He talks about sex all day but just goes to sleep when the lights are out.
Q. My bf talks about having sex with me all day but when it's lights out he just falls asleep. Why?...
A. 4 January 2011: He is talking about sex. Maybe thats his way of starting it... (read in full...)
I think I hate my boyfriend? How do I dump him w/o hurting him?
Q. I hate him. I hate his personality. I hate how he makes me feel. He just got through telling me how it's ok for him to randomly give me negative comments about my appearance, even though he knows i wont change how i look for anybody and all ...
A. 2 January 2011: Tell him what you just wrote. Minus the hate part. Just tell him you dont want to be with him anymore because the way he has treated you. How he makes you feel. You'll be fine ok without him. And no matter how much you loved him at some point, when ... (read in full...)
Did she have sex with me because I was drunk?
Q. i stayed the night at My friends house where me and my friend was drinkin and had quite a lot to drink and then we went to bed and i was laying there on the floor and then his sister came to wher i was layin down at and kissed me! then we started to ...
A. 2 January 2011: I'd say she did it because she wanted to. But just ask her. She has more to be embarassed about then you.... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend let me see him naked?
Q. Hey, My boyfriend and me have been dating over a year, neither of us are sexually active yet but we both really want to. Me and him do foreplay etc but hes started to ask me for Bjs etc. But he wont take off his top or bottoms so I can help satisfy ...
A. 2 January 2011: Well maybe ask him why he wont let you? It seems like it maybe more then him just being a bit shy. Ask him. Tell him you love his body how it is, and you want him to show you. But with that some guys are just really uncomfortable with their bodies ... (read in full...)
I want to convince my girlfriend to go farther
Q. I'm not a virgin. My girlfriend is. I feel really bad about this because I think I love her and I want to sleep with her, but she says that she isn't ready yet. I asked whether she thought oral sex counted she said yes, so nothing. We kiss and ...
A. 2 January 2011: You can think all you want. If she says she isnt then she isnt. Do you want her to regret her first time because she felt pressured into it? Or that things were rushed. Tell her how you feel. Tell her you think you love her and that you want to be ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with her but its illegal!
Q. I am a 14 year old virgin and my girlfriend is 17 and isn't. I want to have sex with her but it is illegal and I am worried I wont be good enough. what should I do?...
A. 2 January 2011: If you want to and she does then go ahead. Just dont go telling everyone about it. But seriously your young so make sure you are ready and its not just cause your physically attracted to her. And as long as she knows your a virgin she wont xcpect ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back but he tells me to wait until he breaks up with his new girlfriend
Q. Im still in love with my ex boyfriend, but he already has another girlfriend and it kills me inside to no that.. I tell him i still love him nd he tells me he does too but for me to wait till they break up, but its hard for me to wait and knowing ...
A. 2 January 2011: Uhm honey if he even felt half as strongly towards you as you do towards him he wouldnt want to be with you. Basically what he is saying is if things dont work out with this girl then ill get with you. If he loves you and wants to be with youd hed ... (read in full...)
Dating my ex girlfriend's best friend has turned into hell! Everyone hates me!
Q. I am dating my ex-girlfriend's best friend and everyone is mad at me and hates me except for my girlfriend. I love her a lot but my life is starting to be a living hell. Do you think it was a bad choice to go out with her? If no how do i get them to ...
A. 2 January 2011: You cant control that. If you love her then stay with her. You have to know people most likely dislike her for dating you. Stick to your feelings for her. Who cares if people hate you. Do you love those people? Eventually they will get tired of ... (read in full...)
I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?
Q. Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...
A. 2 January 2011: Also buy a test. My friend had the same scare and ended up not being pregnant. ... (read in full...)
I can't tell him what happened. And I can't face him. What should I do?
Q. Long story short I had sex with my friend last night and he came in me.. It's 9 days after my period so I'm assuming I'm pregnant.. He bought me the morning after pill and I took it asap.. I guess about 18 hours after we had sex.. How do I even look ...
A. 2 January 2011: Tell him! You are going to have to tell him at some point. If he bought you the day after pill he should understand. ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to have break up sex?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago, at the beginning of December. We had been dating for 14 months. I fully understood her decision to break up with me, as I had struggled to get over a previous ex, which caused my girlfriend to fall out ...
A. 2 January 2011: But it could be the closure she needs. It was for me. Honestly breaing up and not knowing if the other person has moved on is way worse then anything. You telling her no thanks will cause her to wonder, think more about you, ask if youve moved on, ... (read in full...)
I kissed another guy while I was drunk!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and sometime lately i'v had a crush on one of my guy friends. on night we were at a party and right from the start i felt like kissing him ..after a few drinks my guy friend told me he wanted t...
A. 1 January 2011: You cant. Maybe you should just tell you bf. Leave out the I want to kiss you part but that he grabbed you kissed you and you pulled away and havent talked to him. If you dont tell him someone may get drunk again and let it slip... (read in full...)
What does it mean if a man says a woman is a bit ripe?
Q. What does it mean if a man says you are a bit ripe?I overheard this man I just met, on the phone talking about me and he told the person my age and then said "she a bit ripe,still"I think he mustve meant shes a bit old,but I only just turned 23!and ...
A. 1 January 2011: Ripe is when the fruit isnt matured enough. Rotten is when it is over matured. Right? It think if anything he was calling you young since there is a 10 yr age difference.... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to have break up sex?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago, at the beginning of December. We had been dating for 14 months. I fully understood her decision to break up with me, as I had struggled to get over a previous ex, which caused my girlfriend to fall out ...
A. 1 January 2011: I have been in the same spot as you. Really if you still have feelings for her then after you've done it youll have to go through the process of constantly wanting to talk to her. For her it could really just be sex that she wanted. If you do it, ... (read in full...)
How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?
Q. How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...
A. 1 January 2011: It'll come with time. Theres not much you can do to earn it back, just dont do anything to lose it...again.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!
Q. Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...
A. 1 January 2011: Tell him. If you lose him for that then he isn't someone who's good to have around anyway. Besides..how long do you think you can really hide it?... (read in full...)
Husband is great but he looks at teen porn
Q. So i am 40 weeks pregnant and just got married 2 months ago. My husband is great to me and we planned on having this baby. Problem is, he looks at teen porn. I caught him on the computer before so now he looks at it on his phone..The girls look ...
A. 31 December 2010: Well maybe try looking up his name on one of those pedafile websites just to be sure. Bring it up to him! U are bringing a child into this relationship. You may not think he could hurt her, but you dont know that! ... (read in full...)
My son is a crack addict, with criminal charges, on probation for the last 7 years. What can I do in this horrible situation?
Q. My 27 years old drug-addict son ,causing me and my family lots of pain. He moved back several times in our home, and we tried to help him over and over again. But it failed every time. He is here again. On house arrest, so he can avoid jail. I...
A. 31 December 2010: Stop giving him ways out such as avoiding jail by house arrest. Force him into rehab. If you cant do that...then maybe you should just end contact. He seems to do more harm then good. And that doesnt make you a bad mother.... (read in full...)
Is it possible to wear a condom and then not know it has come off?
Q. This is a strange post but I can't stop thinking about it. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year. We get on well and have a good relationship. The other night he came around to mine and we ended up making love. Somehow the condom came ...
A. 31 December 2010: Uhm...honestly I HIGHLY doubt it. My bf tells me how awesome not having a condom is and how much different it feels. You really believe your bf couldnt tell the difference between latex and you????... (read in full...)
Do you think it's possible that we're actually in love at such a young age?
Q. Hi(: Okay, as you all know adults and even other teens say when your in high school you think you're in love but you don't know what love is. Well, I've been with mmy boyfriend for almost 15 months now and honestly I can say I love him. I...
A. 31 December 2010: Yes I think it is possible to be in love that young. I cant say if you are in love. Sometimes you dont realize that you werent in love until you are broken up. But enjoy it! Who cares what people think. Enjoy your feelings and dont worry if youll ... (read in full...)
Should I let my BF go lower?
Q. My boyfriend wants to go lower(fingering and eating me out). But idk if i should ? I feel as he is rushing into things. ...
A. 31 December 2010: Dont do it until you are ready :)... (read in full...)
How can you tell when the guy is in it just for sex?
Q. How do you tell when a guy is only in it for the sex? How can you tell? I just want some advise on things that guys might do if they are only in it for the sex. ...
A. 31 December 2010: Honestly every guy will act some what differently on how to get it. So the best way to find out is to tell him straight out that you dont plan to have sex with him until you get comfortable in whatever type relationship you have if he stays around ... (read in full...)
He wants to have sex but we're unsure if we can marry.
Q. hiii i m 22 years old and i have a boyfriend. we both are virgin. we already have oral sex. he is now asking for anal sex.i want to but i have some problems. what are the changes that happen to body after having sex first time??? does it hurts lo...
A. 28 December 2010: OK First off anal should NOT be your first time. It hurts even if you arent a virgin. Another thing is if you have anal sex you dont have a hymen to worry about. Your first time will most likely hurt, you may bleed but in the end you should be able ... (read in full...)
I think she's developing an eating disorder.
Q. hey all, my problem is my daughter, she is a beautiful 13 yr old, now she and i have been given a hard time by her dad we are still together just. she has no confidence and is 10 and a half stone shes not tall and so does look a big girl. i have ...
A. 28 December 2010: Hm...well this is a hard question to answer. Just because she asks a question doesnt mean she is going what you did. Maybe try sitting down with her and asking her if she is ok, and what she thinks about her body. If she admits that she feels that ... (read in full...)
Sex with an ex, then he had sex with another girl!
Q. I'm an idiot...the other night I decided to have sex with my EX boyfriend...I'm only 13 years old and he's 15. I don't even know how it happened I was just supposed to hang out with him cause even if we broke up we're still like bestfriends. But i ...
A. 28 December 2010: It sounds like you still have feelings for him or you wouldnt care that he was with another girl. If it makes you feel better (which it would me) Id hang out with him, and if he is the guy that every1 says he is(on here) then he will try something. ... (read in full...)
He lies about smoking weed!
Q. Hi.. I have this problem with my boyfriend... He constantly lies to me about weed. I am so against it and i tried to forbid him of using it.. He always hangs out with his friend that smoke weed, and he claims that he does not. I convinced him that ...
A. 28 December 2010: Seriously..he lies because he is doing something which he doesnt feel is bad and he knows if you know youll make a bigger deal of it then he wants. You have to make a decision. Ignore the lying for a second. Is him smoking a big enough reason for ... (read in full...)
If he really loved her he wouldn't cheat on her with me right?
Q. I am extremely torn and confused over a guy that I was with 8 years ago for 1.5 years. Because of certain circumstances we had broken it off and recently about 4 months ago he came back into my life. He remembers everything we have done, all the ...
A. 28 December 2010: Real question: If he really loved you, he wouldnt still be with her. He can make up whatever excuse he wants bottom line, who is he still with(bf/gf). Then thats who he wants. He can get sex from you, and will most likely tell you whatever you want ... (read in full...)
He talks about sex all day but just goes to sleep when the lights are out.
Q. My bf talks about having sex with me all day but when it's lights out he just falls asleep. Why?...
A. 27 December 2010: Have you tried having sex with him or do u let him go to bed?... (read in full...)
Fourteen and I haven't a clue on how to tell my parents: 'I'm pregnant'
Q. I have a major problem... I'm pregnant. i know I'm totally under aged being on 14 but i don't know what to do about it... i don't want to get an abortion because - no offense towards anyone- i don't agree in them and think that's wrong. I think i...
A. 27 December 2010: Uhm...go to Planned Parenthood. They can give you a test (Just to be super sure) and everything for free. Plus they can help you figure out how to tell your parents. Maybe you should have your best friend there. Parents may be less likely to ... (read in full...)
I'm married but I want my mistress back in my life.
Q. My girlfriend/mistress just(september)ended our 4 year relationship because I'm married. I'm 20 years older than my mistress. She has known this all along . We both admit the past 4 years were fabulous in every way for both of us. Danc...
A. 27 December 2010: Either leave your wife and get with this girl, or accept you will never have this woman.... (read in full...)
He blames me for everything and puts his family before me!
Q. So my boyfriend and I first started dating when I was 16 then broke up b/c I felt that he was irritating my.. basically I was totally immature back then. So a month's gone by and I find out that he ended up having a one night stand and getting some ...
A. 27 December 2010: The blaming isnt cool. But seriously?!?! Family should ALWAYS come first. You to arent married. He could be very close to his family. Why dont you go with him next time? Probably because you overreacted acted somewhat stupidly and his family doesnt ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'm not ready?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months. we are both 15. he says that i have changed his life because i make him so happy and i am amazing to him. he also makes me happy and i am in love with him. recently he fingered me, and i wasn't ...
A. 27 December 2010: Dont do it until you are sure its right for you. You dont want to regret your first time, and yu will if you rush into it. Plus you may be wrong about what he wants. If he is going to dump you because you wont have sex with him then, and you wont ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship
Q. Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...
A. 27 December 2010: Really its not uncommon for a guy to say that. they can be immature and say things without realizing the extent it would hurt. do you honestly think he was thinking of your past when he said it. you need to sit him down and explain that you have ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?
Q. Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...
A. 27 December 2010: well if its been two months since you've been with him and he is still interested..id consider.... (read in full...)
Is he just that into me?
Q. Okay so i am 13 and just broke up with a guy that truely was head over heels for me. I have known this other guy for like a year we get to see each other often. Hes 14..soon too be 15. I like him so much!!!!:) He broke up with his gf he had seen for ...
A. 27 December 2010: Doesnt matter how he ffels towards you. He can bad mouth his gf all he wants but he got back with her so that should be the first sign that he likes her enough to be with her. And he can like you. But he had the choice to get with you when he wsas ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?
Q. Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...
A. 26 December 2010: Is this the guy that called you a whore/... (read in full...)
Do girls like kissing as much as boys?
Q. I'm 15 years old and I have recently got a new girlfriend, the girl I'm now with has never kissed/necked anyone before and I'm wondering if I should be her first kiss but I'm not to sure since she has never really spoke about it? Should I try and ...
A. 25 December 2010: Kiss her :) And yes girls generally like kissing as much as boys.... (read in full...)
My strategy failed: I lied to my bf saying I was pregant to try to get him back. Would telling him I miscarried work?
Q. OK; soo i Have an ex boyfriend and i am still in love with him... i would love to know how to get him back ? he is my very first love, but i think i made a mistake. Because i lied to him and told him i was pregnant, just to see if he would come back ...
A. 25 December 2010: Lol I did the same thing :) It didnt backfire really. Basically go along with it for as long as you can (unless he wants to tell people), then research miscarraiges find out what happens. When you feel ready call him ask him to come over and explain ... (read in full...)
I don't love him, but should I stay with him because he is safe?
Q. im 22 i have a 2 year old with a man i dont love, we were together a year when i fell pregnant, I was stupid 19 year old thinkin "it wont happen to me" although i cant say i regret it as i love her so much! But about a month after havin my daughter ...
A. 24 December 2010: No. You arent being fair to him. Leave him... (read in full...)
Is anal Masturbation a sin?
Q. Is anal masturbation a sin? I recently found out how awesome it is, but I really want to know if it is a sin or not...help please?...
A. 24 December 2010: Thats something only you can decide. I wouldnt think so. But its up to you hun... (read in full...)
Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them?
Q. Is it possible to love someone but not be IN love with them? As in, like I care for you enough to the point where I love you but I'm not in love with you. I don't know if that made any sense. sorry! haha...
A. 24 December 2010: Yes haha. Its more common then most people think.... (read in full...)
Could I have an STI?
Q. Well, i've recently had unprotected sex and my penis has been really itchy, at the tip of it, and there has been a yellow colored discharge coming out, not much but just a little bit, would this be an STI? if it is what can i do, i dont want my ...
A. 24 December 2010: Uhm well you should get it checked out by a doctor because it could get serious. You can try just cleaning it really well and drinking lots of water. That wont really help but itwill flush your system. You can prolly wait a couple more days and see ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?
Q. Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...
A. 6 December 2010: IF he is hanging out with other chick possibly wanted to do stuff then he is the whore. u deserve someone who respect u and he doesnt Dont give him another chance to hurt u again... (read in full...)
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