My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?
Q. Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...
A. 27 December 2010: well if its been two months since you've been with him and he is still interested..id consider.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?
Q. Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...
A. 26 December 2010: Is this the guy that called you a whore/... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered by my girl sleeping with my friend before I met her? I feel like its my fault.
Q. Alright so this is the situation: I was drinking with a bunch of guys at the bar, and a girl who mutually knew my friend came along. Her and I ended up chatting and having quite the conversation regardless how loaded I was but my friend ended up ...
A. 24 December 2010: That confuses me. If this happend 4 yrs ago and you havent gotten over it then there is a problem. But maybe I read it wrong.... (read in full...)
How do I revive my marriage
Q. I have been married since 1967 to my wife,we have 3 children all married and 7 grand children.I was a drinker and a flirt almost all our life,I quit drinking without any help 12 years ago,I only wish I had done it 39 years ago.My wife and I had good ...
A. 7 December 2010: YAY! good for you. I hope everything works out. Keep us updated!... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I'd be happy to visit without inviting myself?
Q. Not long ago I met an amazing man. He lives lives in another country. I met him the evening before he was flying back home. The chemistry between us was amazing. We talked for the whole night (until morning) in a bar/restaurant which is always open. ...
A. 6 December 2010: Uhm well just tell him you really want to see him to, and then ask if he has any ideas on how to do this. Maybe dont say youd b happy to go to hise country, but instead sawy..well I could come visit you if you arent too busy for me :P something that ... (read in full...)
I can't compete with his ex fiance!
Q. hey everyone :) Iv been with my boyfriend for 8months. Before i met him, he lived in america at uni for 5 years. he was with his ex for 4 years and they were engaged.he met me and split up with his ex for me, but i felt terrible about it!but h...
A. 6 December 2010: HE LOVES YOU! He chose you. Forget about her, he has. Just because he doesnt speak badly about her, doesnt mean he has feeling for her. You are his girl. Dont worry about losing him. Or you will. Accept that he wants you. Only you. Dont compare. You ... (read in full...)
I cant get my head around why we couldnt make it work!
Q. My ex and I broke up, (he broke up with me) because he said he didnt love me and he was too busy. which is fair enough, I appreciated his honesty on the matter. We decided to stay friends. I saw him last week and we were speaking about things and he ...
A. 6 December 2010: He has a valid point. For you just knowing he loves you is enough to make you happy. He wants to be able to spend time with you. Maybe try to make more time for him.... (read in full...)
Tampons are hurting me, why is this?
Q. I just recently started using Tampons and there the good kind (tampax pearl)but they hurt, i know Tampons are suppose to be comfortable and your not even supposed to feel them in you but there hurting me when i walk and sit..Why could this be??...
A. 6 December 2010: Its not in far enough. so when you sit or walk its rubbing against things it shouldnt... (read in full...)
I feel like this relationship is a waste of time when all he does is play Warcraft!
Q. hey. ive been with my boyfriend a while now. and just recently he has been playin Warcraft a lot.. it doesnt bother me that he plays it.. but i only see him on weekends and just recently, he been just been playing this game for like 6 hours at a ...
A. 6 December 2010: Dont go around if he is going to play it. Leave if he plays it and ur there. its pointless to b bored. Maybe then he will learn... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to spend any time with me when his family is in town
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years now. We are both 21. We have our fights here and there but overall it's great. A week ago his sister came to visit, she lives in another country. He usually sees her every year or so. He ...
A. 6 December 2010: this is his only time to see them. Let him be. when they leave he will b with u. let him focus on them for now. he lets u go along so he isnt hiding nething... (read in full...)
He hit me! Did I deserve it?
Q. So I've been in a relationship with this guy for about a year and a half. I have a 7 month old child with him. I just moved into my own condo. He does not live with me due to his alcoholism. I was at his house visiting him and watching the football ...
A. 6 December 2010: You should refuse to see him. IT IS NOT UR FAULT!... (read in full...)
Why wasn't I enough for him?
Q. I am alone and he is with the girl he cheated on me with. Why did he do this? What did I do wrong? I made dinner for him every night or went and got it? Would try and do nice things for him once a day, dressed up in sultry lingerie every night? Went ...
A. 6 December 2010: Some guys just want sex with different woman. Bet you he is cheating on the girl he is with now. You did everything right. And you were good enough. He was the problem. Any guy would b lucky to have you.... (read in full...)
My guy gets charley horses during sex?
Q. Why does my fiance get those charly horse leg cramps during Sex, it kills the whole mood and how could he stop getting those cramps..specially during Sex??...
A. 6 December 2010: Try getting on top. Maybe he is twicking it in he...activity... (read in full...)
Is it weird to be horny during your period?
Q. I guess women when there on their monthly period say Sex is off limits because being on their rag messes up their mood..but i am different 'i still want to have Sex when i am on my period, so is this Normal..and i hate guys that thinks it is gross ...
A. 6 December 2010: Nope lots of girls have sex on their periods. And a lot of girls feel that way. You are normal. Try convincing ur fiance. or get a toy... (read in full...)
He called me a prostitute! I'm his mistress!
Q. I'm having an affair with a married man. Well today his wife caught us in a hotel and called me a prostitute? Then she started fighting my man and in the midst he told her I didn't mean nothhing to him but a prostitute! Wtf?! I'm a mistress! Will ...
A. 6 December 2010: Because he used you. U been nothing to him. HE loves his wife. Somewhat. He could careless what he calls you. Do yoou really think mistress is better?... (read in full...)
Why is my Girlfriend Dry during and before sex
Q. Hi Just wondering if any of the readers here have had their partners having issues with lubrication?. Ive been with my partner years now, we have both been STD tested, are monogamous and trying for a baby, so dont use protection. This wee...
A. 6 December 2010: Honestly girls cant control that and it doesnt always come as easily as guys. It doesnt mean that she doesnt want you! Get lube. its make everything better. And its not just for old people... (read in full...)
Homeless brother wants to move in but I don't want him moving in on my wife!
Q. Wtf do I do? My younger brother lost his job, is broke and has been living with a friend who kicked him out. He called me tonight crying homeless and wanting me to take him in. The thing is he's a dog from way back whenit comes to sexing every chick ...
A. 6 December 2010: You could pay for him to stay in a hotel. But if your wife is home alone at any point..then..you know. PLus You not taking him in makes you a bad brother,,,but what does he screwing u wife make him. Maybe he doesnt deserve help. he isnt ur ... (read in full...)
Sex has become painful!
Q. Hey all, I need help! I'm stumped. I've been married 2 years to a great guy... lately we've been having some problems. Well, not really problems - life is just HARD! (I realize this is one of those revelations that few people receive :P ) An...
A. 6 December 2010: First of all it isnt your fault and he needs to understand that. He is acting like an A$$ for being so mean about it. Maybe try buying lube, or those sex gels that stimulate arousal haha. Try new things. ... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered by my girl sleeping with my friend before I met her? I feel like its my fault.
Q. Alright so this is the situation: I was drinking with a bunch of guys at the bar, and a girl who mutually knew my friend came along. Her and I ended up chatting and having quite the conversation regardless how loaded I was but my friend ended up ...
A. 6 December 2010: It shouldnt bother you. I know easier said then done! She did it before she knew she could feel that way towards you. Honestly maybe just try tlking to her about it. Dont be mean or judgemental. Tell her you really like her, but it bothers you. ... (read in full...)
Tips on making out?
Q. Hi, I'm a average teenage girl and this guy I like wants to makeout with me, but I have never madeout with anyone befoore! Do any of you have tips so I don't.. "suck" at making out ? Thanks :) ...
A. 6 December 2010: Practice on your pillow! haha But if the guy likes you tell him you havent done that before. Then cutely ask Wanna teach me ;) If you make it seem like you have experience you will suck because he will think hey shes done it before..and this is how ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my overseas boyfriend that I was raped and got herpes from it?
Q. I need advice. I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a year. He is deployed in Iraq and a month ago I was attacked and raped. I'm so depressed since this happened and I also got herpes from this. I am completely devastated. I haven't really ...
A. 6 December 2010: I was raped. And I told my bf. He was ok with it. Shocked but ok. You have had sex with him right? Telling him while he is in Iraq may be bad, because of where he is and that would add a lot of stress if you told him wrong. Can you call him? Maybe ... (read in full...)
How do I make her realize what she did was very foolish
Q. My girlfriend went visit a friend at college. She's 17 and went to a college party and drank alcohol. I wasn't mad about that, but she hasn't drank large amounts of alcohol all at once ever. She told me she had 9 shots, 3 mixed drinks, and 2 beers ...
A. 6 December 2010: You shouldnt be upset. While its cute you are worried its not fair to her. She is younger then you. She is prolly curious. You can tell her all the bad things that can happen to her but then you saound just like her parents. She drank. Just briefly ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend got another girl pregnant...what should I do?
Q. Ok...well I met my boyfriend 3 years ago and we started dating pretty soon after that. I've dated a few guys before him but he was the first guy I ever fell in love with. Things were awesome for about a year before I had to move several states away. ...
A. 6 December 2010: Ok first of all, sit him down and let him know that you are here for him through this whole things. That you love him. Tell him you want to be with him. That you guys can make it work. If he shares custody of his child and gets married to you, and ... (read in full...)
How long to please him?
Q. How long do i need to give my boyfriend a blow job to please him?...
A. 6 December 2010: As long as you arent hurting him he is in pleasure mode the whole time! Its up to you. You can switch between giving bj to handjobs. so that you can take a break if bj arent you things. Also if the guy doesnt cum, its not ur fault and it doesnt mean ... (read in full...)
How much do you love me? How do you answer that?
Q. ok, so i have this boyfriend that lives in a different state so we dont get to see eachother much..but i really love him and a couple of times hes asked me how much i love him..i just get lost for words! How can i explain it?...
A. 6 December 2010: Lots of way...More then you will ever know. So much i cant explain it. Enough to do anything for you.Tons tons tons! or u can cutely just ask well how much do you love me?... (read in full...)
My clock his ticking and he doesn't seem to care!
Q. My Boyfriend and I have been dating for a few years. Things were great in the beginning. Over time he has stopped being affectionate, however he does want to be with me all the time. I have tried to talk to him many times over the past couple of ...
A. 6 December 2010: Well either way ur preggo plans should be on hold until you figure out why he is this way. My boyfriend wants to have sex realy often. Im not so into it, at least that much. I can understand why he wont start it because if you dont want to have sex ... (read in full...)
Is this a FWB or something more?
Q. I know that these types of arrangements typically don't last that long and usually end when one of the two people start to have feelings for the other or one of the people gets a BF/GF. I don't even know what to call the situation that I am curren...
A. 6 December 2010: What you are doing is wrong. It doesnt really matter what its called. He doesnt have enough feeling toward you to leave his LIVE IN gf. He is using you. You may not see that. But you are there for sex when ever he wants. He has somebody else. He ... (read in full...)
My best friendship is dying!
Q. Ok this isn’t a bf gf question it’s for my best friend who might as well be my sister. We have been the best of friends for about 5 months I think...I don’t know time fly’s when I’m with her. Hers the problem I feel like our friendship is slowly ...
A. 6 December 2010: Aw! Im so sorry :( you sound totally nice so shes really missing out if she is willing to lose your friendship. She may be acting this way because something personal has happend. The next time you hang out confront her. Tell her you have something ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is non-verbaly presuring me to have sex
Q. Dear Cupid, I dont know what to do. i feel that I dont want to have sex with my boyfriend, and he told me, 'only when your ready" but i feel like hes expecting me to. I dont know what to do. Ryzar ...
A. 6 December 2010: Why do you feel that way? If he said hed wait maybe its just you feeling guilty for not giving him what you know he wants. Dont. Its you choice. Try talking to him. And make sure he is actually pressuring you... (read in full...)
Am I going to be considered a bad guy in her eyes?
Q. I really like this girl that lives in my neighborhood but last week i was smoking a cigarette and she saw me, we haven't ever spoke but i will approach her one day and talk to her. But now she probably thinks im a bad guy since we both are in high ...
A. 6 December 2010: U never know until you try. Besides even if she dislikes you smoking, she mite still like you! go for it!... (read in full...)
I lost my virginity to him, but he chats with girls online in inappropriate ways
Q. what am i supposed to do when the person i love and lost my virgnity to, chats to girls online, including asking some of them if they want to see him cum. like. seriously. do i break up with him? i know it sounds pathetic to ask if i should but i ...
A. 6 December 2010: Do what the other person said. If he gets anger with u then maybe he isnt the one. Also if he says there is no harm in it try playing the "oh really? well theni guess you wont mind if i do the same with my guy friends (online)" he may pretend like ... (read in full...)
Why can't I orgasm when we have sex?
Q. when me and my bf have sex i just cant seem to orgasm. he alwas gets off before i can even come close to it. is there something wrong with me?...
A. 6 December 2010: Well maybe he is cumming to fast. Also girls have a hard time getting off. Theres nothing wrong with you... (read in full...)
I hate his psycho ex girlfriend!! Help!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for some months now. I am 21 and he is 24. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship with 2 different women. I met my boyfriend way back almost 6 years ago true significant friends and we've been friends ever then but ...
A. 6 December 2010: Aw im soo sorry thats horrible! OK you need to talk to your bf! tell him how much it hurts it bothers you. Shes causing u to think hes cheating. SAVE ALL THE EMAILS!!! Make him understand. Dont let him right you. Off. tell him he has a choice. I ... (read in full...)
How do I revive my marriage
Q. I have been married since 1967 to my wife,we have 3 children all married and 7 grand children.I was a drinker and a flirt almost all our life,I quit drinking without any help 12 years ago,I only wish I had done it 39 years ago.My wife and I had good ...
A. 6 December 2010: Take her on a date. Its the same as when you first started dating. Have you told her she looks beautiful when she wakes up. You say she dresses sexy(which i bet is a turn on) have you told her that. Given womens sex drive decreases as they get ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend was nursing her 3 year-old!
Q. I have been dating a new gal for the last several months. She is wonderful in every way. She has a cute 3 1/2 year old son. I was at her house a week ago and she took her son upstairs to put him to bed. It took a long time, so I thought she may have ...
A. 6 December 2010: Why is it too old? Thats her choice and you being juedgemental by being freaked at something she does. Did you stop to consider that he eats/drinks regular baby food but before nap time she does that to relax him? A lot of mothers do that. And a lot ... (read in full...)
Men, what are your favourite sex positions and why?
Q. Men, what are your favorite sex positions and why?...
A. 6 December 2010: My bf likes it doggy bcuz it feels different nd rily good i guess?... (read in full...)
You persuaded me to chose you, now you miss your ex!?
Q. Here's my dilemma. I just got out of a 4yr long relationship. Right after the breakup, I started talking to another guy who recently got out of a 6 year relationship. I really liked him but I kept talking to my ex boyfriend. The new guy, would ...
A. 6 December 2010: Simple if he doesnt want to rush things then no sex til there is a commitment. Being intimate isnt rushing it whenyou not even together(not bashing you, pointing out his flaw) Have you tried telling him all this?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?
Q. Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...
A. 6 December 2010: IF he is hanging out with other chick possibly wanted to do stuff then he is the whore. u deserve someone who respect u and he doesnt Dont give him another chance to hurt u again... (read in full...)
Why did my teacher act like that?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pu...
A. 6 December 2010: Well it could be that in class there are others around so there is no way that anything can happen. And he cant act that way in front of everyone. But alone with you its more personal. The whole fidgetty thing could be that he likes you, hes ... (read in full...)
My wife wants a threesome with my co worker
Q. I am a bisexual man who has been married to a wonderful woman for 14 years. I am also having a sexual relationship with a man I work with. My wife knows about this relationship, but now she wants to join us for a threesome. I think this is wrong, ...
A. 6 December 2010: So you are allowed to sleep around as you choose but she isnt. Why would it be wrong? your doing whatever you want sexually so why cant she. If she wants to have a 3some its probably to be included in ur life. its hard for a woman to share her ... (read in full...)
Should I give up? Or give it time?
Q. So there is this boy and he has a girlfriend, and we hooked up one night. And he is always smiling at me, and he told me he likes me, but he's still with her. And, she found out about us, and him cheating.. and she took him back again. And we hooked ...
A. 4 December 2010: Well it sounds like he is just using u. So give up. If he rily liked you hed be with u. but hes not... (read in full...)
Why did my teacher act like that?
Q. Hi Everyone, This is my second time posting on dear cupid. I have found yet another question and I need a answer for it. It concern my teacher and I. Please, just give me an answer. So, I am in my final year of college and I am pu...
A. 4 December 2010: He is attracted to you. wants to be more then teacher/student. and wants u to make the first move so he doesnt feel bad. doesnt mean u have to tho.... (read in full...)
Wife says all our problems are because I don't show dominance
Q. Hi, I'm new to this my wife is always on this site.I'll give a brief background met at the end of senior year been together since. We've been married for two and now got my back against the wall I don't know what to do stay or leave.My wife got ...
A. 4 December 2010: One question, i understand she had a kid young but that was her choice as well as yours. So why in the world is she out drinking and partying? who is watching the kids then??? This is completely her problem. You havent done anything wrong. And i ... (read in full...)
What if someday I turn into my abusive father?
Q. I feel like I'm typing to a damn therapist or something but here goes... When I was younger I had an abusive dad. He would whip me continuously with his belt whenever I misbehaved. Looking back though, I never really did anything that bad. He use...
A. 4 December 2010: Aw im soooo sorry. I understand where you are coming from, my dad was an alcoholic and became abusive. But honestly (and u may not want to hear this) ur dad made his choice by beating you. You beating ur sister is ur choice. U cant use ur dad as an ... (read in full...)
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