been so active his penis has gotten small.when we do have sex his penis gets hard for a few minutes then goes limp.what can ...
A. 27 January 2009: hi
this has happened to me and the best thing you can do is support and talk to him, we didn't for ages and things got wore. then we talked and did a few differant things. message if you want to know more... (read in full...)
I'd like my husband to masturbate in front of me
Q. How can I work up the nerve to ask my husband to masturbate in front of me? I know he does it on his own, and I would like for him to do it with me. Would I disgust him by asking? Or do you think he'd be more than willing? I would like to get him ...
A. 27 January 2009: glad it worked for you you should try a few more things it all help to keep the excitement there. let us know how you go... (read in full...)
I'd like my husband to masturbate in front of me
Q. How can I work up the nerve to ask my husband to masturbate in front of me? I know he does it on his own, and I would like for him to do it with me. Would I disgust him by asking? Or do you think he'd be more than willing? I would like to get him ...
A. 18 January 2009: hi
its normal to do that and its always been a great turn on for my wife to see me do it. have you tried to do it to yourself during forplay and that may be the time you could ask him.
another time is if you whatch a movie together that co... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has erection troubles and viagara doesn't work..how can I help him?
Q. My boyfriend is 57 yrs old and has trouble keeping an erection so penetration is impossible. He becomes so frustrated and upset and feels sorry for me. He satisfies me in so many other ways. I love him so very much and tell him that we can use a ...
A. 12 January 2009: hi
it a come problem and one that i have had for the past 2 years. my wife says it ok and some times i can keep hard. she also says that she is ok with me using the vibrator on her but i know she want the real thing.
we have tried most thing... (read in full...)
Do black men really have larger penises?
Q. I am white women who has only dated white men, but my friend has a black boyfriend and she tells me he is the best sex she has ever had, she only dates black men. she says they have the biggest penis'. I want to know if this is just a coincidence, ...
A. 12 January 2009: Hi
thats a good question to ask, and somthing that my wife as always been intrested in. she always enjoyed them in moveis and would become very turned on by them that how i picked up on it. she had always wanted to know how big they were and whet... (read in full...)
I love my girlfriend but I think I love her sister too.
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over two years. We are madly in love and I care for her deeply. She has a younger sister that is very close to her. By close, I mean, very close. They slept in the same bed for twenty years and call each ...
A. 9 December 2008: hi
be carefull, that happened to me many years ago and i lost both. the sister is alway an atraction, but it very had to have both. chose creafully... (read in full...)
He's a closed book in the bedroom!
Q. my husband is a closed book when it comes to the bedroom. i try to get him to open up and he doesnt. our sex life is becoming so repetitive that i am getting bored. he also doesnt last long and i have been finding myself needing more. he is also ...
A. 9 December 2008: Hi
i think you may have to take lead with him for what you want to do, (or there is somthing wrong with him). try some sexy underwear or book a nice weekend away with him. also try a adult movie with him, i found that helped my wife a few year... (read in full...)
I need married men's advice!
Q. I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the ...
A. 21 October 2008: hi
you are a good wife in what you do he dosn't relise it yet. i think you need time to your self and agree a little part time job my help you both eg he looks after the kids and you get to talk with others.
as for the definission of a... (read in full...)
I need married men's advice!
Q. I need married men advice( and wifes also) Ive got people saying(with my last question i am too "motherly" to my husband and that is why he takes me for granted and never shows me any respect. I stay at home with the kids and keep up with all the ...
A. 21 October 2008: hi
you are a good wife in what you do he dosn't relise it yet. i think you need time to your self and agree a little part time job my help you both eg he looks after the kids and you get to talk with others.
as for the definission of a... (read in full...)
He makes insecure comments now after our threesome, and now when I want to interact with one of my friends I don't tell him. What to do?
Q. My Fiance and I had a threesome with one of my friends. Everything was beautiful, but now he makes these insecure comments when he knows i'm going to see her alone. I think its unfair, because she was my friend before this episode. I was open with ...
A. 24 September 2008: Hi
threesome are a very hard thing to live with, for both of you, you need to be honest with each other and talk talk and talk. the same happend to us many years ago, when i didn't like my wife being alone with the guy we had. i was me that wan... (read in full...)
Questions about bikini waxes....
Q. This isn't really a love or relationship question but I thought you might be able to offer advice anyway. I'm off for a normal bikini wax next week and I was wondering how much would be taken off?? Also, how long before the hair starts growing b...
A. 7 August 2008: Hi
if i could give you a gut point of view on the subject, it depend on what you have planned, if its only so your pubs don't show out of your swimmer just trim and wax about 25 mm with your smallest swimmer bottoms
if it for a guy to get somet... (read in full...)
He want's me to have sex with others as he watches:
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been dating the same guy for 3 years. Over all it's been fantastic and unlike many of girlfriends I feel sexually I have it made! He's a great lover in "size", caring and making sure that I stay sexually satisfied. I'm so into him...
A. 5 August 2008: Hi
very interesting and again i am not a pro at this. however, i love my wife talking about other guys cock or what she would do with them and i love the thought of whatchng her have sex.
she will talk dirty and at this stage we have never ha... (read in full...)
My man has erctile dysfunction, any tips?
Q. My man is 49 he can not stay hard for more than a minute...
A. 5 August 2008: Hi
i went through the same thing last year, the more i thought about it the worse it got. My wife would talk about it so i saw the doctor and he said there was nothing wrong with me.
i started talking 1/4 of asprin and regular exesize to de st... (read in full...)
Is anal sex always painful?
Q. My husband and I have a great sex life, however in the 4 years that I've known we've only had anal intercourse, successfully, twice. I consider myself sexually adventurous, but I am absolutely terrified about this for 2 reasons. M husband is VERY ...
A. 5 August 2008: Hi
we are no experts on this subject and are only new ourselves to it anal (4 years) it took my wife a long time to try it, but she is open to it now and its become a think we do at certain time.
we found the wine good and be very turned 'on'... (read in full...)
I want to change our sex schedule...
Q. hi me and my fiance are 15 years apart and having a hard time being satisfied in the bedroom, im 20 and hes 35 i work 4 days a week 9am to 3pm he works 5 to 6 days a week 6am to 5pm hes job is hard and i know he is so tired we have s...
A. 23 July 2008: Hi
sound to me that he is a very luck man you could try oral for oral. it sould like you should tell him what you would like and may let him catch you releaving yourself when he askes why you could tell him you need more.
lets us know how you ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know any galleries or places where I could sell my paintings for a reasonable price??
Q. Hey there all! This isnt a question about love, relationships ect- I just wondered if anyone had some advice to give me! I am quite young, and I want to start selling some of my paintings that I have made over the years whilst studing art. I ...
A. 30 June 2008: hi
what kind of painting are they ... (read in full...)
He masturbates to porn--would phone sex and webcam use make him masturbate to me??
Q. Okay. So my boyfriend has been lying to me about masturbating to other girls for about a year. I found tons of porn on his computer yesterday. I am really angry at him and I was wondering if phone sex would make him masturbate to me? And possibly if ...
A. 29 June 2008: hi
try getting him to do it over you and even you try it. i know when my wife saw me doing it she went mad at first but then wnted to try herself. which i didn't like much.
lets us know how you go... (read in full...)
My wife is an escort. What does she mean by this?
Q. last september i posted a question about my wife working as an escort and received very helpful answers. we decided she should continue escorting as she wanted and everything has been pretty good so far. she is very much the typical affectionate ...
A. 29 June 2008: hi
i expect they are turning her on and she i wanting them to penatrate her which in turn turns her on more.
my wife is like that she love forplay and wants me to finish her by penatration. but i keep playing with her.
good luck and lets us... (read in full...)
Was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before?
Q. This question may sound really stupid and weird, but I was wondering if anybody has ever straightened their pubic hair before? I am 22 and my boyfriend and I are doing a post- april fools sort of sex surprise thing, we are meeting up together...
A. 19 June 2008: Hi
my wife used to be an hairdresser she coloured her pubic hair orange and green once. well she had a girl friend do it for her. that was a great turn on.
let us know how you go... (read in full...)
My wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman what do I do?
Q. I am married, my wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman, and she has been sexually active with her. We have a very honest marriage and I appreciate this. I said I don’t mind and still don’t the, hole thing turns me on and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Hi
several years ago my wife wanted to try another woman. it turned out that she had tried it with a friend and wanted me to join in.
my first thought was all my christmas had come at once. but one thing did find out was it takes a lot to h... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says my vagina is loose and that he does not feel a thing... what can I do? How do I fix it?
Q. I have not cheated why does my vagina feel loose... my boyfriend thinks that I've cheated... before he even mentioned it, I have been noticing a diffrence with our sex life... when we have sex my vagina has no tightness to it.. I try and ...
A. 19 June 2008: Hi
i expect you are very turned on and just normal. tell him its normal and if he were bigger it would be ok... (read in full...)
Is there anything I can do about the saggy skin in my vagina?
Q. This is going to sound a bit... odd, but its something that ive recently noticed. When shaving my pubic hair, i realised one side of my vagina is loose and saggy where as the other isnt.. its not really something im proud of as i am only 18. Is ...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi
you have what is known as an outer, i can asure you men will love it. most men like that kind... (read in full...)
My question is-- where is the G spot?
Q. My question is- where is the G spot? Is it easily accesible? Tips?...
A. 4 June 2008: Hi
try the area at the top of your vagina around your clit. try and stilulate this area. it took years for me find my wifes. message if you need more help. good luck but its well worth finding it... (read in full...)
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