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writes:i have been in a LDR for 3 years now.My guy and I love each other a lot.The problem is that my guy loves dwelling in the past.In the past i was friendly with the guys in school but it was purely friendship and nothing else.it so happened that the guys whom i thought to be friends were very mean and have spoke shit about me at my back.my boyfriend got to know of it and told me.i was depressed and stopped leading a normal life.i would'nt eat or sleep for days and locked myself up in my room.the problem is that my boyfriend still keeps reminding me of these happenings.When he gets angry he uses very abusive language and that hurts me a lot.recently we decided that we cannot go on like this because I couldnt stay this way.Nobody has the right to abuse anybody.But I love my boyfriend and I dont want to lose him.He loves me a lot too n everything is too good when we both arent talking abt incidences of the past.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (28 August 2010):
You got part one right no'one has the right to abuse you! then you say but you love him? so are you saying it's ok. so you will stay and put up w/ it? love should not have to hurt not that way in relationships! we all have our disagreements but thats just what they are nothing mental or phyiscal bad and the past is the past not our furture so it is up to you what you would rather live in the here and now or the past! and tell him to get a real life! because you are going too! he is either w/ you or he's not. give yourself more credit then that don't you think your worth it i do!
Best Wishes 2 u!!
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