Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want ...
A. 13 December 2010: If you love someone you wouldnt do anything to hurt them. or risk losing them. Him cheating doesnt hurt you? its selfish. even if apart of him does love you he loves himself more. Why would he leave? Most other girls would leave him if he cheated ... (read in full...)
Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want ...
A. 12 December 2010: He will tell you whatever he has to to get what he wants. He gets the love and affection from you, and then he gets to sleep around because so far you havent done anything. If he loved you he wouldnt cheat. Period.... (read in full...)
Should I see him again, even though he's hung up on his ex?
Q. I met a guy last night, went back to his place, and then he said he didn't want to have sex because he had only recently broken up with his ex-girlfriend and wasn't ready. I said that was fine, and we had a really nice time together afterwards. ...
A. 12 December 2010: be his friend for now. The best way for him to get over her is to realize how great you are without being pressured. ... (read in full...)
My wife has a list of rules and guidelines for sex!
Q. My wife insists on having rules for sex, no oral unless we are freshly out of the shower. No cumming on her face or in her mouth. And no matter what, I have not convinced her even once to swallow. I love her dearly but, I think this kills the s...
A. 12 December 2010: Honestly those all seem like things she is grossed out by. And i doubt youll b able to change her mind. Maybe try telling her that you respect her rules, but you want to spice it up. You miss the thought of coming home and having her etc etc. Ask ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex everything?
Q. Here's my angry little story. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over three months now, and I was deeply in love with her. We were in a long distance relationship and saw each other about once or twice every two months. And we were dating ...
A. 12 December 2010: do what feels right. if itll help u go for it... (read in full...)
Should I tell my ex everything?
Q. Here's my angry little story. My ex and I have been broken up for a little over three months now, and I was deeply in love with her. We were in a long distance relationship and saw each other about once or twice every two months. And we were dating ...
A. 12 December 2010: It wont do anything but make you feel better. some people will tell you to just move on but if that hasnt worked Id just send her a message and let that be the end of it. Good luck Ps. You do matter... (read in full...)
Suspicious about his ex-girlfriend. Please help and give me feedback!
Q. my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. we recently just moved in together. but i have a problem with the relationship he has with his ex girlfriend. the only reason i know he still contacts her is because i have looked thre...
A. 12 December 2010: He is cheating on you. This isnt your fault. You dont have issues you need to get over. Leave him. You will only get hurt. If you dont believe that he is cheating then get his phone and txt his x pretending to b him. But it sounds like you know he ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her
Q. Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the ...
A. 12 December 2010: Hey your friendship with her wasnt your fault. You cant blame yourself. Im sorry to hear about you mother. I am still confused about who you are. You were sweet in the message and the kind of a jerk. But then your last message mostly explains ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my parents about this much older guy?
Q. i'm currently in a relationship with a man who is 15 years older than me.. i'm 20, he's 35.. we have been dating for a few months, and we're falling in love...however, i don't know how to tell my parents.. i adore this man and i want to be with him. ...
A. 11 December 2010: Invite them ouut to dinner with u nd ur bf. That way they get to c how he treats u rather then u telling them... (read in full...)
I know I like him, but does he like me back
Q. MODERATOR'S NOTE: Two questions combined. hi guys and gals! i have a major problem. i am a girl and i am not like most girls are. You know likes: jewelry, make up, dresses, etc. I am more of a tomboy and most of my friends were boys and to...
A. 11 December 2010: OK is the guy in question two the same as in question 1? most likely with that big age difference he is going to have other interest. Sorry sweetie. Id just let it go. And for question 2. Dont you dare change your self. You didnt deserve to be told ... (read in full...)
How can I win back my ex girlfriend
Q. How do you get the attention of your x girlfriend when you want to win her back...
A. 11 December 2010: You walk up to her and tell her that. Other messages can be confused or annoying... (read in full...)
We are just friends..so why do I feel guilty?
Q. My bf and I just broke up. We broke up because he said i wasnt his because i had had sex with guys before him. No matter how I tried to explain it he wouldnt understand. He said the only way to make me his was to have sex with me every day, and he ...
A. 11 December 2010: Well, Im going to try really hard to follow all of your advice. I cant explain why its so hard for me. When i was raped i kinda lost something, and things seemed to b so much better since he was with me. But I havent talked to him today, which is a ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't have herpes, but I want to see some proof!
Q. he admitted that he slept with a woman who had herpes in the past. that was before he met me. we have not had sex yet. he doesn't want to get tested i am not going to have sex with him. it's a pity because otherwise he is a good man. he says he ...
A. 11 December 2010: Make him get tested! YOu dont want to get anything and while you want to trust him he could just be lying. ... (read in full...)
Should I shoot him an email telling him I'll wait for him?
Q. Hi - I do not know what to do. This guy and I were friends for four years and we date during five months. We never broke up just stop seeing each other last september. Now he came back to my life after his disappearing act. I realize somethin...
A. 10 December 2010: Move on. He doesnt need to grant you permission. You dont even have to tell him. Do what you what you want, if he comes around then great. If not then oh well.... (read in full...)
Lack of Intimacy in an Early 20s Relationship
Q. I'm 22 years old and I've been in a relationship for almost 2 and a half years, and my girlfriend has hardly ever wanted to have sex for over a year and a half; it is getting progressively worse (she is 20 years old). I am just about to graduate, ...
A. 10 December 2010: It doesnt mean that she doesnt find you attractive. Try something new. Try being romantic. She could just be focused on other things.... (read in full...)
Help with mad Girlfiend parents
Q. So the major problem started about a week ago when my girlfriends car broke down, I offered to tow it to her house but she said it was ok. Her grandma and sister then later went and moved it to the gas station just down the street. They called my ...
A. 10 December 2010: You shouldnt let it blow over because it may never. They could always hold it against you.... (read in full...)
I'm always talking about trust and now I've gone and kissed another girl. What do I do?
Q. I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years with my girl. Things have been really rocky over the last few months and we've talked about knocking it on the head at least once but then worked it out somehow. I'm totaly confused, do I love her and ...
A. 10 December 2010: Well if you want to be with her, and you dont want to lose her then dont tell her because you most likely will leave you. But only if you are sure of those two things and that ull never do it again. ... (read in full...)
Is he avoiding me, or am I over-reacting to the whole thing?
Q. I'm a bit confused. Two weeks ago, my boyfriend stopped being all cuddly towards me. Like.. he would constantly talk to me and me really sweet, but he stopped two weeks ago, almost cold turkey. I mean, we'd still talk about other stuff, ranging ...
A. 10 December 2010: It seems like it would be more then just that comment. Something is bothering him. Maybe leave him a message letting him know you are there when he wants to talk ut his silence has bothered and hurt you. Then give him space. Dont just let it go. ... (read in full...)
Why is he making it out to be all my fault when he has a hand in it too?
Q. theres a guy that has been in a relationship with a girl for 8years that i fell for and i fell hard but ive known him for a long time well i cheated on my boyfriend with him and hes making it all my fault why is he making it to be all my fault?...
A. 9 December 2010: Because he doesnt want to take blame. You cheated on YOUR boyfriend. He just helped. You are mainly responsible. WHile he is too, he wont accept that. It goes to show his tru feelings for you ... (read in full...)
Is he avoiding me, or am I over-reacting to the whole thing?
Q. I'm a bit confused. Two weeks ago, my boyfriend stopped being all cuddly towards me. Like.. he would constantly talk to me and me really sweet, but he stopped two weeks ago, almost cold turkey. I mean, we'd still talk about other stuff, ranging ...
A. 9 December 2010: Uhm it sounds like he may be avoiding you. Try setting up a time where you guys can be together. Besides that something you want to talk about in person.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend talking to her ex all the time!
Q. Just a question for you all to answer. So i have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months now. Lately i have been catching her talking to her ex from 7 months ago allll the time. and going out for drinks and lunches quite often. One night th...
A. 9 December 2010: Well I doubt she is going to stop talking to him so the real and only question here is 1. DO you trust her? 2. Can you be with her if she keeps seeing her x? If you answer no to either then how can you be with her. It is weird that she is still so ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend trust me again?
Q. Just wandering what some ways to make my boyfriend trust me again. I have a friend he doesn't like and I didn't know until here recently and he is on of my friends that I talk to and hang out with during my 2nd period class. My boyfriend has it in ...
A. 9 December 2010: There is nothing you can do. Not being friends with that guy isnt fair to you. And he needs to trust you. Its not your problem. Just tell him you dont like him and he ha to trust that. ... (read in full...)
13 year old son sexting. What should his punishment be?
Q. Just caught my 13 year old sexting with a girl in his class. They sent each other pictures of each other and everything. Not sure what his punishment should be. His phone was taken indefinitely. Not sure what else I should do. What do u all think?...
A. 9 December 2010: Well do they know they can go to jail? Have you tried telling the girls parents? Being too harsh wont get much done. I know if you have verizon you can check the messages being sent online(when the phone gets given back) you can also block it so he ... (read in full...)
I chose the wrong guy, now my second choice is taken!
Q. Need some advice! I have a male friend who's been in love with me for years and years. At the start of this year I proposed that we get together to see if there was any spark, he was seeing someone else at the time so said no at first but then ended ...
A. 9 December 2010: Maybe just start hanging out with him more. Be a really goof friend and let him decide to dump her on his own... (read in full...)
Is it ok to date a married but separated man?
Q. I have a male friend who I've been friends with for years. Lately we have been spending a lot of time together. There is a problem he's married but seperated. Him and his wife are seeing other people and the only reason they have not divorce is ...
A. 9 December 2010: If his wife is doing it then sure. Go ahead. But make sure you are ok with it first. Its not cheating... (read in full...)
Ladies, what do you think of a 40 year old virgin? No, not the movie.
Q. OK, here is a simple and straight-forward question for the ladies. I am going to be honest, and I want the HONEST truth, as you see it. I am a male, 39, going to be 40 in 3 months. I am a virgin. Mostly I am a virgin because I believe sex sho...
A. 9 December 2010: I think its sweet. If it scares someone away then they werent the one for you anyways. But you neeed to be less shy if you want to find that girl. Have you dated anyone lately? Make a move, get out there!
Good Luck :)... (read in full...)
Is it possible I'm pregnant even though the test came back negative?
Q. ok well about six months ago i was with this guy who i just met and he was 20 at the time and i was 16. we had sex using no protection or anything and now i think im prregnant. ive taken preg test but all but 1 said no and i cnt go to my parents. i ...
A. 9 December 2010: When I was on birth control I bleed the whole time some people react that way. and some birth controls cause you to gain weight... (read in full...)
Thinking of marriage but want to experience other men first!
Q. Im 16 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. I'm completely in love and my mom has given him her permission to marry me when we graduate. The thing is, is that ive been wanting to experience sex with someone ...
A. 8 December 2010: Cheating is cheating. It doesnt matter when you do it. And if you are sooooo in love with him then you wouldnt even think of sleeping with someone else. Or hurting him. What are you expecting? Some guy using you makes it better? Either break up with ... (read in full...)
Why is dating her so wrong!?
Q. My girlfriend is 15 and I am 19. We are not sexually active. Everyone is telling me it is wrong, but I don't know why. The only answers I have received so far are: -She is in a different part of life and we should have nothing in common. -I have t...
A. 8 December 2010: HI. So Im 17 now, but when I was 15 i dated a guy who was 18 and turned 19. I really liked him. We had tons of stuff in common and we always got along. He didnt push me into having sex. I decided when I was ready. After a while we ended up breaking ... (read in full...)
I have no feelings or sex drive for my 330 lb. husband!
Q. Iam so imbarrased to write about this! But iam so tired of this I really need some advise! I have a husband that weighs 330pounds. I weigh 140pounds. Our sex sucks really really bad because of his weight. I keep on asking him to loose weight in ...
A. 8 December 2010: If you have no feeling at all for him then divorce him. But there is a difference between not wanting to have sex with him, and not loving him anymore. ... (read in full...)
My husband likes for me to sleep with other men, I feel like I'm cheating!
Q. Hey, My husband likes me to sleep with other men. It turns him on and is his greatest fantasy. At first I thought it was really strange but I found I actually really enjoy it too. Only thing is that I generally meet these guys out in pubs and club...
A. 8 December 2010: IS he sleeping with other women? AS long as you are fine with it then dont worry what others think. If you arent happy then tell ur husband u have done his fantasy. You dont have to continue it. Also why does the whole u having sex with guys turn ... (read in full...)
Yasmin contraceptive pill instructions?
Q. Hey, really confused here! I'm on Yasmin contraceptive pill and earlier on I vomited about twenty minutes after I took it, so I took a another pill directly after and have kept it down. I'm just wondering if I'm on it for twenty days instead ...
A. 7 December 2010: Uhm..id tlk to your doctor if you body is rejecting it, it may not even be working ... (read in full...)
Is it possible I'm pregnant even though the test came back negative?
Q. ok well about six months ago i was with this guy who i just met and he was 20 at the time and i was 16. we had sex using no protection or anything and now i think im prregnant. ive taken preg test but all but 1 said no and i cnt go to my parents. i ...
A. 7 December 2010: Find a Planned Parenthood around you. You can get insurance through them so everything is free. You can go on their site and ask questions. They will test you for STD and your parents will never be notified. I doubt you are pregnant...but something ... (read in full...)
He claimed he was going to tell his girlfriend about me, yet I have not heard from him!
Q. ok so I met this guy about six months ago and we really liked each other so we started hangin out n getting to kno each other but after a couple weeks i started to notice that alot of times he wasnt answerin my calls or texts but i let it go i didnt ...
A. 7 December 2010: He only told you that to get into your pants. Now that he got it hes staying with his gf. The only time ull hear from him is when he wants to hook up again... (read in full...)
He told other girls I was good at giving blow jobs?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I can honestly say we love eachother. He has told me since the begining that I give awesome blowjobs. Today we were joking around and I asked if he ever told anyone how good I am. He said yes I told 2 ...
A. 7 December 2010: If he had told a guy would it had bothered you? Probably not because then it would be more bragging like let me tell you how good my girl is. DOnt freak out or lay down boundaries because thats extreme for this. It may be weird because you dont know ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her
Q. Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the ...
A. 7 December 2010: You seemed like such a nice guy! and now your only care is sex. I hope you arent saying that because you've been hurt. Dont treat girls like they are only somethign to screw. Why would you want anyone to feel they way you did with this girl?... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to let him know, I like him?
Q. Hello Aunts and Uncles, I have always read peoples problems on this website and have decided I need your help. My love, John of 1 year, 9 months left me last week to go for an expedition in California, hiking to Arizona and then hiking all the way ...
A. 7 December 2010: Tell him! It isnt too early if you like him go for it! You dont need to worry about the girl. You will get her back when he picks u. ... (read in full...)
Afraid to get my first kiss? Advice?
Q. This guy likes me an i like him. He is a player tho. if i date him well I'm afraid of gettin my first kiss! and one other question, How do i stop being shy around guys?... ...
A. 7 December 2010: Well, I honestly believe you should wait. Your first kiss is super important. You dont want it to be with a guy who will leave you the second someone easier comes around. Shy is something hard to get over. Try hanging out with them more often. At ... (read in full...)
Can't afford a divorce, which is only harming my kids and myself in this marriage!
Q. I am 44 years old, have been married for 20 years, and have two children. A boy 14, and a 5 year old daughter. My relationship with my wife has been "ok" up until about 7 years ago. We went to counseling (had to fight her tooth and nail to make her ...
A. 7 December 2010: You need to find a way to get a divorce. Im 17. I lived with my mom and dad constantly fighting. It was horrible. And they took it out on me which im sure you guys at some point. Maybe no divorce but seperate. Date others. Maybe that will ease the ... (read in full...)
We have anal sex one time, and now he always wants it!
Q. i am kinda having an issue that i don't know how to address. me and my boyfriend tried anal a couple weeks ago. i was afraid at first but i was surprised that i actually liked it. but the problem is now that seems to be all my an boyfriend wants! i ...
A. 7 December 2010: that just feels better for the guy. Thats prolly why. just b honest... (read in full...)
She likes him, but he likes me, and I like him. Did I mention we're all friends?
Q. My really good girl friend is in love with my best friend and he doesn't feel the same way.. because he likes me. i feel horrible because i like him back. my friend doesn't know. should i go out with him?...
A. 7 December 2010: You should talk to your friend first. you cant let somone elses feelings stop urs. BUT she prolly will take it wrong and stop being friends with you for a while. Heads up... (read in full...)
How do I revive my marriage
Q. I have been married since 1967 to my wife,we have 3 children all married and 7 grand children.I was a drinker and a flirt almost all our life,I quit drinking without any help 12 years ago,I only wish I had done it 39 years ago.My wife and I had good ...
A. 7 December 2010: YAY! good for you. I hope everything works out. Keep us updated!... (read in full...)
How do I revive my marriage
Q. I have been married since 1967 to my wife,we have 3 children all married and 7 grand children.I was a drinker and a flirt almost all our life,I quit drinking without any help 12 years ago,I only wish I had done it 39 years ago.My wife and I had good ...
A. 6 December 2010: Take her on a date. Its the same as when you first started dating. Have you told her she looks beautiful when she wakes up. You say she dresses sexy(which i bet is a turn on) have you told her that. Given womens sex drive decreases as they get ... (read in full...)
Unrequited love, and I need to end contact with her
Q. Alright well I am now pretty sure that I want to end all contact with the girl I am in love with. I have very strong feelings towards her I love listening to her being around her and thinking about her but unfortunately for me she doesn't feel the ...
A. 24 November 2010: I think it would show her how important you are to her. If staying on contact with her hurts you because you love her then it would be a good idea to stop contact, otherwise you are ending your friendship because she doesnt share your feelings. She ... (read in full...)
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