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I have been through a bad relationship!if i can offer any advice that can help someone it would make me feel good! iam from Va.

moved to Oregon 9 yrs ago you have everything here you don't have to go far from home to vacation! its all right here.

iam a very active person i love to socialize innerreact and meet new people of all walks of life! iam happily involved now of 8 1/2 yrs hes a great person but loves to enjoy his time at home and thats ok we always meet in the middle when the day is over and our weekends belong to us. i really enjoy this site and meeting all of ya'll and just hanging out.

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My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   2 September 2010: There is so much i need to say to you and i hope & pray that it will give you a understanding! first of all they are not excuses! i understand where you are coming from so many people think aw just leave and i know it is not that simple. as far as ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   19 July 2010: How are things going for you? i hope you are doing good! please let me know. i have been there in my life 9 yrs ago and i know it's hard for you but you must believe in you and know there is a better life for you then living like that. and it is one ... (read in full...)

Suspicious that he's cheating

Q.   I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have ...

A.   9 July 2010: You will have more then peace of mind back? you will have you back! im proud of you it is not an easy decision to make but it was im sure the right decision to make!! you will see how better your life will get but always remember you have got to ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   8 July 2010: Do you think you being pregrant! was going to stop his abusive ways? honey, you need to know they do not change they are very cruel and hateful and they will torment you and make you feel like real small and like you are nothing and not appealing ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   3 July 2010: I was where you are at now! a few yrs ago and iam very happy now found a wounderful man. im going to tell you something that i have never shared and it's up to you to believe it? when i was back east going through what you are now. my mother who had ... (read in full...)

My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.

Q.   My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...

A.   4 June 2010: To the one who is having the problem w/ her husband thinking of other woman while giving oral sex! you don't have to aploigize you have said nothing wrong but only asking for advice, as we all do. and the other writer who insist for what ever reason ... (read in full...)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

Q.   I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...

A.   4 June 2010: While your waiting another day! a year goes by then another one and bammmm u r hooked! you should have gotten out while the getting was good! and told her it was fun while it lasted see ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! were not being mean just being honest but ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   4 June 2010: The one who left her husband, very proud of you because now you and your children will have peace! what some woman don't understand is you can do a seperation, and let him prove 2 u that he has changed i mean really changed! and hell by then you... (read in full...)

I am worried that my boobs don't look normal!

Q.   Hey everyone! :) Ok I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm very self conscious especially sonce I'm over weight! My boobs are kinda bigger compared to my friends and I know it's cuz I'm fat! But my nipples are really wierd! I don't know what its call...

A.   3 June 2010: Aw thank you Person 12345 for sending her the link of boobs and all sizes i know that helped her!... (read in full...)

Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?

Q.   Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he ...

A.   3 June 2010: I know it's all new to you! but everything relationship is different! some healthy some not? but you do have control over your life! you can keep in the good and toss out the bad. my life was'nt grand believe me, i made alot of mistakes along the ... (read in full...)

Hubbie came on to my friend

Q.   the other night my husband was very drunk and made sexual innuendos to my best friend, he states that he remembers none of the conversation but she told me what he said and it sickens me. What do i do?...

A.   3 June 2010: Ok he was drunk and don't remember so how do you know it really happened because your friend says? how good of a friend is she can you trust your friend to be honest w/ you the only reason iam asking and not trying to be forward is because you ... (read in full...)

Are we rushing it?

Q.   I'm 20 years of age and i'm dating a guy who's ten years older than me. We know each other for a year through the internet. Yet we webcam and talk to each other nearly everyday. We love each other greatly...I mean seriously greatly. Should I be ...

A.   3 June 2010: I think meeting some'one on line and meeting them in person is totally different! no there is nothing wrong w/ you're age difference not if you truly love one another? i would not rush anything meet in person get to know one another and take it ... (read in full...)

Is he gay, a sex addict or just someone that really enjoys porn?

Q.   Ok..I have been researching this. I honestly need as honest and truthful and insightful answers as possible on this one. I have been with this man for a little over a year now. I am 31 years old. He is 50 years old. He just got out of (what he ...

A.   3 June 2010: That's why he is divorced! have you ever thought about talking to his EX- to see what she went through there are 2 sides 2 a story it might be something you need to know so you can move on w/ you're life! it all sounds to kinky and so unhealthy to ... (read in full...)

Never even asked a girl out...

Q.   I'm an 18 year old male about to graduate high school. I feel like my high school experience has had a ton of accomplishments, except for my nightmarish junior year, but there's one thing I never could bring myself to do: ask a girl out. Now, don'...

A.   3 June 2010: I think maybe it's because you have'nt found the right girl that interests you! you will, and you will look back on it all even you're acomplishments....... (read in full...)

I feel he isn't into me anymore, Please help!

Q.   please help i am so confused and i really dont know what to do. i met this guy a few months ago at a club he spilled a drink on me and i danced with his best friend few days after that i saw that he was at my sisters house and i also found out that ...

A.   3 June 2010: He bailed out of you're date because you did it to him! it was pay back how childish and he is still acting childish, no don't run after him show him what he missed out on. by not even going there you know how you can learn a person is step back and ... (read in full...)

He would date her if he was single! Should I be worried?

Q.   hey everyone! my boyfriend of 5years told my best friend that if he was single he would totally date this girl let's call her X! and he asked my best frend if this X is single! should I be worried?? and my boyfriend and this X text each other.a...

A.   3 June 2010: Well lets see if i got this right you don't know if your BF, will go out w/ her but yet he says it. what do you think? i think you already know the answer to that. i think you are hoping that we will say no to put you're mind at ease? hes a jerk to ... (read in full...)

My ex boyfriend is spreading hateful rumors and threatening me and my new boyfriend.

Q.   What do I do if my ex boyfriend is spreading nasty rumors about me? He told about 3 old friends of mine stuff I NEVER said about them and offered false proof, and they sided with him and now they hate me. My current friends tell me that he is going ...

A.   3 June 2010: The more you pay attention to it the more they know that they are getting to you! and they will keep. on give it back to them by being kind and smiling!! as long as your boyfriend knows you and trust you and visa versa thats all that matters.... (read in full...)

I am worried that my boobs don't look normal!

Q.   Hey everyone! :) Ok I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm very self conscious especially sonce I'm over weight! My boobs are kinda bigger compared to my friends and I know it's cuz I'm fat! But my nipples are really wierd! I don't know what its call...

A.   3 June 2010: Your ok and yes you are normal! some women just have bigger circles around there breast you are not the only one out there i have seen some where it has covered all of their breast! sometimes they do shrink as you get older!... (read in full...)

What can we do to stop the itching?

Q.   my sex life here lately is non existent .Because my girl is experiencing itching problems in and around her vagina .My question is what can we do to stop the itching .Doctors just don't seem to help her they keep saying all kinds of different things ...

A.   3 June 2010: That's crazy why that Dr, has no answer for you? i would be seeing another doctor.... (read in full...)

Why Do I keep looking Back if he said he doesn't care?

Q.   Well, I really Love this Guy. He is Emo. And I do not care what anyone thinks of it. I am not Emo, At all. We have Never gone out. He was Never My Boyfriend. He is thee Most Amazing Person I have Ever met. There is NO one who is even clos...

A.   3 June 2010: How can you be over something you never had? it sounds like to me he likes playing head games w/ you because he can! you allow it? there is nothing wrong w/ loving some'one but last time i checked it's a 2 way street. it all sounds so very childish. ... (read in full...)

Is my boss encouraging me to leave my job because he wants me?

Q.   "OPs Own Title" Is my boss encouraging me to leave my job because he wants me? For months he has been looking at me in a way that is obvious attraction. He has grown on me too. I hear that he has children but see my family pictures in his office ...

A.   3 June 2010: Is he only interested in your body? because if he is and you quit your job what then? i would'nt quit my job for no man, who is going to take care of you? you are not an item yet! i mean you have'nt even kissed, you are only going off of vibes and ... (read in full...)

Was it all innocent or does he have something to hide?

Q.   I worry my boyfriend has cheated on me when we first started going out, his ex girlfriend is also his best mate an they spend a lot of time together! If one stays round the others over night they will both stay in the same bed, I found this out afte...

A.   3 June 2010: I always say answer your own question! by asking your'self if it were you visa versa and you were laying in bed w/ your best friend and always hanging out together doing everything together what do you think it means?... (read in full...)

Torn between love of a best friend, and concern for her child

Q.   Hi, I have a best friend who I have known since we were kids, so about 16 years. I love her to pieces, and would be lost without her friendship. she is 21 and has a 4 year old child. she also has a boyfriend, lets call him Dave. Well her and Dave ...

A.   3 June 2010: Lets get it straight! from what you wrote it sounds like he was trying to get away from her! it's not him who is depressed, it is her and she needs help!! anyone that would lie about taking an over dose of pills to get him back and his attention! is ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   2 June 2010: Honey, I so agree w/ the woman who gave you advice whos husband has ADHD but treats her respectfully!! i don't think anyone of us can give you enough advice, in how very important it is for you to get out! do a seperation for now and show him you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is an alcoholic and I want him to not use alcohol to deal with his problems..

Q.   well the thing is, my bf was an addict when he was a teenager. and now we have been together for 5 yrs now, now he is 25. It started 2 yrs ago,he used to drink alchohol only with friends...then it got worse, and became a habit. Now he drinks every...

A.   2 June 2010: An alcoholic is always an recovering alcoholic even when he quits and can never take a drink again, because once he does he or she will repeat it all over again! i would get out because you are doing nothing but enabling him. and if you leave then ... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?

Q.   Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...

A.   2 June 2010: Right on! you took the first step in the right direction, all though the healing process plays a big roll in order to get past it you need to deal w/ it so watch for red flags in you're next relationship! i think the trick in having a good one is ... (read in full...)

Am I a tramp?

Q.   I've been a very bad discusting person well i think so anyway :( ive had sex with two boys in the space of a month, and other sexual acts with them too spreading over 5 months im just realising now that i feel nasty and horrible, im sucha tramp...

A.   2 June 2010: I hope all is going well mentally and phyiscally!!... (read in full...)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

Q.   I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...

A.   2 June 2010: Yep! sounds like a fun roller coaster ride in the mean time she runs the show! has you up and down you wait for her next reply to know whats going on in the relationship! have you ever thought maybe why? she does'nt want u 2 meet her EX- maybe it's ... (read in full...)

I'm scared of my boyfriends father! He has a closet full of guns!

Q.   Hey internet users, I was wondering if you guys had some words of wisdom for my problem...i have a wonderful, amazing boyfriend who loves me very much. He's successful in school and has a very nice attitude towards everyone. But, his dad is ...

A.   2 June 2010: How you end it just by being honest!and just maybe you're boyfriend may have a solution? you could always see each other away from his father's house. and if you really want to end it talk w/ your parents.... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   2 June 2010: Dear Claire 101 You ramble on all you want too! that is what we are her'e for! they will make you feel so incompadent your cooking your cleaning the way you dress the make you wear they will say you look like a whore! the be little you so #1 you ... (read in full...)

What would you do with your crush if you only had one day left to spend with him?

Q.   What would you do with your crush if you only had one day left to spend with him? I won’t get to see him ever again. Just at my friends graduation party and I already told him I liked him. Is it wrong for me to still have feelings for him even ...

A.   2 June 2010: The one that says that you and him are going to do it? was he asking you are telling you? i don't know who he is but be sure of this he is one i would run from! and the other one just open your heart! and be honest how you feel you will never know ... (read in full...)

I'm not a lesbian so why am I upset that my lesbian friend now has a b/f?

Q.   I am a girl, and as far as I know I'm not a lesbian. But, I know this girl, who does happen to be a lesbian. When I first met her I thought she was really pretty, but as I got to know her better I started to actually be attracted to her...and we'd ...

A.   2 June 2010: The only thing i can say is only time will tell! and no'one really has an answer for that. the only way you will know if you're feelings are true is to give her a kiss and thats forward but how else are you going to know? how much longer will you ... (read in full...)

My heart says to meet with her and discuss it, my head says run for the hills.

Q.   I have been dating a lady for about nine months, and we both agreed at the outset that this would be an exclusive relationship. I am just out of a marriage that lasted 26 years, and she has been divorced for 2 years after a marriage of 30 years. ...

A.   1 June 2010: Why play 2nd fiddle to anyone! sounds like shes keeping you on a string incase it don't work w/ him? who knows what ones mind thinks all i know is action speaks louder then words you don't need our opinion it's right infront of you sweetie. MOVE ... (read in full...)

He's threatening to post nude pictures of me on the net!!!

Q.   My ex and I broke up over a month ago. We had many issues, he was controlling and too jealous, always thought the worst of me and called me names, didn't trust me at all. He's been obsessively checking out my Facebook profile. I blocked him and ...

A.   1 June 2010: No wonder he is your EX wow that in alone is enough to be thankful for! sounds like his threats are in trying to get you back or just trying to get back at you? i would just tell him go ahead and post the pic's because you have all you need to have ... (read in full...)

My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited.

Q.   My husband isn't always turned on by me when we have sex and so sometimes he will fantasize about other women to get excited. This hurts my feelings and I feel insecure because of it. Is this something that normally takes place when a man has been ...

A.   1 June 2010: You said it all in a nut shell! leave while the gettings good. no'one should be treated like that and no it is not normal what planted did he leap off of? shame on him for being insensitive and shame on you for tolerating it! love is not shaming one ... (read in full...)

Did I do something wrong here? How can I cope with all of this?

Q.   Hello I'm new here just looking for help, I have a constant cling onto hope, as long as im alive.. Anyways, my hometown is in oregon US. and i had a first love here and that didnt work out, it caused me to start having panic attacks and anxi...

A.   1 June 2010: First and mostly she needs to grow up like you said you both are young! she sounds in your face with it what is she proud of the way she treats you? give your'self some time you're attacks will go away! do some deep breathing exercises and change ... (read in full...)

Am I a tramp?

Q.   I've been a very bad discusting person well i think so anyway :( ive had sex with two boys in the space of a month, and other sexual acts with them too spreading over 5 months im just realising now that i feel nasty and horrible, im sucha tramp...

A.   31 May 2010: honey, define the word tramp are look it up in you're dictionary! i think your ok. we all experencing things in our lives. i think if you dig deeper it sounds like there is something else that is really bothering you.... (read in full...)

Wife having affairs with my consent, is this wrong?

Q.   Why do l get turned on by other men sleeping with my wife? It is now a regular thing for her to have 2 or 3 men who she is seeing . She loves me and we have been married 22 yrs , but wants to have her lovers and me . Is that Wrong ?...

A.   31 May 2010: Wow what world do ya'll live in? better you then me and more power to the both of you.... (read in full...)

My family is draining me dry!

Q.   I PAY for everything. My whole family are on the take and I’m sick of supporting every loser I’m related to. My parents say that it’s my duty to make sure that everyone is OK and it’s our culture. But when will it end? I’m 20, i go university i...

A.   31 May 2010: I know it's not easy for you! you either continue taking care of them are they basicly disown you? and i think that is what's bothering you the most. are you would have stopped it a long time ago! all i can say is you do what is best for you and ... (read in full...)

Suspicious that he's cheating

Q.   I think my husband is having an affair. Firstly we don't have sex and haven't for a number of years. He does not not seem bothered by this. It all started with calls to his mobile "Text to date, we have found you a love match" he said he must have ...

A.   30 May 2010: The only way you are going to know is check up on him if you feel he is not giving you a straight up answer, and you really feel that strong about it well you wont know beyond your door! i myself if i for a second thought mine was well he would be ... (read in full...)

Help!!! How do you continue a romantic relationship with someone who is your blood relative?

Q.   I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 1 year is my half-brother. Apparantly my father "got around" a lot more than I had thought. My bf and I have talked many times about our family and what attracted me to him was how much we have in ...

A.   29 May 2010: Im sorry for what you are going through, i know it's hard. my sister too was dating our 1st cousin and did'nt know it and it was in a small town so it was like we wer'e all related in one way or another. i myself think i would end it what would be ... (read in full...)

How can I be popular at school?

Q.   Hi! I am a 15 years old girl and i want to ask how i can be popular in my school? I want to have a good hi5, i want to have style and i want people to come talk to me about everything.´ Please im desperate i need to be a POPULAR GIRL please h...

A.   29 May 2010: The only way i knew how to be popular at school when i was your age! was being myself, don't try being something you're not sweetie, it's very special knowing you truly like who you are no matter what anyone thinks because if they think different of ... (read in full...)

My husband is mentally abusive and I just don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   I have been on here before looking for advise about my mentally abusive husband. I will not list all of the horrific details again, even if I had the strenght to go through it one more time, I just don't have the will. This has been going on for ...

A.   29 May 2010: Hello Everyone! I too was in an awful abusive relationship for 14 years, and my family always remained worried about me and never gave up on me. it was i who gave up on myself by remaining in that horrible enviroment it is such a mind control as w... (read in full...)

This break up with my longtime girlfriend is really hurting and I have no one to talk to!

Q.   hi everyone and i am sorry for my English i really need some help and thanks for everyone that will answer me i have been in a relationship for a three an a half year it was the best what happened to me the girl i met she was wonderful in all...

A.   28 May 2010: Dear Confused! I know it can be a hard thing and lonely!BUT sometimes you make it harder on yourself then you know! but yea it's always good to talk about it we can only give you advice and how you take it- it is up to you. so her'e it goes. firs... (read in full...)

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