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I'm curious - is a vibrator better than a penis?

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Question - (23 January 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2009)
A female Canada age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi

I am considering getting a vibe. I orgasm readily anyway with my partner who is attentive so don't need it to achieve orgasm. How much better is the orgasm is the intensity different or the length? Or is it preety much the same?

Thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009):

A vibrator is ALWAYS better than a penis!!!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2008):

I just want to say this - a vibrator is a machine. You can have orgasms with them, and they feel good. However, sex is more than YOU having an orgasm; the lack of another human being to share that orgasm with cheapens the experience. In my opinion, vibrators should only be used if you have no one to be with.

Of course, if you are WITH someone AND using a vibrator, at least you are sharing the experience with someone!

To me, from this perspective, having sex is like looking at art, sunrises, meteors, or anything beautiful - they ARE nice to experience, but you are left lonely and unfulfilled if you have no one to share the experience with.

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (24 January 2008):

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my wife and i have used vibrators for a number of years as part of forplay. we would recommend a rabbit type but my wife say they are no substitute for the reel thing. she always wants me to finish with.

we found the rabbit was by far the best for an orgasam and it took months before whe could last longer than a min or two Good luck, let us know how you go

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (23 January 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntThe orgasm is about the same! There are plenty of on-line toy shops that will ship them discreetly to your home, and you can even ask how they are packaged if that is a concern to you. There are an absolutely ridiculous amount of sizes, shapes, colors, they can either vibrate or not, and there are waterproof ones. Happy Shopping!

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A male reader, Dr Vendetta United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2008):

Dr Vendetta agony auntBattery operated boyfriend.

go buy one and find out. i recomment the rabbit. the purple one or the G-shock.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008):

A big NO! I for one am not particularly attracted to these toys, I prefer the man! Of course, using the toy does not mean you substitute your partner for an... object, but I prefer the warmth of his body, to feel him... inside me, physically and spiritually. Best pleasure is born in your minds, remember.

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