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Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?
Q. Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...
A. 23 August 2010: I too agree w/ tennisstar, yea big big tip.... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?
Q. Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...
A. 23 August 2010: Thats why the guys blew her off her Additude! and being a tease!!!!!!! oh it's really not nice to laugh in someone's face when they ask you out. what a inmature bimbo! i wouldn't care if she comes over to your table next time you and your father go ... (read in full...)
Why cant he see what hes got and doesn't value my friendship ?
Q. im in an awful predicament. my friend has used me badly. i thought he was nice when he started my job a year ago and he was very nervous so i done more than was asked to help him . as time went on i thought we were becoming good friends until i ...
A. 23 August 2010: You have got use me all across your face. grow some balls and tell him to take a hike what part do you really not get? or are you that hard up that you don't deserve better!... (read in full...)
Is it right for a girlfriend to NOT tell her male friends about you?
Q. Is it right for your girlfriend NOT to tell her MALE best friend about you? ...
A. 23 August 2010: No it's not right she should be proud of you she is hiding you!... (read in full...)
Got out of jail , have not heard from him!
Q. iwas or still am in a serious relationship as we were to be married. 12 years with this man. ups and downs in jail out of jail i was his only support system. i but once again just got out of jail 1 week ago and i have not heard one word from him. i ...
A. 23 August 2010: How do you know he's not in some kind of trouble? i mean you did say he just got out of jail! what was he in for (drugs) and if that is the reason you can be a sure he is out getting more. honey, none of it's good! he just got out of jail! i feel ... (read in full...)
How can I make my penis larger?
Q. hi i am 23......my penis is small...how can i make it big....pls help me!!!!!...
A. 22 August 2010: Honey, if i knew any secrets how to make a penis larger i know plenty of friends who would pay for my secrets there is no way to make your penis larger (vigra) seriously we all have flaws on our body we are so not happy about and wish we could ... (read in full...)
Heart broken and need some serious advice
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 years we are both 29. This is the first serious relationship for both and he is also my first. he just broke up with me for the second time for the same reason there is a feeling missing and he cant explain ...
A. 22 August 2010: You said it right all are nothing! it's not you you know what you want and love him dearly! he's the one is confused? and think there is something missing! ya'll have been together 11 yrs and each others first! sounds like he needs to go sew his ... (read in full...)
How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?
Q. Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Pa...
A. 22 August 2010: Well i understand you love someone and you stand by him & believe in him! but it does take 2 and works both ways it is called respect,love,communication & honesty. iam not saying don't marry him all tho let the truth be known the whole truth and ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hit me last night!
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I were leaving a friends house and we got into an argument. After I got out of his truck he followed me and wanted to keep talking but I told him I was tired. He grabbed my arm, yanked me towards him and pushed my face to ...
A. 22 August 2010: I just wanted to say one last thing to you! when we are inlove w/ someone we always make excuses for why they did this to us why they did that so we can allow ourselve's to remain in the relationship!! and that is called denighal.
honey, if he rais... (read in full...)
How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?
Q. Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Pa...
A. 22 August 2010: I would want to know if he's not telling you then no he is not being honest w/ you? and is hiding something from you.
you don't just be honest 1/2 way and it's ok? and i would want to know it exspecially being about the law! i mean if it's just some... (read in full...)
Considering leaving my husband after 23 years!
Q. I am considering leaving my husband after 23 years. I often wondered wether I should have married him in the first place, but at the time I was craving stability. We had kids pretty soon after that, and then the problems continued. I have ne...
A. 22 August 2010: Yea i think leaving a relationship! is harder because of the preperation it intales and hurt! and for your kids! it has nothing to do w/ them about who you are mom and dad will always be mom and dad and be their for them. i would yes contact an ... (read in full...)
Should I ask if she wants to try to have sex?
Q. Due to a variety of circumstances my wife and I haven't been intimate more than a handful of times since the birth of our second child in Jan 08. For the past year she has been battling what the dr's say may be a hypersensitivity to yeast, may be a ...
A. 21 August 2010: Well what does her Dr, say? will it bother her? honestly being a woman, i would like it if i knew my man was still turned on by me but also knew he was concerned about me too! and that he is willing to wait until i heal that's very comforting to ... (read in full...)
Considering leaving my husband after 23 years!
Q. I am considering leaving my husband after 23 years. I often wondered wether I should have married him in the first place, but at the time I was craving stability. We had kids pretty soon after that, and then the problems continued. I have ne...
A. 21 August 2010: How can you work on a marriage! that is just not there.
it's your life! not ours go be happy while you are still young, you only live once. i wasn't going to tell you to work it out my thearpy is more of it is your life! and you are feeling what... (read in full...)
Is my boss just flirting, or is he interested?
Q. I have been at my job for about 8 months now. The first 6 months it was just work between my boss and I. But the past 2 months something has changed. He calls me Blondie and no other co-worker has a nickname of any kind. He has been touchy feely. ...
A. 21 August 2010: Ok if he is not married? tell him you would like to meet his mom!!! then you will have your answer. if he gives you an excuse you will know.... (read in full...)
How do I make sure everything is the truth before I get married?
Q. Hi, I am about to get married. To a man that I do love with all my heart, Yet he had some problems in the beginning of the relationship. So as of now I want to make sure that EVERYTHING is truth. I will not judge him on it. I just need to know. Pa...
A. 21 August 2010: You are getting married! what is wrong w/ you two sitting down w/ each other and being honest why beat around the bush you are going to spend the rest of your life! together? so i think you both deserve the truth before you say i do!! if you can't ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hit me last night!
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I were leaving a friends house and we got into an argument. After I got out of his truck he followed me and wanted to keep talking but I told him I was tired. He grabbed my arm, yanked me towards him and pushed my face to ...
A. 21 August 2010: Hopefully if he hits you the 2nd time? that you do take our advice! seriously and there wont be a third time. honey, love should not have to hurt don't you understand that? no'one should ever put their hands on you and you should never allow anyone ... (read in full...)
I'm engaged but I fell in love with my doctor!
Q. hello everyone! i need advice i am engaged i was working in dental clinic as a assistant,my doctor is married and i was assisting both of them alternate his wife is my friend and my doctor and she was so nice to me,my doctor felt inlove with me ...
A. 21 August 2010: How can he respect you or himself, when he doesn't respect his wife!! what a messed up ordeal. go on w/ your life! thinking that it's normal because before you know it, you are going to be caught up in a web of lies. and yep when his wife finds out ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend hit me last night!
Q. Last night my boyfriend and I were leaving a friends house and we got into an argument. After I got out of his truck he followed me and wanted to keep talking but I told him I was tired. He grabbed my arm, yanked me towards him and pushed my face to ...
A. 20 August 2010: I know you love him! but love isn't suppose to hurt. and you say he's only done it once and also he called you some horrible names if you wer'e smart you would leave he is going to do it again. if he had no problem or feelings doing it the first ... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want our third baby!
Q. Hi I am 24 years old and have been married for four years.I recently found out that I am pregnant for the third time and was scared but excited.My husband does not want me to have the baby and says he will leave if I do.I can't understand how he can ...
A. 20 August 2010: I agree w/ you i wouldn't do it. and how can he exspect you too! knowing you have 2 children that you look at every day. he is so wrong and sellfish and not a good father! to even consider a abortion you will not do good if you did you are going to ... (read in full...)
Is this love haunted?
Q. I have a bf that refuses to let go of a female who once was the reason we had a break up about. He cheated on me and left me for her and then left her and came back to me, he made a mistake and regrets it....now 5 years later she is still in the ...
A. 20 August 2010: Move on............ what a dog! he wants his cake and eat it too. and you are tolerating his *hit? what is there to love what a messed up relationship! that is not love maybe on your part? but even at that if you truly loved him you wouldn't allow ... (read in full...)
How do I make my body smaller and my boobs bigger?
Q. i am 14 and i have small boobs (38A). i am about 5'6'' and i weigh almost 200 lbs. people always make fun of my weight. and my friends talk about how my boobs are smaller than theirs. most of my friends are C's and DD's. i was wondering how i can ...
A. 19 August 2010: When my daughter was your age! she came to me and was upset because all the girls in her school had large boobs! and she wanted them too. so i will tell you the same thing i told her you are still young and you are not done growing! and for those ... (read in full...)
How do I help my kids though there father leaving?
Q. My kids are really having a hard time dealing with Daddy moving out. The hard part on finding advice is up until the day he moved out we were clueless that there was a problem. We were not fighting. Every morning he said I love you. I thought and ...
A. 19 August 2010: He left you holding the fort up! he is easing out of it slowly. he could not deal w/ the pressure found someone w/ no problems who probably smiles and laughs all the time and he ran right in her arms! he does not want the responsibility and wants to ... (read in full...)
He keeps our contact at a minimum b/c he is scared and I don't know how to overcome that.
Q. I broke up with my ex a year and a half ago b/c I found out he had a gf back home. We've tried remaining friends, but things have been pretty rough.... This year at Easter, he told me he couldn't handle things anymore, and just needed space. I...
A. 18 August 2010: I think you are doing the right thing by playing it cool and not getting your heart broke! and if 2 people love each other there are no head games involved just total respect, love & honesty. and needing space? and up and down on his part that is ... (read in full...)
My gf lied to me about contacting an inmate
Q. i read a text from my girlfriend to her sis 6 months ago that asks if she can use her address to write an inmate when I confronted her she said she was wrong and it won't happen again then I found a letter from the same inmate thanking her for the ...
A. 18 August 2010: Grow some *alls and run as fast as you can! or if it is your place help her pack and sit her things out front. she would preferr a inmate then the person she has standing right infront of her! she has some warped thing going on in her head. what a ... (read in full...)
The confidence game!
Q. Hi, Im very confused about what do confidence means? Does it mean that you have to pretend, that you love yourself, even if you are not? Does it mean,that you have to show people that you are better and stronger than them, so they would not hurt you...
A. 18 August 2010: does it mean be someone your not? you just be yourself forward and honest about who you are not someone your not!... (read in full...)
Did I marry a parent?
Q. Married 2 months..went to exhibition..was there for 7 hours and my husband met up with family and they wanted coffee and my brother-in-law wanted to have a drink and so did I and my husband made me feel like shit..so I didn't go for a drink as my ...
A. 18 August 2010: You don't need our help! sounds like you got it figured out. you are of age and don't need him to act like the parent, and you need his permission you are not wrong. and it isn't really who's right and whos wrong it's about respect!
but the thin... (read in full...)
How do I come out of my shell?
Q. So im a really shy person. I party and chill with my older brothers friends, ive known them for 4 years and they lovee me, but i just cant seem to stop being shy around them, and it holds me back from becoming close friends with them, how can i come ...
A. 18 August 2010: Well you need to think first why are you shy? and work on that! i was shy too growing up but i out grew it w/ age and mine was because i always thought others wer'e better then me had more then me so it was hard to open up. i think being shy comes ... (read in full...)
Need a quickie divorce help!
Q. hello everyone! hey we need to know if there's a way for us to get a fast divorce in the state of utah and that it doesn't cost us an arm and a leg. we both agree to an uncontested divorce and we'd like to have it done fast if possible so we can ...
A. 18 August 2010: You can still get on w/ your lives! as the divorce is going through. if you have children between you it takes one year because they give the parties time because there are children involved and they might reconcile. and if there are no children it ... (read in full...)
Lost in his words
Q. Ok so I was with with guy called James and we were together ancouple of weeks and I was really starting to think it could work, but in the back of my mind I always thought that his ex girlfriend Jane who is so much better and prettier than me, would ...
A. 17 August 2010: You are not jane, and jane is not you! you are your own person!! finds things you like about yourself and the things you like to do! and i think that you are a very sweet girl, you let him go to her and you think they are cute together and look good ... (read in full...)
He was drunk and kissed her...
Q. I've been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 months... not very long. However, we've developed such an amazing connection. Strong, amazing, happy feelings I haven't felt in years. He's become both my close friend and lover. most importantly, he's ...
A. 17 August 2010: Things arent going to be the same because he took your trust and invaded that and that is a hard thing to forgive! and not trying to excuse him but you do stupid things when you are drinking and really don't have control over your mind his was ... (read in full...)
Are these kisses real???
Q. Okay, so this is kind of a weird question, but I'm really interested to know; Do the kisses you read about in books and watch in films actually exist? I don't know if its because I've never been in love with someone, but every kiss I've had with a ...
A. 17 August 2010: Those exciting kisses do exist, maybe one day you'll find out. your still young and it's ok to romance about it and wonder and those boring wer'e are because you was not inlove and haven't found the right guy but you will!!!
Best Wishes... (read in full...)
Is it a one night stand or rape?
Q. I've been wondering for a long time whether what I experienced was just a one night stand or rape. A while ago I went to visit a friend of mine at school. We went out, and I drank way too much. I remember I was flirting with this friend of hers most ...
A. 17 August 2010: I wouldn't call it rape! im sorry to say that but when you start fooling around and have some memorie of it and just a Lil to much to drink and you didn't say no it was a one night stand! and a lessoned to be learned don't go there again!
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Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: I think you answered your Question! i would just be friends w/ her and see where that takes you? and sometimes even being friends and being around her can be difficult for you because you do care for her and she is so undecided! the only way you ... (read in full...)
Annoyed by BF not talking to me but he has his reasons. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. Is it wrong for me to feel annoyed at my boyfriend for not being able to talk to me? Our work schedules conflict so we can't always see each other in person. He doesn't have a cellphone, doesn't have internet, or any other way of contacting me. He ...
A. 16 August 2010: Im not going to point out your wrong! i think what you are is just a Little disappointed? and you sound like you understand! just put a little money a side and try to figure out a cell phone that would be nice for him and would be able to give you a ... (read in full...)
Dating my cousin. How judgemental will society be?
Q. Hello, I am a male and I'm dating my cousin. She is not blood related to me, but do you think that people will still judge and criticize us? I love her very much and I want to be with her. I just hope people won't judge us....
A. 16 August 2010: If shes not blood related to you thats a good thing! i say it's your life and happiness!
Best Wishes!... (read in full...)
Amazing guy, second date. Do it or make him wait?
Q. Hi all, Well I need a little bt of advice so here goes. On Thursday, after a night out with the girls, I came home a little tipsy, wide awake, nothing on TV, and I decided to phone a chatline. (sad I know, but we've all been there?) Anywa...
A. 16 August 2010: Either way if hes going to use you he will! but if he is a good guy and again either way you do or you don't he will stick around if he adores you! i think it will be a test of fake for you both! just relax and go w/ whats in your heart!
G... (read in full...)
Is my boss just flirting, or is he interested?
Q. I have been at my job for about 8 months now. The first 6 months it was just work between my boss and I. But the past 2 months something has changed. He calls me Blondie and no other co-worker has a nickname of any kind. He has been touchy feely. ...
A. 15 August 2010: Ok so now you say you don't know if he is flirting now or not? then your right you need to choose your words wisely.
because those words can be some serious alagations! in a work place.
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
First time same-sex attraction, and we're not sure what to do about our feelings
Q. I'm curious about developing a romantic relationship with another woman I know. How do we proceed? Neither of us have experienced this attraction for another female and don't know what to do with our feelings. We've known each other for awhile, and ...
A. 15 August 2010: What i mean't was the next step would be sexural intercourse! you said that you both have realized your feelings for one another? i don't understand why you don't know what to do when it should be natural! and the only reason i think you are asking ... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: Take it from a woman! sweetie, shes using you shes ordering the panties and for them to come to your house because she is telling you she will still be coming over to see you because her panties are there! but does that soften your heart! or gives ... (read in full...)
Is my boss just flirting, or is he interested?
Q. I have been at my job for about 8 months now. The first 6 months it was just work between my boss and I. But the past 2 months something has changed. He calls me Blondie and no other co-worker has a nickname of any kind. He has been touchy feely. ...
A. 14 August 2010: What do you mean not in a bad way! he has pointed out to you in black-n-white how much plainer can he be? if it's obivous to you it is obivous to everyone! if you need your job! i would stick to the basics and that is work do your job and go home! ... (read in full...)
I want to quit the relationship, I can't fight for what I want
Q. plz this my first time of fallen in love with a girl,and is also the first time a girl has ever care for me as she was my mom,we av been dating a month plus now,so her parents invite me to their house,so wen i get there i met with the mum,she gave ...
A. 14 August 2010: You don't have to leave her! true love is true love and sounds like she loves you dearly too! give her some time she has pressure from them and it's hard on her too! and she will make wrong decisions by being confused shes still a baby really. but ... (read in full...)
Could he just be using me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now, i really like him, however he keeps on touching me where i dont want to be touched and the only time he does this when he kisses me even if its just a peck. He wont hold my hand or even act like ...
A. 14 August 2010: oh yea he's using you because he sure isn't shy! love is a 2 way street and yes it consist of holding hands kissing without having to be fondled everytime you kiss! it's like ok lets have sex with out kissing and ok here i go close your eyes im ... (read in full...)
She's on a dating site now...
Q. Hi, I've been in a relationship with a female for almost 3 years. Things were good at first, but we started having problems. Well long story short, last week she told me she didn't want "titles" - meaning boyfriend or girlfriend status. On top o...
A. 14 August 2010: I know you want to respect her privacy! and you should have. so yes how do you approach it now? thats whats eating at you most! because you know and can't say anything because you 2 will feel guilty about invading her privacy! and she would have ... (read in full...)
First time same-sex attraction, and we're not sure what to do about our feelings
Q. I'm curious about developing a romantic relationship with another woman I know. How do we proceed? Neither of us have experienced this attraction for another female and don't know what to do with our feelings. We've known each other for awhile, and ...
A. 14 August 2010: well you said you both have now exstablished feelings for each other and you know now and have talked about it! well take it to the next level that is the only way you are really going to know? but i would always make sure that it is understood that ... (read in full...)
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