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How can I gain my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and 4 of those months he has been in work release. I lied to him about how many times I talked to this guy. I've never cheated on him nor hung out with another guy. I truly love this man with all my hear...
A. 11 August 2010: Lets get real babes! people do and can change! would you like me to name a few? if you love him sweetie, and you believe in him don't let it go until he proves you other wise! all i can say is he has a good woman and i hope he realizes it. like you ... (read in full...)
Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!
Q. Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...
A. 11 August 2010: Don't count your chix before they hatch! are you a Dr'
does she wear tight pants because sometimes wearing tight pants doesn't allow you to breath and will cause a vaginal infection! seems like it bothers you more then her! are you worried it will... (read in full...)
I didn't realize how much time he spent on pornography until just recently
Q. My boyfriend and I have a healthy relationship of almost 4 years. I have never been the type of girl to complain about pornography, I in fact enjoy watching it myself and have encouraged the openness and sharing of it in our relationship. He has ...
A. 10 August 2010: Do you really need porn to have an orgasm? and secondly what do you mean you have to defend yourself! hes a sicko!! and you have allowed it now hes to the point well yea he can throw it back in your face. it sounds like a lost cause to me. i would ... (read in full...)
We're teenagers and we really want to have a baby!
Q. Hi :) My boyfriend and I realllyyyyy want a baby!! We've been trying for about 2 months and it doesn't seem to work. Everyone says I'm too young for a baby, but I know this is what we want. I love my boyfriend to death, and we want a baby and ...
A. 10 August 2010: Yes i have advice for you! keep playing w/ your doll babies and you say everyone you talk to they are telling you right. and it's a shame they don't speak w/ your parents on the subject. how do babies have babies put it this way do you know what it ... (read in full...)
Not a game of finders keepers, I want my son back...
Q. I have been hapily married for 11 years, or at least that's what i would like to have thought. 2 years ago, my wife started a job just to up-abit our money; we have an 8 year old son, and wanted to spend a good holiday with him. her job was cleaning ...
A. 10 August 2010: Never give up that is your child! who i know misses you so much! and doesn't understand? and the horrible part is that the mother is braining washing him! i went through it for years and it's very difficult. exspecially her being out of state. have ... (read in full...)
Should I test again???
Q. Hello i could really use some smart advice right about now. My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex(were both clean and std free!) ;but the next day i think i got my period it was very light to the point where it didn''t even take up one pad? I had ...
A. 10 August 2010: You should not be having sex! and if i wer'e your mother, you would be carrying a baby doll around w/ you changing it in public, feedind it soothing it rocking it 2:00am feedings 6:00am feedings in the morning. getting a job to buy the food, cloths ... (read in full...)
My ex... or Robert???
Q. My Ex and I had separated, around two months ago, and then came along Robert. For some reason I kept on calling my Ex just to check up. I love my current Bf, but for some reason I feel as though I am still in love with my Ex. I feel guilt flowing ...
A. 10 August 2010: I say start fresh take your time enjoying you! and Mr Right will come along! a fresh start is always a good thing. it's like making panacakes they burn well you start all over and make better ones and they are so good!!
Good Luck!... (read in full...)
How can I gain my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months and 4 of those months he has been in work release. I lied to him about how many times I talked to this guy. I've never cheated on him nor hung out with another guy. I truly love this man with all my hear...
A. 10 August 2010: Why don't you tell him just what you told us! the last line. and all you can do is build your trust back up and chalk it off as a lessened learned! trust is a big part of our lives and with out it we are a mess because it always comes back to bite ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid of being alone forever!
Q. I know im only 13, but im afraid of being alone forever. I havent had a father in my life since my parents got divorced when I was 6. I dont have any brothers, so I dont know whats it like to be around men. My mom says that all men are pigs and that ...
A. 10 August 2010: Oh Sweetie, you are only 13 and you will grow into a beautiful woman one day. but it all depends on you? you sound very in telligent! don't be jealous of your sister, be proud of her. you don't want to be her, be yourself. and stop focusing on the ... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm cheating with my ex but I'm not! How can I convince him?
Q. Hey. I'm a 21 year old female. I have a boyfriend that I love a lot ! We've been together for 4 years now and he thinks I'm cheating on him with my ex!! He doesn't like when I talk to guys, and I don't like when he talks to girls either! He does it ...
A. 10 August 2010: I would give him one big reality check! oh he can talk to girls! girls! girls! what a one way dawg, and a control freak!i mean a joke is a joke and no your cousin should have never said that! some men take it very seriously. well a wanna be man! ... (read in full...)
Help! Vaginal smell is too strong!
Q. Okay, here's my problem. Since I met my current partner sex has always been extremely... smelly. When she gets wet, it often, but not always, is accompanied by a strong sour or bad smell. Often it's not too bad (but still definitely worse...
A. 10 August 2010: Wow thats a sticky one! you know what i would do? do you 2 like to take showers together! wash her and let her wash you make it romantic! and just use the soap no wash cloth that way you can rinse it off and see if her smell goes away? but don't ... (read in full...)
What should I tell my brother?
Q. My boyfriend and I broke up awhile ago. We were together for a few years. I am in my mid twenties. My parents know because i was really upset. For some reason, rather than tell my brother who lives close by i have just pretended everything is the ...
A. 10 August 2010: He is your brother, not your father! it was your choice to end the relationship! no'one elses. and you don't need to explain anything it's your life! go have fun! in vegas~~
Happy Birthday`~~~~~~... (read in full...)
Our relationship doesn't seem as strong as it used to be... why is this?
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half now, and we are almost always long distance because of college. I can't tell if I still love him or just don't want to be alone. When he used to visit we would be all over each other, but now I ...
A. 10 August 2010: I don't know what couples don't understand! or get? we don't remain a bunch of rabbits through out our relationship! it simmers down and it's normal because we are a item now and we know we can have sex anytime~ i mean he's sitting on the couch ... (read in full...)
I just want good sex like I used to have!
Q. Hello :) my boyfriend and I have only been together for about 5 months and things were obviously great in the begining.. but not as much anymore. I don't tell him this yet but I do love him. Things are starting to seem a little complicated now tho....
A. 10 August 2010: Yea go single and play the field! if that's all you want out of a relationship! it's not just about SEX, and you might really care for him and just to young to realize it or he might not be the one!... (read in full...)
Is this just the end of infatuation or really true love?
Q. Is this true love? Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months, but just recently we broke up. I felt sick and she said that she cried a lot. I know I want her back, but I have the feeling that I should let her go and live her life and let ...
A. 10 August 2010: Make your mind up? can't say you really like someone hurt her then turn her off like a light switch?... (read in full...)
Virgin at 24
Q. I am going to be 24 in a month, and I am still a virgin. I'm starting to worry that guys will be put off by it. My friends told me just not tell a guy that that I am, but I think he'll find out when he finds out I've only been in one brief ...
A. 9 August 2010: Im sorry that people treat you that way! it's those who are ugly and cruel to call anyone names! those are their words not yours remember that! and when they say it to you i would say back to them what kind of person does it make you to say nasty ... (read in full...)
How can my boyfriend and I regain the spark in our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have dated for 4 years. We had had an on and off type of relationship . I feel that I am not IN love with him anymore, I have felt this for a long time but have been reluctant to end things forever - as there are a lot of good ...
A. 9 August 2010: You will be amazed how being open and honest w/ him will bring to your relationship! or whether or not you'll move on! how will you get your answers? you are looking for if your not honest w/ him and about who you are! and then you 2 can go from ... (read in full...)
Her word against his
Q. i feel like im being manipulated by my girlfriend, how do you catch her out? one day out of the blue she told me my good mate said bad things to her parents about me, i confront my friend he said it didn't happen, i ask her father he did not know...
A. 9 August 2010: Have your friend buy a small recorder, and take her a side and bring it up w/ her. or better yet! have him ask her to meet him for lunch somewhere that you are coming too! but you need to show up late! get it. ok then find a friend that she does not ... (read in full...)
Am I a lesbian or is this just a teenage phase?
Q. Okay, where can i start?? I'm a year away from college, I'm excited but worried because i probably wont be seeing my very best friend 'a', ever... we are a group of 4 best friends, but me and 'a' stay together like sisters, and the others visa ver...
A. 9 August 2010: Honey, the best one to talk too about it w/ if you have a big sister! talk w/ her or your mom. or wait and see if you really are.... (read in full...)
I need to sow my wild oats
Q. i am in a relationship with a man who already sewed his wild oats while he was younger. i havent done any of that, but i was in a couple of troubled relationship before where the sex was not so great. my bf could not be a better man and very proper ...
A. 9 August 2010: Sure go have Fun! but don't keep him on the string in the mean time! no'ones telling you not to sew your oats, all they are saying, it is morally wrong to keep someone under false pretences while you are having your oats fulfilled!... (read in full...)
Want to have a second child, but unsure if it's a good idea.
Q. Ello everyone. Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm not sure that this is something that belongs here but then again I believe this is the best place to come for advices. I have asked and answered many and I really love that everyon...
A. 8 August 2010: You Have got plenty of time. when you have to think about having another child! is because you are not ready? enjoy each other get to know each other! and yes let him learn how to be a daddy w/ your daughter! and let him grow into it and take his ... (read in full...)
My fiancee's ex-gf is interfering in our relationship! What can I do?
Q. My fiance and I have been engaged for four months now. We are happily tra la la in love. Things are going smooth and I have NEVER been this happy with a man in my life. Here is the sitch. Before he and I met, he had dated a female for a month and ...
A. 8 August 2010: I ended up w/ a guy who also had a clingy ex- and she would not give up! she came over to his house when wer'e in bed and he answered his door w/ a towel wrapped around him! and the first thing out of her mouth was? whos in there. he told her it's ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?
Q. My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether ...
A. 8 August 2010: Tell him it's not a good week for it! you and your friends have made some plans!!!!!!! and boy he will feel left out. the same way he made you feel! and he'll realize? how hurtful he was to you when he left you out of his life! and tell him maybe ... (read in full...)
I need to sow my wild oats
Q. i am in a relationship with a man who already sewed his wild oats while he was younger. i havent done any of that, but i was in a couple of troubled relationship before where the sex was not so great. my bf could not be a better man and very proper ...
A. 8 August 2010: Shes one confused puppy and is taking her anger out on everyone in the wrong way! so the hell w/ everyone because she was hurt! well sweetie, you only allow what you allow in and it's your choice to throw out the bad and chalk the past off as the ... (read in full...)
How can we reconnect and rebuild the trust?
Q. So, I will give you a bit of a background regarding the situation I am finding myself in. I warn you now, there is going to be a lot of eye rolling on your part and probably an strong urge to slap me! In my defense, my interaction with men did not ...
A. 7 August 2010: Wow what a screwed up relationship! first he tells you he doesn't want to leave her bcuzz her health? and then he admitts to you he needs a break from 2 girlfriends at one time! what a liar. he wants his cake and eat it too. and you are giving him ... (read in full...)
Broken hearted and lonely seeks much needed advice.
Q. Mod Note....OP's own title. Dear Cupid, I am a 24 year old single girl who has been in several long term relationships in the past few years. Recently however, I've had no luck whatsoever on the dating front, and find myself wondering if I will ...
A. 7 August 2010: First i want to say you are not doing wrong! but you are heading down a road of desperation! which can take you to all the wrong places and relationships! and men do sense that. and will only use and respect what you give them to respect out of your ... (read in full...)
Help!! I had a party today and i'm:
Q. OP's ownm title: help!! i'm drunk i went to this party and i did a pole dance in front of mans my boyfriend was waiting for me like 2 hours. i haven't told him yet. what to do??...
A. 7 August 2010: Do you think that it is going to get back to him? are you afraid of losing him? and further more that is what happens when drinking is involved! believe me i have done some stupid things myself, at that age! i was playing spin the bottle at a party ... (read in full...)
I am blinded by this douche bags good looks, but he's no good!!
Q. Alright, so recently I've had this very strong urge in wanting to have sex with this guy who I have thought has been soo good looking/hot. but the thing is, he's a total douche bag! And I am no way into his douche bag ways, but he has a good ...
A. 7 August 2010: I don't know why you need our advice! you answered it yourself!! so now it's up to you to see where this douche bag takes you? if you should change your mind? it isn't just about sex! but thats right you are young and that is what girls your age ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 6 August 2010: well might i add! someone who says not anyone has ever cared for her this way. tells me she is in alot of trouble and who is also vaunerable to what ever? and that married man knows it they smell them a mile away and also sees it in their actions. ... (read in full...)
From freaky to enjoying it?
Q. Has your partner ever asked you to do something nasty or freaky, and the first time he asked you were shocked or found it weird, but eventually came to really enjoy it? What was it he asked for. I have been in a committed relationship for...
A. 3 August 2010: More power to ya! better you then me.... (read in full...)
Is it common for men to become spiteful toward their SO after listening to women bashing from friends?
Q. A year ago i went with SO to his brother's home and a long time friend, that I'd never met, of theirs joined us. Bro was going through divorce, friend recently divorced, i was the only female and therefore took vicious jabs for all wicked women ...
A. 3 August 2010: Diddo soul4!!... (read in full...)
I'm scared I'm turning into a slut.
Q. It's been forever since i've been on this site, it helped me alot when I was 18 so hopely it can help me again now i'm 21. Basically in the last 4 years i changed dramatic as a person, i've had my heart broken twice. And my standards in men...
A. 3 August 2010: There are professionals! who can answer that for you and get you some help! you are mixed up? do you have some deep rooted problems? you say you haven't had sex in a yr but you kiss dozen of men, are you a tease? get some counseling.... (read in full...)
Husband so protective of our daughter that its really affecting our marriage
Q. so i have been married for 3yrs and have a 1yr old girl my husband overprotects her give her anything to eat and is always playing her now my problem is that i feel like we are just parents we forgot our relationship i feel so lonely all i do is ...
A. 3 August 2010: i think you both need to grow up~ hes going to make you end up rejecting your own child because of his childish ways boy better you then me i would have already had him sign divorce papers that is so messed up and you are so tied up in how much ... (read in full...)
I want to love her without being disgusted at her past and where she has been.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months now however we have known each other and been close for 3 years. She has had 4 claimed sexual partners including me, I have had 3. Were both 23. She had sexual relations with her much older ...
A. 3 August 2010: And she is only 23? i wouldn't be able to swallow that either! and no wonder you cant get past the past!you was part of it you slept w/ her when she was married! and you was her fling. i have no sympathy for you are her but that you both sound ... (read in full...)
How much patience do you dole out in a relationship before you become a doormat?
Q. I'm hoping folks can give me some perspective on my current relationship. I feel like I'm at a cross roads personally, and I don't know what to do. If I was to reduce it to a question, it would be: "Do I invest more energy in this relationship, or ...
A. 3 August 2010: You sound like a very intelligent young woman, and knows what you want out of life! i think you are doing fine and if hes not ready for marriage? and you are? you can't force it on a man. maybe theres a reason why? hes not ready just ask him right ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that we are going to a place I don't want to go!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much. I feel like we are falling apart. We have been together for a little over a year. We broke up awhile ago for about 5 or 6 months but we were still seeing each other. He used to be so crazy about me, except now since ...
A. 3 August 2010: You might be growing apart? sometimes, when a couple breaks up. things change? they have had some alone time to think about things and sometimes alone time can make the heart grow fonder! and sometimes not? and it could just possibly something you ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 3 August 2010: We all get that you are inlove w/ a fool who has no respect for woman including you! oh and if they see other people? why don't you have his home # or where he lives? i would love to take a wuss like that yea and put him in the middle of women who ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions as to how we rekindle our love??
Q. Hi, My girlfriend and I are at a point in our 3 year relationship where it is make or break. Things have been going slowly down hill for a while and the situation has come to a head. She is not sure of the extent of her feelings for me an...
A. 2 August 2010: I don't get it people think you are suppose to be hot and heavy through out the relationship! and if it's not they think something is wrong w/ the relationship or he or she is seeing someone? you said it in your post when you first met everything ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is hanging around bad influences and now I'm paranoid he's cheating...!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. i have never worried about him cheating on me i have never really worried about much when he's out. Now he has started to hang out with an old friend of mine(and i know his dirty habits) and don't trust ...
A. 2 August 2010: You know once you been together awhile you start finding out alot about the one you thought you knew? i met someone he was a gentlemen sweet gentle thoughtful and a real ladies man. when we first met after about 6 months things started happening ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?
Q. My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether ...
A. 1 August 2010: Honey, if you truly loved each other you wouldn't be going through what you are? i know we all have problems but we work through them not taking breaks from one another. oh im sorry i need time to figure it out what ever. and well if it makes you ... (read in full...)
She's a wonderful person...so how can I help her?
Q. hey peoples i have a friend who wants to be extremely different from everyone else, but when i met her she was extremely fun to be around even though she was sensitive to what people said about her and to her. I think shes acting so weird to block ...
A. 1 August 2010: Sweetie, you don't need our help! you just said it all in a nut shell. tell her what you just told us! that was very sweet!!! it shows you care about her a great deal and you like her for who she is not what she doesn't have. your momma and daddy ... (read in full...)
Is his female client interested in him or am I over-reacting?
Q. I went out for breakfast with a guy friend of mine. He and I were having fun and conversation was great. He saw a client of his from work and excused himself to go talk to her. After a short stint of time he returned to our table and we continued ...
A. 1 August 2010: Honey, she was letting you know she exsisted. and your date allowed it? mine man would never put me or himself in that position. those are what you call *itches!!!! she don't want him she was trying to *iss you off. if i read it correctly. i would ... (read in full...)
We like each other but he won't ask me out!
Q. I have a guy friend whom I am interested in and who I believe is interested in me. We get along great and we flirt with each other alot of the time. I'm wondering why he hasn't asked me out on a date. Now I know one reason could be that maybe he is ...
A. 1 August 2010: Well maybe he thinks you are thinking the same thing too! and we are in the year of 2010 news flash, and i don't think you would be forward why don't you ask him out~~~ do a picnic!!! and if he likes you you wont have to ask him out again you 2 will ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?
Q. My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether ...
A. 1 August 2010: I think you are focusing more on him, and you are losing your own values of who you are! a relationship shouldn't be like that! you have trust, communication & respect! and the love & friendship all comes together. and shouldn't have to keep ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 30 July 2010: She ask for our help! and then makes the statement she makes! i really think she is enjoying it! im out of this one. let her learn can't say that we didn't try to give her some good advice!!... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 28 July 2010: What do you mean you can't hurt anymore then you already are? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?
Q. My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether ...
A. 25 July 2010: What should you do next? we are all telling you to move on.... if you want to hang out and play his game more power to you! iam not into head games. you either are there for each other or your not. get out and feel good about who you are! and let ... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 23 July 2010: Again seeing a married man is trouble! and how would you like if the tables wer'e reversed. and someone was sleeping w/ your husband? and don't sale yourself so short or use that as an excuse, your so shy so you see a married man?
do they have kids... (read in full...)
Will I get hurt having an affair with a married man?
Q. A few months ago I met a man online just chatting he told me right off that he was married and that he and his wife love each other yet they do allow each other to do whatever they wish . Anyway we clicked and we met up we just had our sceond ...
A. 22 July 2010: Are you sure his wife approves? or is that what he is telling you. my concern would be that you have your whole life ahead of you find someone w/ no'one attached to him! you will have a better furture you are so young and it's your journey take the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?
Q. My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether ...
A. 22 July 2010: Let him have those girls in the club! in the mean time get yourself together don't contact him. make yourself feel good and what pride you have left (dump Him) you need to get the last word in. believe me those other girls in the club will end up ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said he wanted a break, but how long should I give him?
Q. My bf has asks for a break a week ago. He said he was too stressed about his college work and family problems. He also said that he is a sucky bf.The reasons are he got no car and no money.We are both college students,so i don't mind whether ...
A. 21 July 2010: You are a very understanding person to give him his space as well as respectful! no'one can tell you whats right for you but you! do whats in your heart we don't know him or you. i mean from your e-mail maybe he does feel really not like a man, ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is hanging around bad influences and now I'm paranoid he's cheating...!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. i have never worried about him cheating on me i have never really worried about much when he's out. Now he has started to hang out with an old friend of mine(and i know his dirty habits) and don't trust ...
A. 8 July 2010: It's not them who you need to trust! your boyfriend is the one you should trust! and i would talk to him and tell him how you feel you say you have been together for 3 yrs! why can't you talk to him. at least then you will know where you stand w/ ... (read in full...)
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