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writes:last september i posted a question about my wife working as an escort and received very helpful answers. we decided she should continue escorting as she wanted and everything has been pretty good so far. she is very much the typical affectionate wife and seems very happy to me. as a guy, i could always see how attractive escorting would be and always thought like most guys do "hell, yes i would do that for money". so, i understood pretty much why my wife enjoys the sex of escorting so much, but she said something to her close friend about that that i didn't get. she told her the greatest attraction of escorting to her was the "anticipation of penetration" when meeting a new client. my wife thinks i am pretty smart and i don't want to change her mind, so i don't really want to ask her what in the devil did she mean by that. so, aunts out there, what did she mean by "anticipation of penetration"???
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reader, macdubh712 +, writes (14 April 2011):
jaylee33 is right. kick this girl to the curb because she is has chosen her profession above you. You really want to be part of this? I would not. I'll be damned to hell if I would put up with this. This is NOT normal behavior.
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reader, jaylee33  +, writes (12 January 2011):
she means she gets a thrill out of it. i dated an escort for a while and thats the reason i dumped her which would be good advice for you if you want to retain your sanity.
its like an addiction like any other, the girls are addicted to the excitement of meeting new people, male attention and of course the money.
when a girl says she wants all the benefits of this plus the stability of a relationship this is extremely unreasonable. in my experience if a girl even commented me on facebook with a hint of interest she would come down on me like a ton of bricks.
you see girls that do this will have an unusual way of looking at the world, from their perspective they are doing nothing wrong and see no moral problem except from how they are perceived.
There are however many reasons why you should dump her now so you do not endorse this attitude and free yourself for someone who values you more than money and sex.
No 1 - She puts herself in real physical danger each time
No 2 - Condoms split - this has happened to me from time to time, you are at risk of STDs more than other people
No 3 - You are not her top priority and has already chosen escorting above you
No 4 - She pays no tax from her job thus making no contribution to society
Get the picture - SHE'S ONE OF LIFES TAKERS
This girl probably has some deep rooted reason why she does what she does and maybe there is even a sad story behind it but maybe not - if you're a good hearted guy then there will be plenty of girls who will snap you up. Get out there and start mingling, the best way to get over someone is to meet someone new!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): The anticipation of sex. Reminds me of a T-shirt that my wife used to wish she had the courage to wear.
SEX IS LIKE SNOW.
YOU NEVER KNOW HOW MANY INCHES YOU'LL GET OR HOW LONG IT WILL LAST.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (29 June 2008):
 Every pussy/cock feels different, she is looking forward to each new experience.
Basically, she wants that experience of fucking someone for the first time. How will that person feel, what will it be like.
Seeing how she chooses to experience sex, as a hooker, with a lot of different people this isn't that surprising.
She doesn't want an long-term affair as such just to experience sex with a lot of different men. Amazes me that you are fine with this but I guess it take all sorts.
Just hope that she isn't so looking forward to it that she forgets the condom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): It's the excitement of the new.
She feel's like a young boy with a gun in his hand, the hounds at his heels ready for a blooding (blood of the animal applied to the face) of the first kill. Don't let it interfer with your relationship with her, you are her sweetypie the man she adores. But she's been given a taste of power, and is revelling in being the powerfull one for the first time in her life. No glass ceiling for your strong madam. A fantasy made real, don't worry, at anytime you can stop the game, because she loves the reality of you even more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2008): The only thing I can think of is the anticipation of getting screwed. Hey, anytime I went out with a new girlfriend, there was the anticipation and excitement that I might get laid that night. Anytime there is the possibility of sex with someone new, there is the anticipation of it being great. There is the excitement of thinking that it might be the best sex that you ever got. What kind of sex do you think she is supplying as an escort? I don't know the answer to that, but I can guess. People cheat and have affairs because they think that they will get something wonderful, be it sex, affection or a caring person. There is always anticipation of something good with a new sexual partner.
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reader, pyan  +, writes (29 June 2008):
hi
i expect they are turning her on and she i wanting them to penatrate her which in turn turns her on more.
my wife is like that she love forplay and wants me to finish her by penatration. but i keep playing with her.
good luck and lets us know how you go. or if you like ask any other thoughts. it must turn you on thinking she is with other guys
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