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First time same-sex attraction, and we're not sure what to do about our feelings
Q. I'm curious about developing a romantic relationship with another woman I know. How do we proceed? Neither of us have experienced this attraction for another female and don't know what to do with our feelings. We've known each other for awhile, and ...
A. 15 August 2010: What i mean't was the next step would be sexural intercourse! you said that you both have realized your feelings for one another? i don't understand why you don't know what to do when it should be natural! and the only reason i think you are asking ... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: Take it from a woman! sweetie, shes using you shes ordering the panties and for them to come to your house because she is telling you she will still be coming over to see you because her panties are there! but does that soften your heart! or gives ... (read in full...)
Could he just be using me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now, i really like him, however he keeps on touching me where i dont want to be touched and the only time he does this when he kisses me even if its just a peck. He wont hold my hand or even act like ...
A. 14 August 2010: oh yea he's using you because he sure isn't shy! love is a 2 way street and yes it consist of holding hands kissing without having to be fondled everytime you kiss! it's like ok lets have sex with out kissing and ok here i go close your eyes im ... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: I know you want to respect her privacy! and you should have. so yes how do you approach it now? thats whats eating at you most! because you know and can't say anything because you 2 will feel guilty about invading her privacy! and she would have ... (read in full...)
We broke up, but I'm stuck with her dogs
Q. My girlfriend and I have been on and off for the last 2 and a half years. She had two dogs when we meet.Shortly after our meeting she had to sell her house. (which I helped get ready to sell with her)After this she had no room for the dogs which I...
A. 14 August 2010: If you didn't love her anymore? you would know what to do w/ the dogs! those dogs are an attachment for you to hang on. it's not the dogs fault that she has no consideration for anyone or anything but her'self. im glad they are w/ you they love you ... (read in full...)
Broke up, had sex with an ex, and feeling awful
Q. Well, my boyfriend broke up with me today and I'm an absolute mess. He claims to have too many problems going on to be able to do his part as my boyfriend and doesn't want me to wait around while he figures his life out, and that he still wanted to ...
A. 14 August 2010: First of all he needs to help him'self!and secondly he never loved you in the first place? and thats what they all say they need time! to figure things out. he is letting you down slowly so he can ease his guilt!!! and he aint a man.
hell i coul... (read in full...)
In love with a married man. Know it's wrong but don't know what to do?
Q. Oh help me! I met a man online in January. We hit it off right away. We can talk easily, we laugh, etc... A couple of weeks into it I guessed he was married. He said he couldnt lie and that he was - unhappily. He tells me they only have sex on...
A. 14 August 2010: I always check back on your replys! to see how that person is doing? because i do care!! and i was jsut thinking you know what i would do it may sound horrible to you? but he is using you no doubt about it. and i agree w/lakeisha, and shes trying to ... (read in full...)
First time same-sex attraction, and we're not sure what to do about our feelings
Q. I'm curious about developing a romantic relationship with another woman I know. How do we proceed? Neither of us have experienced this attraction for another female and don't know what to do with our feelings. We've known each other for awhile, and ...
A. 14 August 2010: well you said you both have now exstablished feelings for each other and you know now and have talked about it! well take it to the next level that is the only way you are really going to know? but i would always make sure that it is understood that ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend a cheater or am I just paranoid??
Q. I've begun to be suspicious of my boyfriend of 2 years. We haven't had any problems in the past although I have been cheated on by a previous partner. Our sex life has slowed right down, we only really have sex after a couple of glasses of wine now! ...
A. 12 August 2010: It doesn't mean he has found someone else? i mean it could be a number of things! who knows only he can tell you the truth. and you know him better then anyone when it comes to your relationship! but as far as the Adult.com how is it junk? it's on ... (read in full...)
He turned his back and went to sleep right after we had sex and I'm so upset about it!
Q. Hey, well im 19 and im married, i have 1 daughter and she's 9 months. My husband is 22 and doesn't go out clubbing by himself, he's always at home with me or if i go out we go together unless i get out of work than head to the store. He's a ...
A. 12 August 2010: Aw don't feel alone it's apart of marriage then comes a baby in a baby carriage! then you both work!! then your tired and then caring for the Lil one, and at the end of the day you are whooped & exhausted. so then you can have alot of mixed emotions ... (read in full...)
What's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance relationship?
Q. My question is more out of curiosity than anything. I've been with my boyfriend a little over five months, however it's always been long distance so we haven't seen each other much. That said, what's your opinion on anniversaries in a long distance ...
A. 12 August 2010: Have you even met each other yet! you really didn't say much for me to answer? i wouldn't do long distance relationships! the only way wer'e if my husband, was in the Military. other then that i don't get it. i mean how do you have one? how do you ... (read in full...)
Why is he playing both of us?
Q. okay so my ex and i have 3 kids together and a 6 year history. we split a year ago and ever since i dated two guys and he has dated two girls but in the mean time we have still been sleeping together... its crazy but now i know i actually want him ...
A. 12 August 2010: What is there to love about the jerk! he calls you those names because he can. you allow it by still loving him after the hurtful things he says to you he is so having fun! w/ treating you like a piece of *hit and your jealous of the other woman? i ... (read in full...)
How much do you communicate when your not together?
Q. Hi there, if you were in a long distance relationship (about 2 hours away from eachother) how much communication would you expect from the other person? Would you expect to talk everyday?Phone, texts, emails etc...or would you expect communica...
A. 12 August 2010: Oh i would love if he called me every night before bed time to tell me good night! now no i don't want him calling me 4 times a day i wouldn't get anything done?
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I don't feel loved or appreciated any more...
Q. My husband and I have been married for 14 years. We had a good sex life until i had a hysterectomy 3 years ago. I take no hormones and most time i dont want sex, but my husband takes no inititive. He barely even cuddles to me anymore. I have ...
A. 12 August 2010: What do you mean! what do you do? i would just come out and ask him hes your husband of 14 yrs i would want to know! that is a hurtful thing that he can masterbate but yet not touch you? i wouldn't be able to handle that at all. exspecially being ... (read in full...)
I don't get aroused just from looking at women I need them to touch me, am I gay?
Q. Hi I am just looking for some feedback to see if I'm normal or if I should be concerned. Looking at a woman doesn't get me hard, if we kiss or if she gives me a massage or something, then I get hard. Just looking at them walking down the street t...
A. 12 August 2010: If you have to question yourself about being gay! it could be a possibility because it has crossed your mind! i knew men that it had to be one on one contact to get them aroused. to me thats a real man. who has to be touching a womans skin or body ... (read in full...)
How can I let her know that the fact that I love her is NOT a joke?
Q. I'm close friends with a girl, and for quite a while now, I've been telling her that I love her. At first, it started as a joke between us, along with the many compliments I was giving her. In the end, we were both at it, telling each other that we ...
A. 12 August 2010: Just tell her the same thing you just told us! or just let her read your reply. i think she'll get it then. and 2 maybe shes just shy?
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Lesbian sex!
Q. hi, i am a lesbian and i have a girlfriend. she seems to love giving me sex and i love taking it. but when it comes to giving it to her i dont seem to enjoy it. do you think this could mean i am no longer gay or dont find her attractive because i am ...
A. 12 August 2010: What it sounds like to me is you just let her do all the work for only your pleasure! i mean she is a woman, and you are still enjoying being w/ her! if you wasnt gay? you wouldnt be having sex w/ her. and you 2 can also experience bringing a man ... (read in full...)
Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life?
Q. Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life? ...
A. 12 August 2010: Aw i do believe there is only one true love! and can i go a Lil further and tell my story! i remember one day at a time in my life! wasn't going so well and i was out on a deck by the river found myself talking to me. and also talking to the good ... (read in full...)
I didn't text her back for 6-7 hours and suddenly I feel like I crossed some kind of line by her reaction
Q. Dear Aunts/Uncles, Heres the situation. I usually text my girl every other day. We swap text message back and forth. We dont see each other much but when we do get together its on the weekends 1-2 a month. Just depends on the month and each o...
A. 12 August 2010: No you are not wrong! boy did she ever get carried away? what happened was when you both texted on a regular bases it became part of ya'lls routine so when she didn't her from you it became out of the norms for you? so she became suspicous. and also ... (read in full...)
Our first kiss was not anything like I imagined it would be!
Q. me and my long distance boyfriend kissed for the first time today,it is the first kiss ever for both of us. i didnt feel anything although i love him so much,actually the kiss was terrible,it is nothing like i imagined ..he was so nervous and just ...
A. 12 August 2010: Well why don't you be the teacher it can be fun! while your doing it.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I fantastize about ugly old dirty fat men! What is wrong with me?
Q. Hello, I feel as if I am abnormal...I am a 23 year old girl and in a good relationship yet the only thing that really turns me on is if i fantasize about much older, ugly, fat dirty men. I dont know why this is and it makes me feel like a freak. I ...
A. 12 August 2010: Maybe because it puts you in control? and they make you feel more attractive! because they are ugly and fat in your mind! and you feel like the princess! and it can't be taken away from you and i like i said you can turn them totally on and be in ... (read in full...)
3 out of 4 weeks every month I'm a pain in the ass!
Q. Thanks in advance. I really hope to get a response to this because I'm totally lost with whats going on here. Well, I'm completely screwing up my relationship because of my extremely unstable, uncontrollable emotions. I started to notice a pattern ...
A. 12 August 2010: Keep a journal! maybe that will help you. you can log everything from your nagitives to your positives and look back at it and also it's good for your mind it will help to give you a better focus~
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
I need advice to help Tina!
Q. Oh goodness, where should I start? Alright well in the summer of 2009. Mine and Meg's best-friend Tina got pregnant. Tina was in a horrible relationship, abusive emotionally and verbally. Her boyfriend has issues with drugs and his mother had ...
A. 12 August 2010: Not every person is the same Tina, has issues not meg, sounds like she lived her life through tina's life! and don't know how to move on. and is also a little enviest of Megs, new life. i would be happy for my friend! and can't deal w/ the fact ... (read in full...)
British women...
Q. Why are britsh women nearly always subtle... not like foreign women who dont beat around the bush (no pun intended) and get straight to the point.... would certainly make life a lot easier!!...
A. 12 August 2010: Well im blunt! and whats your point!... (read in full...)
How can I get over the pain of this break up?
Q. hi everyone, i need help. i miss my ex so much. i did a mistake by calling him the other day. he tried to be nice, but i was and still hurting for the fact that now he thinks of me as a friend (actually more like an acquaintance) like we were b4 ...
A. 12 August 2010: I was going to suggest that you make a list! i did that w/ my ex- and it helped trimendously i looked at it everyday when i got up and before i went to bed! i made a list of the bad and the good! and of course the bad out weighed the good!
and it's... (read in full...)
His dad owns him!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend now for 3 years. He was 19 when we started dating, I was 18. He lived with his dad and after he lost his job and started working for him, his dad started to get very controlling of him. He gave him a curfew and set ...
A. 11 August 2010: Question! does his dad like you? because if he doesn't? that could be the reason why he's making his son pay so dearly for his rudeness and unfairness. but your boyfriend is a man now too! where he can make his own choices hes using his dad as a ... (read in full...)
Only one way to orgasm...
Q. Why can't I orgasm with a vibrator? I've tried many times but the omnly way I can reach orgasm is by rubbing my clit with my legs together, making orgasm during sex impossible for me. Help :(...
A. 11 August 2010: try also massageing your nipples at the same time? put like a warm lotion on them. close your eyes and vision this handsome man on the beach tall dark tan of a shadow in his b-day suit coming close to you as you hold each others gaze and hes ... (read in full...)
Did I fail?
Q. I'm back with another dating-related problem. Let me see if I can keep this short and sweet... Alright, I just got back from a camp I volunteered for. The camp was for kids who have kidney related diseases or transplants. I'm a transplant patie...
A. 11 August 2010: stop trying to figure out what to say and just go w/ the flow! shes human just like you! why don't you ask her to go on a midnight stroll around the camp. it'll be dust and you wont really be able to see that good! when you talk to each other and it ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man. Know it's wrong but don't know what to do?
Q. Oh help me! I met a man online in January. We hit it off right away. We can talk easily, we laugh, etc... A couple of weeks into it I guessed he was married. He said he couldnt lie and that he was - unhappily. He tells me they only have sex on...
A. 11 August 2010: It takes 2 to tangle! you are putting everything off on him. and that is the easy way out!! and you are attracting the wrong men. stay off the internet! and if you are attractive then you shouldn't have a problem but it also comes from with in. but ... (read in full...)
Am I having mental orgasms?
Q. [OP original title] I am only 13 and I have never had sex, and dont plan on it until I find someone I am in love with. But of course, being a teenager I think about sex a lot. Whenever I fantasize, it feels like my uterus [or another female body part...
A. 11 August 2010: You don't sound like a 13 year old to me? and if you are? do you feel comfortable enough talking to your mother about it. i always told my daughter she could come to me about anything and not be afraid to talk to me and she always has! i hope that ... (read in full...)
In love with a married man. Know it's wrong but don't know what to do?
Q. Oh help me! I met a man online in January. We hit it off right away. We can talk easily, we laugh, etc... A couple of weeks into it I guessed he was married. He said he couldnt lie and that he was - unhappily. He tells me they only have sex on...
A. 11 August 2010: I don't care how unhappy he is it is wrong! you don't say i do only for the sex of a marriage! get a divorce move out if hes that unhappy i just feel so horribly sad for his wife and sickened by the two of you there are no words to describe how my ... (read in full...)
How long do couples usually date before moving in together?
Q. How long do couples usually date before moving in together? I was dating this guy and we were in a long distance relationship. We had only met about twice in person and he was saying to me that I could move in with him and he would pay my bills for ...
A. 11 August 2010: With someone like that it would be not not, and he told you that your relationship wasn't progressing? what kind of head games is he playing w/ you? i would get out all together~ and tell him you agree w/ him that your relationship isn't progressing ... (read in full...)
How can I gain my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and 4 of those months he has been in work release. I lied to him about how many times I talked to this guy. I've never cheated on him nor hung out with another guy. I truly love this man with all my hear...
A. 11 August 2010: Lets get real babes! people do and can change! would you like me to name a few? if you love him sweetie, and you believe in him don't let it go until he proves you other wise! all i can say is he has a good woman and i hope he realizes it. like you ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to ask a girl if she's interested in casual sex?
Q. Is there a proper way to ask a woman you meet if she is interested in casual sex? I know there are many ways, and simply asking over the phone "Hey, do want to just sleep together?" Would not be acceptable. So if you experienced and mature men a...
A. 11 August 2010: Honestly, these days just go to a bar! not trying to be a smart *ss but if it is just sex you want w/ no attachments whats wrong w/ just saying it! your not looking for love? just tell her shes hot and beautiful and you would love to make love to ... (read in full...)
How can I get over the pain of this break up?
Q. hi everyone, i need help. i miss my ex so much. i did a mistake by calling him the other day. he tried to be nice, but i was and still hurting for the fact that now he thinks of me as a friend (actually more like an acquaintance) like we were b4 ...
A. 11 August 2010: You know what i would do? it's a long shot but it's better then nothing. first take a deep breath slow down and meditate your thoughts about who you are and what you are. putting yourself through you are not making the right decisions because you ... (read in full...)
I am being overcome by retro-jealousy, please help!
Q. I hope someone can offer some words as I feel a bit overwhelmed at the moment. I suffer from retroactive jealousy and I have for the past year been working on it. Its a conscious effort and an ongoing process but sometimes, like today it can get too ...
A. 11 August 2010: I wish i could help you! but it's hard for even myself to grasp. that it eats you up like that. he has moved on with you. why can't you just let it be that? he loves you and yes was at one time inlove w/ another woman! why aren't you happy for him ... (read in full...)
Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!
Q. Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...
A. 11 August 2010: Don't count your chix before they hatch! are you a Dr'
does she wear tight pants because sometimes wearing tight pants doesn't allow you to breath and will cause a vaginal infection! seems like it bothers you more then her! are you worried it will... (read in full...)
How do I get him to do more and how do I spice up this relationship?
Q. My bf and I have been together for nearly 4 years and we get along really well and have a lot in common. The problem is, even though I love him very much, I've found myself getting increasingly bored with him. I am a social person and thrive on ...
A. 10 August 2010: Welcome to the girls club! after a few yrs it fizzes not that you stop loving one another you just end up settling in and it becoming a routine! and it's all so normal! so what i do is my own thing i have adapted to it i hang w/ the girls or just me ... (read in full...)
Is your first love is the strongest love and could that love last forever?
Q. Hi, 3 and a half years ago I fell in love with this amazing girl, see ment the world to me but there was a big age differance at the time :( she was 13 I was 21, we was only friends and I didn't know I loved her until I lost contact with her...
A. 10 August 2010: I don't know what to say! i cannot judge but what i would say you are now almost 25 and she is 16 she has 2 more yrs to go! until shes 18 and if you truly love each other it wont go away i would be friends through out until then. if she has strict ... (read in full...)
Why does my man treat me like this?
Q. my by of three years is confusin the hell outta me. He proposed when we'd been together two months. I moved into his place let mine out. Then he changed. . Rumours of him cheating, calls on his phone, whispering comin from downstairs. Whenever i ...
A. 10 August 2010: What the hell is wrong w/ you? don't you get it! hes an abuser, sounds like you got my EX- they love toying w/ you putting you down like you are a piece of garbage, and make you feel like you are crazy that it's you not him oh no what does he ever ... (read in full...)
He doesn't want to be friends with me any more...
Q. Ok so i'm having some boy trouble. So this boy and I used to be good friends. I've always had a crush on him and he's always been there for me. On the last day of school he even kissed me, even though he reassured me that we're only friends. Well ...
A. 10 August 2010: Honey, you cant stop him from feeling what he's feeling right now! it sounds to me he feels a Lil left out, even tho he should understand what you have been going through and if thats the case he should be a Lil more sensitive and understanding to ... (read in full...)
I introduced a woman into our marriage and now my husband is in love with her!
Q. I'v been married to my husband for 15 yrs. Of those 15yrs we have had very few arguments. I thought that we had a good and happy marriage. Our sex has always been strong until a few yrs ago it started to get stale. I had befriended a woman 10 yrs ...
A. 10 August 2010: All over? boy you stuck your foot in your own mouth. and you say that was a good marriage? thats not a marriage! of 2 people who truly love each other hell why didn't you 2 just go to a swingers bar at least that way there would of been no ... (read in full...)
I didn't realize how much time he spent on pornography until just recently
Q. My boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship of almost 4 years. I have never been the type of girl to complain about pornography, I in fact enjoy watching it myself and have encouraged the openness and sharing of it in our relationship. He has ...
A. 10 August 2010: Do you really need porn to have an orgasm? and secondly what do you mean you have to defend yourself! hes a sicko!! and you have allowed it now hes to the point well yea he can throw it back in your face. it sounds like a lost cause to me. i would ... (read in full...)
How can I gain my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and 4 of those months he has been in work release. I lied to him about how many times I talked to this guy. I've never cheated on him nor hung out with another guy. I truly love this man with all my hear...
A. 10 August 2010: Why don't you tell him just what you told us! the last line. and all you can do is build your trust back up and chalk it off as a lessened learned! trust is a big part of our lives and with out it we are a mess because it always comes back to bite ... (read in full...)
Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!
Q. Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...
A. 10 August 2010: Wow thats a sticky one! you know what i would do? do you 2 like to take showers together! wash her and let her wash you make it romantic! and just use the soap no wash cloth that way you can rinse it off and see if her smell goes away? but don't ... (read in full...)
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