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My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'

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Question - (30 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like this, for the first few months we were amazing together, he was the best I'd ever had. But now it's like he's become sexually lazy, he won't have sex unless I'm on top because he finds it too much effort. Is there anything we can do?

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A female reader, angelblueeyes United Kingdom +, writes (30 October 2007):

angelblueeyes agony auntHi,

What a situation you have, he sounds like he needs a good kick up the arse lol, no but seriously how long has this been going on? & is there any other reason why he no longer wishes to have sex?

I would talk to him find out why he has changed so much tell him you don't appreciate being woken up at ridiculas hours of the morning to have sex when he feels like it.

You could also try sex councelling i have heard that they can be very good with helpful advice, sexy underwear/clothes may help you too but i think only if he actually wants it.

Sorry i cant be more helpful but good luck x

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A male reader, pyan Australia +, writes (30 October 2007):

Hi

a few basic questions, is he seeing someone else as at that age he should be able to recover quickly, have you asked him about it what turns him on.

next get him to the point of cumming then leave him see what happens

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