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writes:i kicked my ex out last december cause i thought he was cheating. we started sleeping with each otha agian in january. i want him back and he is not sure bacause he afraid i will kick him out again. my question is he says im the only one he sleeping with? is there signs or how can i tell he is being true?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (28 August 2010):
You don't just assume! because he might have been telling you the truth. i don't blame him now if you get a hankrin again you'll just toss him out! are you a ensecure person? just a qusetion! you really do need proof if one is cheating, you might have lost a good man! i have to catch them in the act! before i make a fool out of myself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): There had to be some reason why you thought he was cheating on you. Why do you want him back now? It's pretty obvious that there is no trust here. Spying probably is the only way to know for sure, but it's not really a relationship if you have to do that. I think you need to find someone else that will treat you right.
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reader, tigger1969  +, writes (28 August 2010):
i disagree with that answer. spying will only make it worse-i should know as ive done it.
maybe u are insecure? i am and i imagine all sorts of stuff was going on
my insecurity drove my partner away.
get some counselling-try to find out why u think these things. and talk....communication is very important
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (28 August 2010):
 Honesty after lying has to be proven. The only way you can find out if he's being truthful is to spy on him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2010): There are little things that people do when they are lying. 1.] Their eyes are moving around the room like they're nervous
2.] They look down when talking
3.] Or if their married and they move their ring around their finger it can be a sign of dishonesty
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