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I have been through a bad relationship!if i can offer any advice that can help someone it would make me feel good! iam from Va.

moved to Oregon 9 yrs ago you have everything here you don't have to go far from home to vacation! its all right here.

iam a very active person i love to socialize innerreact and meet new people of all walks of life! iam happily involved now of 8 1/2 yrs hes a great person but loves to enjoy his time at home and thats ok we always meet in the middle when the day is over and our weekends belong to us. i really enjoy this site and meeting all of ya'll and just hanging out.

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How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   9 September 2010: Well i will speak for myself, when something is over between 2 people my escape is not to run and tuck my tail nor is it to sweep under the carpet! but when it is over it's over and that is reality no'one should have to stay and wait for the other ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   2 September 2010: There is so much i need to say to you and i hope & pray that it will give you a understanding! first of all they are not excuses! i understand where you are coming from so many people think aw just leave and i know it is not that simple. as far as ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   19 July 2010: How are things going for you? i hope you are doing good! please let me know. i have been there in my life 9 yrs ago and i know it's hard for you but you must believe in you and know there is a better life for you then living like that. and it is one ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   8 July 2010: Do you think you being pregrant! was going to stop his abusive ways? honey, you need to know they do not change they are very cruel and hateful and they will torment you and make you feel like real small and like you are nothing and not appealing ... (read in full...)

I want to stop being his victim and start living without fear!

Q.   I'm just so stressed out, my husband was a serial cheater who I refused to call quits with as he always lied he's way out of every dodgy situation. I left him when I was pregnant and things went from bad to worse, with him getting violent ...

A.   7 July 2010: Listen to what the women from the shelter tell you! they have also been their at one point in their life! some jsut wont tell you that. and going to the courts is the right step and the legal way to do things! but always becareful because men like ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   6 July 2010: One thing i noticed! was you sound like w/ your words that you are a perfectionist? and maybe you need to lossen up? what is your kind of work, if you don't mind me asking. and that you are to well together. thats just my opinion. there is a reas... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   5 July 2010: I know you tried to save your marriage! but has she? it may seem hard now and like your life seems and feels like it's over but believe me it does get better! but it wont if you keep hanging on. just think you will be another day ahead to happiness, ... (read in full...)

How to stop the sex?

Q.   So, I have been with my boyfriend a year and a few months. We both weren't virgins when we met and we got close fast so we really didn't wait long to have sex. The thing is lately it seems he has been more touchy and all over me then usual and I've ...

A.   4 July 2010: The only thing i know you can do! is be honest. some people don't like to be honest in the relationshp because they are afraid of the relationship going to south! but to me that is what makes a relationship stronger. and if they leave even when you ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   3 July 2010: I was where you are at now! a few yrs ago and iam very happy now found a wounderful man. im going to tell you something that i have never shared and it's up to you to believe it? when i was back east going through what you are now. my mother who had ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   1 July 2010: Why would you want to change for her! if someone doesn't like you the way you are to bad!she is so full of excuses and is only trying to be nice about it, she wants out and knows you are still trying to hang on? and she doesn't know how to be hone... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   30 June 2010: It sounds like shes playing games w/ you? if she didn't care she would not contact you at all! she sounds angry maybe because you are different torge her. by not running after her w/ your tail tucked, well heck what is one to do when the other says ... (read in full...)

My husband spoiled his ex'es, and now I have to help pay the debts! Should I ask his mom for financial help?

Q.   My husband and I are in dire financial straits. My husband has a big fault; he is too generous. It will most definitely help him get into heaven but it's not helping much here......right now. He was took to the cleaners by an ex wife and then a ...

A.   30 June 2010: Well you are the crazy one Ex or no ex would my husband ever supply them w/ my money or his!you talk as tho its ok like a normal conversation. no wonder he can?... (read in full...)

He's separated but wants to know about her, should it concern me??

Q.   My live-in boyfriend is separated but not divorced. He speaks to his daughter daily and he sometimes asks to his daughter what his wife is doing and where she is and usually ends the conversation with, tell her I said "goodnight". Does this mean ...

A.   30 June 2010: Does he ask her first with out her bringing mommy up? if so yea hes still hooked on her and who left who.... (read in full...)

I want to stop being his victim and start living without fear!

Q.   I'm just so stressed out, my husband was a serial cheater who I refused to call quits with as he always lied he's way out of every dodgy situation. I left him when I was pregnant and things went from bad to worse, with him getting violent ...

A.   30 June 2010: Just a quick reply! if you don't have to let him see your child don't by all means allow him too! get your confidence and back bone back honey, you are going to need it w/ someone like that. but you are going to have to be sneaker then him you know ... (read in full...)

I want to stop being his victim and start living without fear!

Q.   I'm just so stressed out, my husband was a serial cheater who I refused to call quits with as he always lied he's way out of every dodgy situation. I left him when I was pregnant and things went from bad to worse, with him getting violent ...

A.   29 June 2010: Trust me they have no faults in their eyes! but it's a good thing that the police see right through him? i'll tell you a place that can maybe help you? call a womans shelter and speak w/ them and let them know what is going on now before it's to ... (read in full...)

How can I help the love of my life see his mother is abusive

Q.   I was with the most perfect man for 2 years, until just over 5 wks ago when he ended out relationship. We were both madly in love and we got on perfectly, I have four children from a past relationship and he doesnt have any but he was cool with...

A.   29 June 2010: No he is a mommys boy and him being quite also can be signs of a mental condiction that yes is brought on by his mother! i was w/ a mommys boy oh and let me tell you what i did i stood my ground and bought one of those big big baby bottles and gave... (read in full...)

Caught between my parents, with my little sister. Need to find a way to improve my situation.

Q.   Okay so this isn't your typical relationship question, has more to do with family, but i've always relied on you guys for help in the past so i can't think of a place i'd feel better asking this. So i absolutely hate my mom. Long story short, she...

A.   29 June 2010: First i want to say you are an intelligent young man! and very brave, sounds like your mother is a evil one. she only wanted you 2 boys so your dad can pay her child support: my ex- was like that the only reason he wanted our son he said was because ... (read in full...)

She doesn't believe me when I tell her I love her!

Q.   My girlfriend doesn't believe me when I tell her that I love her. She will say she does if I ask, but sometimes out of nowhere she will ask me why I love her, or what do I mean when I say that. Then if there is a fight she will just repeatedly say ...

A.   28 June 2010: Sounds like she needs to grow up are just likes the attention! my motto actions speaks louder then words try that and see if then she believes you. Good Luck!... (read in full...)

He wanted the truth.... but he can't handle the truth!

Q.   Alright, So the guy I'm talking to is amazing. Never has given me reason to doubt him or to think that he is going to hurt me. The first time one of my close friend's told me she thought he was going to be the type to hurt me, I took that to the ...

A.   28 June 2010: It is very normal to have trust issues! you have been through alot. let me tell you a little about me? i had big time trust issues and i met someone that i felt so comfortable with that i could tell him anything and that it wouldn't make him run and ... (read in full...)

Yeah, I screwed up, I gave her a drunken ultimatum!

Q.   I am a 41-year-old man who fell hard for a 27-year-old woman that I met four months ago. I've courted her from the beginning, never hiding my feelings from her, but she insisted we remain just friends. We have a lot in common and get along ...

A.   28 June 2010: Some of speak the truth when we are drinking and it does come back to bite you in the butt! why does someone always has to rush things in a relationship! being friends first is what makes a relationship blossom into something great. and guess what... (read in full...)

Why didn't he delete these pics?

Q.   Well, i have been with my boyfried for nearly a year and a half now, and we have been through alot of stuff together but always seem to stay together. i just wanted to ask one thing well, tonight i was about to look at his photos when he snatched...

A.   28 June 2010: It's like i said they write that someone is cheating on them and when we give our advice or opinion! it's like oh well hes good to me or its not as bad as i thought it was. i guess the truth hurts!! ... (read in full...)

Why Can't I Love?

Q.   I'm 20 and i've never experienced love, i feel love and caring for my family but thats obvious, i feel love for animals, but not so much people...i care, i care a lot for people i let people take advantage of that, no matter who it may be..i was in ...

A.   27 June 2010: Well i wouldn't worry to much about anything at least you are not staying w/ someone for all the wrong reasons. and it's good you are the way you are! believe me enjoy life! and who you are it's not selffish to like you and that you are inde... (read in full...)

Dad is cheating...what do I do?

Q.   Hi Everyone, I am an aunt and I have answered many questions for others. But I am now in need of advice. I'll try to make this as short as possible :) A year and 1/2 ago my mother had 3 strokes and a heart attack. She is now left paralyze...

A.   27 June 2010: First iam so sorry you all are going through that it is hard enough that your mother has suffered a stroke and yes if you tell her will she have another one? i know what i would do but what may work for my life doesn't mean it will work for someone ... (read in full...)

Why didn't he delete these pics?

Q.   Well, i have been with my boyfried for nearly a year and a half now, and we have been through alot of stuff together but always seem to stay together. i just wanted to ask one thing well, tonight i was about to look at his photos when he snatched...

A.   27 June 2010: Check the date of the pic's and if your right and you stay w/ him well you'll be the fool. they do it once they do it twice because it didn't bother them the first time why should it the 2nd time.... (read in full...)

Odd situation with work supervisor

Q.   A couple of months ago, we had a new district manager start at my work district. We spoke a few times and he seemed like a really nice person. About a few weeks later, i was on a shift and he came over and started helping me with my work, i thought ...

A.   27 June 2010: Yea stay away from him! to weird for me.... (read in full...)

Bearing the pain and married him very young.

Q.   I am only 19 years old. I got married 2 years ago at young age.to love him a lot. I've known him for 6 years and my family dislikes him. After living with him for 1 year I left him and went back to my parents because I felt that I was supporting ...

A.   26 June 2010: The smartest thing you did was go back to your parents! and the worst thing you did was go back to him. it just gives him more leverage! you are so young and got your whole life ahead of you and there are so many guys out there who will respect you. ... (read in full...)

How to stop the sex?

Q.   So, I have been with my boyfriend a year and a few months. We both weren't virgins when we met and we got close fast so we really didn't wait long to have sex. The thing is lately it seems he has been more touchy and all over me then usual and I've ...

A.   25 June 2010: Just be honest! or make a Doctor's appointment maybe there is a reason why you feel the way you do.... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   25 June 2010: I so understand! and im not saying your a push over, and i know you can't switch it off and on. and you don't get over something that easily believe me it's the hardest thing besides losing a loved one. all iam saying is don't make it so hard on ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   24 June 2010: Im out of this one! what do you mean you'll wait until she cools down. you say you have done nothing wrong? honey you are too inlove don't you have your own mind! it seems like everything is about her why don't you just roll out the red carpet i ... (read in full...)

My wife was a teenage slut - accepting her promiscuous past

Q.   I just wanted to post this due to all the posts re girls with promiscuous pasts. Here is my story. I fell head over heels for my now wife when she was 22 and I 23. Our relationship progressed and soon we both realized we were utterly in love ...

A.   23 June 2010: Well i got news for you your in it now you either except her past or you don't! take your pick.... (read in full...)

Having sex with him may have ruined everything. Please help!

Q.   *OP's Original Title* So, recently I've been having alot of dramma and streaa with my bestfriend. My friend is a guy and we have been bestfriends for about three years. Once we met it we had this weird instant connection but he had a gf so we didn'...

A.   23 June 2010: You are the one who is sitting yourself up for getting hurt! and can't let go. there is nothing confusing about being used if you know you are well you just put a stop to it not keep going back for more. he has no interest in you or any other girl ... (read in full...)

He threw out his ring so I threw out mine! What does it mean?

Q.   My b/f and I were having an argument the other day on the highway coming home, at one point during the fight, he pulled off his ring and put it on the dash of the car. A few minutes later he pulled over, rolled down the window and threw the ring ...

A.   23 June 2010: It means you both need to grow up!... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   23 June 2010: Yea you still speak to her if she says hello! but don't go out of your way. keep it short and say hey i really got to go and pause she will say something like where are you going or what do you have to do? then you act like you never heard the ... (read in full...)

Difference between "love" and "in love"?

Q.   I was always wondering wat is the differnece between "loving someonne" and "being in love wif someone". My best friend says that she loves her boyfriend but she isn't in love. I don't know what it means to be in love at least i don't think so. So ...

A.   22 June 2010: No'one can really tell you what inlove is really until you find it. believe me you will know but i will tell you this it is made of respect, trust & communication between 2 people and feeling you still have your own indivualality! at the same time... (read in full...)

He treats me like a princess, but always wants sex and calls me a tease...

Q.   Hi, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now. im 16 and he is 19. we have had sex four times. but we hang out almost every day and he alwaaaaays tries to start it. i usually let him touch a bit and then just say stop but it always ...

A.   22 June 2010: What a lying dog he makes a statement about his Ex about use too getting it and not getting it now is because he is trying to make you feel bad and scared of losing him so you will give in honey, i hope one day you will look back at this and just ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   22 June 2010: You have a wife who is telling you she doesn't love you anymore! and it is the hardest thing to face but you are not looking at all the facts because you are so inlove w/ her. how do you make some one stay or make some one love you back. there are ... (read in full...)

What causes someone to become a masochist?

Q.   So I have come to terms that I am a masochist. I thought that I had biastophila but I do not want to be the inflictor, but the one who it's inflicted on. Am I considered damaged if I'm like this?? I wondered if there is a connection to th...

A.   18 June 2010: well it sounds like you are with some one who understands or just maybe he likes it too! and yes it might be an addiction you have? better you then me! get some books on help issues if you really want help. Good Luck... (read in full...)

Anger management problems?

Q.   my 17 year old brothers a nice guy but he has no idea what to do with his anger when it comes to girls! hes not violent, and he doesnt yell, but he just shuts down and says that theyre lying when they say they want to work it out and he leaves! it ...

A.   18 June 2010: There is nothing you can do? he's not done growing up. no matter what anyone says! he knows it all. maybe he will get a piece of his own pie one day when a girl turns around and does the same to him and he just so happens to really like her then ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with him and find someone new?

Q.   Okay, I have a question just like most of us girls want to ask. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He seems to me like he dont really care but heres the question. My boyfriend has lied to me about his ex a few times and has ...

A.   18 June 2010: You mean you don't want to lose him if hes done nothing wrong? only you can answer that question then. if you should stay or go because if you make the decision on your own then you will be able to live w/ it. no'one should stay w/ someone who is ... (read in full...)

Is he telling me the truth?

Q.   im in a long distance realtion ship my boyfriend moved away about three months ago ,i have seen eachother periodically since he has moved tho. he told me that he wasnt gonna watch porn or anything cause he wants to save him self for me and i ag...

A.   18 June 2010: If you don't know the answer to that question! it's because you are to young. you will learn trust,respect and what love really is down the road when you are much older.... (read in full...)

Need help with self-confidence and self-esteem, please?

Q.   Dear cupid, I'm probably one of the most insecure girls in my city. I am not content with anything on my body, face, and I am constantly bringing myself down. I want to regain my self-confidence but I have no idea how to do so. Any ideas? ...

A.   18 June 2010: Feeling good about yourself comes with inside you! work on that then the rest will fall in place. love who you are!!... (read in full...)

Why would she let me take her shirt off in the first place?

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going out a couple months now, I'm not really into having sex just yet but i still want to have a good time while making out. One time in my basement as we're making out I take her shirt off, and she takes off mine, and ...

A.   9 June 2010: Well yea get her pregrant! and you're life is over and yea she is consider jail bait! even if she says yes.... (read in full...)

Will he think I'm just trying to get his wife out of the picture?

Q.   ok this sounds really messed up but please keep an open mind when reading. i was talking to this guy we'll call bob. we talked for about 2 months and got verry close told eachother everything and he was leaving for vacation. well while on vacatio...

A.   8 June 2010: Oh and what do you mean he does'nt want to be inconsiderate? he already is being incon, you can be his bouncing ball. and he just happen to lose his memorie and maybe he did? it seems to me from what you say he remembers alot! stop making excuses ... (read in full...)

Will he think I'm just trying to get his wife out of the picture?

Q.   ok this sounds really messed up but please keep an open mind when reading. i was talking to this guy we'll call bob. we talked for about 2 months and got verry close told eachother everything and he was leaving for vacation. well while on vacatio...

A.   6 June 2010: Let him know you are there for him! but there is only so much you will tolerate. don't be afraid to speak up be honest w/ him and who you are! i mean there are feelings involved her'e you either figure it out or you don't. i mean i would not put my ... (read in full...)

Says he wants me back but won't leave her

Q.   {Moderator note: edited for punctuation and such} Me and my husband seperated in January of this year cause of somehthing i supposly done but havent. But he was telling me he wanted to get back together that he missed me and our kids. So well i f...

A.   5 June 2010: It all sounds so confusing i would let him have her and move on..... i would want a fresh start w/ no excess baggage it will always be thrown in both faces.... (read in full...)

Sexual urges... should I give in to them?

Q.   I am 26 been saving my virginity for the right guy who has yet to make an appearance in my life. Now it's got to a point where I just really want to have sex. I feel like I am missing out on something great. Should I wait or just go for i...

A.   4 June 2010: Oh goodness honey, Only you can answer that question! GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)

I'm ready for our first kiss, but how do I get him to initiate it?

Q.   i want to kiss my bf but im to scared i dont want to make the first move so how can i get my bf to kiss me?...

A.   4 June 2010: Are his friends around when all this is going on? because you are always bringing up his friends! what do they have to do w/ you kissing him or him kissing you tell them to shut up and go find them a girl to kiss and leave you 2 alone and maybe then ... (read in full...)

My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.

Q.   My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...

A.   4 June 2010: To the one who is having the problem w/ her husband thinking of other woman while giving oral sex! you don't have to aploigize you have said nothing wrong but only asking for advice, as we all do. and the other writer who insist for what ever reason ... (read in full...)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

Q.   I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...

A.   4 June 2010: While your waiting another day! a year goes by then another one and bammmm u r hooked! you should have gotten out while the getting was good! and told her it was fun while it lasted see ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! were not being mean just being honest but ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   4 June 2010: The one who left her husband, very proud of you because now you and your children will have peace! what some woman don't understand is you can do a seperation, and let him prove 2 u that he has changed i mean really changed! and hell by then you... (read in full...)

I am worried that my boobs don't look normal!

Q.   Hey everyone! :) Ok I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm very self conscious especially sonce I'm over weight! My boobs are kinda bigger compared to my friends and I know it's cuz I'm fat! But my nipples are really wierd! I don't know what its call...

A.   3 June 2010: Aw thank you Person 12345 for sending her the link of boobs and all sizes i know that helped her!... (read in full...)

Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?

Q.   Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he ...

A.   3 June 2010: I know it's all new to you! but everything relationship is different! some healthy some not? but you do have control over your life! you can keep in the good and toss out the bad. my life was'nt grand believe me, i made alot of mistakes along the ... (read in full...)

Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?

Q.   Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he ...

A.   3 June 2010: That's why he is divorced! have you ever thought about talking to his EX- to see what she went through there are 2 sides 2 a story it might be something you need to know so you can move on w/ you're life! it all sounds to kinky and so unhealthy to ... (read in full...)

I am worried that my boobs don't look normal!

Q.   Hey everyone! :) Ok I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm very self conscious especially sonce I'm over weight! My boobs are kinda bigger compared to my friends and I know it's cuz I'm fat! But my nipples are really wierd! I don't know what its call...

A.   3 June 2010: Your ok and yes you are normal! some women just have bigger circles around there breast you are not the only one out there i have seen some where it has covered all of their breast! sometimes they do shrink as you get older!... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   2 June 2010: Honey, I so agree w/ the woman who gave you advice whos husband has ADHD but treats her respectfully!! i don't think anyone of us can give you enough advice, in how very important it is for you to get out! do a seperation for now and show him you ... (read in full...)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

Q.   I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...

A.   2 June 2010: Yep! sounds like a fun roller coaster ride in the mean time she runs the show! has you up and down you wait for her next reply to know whats going on in the relationship! have you ever thought maybe why? she does'nt want u 2 meet her EX- maybe it's ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   2 June 2010: Dear Claire 101 You ramble on all you want too! that is what we are her'e for! they will make you feel so incompadent your cooking your cleaning the way you dress the make you wear they will say you look like a whore! the be little you so #1 you ... (read in full...)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

Q.   I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...

A.   1 June 2010: Why play 2nd fiddle to anyone! sounds like shes keeping you on a string incase it don't work w/ him? who knows what ones mind thinks all i know is action speaks louder then words you don't need our opinion it's right infront of you sweetie. MOVE ... (read in full...)

My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.

Q.   My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...

A.   1 June 2010: You said it all in a nut shell! leave while the gettings good. no'one should be treated like that and no it is not normal what planted did he leap off of? shame on him for being insensitive and shame on you for tolerating it! love is not shaming one ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   29 May 2010: Hello Everyone! I too was in an awful abusive relationship for 14 years, and my family always remained worried about me and never gave up on me. it was i who gave up on myself by remaining in that horrible enviroment it is such a mind control as w... (read in full...)

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