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iam a very active person i love to socialize innerreact and meet new people of all walks of life! iam happily involved now of 8 1/2 yrs hes a great person but loves to enjoy his time at home and thats ok we always meet in the middle when the day is over and our weekends belong to us. i really enjoy this site and meeting all of ya'll and just hanging out.
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I'm in love with a guy who is way out of my league
Q. I have fallen in love with a guy whose waaaay out of my league,i love the way talks,smells and everything about him.we go to the same schl and God knows i can't control myself,my sis told his best f. and he want's to tell him about it.what do ...
A. 30 August 2010: Why do you think he is better then you! don't sell yourself so short give yourself credit! be you and you never! know if he's not for you it's not because he's better then you it is just not mean't to be remember that ok, good luck go get him ... (read in full...)
Long distance confusion
Q. In short, I met an American during 3mths over there (I'm in uk) and now I've had to return home due to my visa. He was charming, a gentleman, lovely and funny but totally incapable of expressing an feeling. He cried at the airport when I left but ...
A. 30 August 2010: Nope you wer'e used! still keep your plans come to America! but not for him. Best Wishes!... (read in full...)
He wants me to be a housewife without marrying me!
Q. My bf and I have been dating for 5 years. I moved about a year ago to where he lives to be with him. We've been living together for a year now. However, we are fighting a lot. We seem to disagree on a lot of things. He gets mad at me for not ...
A. 30 August 2010: He is doing you a favor! why would you want to marry him? if all you do is fight! he is not for you and you not for him. 2 people that love each other doesn't fight about discussing marriage. and if you pay all the bills i would be getting my own ... (read in full...)
He cannot say, "I love you"!
Q. We have been living together for four years and he can not say I love you...
A. 28 August 2010: Honey, i will tell you from experience that comes from his up bringing! didn't have a very effectionate family growing up ask him. i know it took me a long time to express myself but im glad i did im a very open person now and my communication is ... (read in full...)
Are there any signs to tell if someone is being honest?
Q. i kicked my ex out last december cause i thought he was cheating. we started sleeping with each otha agian in january. i want him back and he is not sure bacause he afraid i will kick him out again. my question is he says im the only one he sleeping ...
A. 28 August 2010: You don't just assume! because he might have been telling you the truth. i don't blame him now if you get a hankrin again you'll just toss him out! are you a ensecure person? just a qusetion! you really do need proof if one is cheating, you might ... (read in full...)
I seriously feel I have lost a special person or maybe a best friend in life
Q. I met this exceptionally beautiful girl about 3 years ago through a friend of mine. At that time we both got attracted to each other instantly. But she wasn't from US so she went back home after three days. She contacted me from there and soon after ...
A. 28 August 2010: You need to move on.... your not confused she is and is only confusing you what a head game! (brain twister) you may think of her more but it takes 2 and she has put the writ'ing on the wall for you in black and white i don't know waht part you are ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm going to lose my kids again
Q. I'm just praying someone will be able to give me some advice.. This is very complicated so please bear with me. First off I'm a 22yr old mother of 3, my two sons 6yrs and 3months live with me while my daughter who is 3yrs lives with her father. ...
A. 28 August 2010: Iam truly sorry for what you and your children are going through! and the system can be pretty nasty, and throw your past and your mothers bad habits in there your whole life story too! and of course the Ex- at all does not help matters! because he ... (read in full...)
How do you get over being the crazy ex-girlfriend?
Q. My boyfriend of 10 months and I split up about a month ago. I'm ashamed to say I was the crazy ex-girlfriend. I sent him about 8 messages a week for like 5 weeks. I couldn't get over it. Some of them were really unfair. Some were saying how much ...
A. 28 August 2010: I don't know what you did to make him leave? but please know that your feelings are real and ok to feel the way you do! you messed up and now have regrets that you cannot take back so you have to deal w/ that first. you feel guilty and not so good ... (read in full...)
I think I'm in love with my therapist
Q. I googled this topic recently when I started to have strong feelings for my therapist recently. I read all about transference and many other cases where patients have felt these strong feelings toward their therapist so I know it's not uncommon. I ...
A. 28 August 2010: I think you said it all in a nut shell that you are at your trying time and she has been their for you! and you could possibly take it the wrong way in your mind! i would see another therapist! because you could easily be confusing things and then ... (read in full...)
He keeps reminding me about things from the past
Q. i have been in a LDR for 3 years now.My guy and I love each other a lot.The problem is that my guy loves dwelling in the past.In the past i was friendly with the guys in school but it was purely friendship and nothing else.it so happened that the ...
A. 28 August 2010: You got part one right no'one has the right to abuse you! then you say but you love him? so are you saying it's ok. so you will stay and put up w/ it? love should not have to hurt not that way in relationships! we all have our disagreements but ... (read in full...)
He wants to keep me a secret from his friends at work!!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for a year now. We both tell each other we love each other. In public he is very affectionate and treats me very well. We've both met each other's families, etc. All of his military friends and ...
A. 28 August 2010: well if you are no slouch? then stop allowing him in hiding you and disrespecting you. no it is not right but you allow it. think of it this way if you ask a child if they want a ice cream they are going to say yes right! well you are putting it out ... (read in full...)
Separated from my wife -- and enjoying it
Q. My wife and I are separated. I wanted the separation. We both were at fault, but among other things, she was unfaithful. We are going to a marriage counselor. I thought I wouldn't enjoy this time apart from my wife whom I love, but I do. This h...
A. 28 August 2010: Well it sounds like she messed up! i would continue your journey and enjoy you! and let be what will be.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
Should I go with the flow?
Q. Help.. I'm really confused... I have my someone special right now... I know he loves me too... we kiss, hold hands, hug (but not sex- we're still virgins and are still young to do that) but we're not "IN A RELATIONSHIP"... we've been like this for ...
A. 28 August 2010: Honey, a good man sticks around no matter what! and it sounds like you have something good!! how does he feel? about not having sex yet. if he's ok w/ it then you should be too! don't ever feel pure pressure like i said a good man will wait.
G... (read in full...)
Will she be able to break up with him?
Q. She's in a relationship with her bf for 5 years. She has went through a lot of emotional hurt and once she told me her bf slapped her in past, a few years back. She broke up but patched back with her bf many times. She realises her relationship is ...
A. 28 August 2010: First i want to say the longer that they stay in a relationship! the harder it is to leave! it becomes a routine and attachment. and also they are so be littled and put down they don't think good about them selv'es anymore i know i was in one. and ... (read in full...)
Can't figure him out, should I just leave him alone, or what?
Q. Now maybe my first problem is that I'm talking to this guy online. But how many messages do I have to send to him? He never sends me messages (and says he didn't read or get my messages) or starts a conversation with me first. I told him that I was ...
A. 28 August 2010: Don't take me wrong, but it is your stupidity. he is a jerk.
why should he show you any respect and you are not the only woman that he is chating with! why don't you tell him to take a hike and start all over fresh and find someone who is not hidi... (read in full...)
Help! My boyfriend just threw and broke my chair! what should I do?
Q. My bf and I don’t live together but he comes to visit. We have been together over a year. He just came by and we were talking and my daughter called him stupid joking around and tapped his shoulder. He freaked out and was like do something about ...
A. 28 August 2010: Iam so proud of you! you are not wrong at all he is abusive and w/ some men it doesn't start until later in a relationship! and it gets worse you made the right decision
and being a good mommy too! and they will tell you how sorry they are and buy ... (read in full...)
How can I motivate my GF to lose wight??
Q. I've been with my girlfriend now for 15 months. She's always been overweight and it did bother me, and I spoke to her about it and she said she would do something about it. She became very motivated in working out and eating right, but as ti...
A. 28 August 2010: I agree w/ watsername, you don't leave someone because they cant get motivated are because they are a few lbs over wow i feel for those who made that statement boy if their loved one became paralyzed do you say oh sorry cant deal w/ it no'more. just ... (read in full...)
Please advise me on how to get over him.
Q. I need help getting over the one i love. Ive been in love with him for nearly 3 years, i guess its my own fault its gone this far but i thought he felt the same and everyone i spoke to about it thought he did too. We're still friends, hes sai...
A. 28 August 2010: You know him better then we do? what i can say is i would let him realize how much your missed! but he wont if you are always together. so hang out w/ different people then him do your own thing don't call him or text him and when you are not around ... (read in full...)
I want this baby, But I am in love with another woman!
Q. My wife of three years, and I, have been having a rocky marriage. We were trying to have a baby, but it wasn't working due to the stress and arguing. I have a dear friend of 10 years, whom I've never dated, that I know I am in love with. We'v...
A. 28 August 2010: I just don't have sympathy for one who thinks of them self. asking us for our advice! when you should be sitting down w/ your wife and talking to her about it. leaving her in the dark and saying you are in love w/another. you know what i think the ... (read in full...)
He got upset that I told his to seek help!!!
Q. I have a bf and we have been dating for nearly 3 years now. I think that he's the perfect guy for me except he has a problem..he has an anger management issue and he's been trying to get better(he's even taking boxing classes to take away the stress ...
A. 27 August 2010: Sweetie, you are doing all you can! it is totally up to him, to get help i agree w/ you. but do not put yourself in arms way of his anger issues they say they always take it out on those they love. enabling him is not good stand your ground and give ... (read in full...)
Am I an idiot?
Q. All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both ...
A. 27 August 2010: I also wanted to add! my Ex- died from ALCOHOL liver diease so i totally get where you are coming from! but that is why he was my Ex- we wouldn't even stop for me nor his son! and he left behind a great son who misses him dearly!! ask him if he will ... (read in full...)
Am I an idiot?
Q. All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both ...
A. 27 August 2010: Im sorry, i didn't know! and good for you not caring for the drugs! you sound like a good lady!! i wish you the best!!!!!
Oregongrl1... (read in full...)
I feel I need revenge on him!
Q. Hey guys i just got heart broken and im happy that im moving on but i still cant understand y he would leave me FOR HIS FEMALE FRIEND when i was there for him , I PUT UP WITH LOT HIS CRAP AND LIES ! SOMETIMES I FEEL K NEXT MIN IM HURT! I need ...
A. 27 August 2010: Revenge is knowing those wer'e his choices not yours! he did what he did because thats just who he is and he will do it to her too! so let them deserve one another why you move on...... and sweet revenge is going to be when you find someone and then ... (read in full...)
Should I go with my heart or my mind?
Q. im so lonely this day i dont know what to do im so undecided i know i love my bf but my mind tells its over he always treat me in a wrong way i dont know what to do i love him so much im scared of lossing him but as the days go by our relationship ...
A. 27 August 2010: Aw im sorry it's truly a hard and difficult decision! loving someone who doesn't love you the same way and you feel like you are losing that person? and it is probably because you are. but it is the letting go and rejection that you are dealing ... (read in full...)
Am I going insane? I feel like I'm losing myself
Q. Need advice for LDR? Im in my first LDR ever and I have a had a handful of other relationship before this one. Its been successfully moving along for 6-7 months now. I really really like this woman. First of all I don't want anyone bashing L...
A. 27 August 2010: First we dont bash! we only try to give our opinion and advice! i think? maybe it's because you really like her alot! and you may be scared of losing her? so you are creating your own anixety attacks! and from reading your post the words you choose ... (read in full...)
Am I an idiot?
Q. All right, here goes... [before I begin, let me say...excuse my novel. ;]] I've actually been debating doing something like this for the last month or so. This isn't exactly something I want to discuss with the people around me who know both ...
A. 27 August 2010: You are the one who has to live w/ it not us! do what is in your heart! i think maybe he learned from it but sometimes we dont give them enough time to really take us seriously? we run back into it. but what you are doing wrong is that you are not ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is mad at me because we can't have sex!
Q. He and I have been together for almost 3 years. This is not the first time this happens. I can't go to his house and he can't come to mine. We have to pay for hotel rooms to be alone together. I am a college student so I am not working right now. He ...
A. 26 August 2010: Honey, you are w/ no doubt in the wrong relationship! he is a bum and to threaten you that he's going to sleep with someone else if you dont? you are the one who needs to wake up and move on.... what a screwed up deal not fun! if i wer'e you i would ... (read in full...)
Help with conversations?
Q. Hi everyone, so this isn't really a dating question but I guess it has to do with relationships. I've always been quiet and to myself (not shy though just quiet) I don't really talk to new people unless they talk to me first but, once I start I can ...
A. 26 August 2010: Just be yourself and it will all fall in place. and like who you are with out a doubt. laughing for me always eased the tention.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant,how do I tell my mom
Q. Im 14 I went to a party had some drinks Hung out with a guy friend and he offered to walk me home. I remember walking out on the his lawn, Then Waking up in my house ....... I Am Pregnant I havent told anyone The guy lives out of the country ...
A. 26 August 2010: of course you tell your mom, you are going to start showing soon! and she will find out. you are a kid having a kid it is one of the biggest responsibility ever. and you need to stop drinking and having sex you are just a child! you need to tell ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends best friend does not know about us!
Q. My girlfriend has not told her best friend who is a male about me and im suspicious. I feel like any self respecting gf of bf would be. I tried to talk to her nicely about, yet she got defensive on me. I have no problem with her having a best friend ...
A. 26 August 2010: You have every reason to be supicious! she is hiding you for a good reason! and as far as the story of beating someone up that is a lie she is trying to scare you off in not talking to him or finding out about you. what does she do hide you in the ... (read in full...)
I want this baby, But I am in love with another woman!
Q. My wife of three years, and I, have been having a rocky marriage. We were trying to have a baby, but it wasn't working due to the stress and arguing. I have a dear friend of 10 years, whom I've never dated, that I know I am in love with. We'v...
A. 26 August 2010: Yea tell her it is not fair to her! that way she can move on w/ her life! and find her a real man!!! you and the other woman deserve each other. and you can have tons of babies w/ her.
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I slept with a married man, he is ignoring me, I just want to be friends with him!
Q. Hi. I would like some advice. I slept with a married man, who has been flirting with me for months. It seemed like we had real feelings for each other. Anyway, we had sex one time, and now he is ignoring me. I don't know what to do. I'm mad that he ...
A. 26 August 2010: First of all what did you exspect? and secondly your mad at him but still want to remain friends? don't get it. i think you want more then friends! and as far as him using you because he can!! you need to wise up and chalk him off as a lesson ... (read in full...)
My friend thinks she is the queen of the world!
Q. I have a friend who thinks she is the queen of the world. her family is filthy rich and I'm not rich. She always rubs it in my face, and she brags about everything. When we were not friends, she had gotten a puppy (Something I've wanted forever), ...
A. 26 August 2010: I really don't know what there is too like about her? friends don't treat friends like that and i would not have friends like that. honey, i grew up not rich either and the rich girls always made sure you knew it too! i hung w/ girls like me and had ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want my new man to lose weight?
Q. I met a guy online. We had never met but had mutual friends. He ended up helping me through a hard time. Then we met up. The thing is he is very overweight and I find it really off- putting. I do still love many things about him, but don't know ...
A. 26 August 2010: Your not crazy! wow always asking you to give him hugs out in public, he just wants to know that you are not embarrassed of him! he is ensecure about his weight. i couldn't live w/ a large person not this young anyhow. and your right his habit might ... (read in full...)
What does 'getting off' with a girl mean
Q. hi im 14 and im confused about what 'getting off with a girl' is. is it kissing a girl or what? because iv been told by diffrent people diffrent things. and wen i went out with this girl bout a year ago we went to the cinema an it turns out that ...
A. 26 August 2010: It means Orgasm! why don't you talk w/ your father!!!... (read in full...)
I hate sex, it makes me feel gross!
Q. My boyfriend loves sex and I hate it so much. Im 16 and love the idea of it but starting sex just makes me feel icky and during sex doesn't feel good at all. My guy tries to do differnt things and is supportave but nothing seem to help. I really ...
A. 26 August 2010: You don't have to do anything you don't want to do!... (read in full...)
I wanna be happy
Q. oh my goodness i just want to scream i am so unhappy,cant stand my kids my husband bothers me to no end i have thought of everything from having an affair leaving and never looking back,then the guilt hits so i stay,i am 40 and husband is 55 he has ...
A. 24 August 2010: You make your life! sound like a joke. maybe you should just go have an affair! that's the easy way out.... (read in full...)
When should I start panicking?
Q. So, I just started having sex with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago (He's the first person, I've had sex with...I was a virgin) and I started birth control three months ago (I've been on them in the past to regulate my period). I've had unprotected ...
A. 23 August 2010: Always do a pregency test! but yea it's to early for those symptons, it sounds like a bad period coming on to me. trust me you will know when you get pregrant!! it is just our instinct to know.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I wanna be happy
Q. oh my goodness i just want to scream i am so unhappy,cant stand my kids my husband bothers me to no end i have thought of everything from having an affair leaving and never looking back,then the guilt hits so i stay,i am 40 and husband is 55 he has ...
A. 23 August 2010: It sounds like your letting it get to you! to say you cant stand your kids that's not good! but i know how you feel been there done that too! but i always loved my children.
even on there or my bad days! what i found to help me back then was a rout... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?
Q. Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...
A. 23 August 2010: I too agree w/ tennisstar, yea big big tip.... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?
Q. Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...
A. 23 August 2010: Thats why the guys blew her off her Additude! and being a tease!!!!!!! oh it's really not nice to laugh in someone's face when they ask you out. what a inmature bimbo! i wouldn't care if she comes over to your table next time you and your father go ... (read in full...)
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