Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her
Q. Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the ...
A. 12 December 2010: Hey your friendship with her wasnt your fault. You cant blame yourself. Im sorry to hear about you mother. I am still confused about who you are. You were sweet in the message and the kind of a jerk. But then your last message mostly explains ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her
Q. Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the ...
A. 7 December 2010: You seemed like such a nice guy! and now your only care is sex. I hope you arent saying that because you've been hurt. Dont treat girls like they are only somethign to screw. Why would you want anyone to feel they way you did with this girl?... (read in full...)
What if someday I turn into my abusive father?
Q. I feel like I'm typing to a damn therapist or something but here goes... When I was younger I had an abusive dad. He would whip me continuously with his belt whenever I misbehaved. Looking back though, I never really did anything that bad. He use...
A. 4 December 2010: Aw im soooo sorry. I understand where you are coming from, my dad was an alcoholic and became abusive. But honestly (and u may not want to hear this) ur dad made his choice by beating you. You beating ur sister is ur choice. U cant use ur dad as an ... (read in full...)
I want to forget her, I don't want to love her anymore!
Q. hello guys please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna for...
A. 4 December 2010: Well stop all communication with her. Try to distract yourself with you friends, basically keep your mind busy. The rest will come in time. It might not seem like it but eventually you will be able to look back and wonder why it was so hard to do. ... (read in full...)
He adds pretty girls on Facebook and has blocked me from seeing his profile!
Q. I've been in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. In the past we had a lot of problems because he lied to me and also had an emotional relationship with his ex. Everything was going really well until I recently found out that he is lying to me ...
A. 2 December 2010: Well, ask him to unblock you. If he says he didnt then he is lying. The only good reason to block you is so that you dont see what is being said..or what he is saying to them? If he has lied, and now he is hiding things maybe its time to move on. No ... (read in full...)
Why is this guy so mean to me?
Q. I'm in a tennis class with him and every time I do something, he criticizes me. I barely even talk to him! I don't even GLANCE in his direction. I'd walk around with my tennis racket, he'd call me a loser. I'd hug my friend and he'd call me gay. I'd ...
A. 30 November 2010: Report him. Thats sexual harrasment to comment on ur sexual preferene whether it b true or not. That may be the only way to stop him. he doesnt do it because he likes you... (read in full...)
Girls, what turns you off?
Q. Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?...
A. 30 November 2010: A guy who only shows interest in sexual aspects of the relationship/friendship. Or a guy who tries to rush it.... (read in full...)
Unable to reject my ex but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend!
Q. Hey Ok I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me,...
A. 30 November 2010: GOOD JOB!!!!!... (read in full...)
If she really wants to be with me then why does she have to hide things?
Q. My girlfriend and I were broken up over the weekend so we went 2 IHOP to talk about it. Everything was good but she kept txtn on her phone, I asked to see it and she said it was her ex-boyfriend. She said I could read the messages but she had to ...
A. 30 November 2010: Move on youd be better off. Why can she break up with you because of who you hang with and how often but she expects you to b fine with her txting her ex and hiding messages? ... (read in full...)
Psycho Ex Girlfriend who won't stop messing with me, even tho the breakup was her idea.
Q. I first met my girlfriend in high school at a party and then we didn't talk until this year when she wished me a happy birthday via Facebook. We started hanging out more often after I got her a job at my work, which made work so much fun! We got to ...
A. 30 November 2010: It's not you its her. You did nothing wrong so ignore her. GOOD LUCK!... (read in full...)
Any woman that shows interest in me I want to shove away!
Q. I had a really great romantic relationship going with a girl I loved. She decided that she was in love with a guy she spent a weekend with a few months ago. We did a lot of great stuff together, and a an awesome personal intimate connection. but I ...
A. 29 November 2010: Aw not every woman is like that! If a guy cheats does that mean all men are cheaters? Maybe try to just be friends with girls your age. Your ex really screwed you over. You are afraid to get hurt. But dont let that cause you to hate all women. We ... (read in full...)
No oral sex because I'm afraid I don't taste good
Q. i feel like i cant let a man give me oral sex because i am afraid i might not taste good. or something bad. how do i get comfortable with my body? and is there anything that can help cum taste good?...
A. 29 November 2010: Eat fruit. Or wash it with yogurt. its safe dnt worry. the bacteria in it cleans u and u can pick the flavor. :) ... (read in full...)
Good or bad idea to get ex girlfriend a present?
Q. Getting an ex girlfriend a christmas present, is that a good thing or is it a bad thing? I was just curious about other peoples opinion. ...
A. 29 November 2010: If you are single and you are still friends or still tlk to her then yea it would be fine. Maybe see how shed react to it by casually asking what she wants?... (read in full...)
I am very interested in my co-worker, my wife doesn't deserve this
Q. I have been married only two years now, known my wife for three. For the first time in the relationship I am having strong feelings and desire for another woman. The other woman is a co-worker, we are both quiet natured but talk to eachother quite ...
A. 29 November 2010: If you are guilty as sin then you need to tell your wife your feelings. It will most likely lead to divorce, but she deserves to know, and to make that decision NOT YOU. Do you even know if this other woman has feelings for you? Tell your wife. Let ... (read in full...)
Is the age difference a problem if neither person acts their age?
Q. if a 15 year old girl is dating a 22 year old wrong if they both are attractive to one another and they both don't look there age and both don't act there age?...
A. 29 November 2010: Yes, looks dont mean a thing. And im assuming the 15 yr old acts more mature and the 22 yr old acts less. It doesnt matter how mature the 15 yr old is the a 22 yr old shouldnt be interested in her. ... (read in full...)
Ex teacher is behaving inappropriately! What to do?
Q. To cut to the chase: my now ex-teacher is taking his newfound 'freedom' a little too seriously. Last week me and a classmate of mine got an 'innocent' e-mail from him asking how our finals went. I was late in answering because I was busy with an...
A. 29 November 2010: It sounds like he may have slipped her something, but you can't prove it. you might want to go for drinks and just have someone there watching your back that he wouldnt recognize. Make a point to go to the bathroom or something and have your friend ... (read in full...)
He wants an open relationship and I can't handle it! how do I let go?
Q. Need help letting go...Been w boyfriend for 9 years. We see each other once a month for 5 days (LDR) he moved 8 months ago for job. I have put alot of effort into this relationship from the start. Did not move down w him because of my job and he w...
A. 29 November 2010: Well you need to tell him this. Tell him how much it bothers you even if you already has. If he still wants to date others even after he finds out how much it bothers you, then he isnt right for you to start with. Then you need to end it. Thats like ... (read in full...)
She tells me I'm too good for her
Q. This girl that I met and have seen off and on for about the last 3 years says I'm too good for her. I'll try to give the shortest posstible version of this story. It started off when this girl and I met, hung out for about 3 months and reall...
A. 29 November 2010: Honestly she most likely feels this way because of her abusive relationship. But why can she be with others guys without feeling that way? Because she loves you? The fact that she is willing to string this other guy along while telling you she loves ... (read in full...)
A bit infatuated with my stalker
Q. I have made an unbelievably bad decision. This might be a little long, so thank you in advance for reading. I have no one to turn to, not because i don't have anyone but because i do not think anyone would understand. Ill start at the beginning...
A. 29 November 2010: For your safety you should tell someone. You never know what could happen. He could get randomly upset at something that you dont even realize you did wrong and hurt you. How did he find your school, you house, etc. Plus say it goes somewhere, he is ... (read in full...)
Unable to reject my ex but I don't want to cheat on my boyfriend!
Q. Hey Ok I have this Boyfriend that i really like, I think about him constantly, i always dream about him and talk about him to all my friends, but the problem is I still have feelings for my ex and he still likes me even though he broke up with me,...
A. 29 November 2010: If your bf is so amazing then you better find a way to reject him. Thats a weak excuse no offense. It doesnt matter if you dont want to hurt him, do you want to hurt your new bf??? Cuz you would even if he never found out. How would you feel if you ... (read in full...)
If she really wants to be with me then why does she have to hide things?
Q. My girlfriend and I were broken up over the weekend so we went 2 IHOP to talk about it. Everything was good but she kept txtn on her phone, I asked to see it and she said it was her ex-boyfriend. She said I could read the messages but she had to ...
A. 29 November 2010: Honestly, the deleting stuff is really weird. If everything is in the past then she should have no problem with you seeing it. And why would she be txting personal things to her x that she cant share with her bf??? Something doesnt add up. If it ... (read in full...)
My b/f wants to have a threesome with me and my best friend
Q. Oh gosh im in love with my boyfriend were both 16 and im bisexual. He wants too try a threesome and im not sure if I should cause it might mess up our relationship. Hes cheated on me before and I know he dont desrve me. Im not sure if I should ...
A. 29 November 2010: Leave him. None of this is your fault. A 3 some would only lead to problems. Would he allow you to have a 3 some with his best guy friend. Probably not. If he dares blame you for throwing away your relationship turn it on him. He made it all ... (read in full...)
Psycho Ex Girlfriend who won't stop messing with me, even tho the breakup was her idea.
Q. I first met my girlfriend in high school at a party and then we didn't talk until this year when she wished me a happy birthday via Facebook. We started hanging out more often after I got her a job at my work, which made work so much fun! We got to ...
A. 29 November 2010: Some girls are just like that. They dont have to still have feelings for you to want you to realize what u've lost, make you see that they are fine without you, etc. They want you jealous, they want to show they dont need you. If you show it effects ... (read in full...)
Some pleasure with him would be nice!
Q. Ok, so I'm sixteen, and have been dating this guy for four years now. We've had sex tons of times, I lost my virginity when I was fourteen. We've both been through some rough times, and we've both slept with other people. But here's my problem. I've ...
A. 26 November 2010: Telling him now probably wouldnt be a good idea, because if it does happen, then he wont believe you. Plus it will hurt his feelings. Girls have a way harder time getting one. Try different positions. Try not to think about it. Just get lost in it. ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her
Q. Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the ...
A. 24 November 2010: I think it would show her how important you are to her. If staying on contact with her hurts you because you love her then it would be a good idea to stop contact, otherwise you are ending your friendship because she doesnt share your feelings. She ... (read in full...)
Girls lose interest because I'm too sweet?
Q. well here goes... i have a huge problem. Whenever me and a girl start talking for a bit and we get rly into each other or after a couple months of dating they lose their feelings for me and distance themselves because i try too hard, and i dont mea...
A. 22 November 2010: Honestly I see and txt my bf everyday and its gets boring and cases tension sometimes. Its true u have seperate urself for the person to miss u. Maybe lay back on the I miss you you make me happy stuff. Slow it done. Dnt make her think u dont like ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to message him on facebook or is that a bit stalkerish?
Q. hi i need advice :) I met a guy through a friend that i think is really cute. We seemed to hit it off, but have only had casual conversations and flirted a bit. My mate told him i liked him and he said he liked me too but wouldn't do anything about ...
A. 22 November 2010: Message him! It's not stalkerish to say hi. True its been a while but who cares. You're just saying hi to a friend. If it turns out to be more then great. Maybe he is still interested by his eye contact and smiles. Either way it's fine. Look at it ... (read in full...)
Should I let the cat out of the bag?
Q. Hi, I've got a weird and very personal question. I have a secret I probably should have told my boyfriend awhile ago but I was to scared to and it still scares me, so, given the change in circumstances, should I tell him? It's really a long story, ...
A. 19 November 2010: Thats a really hard question..sometimes guys dont mind...but other times it bothers them. BUt no matter what you should be able to be honest without anything happening. If he cant handle that then its on him. but you are still a virgin so you ... (read in full...)
Got my girlfriend pregnant and my family has cut off all communication for me!
Q. My girlfriend and i had sex recently and i got her pregnant. I told her parents and they were, suprisingly, okay with it. if anything they were celebrating... but when i told my parents, they went mental, calling her a whore, calling me a horny do...
A. 19 November 2010: Well have you tried emailing her? she has to be scared/nervous. Your parents ar being horrible if they are preventing you from taking on responsibilty. dont you go to school? If nothing else you should emial/myspace whatever her. If you can call her ... (read in full...)
Is my behaviour towards my maid right?
Q. I am 24 and I love humping pillows. I have been doing it from the age of 6. It really helps me get off the heat. I have never been in relationship and sometimes I get jealous seeing couples kissing and making love in public. There is a maid servan...
A. 19 November 2010: Yes, and she could sue you for indecent exposure.sexual harrasment etc... (read in full...)
Sincere guys--how do you tell if he is one?
Q. I don't know how to interpret this guy. I've recently gone through some not so fun dating thing that only lasted a few months and was hurt by the situation. I was keen on not dating anyone for a while, just to make sure I didn't go into the next...
A. 19 November 2010: I think he is true in that he likes you. Alot. But from what u've mentioned it seems like you two havent known eachother long enough for him to like you that much. He probably is a super nice guy, I just think he may become super clingy and ... (read in full...)
Girls lose interest because I'm too sweet?
Q. well here goes... i have a huge problem. Whenever me and a girl start talking for a bit and we get rly into each other or after a couple months of dating they lose their feelings for me and distance themselves because i try too hard, and i dont mea...
A. 19 November 2010: Aw!! That really sucks :( Honestly what others have said is true. With my bf, its nice that he wants to do everything I want, do whatever I want etc, but at times I want him to take charge, make a decision. I dont always want him giving me what i ... (read in full...)
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