Could I have an STI?
Q. Well, i've recently had unprotected sex and my penis has been really itchy, at the tip of it, and there has been a yellow colored discharge coming out, not much but just a little bit, would this be an STI? if it is what can i do, i dont want my ...
A. 24 December 2010: Uhm well you should get it checked out by a doctor because it could get serious. You can try just cleaning it really well and drinking lots of water. That wont really help but itwill flush your system. You can prolly wait a couple more days and see ... (read in full...)
On a break from my cheating boyfriend -- how best to reach out to him?
Q. so I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and I recently found out he cheated on me with a friend of his that I recently met...she has a boyfriend and everything and her and my boyfriend were having a little fling on the low but I caught them ...
A. 24 December 2010: Dont ignore him. Tell him he hurt you badly and honestly right now if he wants to work things out with you then he needs to build trust at a friendship level before anything else. If you cut off all communication he may move on. ... (read in full...)
I feel really bad, I got my boyfriend aroused but went no further. Did I do something wrong?
Q. I'm 13 and don't really know what love is and know that I wont find my true love for a long time. so I don't really want to be involved sexually but at the same time I do. And I'm allowed to. My mom will get birth control pills and everything. ...
A. 24 December 2010: You didnt really do anything wrong...but dont go getting him turned on purposely by teasing if you arent going to do anything. Its not really fair to him you know?... (read in full...)
My husband is controlling! What is the right thing to do?
Q. Dear Cupid, Me and my husband recently had a child and it has gotten to the point where he does not let me take the baby out, his mother is constantly telling the baby that she is her mother which is very annoying, just a few days ago while he...
A. 24 December 2010: You dont owe his family any answer!!! And what is going on with his mom telling your baby that! Honestly talk to your husband and explain to him that you will not put up with him controling your life. You will visit your family whenever you chose to ... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered by my girl sleeping with my friend before I met her? I feel like its my fault.
Q. Alright so this is the situation: I was drinking with a bunch of guys at the bar, and a girl who mutually knew my friend came along. Her and I ended up chatting and having quite the conversation regardless how loaded I was but my friend ended up ...
A. 24 December 2010: That confuses me. If this happend 4 yrs ago and you havent gotten over it then there is a problem. But maybe I read it wrong.... (read in full...)
Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?
Q. Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not ...
A. 21 December 2010: Just tell her how you feel, the way you feel it. If she has waited for the guy for a long time then realize she most likely is going to stay with him. But at least then your feelings are out there. With that comes hurt. The only other way to get ... (read in full...)
I have a problem concerning friends.
Q. I have a problem concerning friends. I always have tried to keep a close group of them and to have honesty and trust. Well, today a coworker told me that one of my friends told her some things that she didn't want me to know. The coworker told me ...
A. 19 December 2010: Confront her. Ask her her to explain herself. She can deny it all she wants but how else would the coworker no uve havent been kissed?... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want to do anal anymore? Is it me?
Q. Boyfriend and I have been dating two years, a while ago he asked me to try anal with him so i did. He liked the thought of it and it was something he always wanted to try. After we tried it he lost all desire to do it... which stinks cause i ...
A. 19 December 2010: Ya he could just have wanted to try it and now its over. Ask... (read in full...)
Has he just grown 'used' to me now, after just eight months?
Q. When I first became sexually active with my current boyfriend, it was really easy to make him cum though sex, oral or by hand. But 8 months later and its a lot harder too. Obviously he still does, but it takes a lot longer. At first I thought it was ...
A. 19 December 2010: Its just that his body is more used to it now. If all guys came as quickly as there first couple of times, girls would never have any pleasure... (read in full...)
I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?!
Q. I don't know what I should do... I cannot stand doing anything intimate with my husband of 3 weeks?! I met my husband while in Iraq (he was inshape and so nice). We just had a baby and then he wanted to go active army. Since we had a child he ...
A. 19 December 2010: Let your family knows whats going on. Get a restraining order and then get a divorce. Then there is NO WAY any judge would be stupid enough to give him full custody. You have to get a restraining order for you and your son's protection, and go to ... (read in full...)
Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?
Q. Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not ...
A. 19 December 2010: You arent too weird!! Dont put yourself down, just because someone doesn't understand you. One day someone will.... (read in full...)
Falling for my best friend's girlfriend!!!
Q. I have a dilemma!!! I have a best friend who has a girlfriend. we three are best friends. i dont know when i fell for my friend's girl. i have even told this to her as she is very close to me and she reacted in a positive way. she often calls me ...
A. 18 December 2010: try distancing urself from her. she is ur bestfriend gf. anything you do will hurt ur friendship. try backing off... (read in full...)
Virgins getting erections????
Q. ok so my friend's worried because her boyfriend says he's not a virgin but she thinks he's lying because he always has a erection like when they hug kiss or anything he always gets a erection and she thinks that if he's not a virgin he would be able ...
A. 18 December 2010: Any guy can get an erection if he is physically attracted to the girl.... (read in full...)
Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her?
Q. Why can't the girl I love appreciate all the things I have done for her? 1. When she was upset, I tried my best to cheer her up by trying my best to fake a smile even though I am a very pessimistic person and suffer from depression (not ...
A. 18 December 2010: Tell her. Then you will know fer sure if she likes you or not. If she doesnt then you made no mistake. You sound like an amazing guy and I wish I had someone like you at my high school.You are different and people are going to treat you as so. But ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 17 December 2010: You have a great personality :) youll find someone. And in all honesty you deserve better then what she was offering you at the end. Stay happy :) good luck. ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 16 December 2010: I personally think You should let her know she hurt you. Confront her about the guy, and explain that it was a slap in the face that she pretended like it would all be ok. Id do it in an email. For me, Id need the closure of knowing I got the last ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 15 December 2010: Because if she stopped replying because you said you were in town it could b because shes afraid youll want to hang out and maybe find out about her other guy. If you txtd her when you got home(safe from where you cant meet up) and she replied then ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 15 December 2010: You think shelll let you catch her with her new guy. Mkay if she were a guy most people wouldnt have a hard time believing she wants you (long distance loving bf) and the guy next door(the easy hook up, immediate attention, there guy). But since she ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sister tried to kiss me!
Q. Last week I was shocked to find my girlfriends' sister trying it on with me! I'm 22 and live with my girlfriend, who is 23 and her sister is only 16. My girlfriends whole family came to stay at our house as we live quite far apart and one day I ...
A. 13 December 2010: SAVE THE TEXT MESSAGES AND FACEBOOK MESSAGES! Then tell her. But wait until you have enough. Like maybe text her sister asking why she tried to kiss you etc. Because your gf may not believe you, but she cant deny text.... (read in full...)
He took my number but did not text me, what does this mean?
Q. when a guy takes a girls number and doesn't text first what does this mean?? a guy took my number at the weekend and we were kind of texting the next morning however i was the first to text him.. how long would i wait before texting him agai...
A. 13 December 2010: Lol sometimes guys are just lazy and slow to catch on. Txt him. That doesnt mean you like him. Blame it on being bored. How will he know the difference? Its only a big deal if you turn it into one... (read in full...)
We broke up, he hasn't text or called, and his friends are saying he is talking to someone else.....what should I do?
Q. HI THERE. well i just recently broke up with my ex on wednesday. he texted me thursday morninq and we didnt talk friday at all .ever since we broke up he hasnt really texted or called me :/ .his friends said he is talking to someone already.but ...
A. 13 December 2010: You dont know that he has moved on. His friends could just being saying that. Text him if you think there is a chance you could be with him. If not the dont bother. If he really loved you, he still will. Just be friendly. Tell him you are kinda hurt ... (read in full...)
As the girlfriend, how would you feel in this situation?
Q. I simply want your opinion on the following scenario. Your bf [who has in the past broken your trust issues and met up with an ex behind your back]allows a different ex gf to come to his state, stay over night and generally hang out because she's ...
A. 13 December 2010: I would kinda be like WTF. Thats extremely strange that he would do that and I would want to know what was going on. Your bf must be the nicest guy in the world to take a girl into his home that he supposedly hasnt talked to in years because she is ... (read in full...)
Is my penis big enough to satisfy a lady?
Q. i have small penis of 4inches,should this is enough to satisfy a lady,if not than how can i satisfy a lady ?...
A. 13 December 2010: Fingering or oral would most likely make a woman happy. But I'm sure you would be able to do that with what you have. You just have to find what you are good at and improve upon it :) ... (read in full...)
Is it ok for a girl to just want no strings sex?
Q. is it ok for a girl to just want no strings sex?? i'm 23 and to be honest ive had enough of relationships, i get bored after a while and find myself doing anything to get out of it, as they don't make me happy. I've toyed with the idea of having a ...
A. 13 December 2010: That may work for your friend but you are her. Do what makes you feel best, what will make you happy. If your friends enjoy being in relationships and you dont then you being in one is stupid. For every guy that brags about haveing FWB there is a ... (read in full...)
I wasn't her first. How do I cope? How do I move on?
Q. How can I let go of the things she did before me? We've been together for almost 8 months now, and we're very happy. Of course, there have been some bumpy spots here and there, but we've overcome all of them. There's just one thing that I ...
A. 13 December 2010: Look, my x had the same problem. And thats why he is my ex. You have to accept her past. Honestly i can tell you if she loves you then she never thinks of her past. You probably do more then her. From personal experience this hurts a lot. You are ... (read in full...)
Should I just leave her be or actually ask her what's going on?
Q. My ex and I have been broken up for a couple of months now and we decided to stay friends. We both agreed to this because there was a loss of attraction on both sides. However, even though we agreed to stay friends we both gave each other space that ...
A. 13 December 2010: Ask her. It cant do any harm. Either she will tell you or ignore you. If she ignores you then, you have an answer in a sense. But youll always be curious. Mite as well try to find out.... (read in full...)
How do I break up with him?
Q. My parents knew that i was going out with this guy and they requested me to break up with him..The problem is,i don't know how to break up with him without upsetting him..If i don't break up with him,it will be forever in my conscience,and ...
A. 13 December 2010: Honey have you tried talking to your parents and explaing all this. What if they met him? If not then just tell him that your parents dont want you guys being together, but you still like him. You dont want the guilt of lying, but you want to be ... (read in full...)
I really don't want to divorce my husband but I want piece of mind
Q. Okay so I have been married for 18 years and the last 3 years my husband has carried on this friendship with a married woman. So he says its just a friendship, I have seen lately texts that she sends to him saying i love you and he replies back with ...
A. 13 December 2010: Tell him you are going to divorce him if this continues! You get him a new number and delete hers from his phone but copy the number just in case. Depending on ur provider you can read all texts. Monitor him. It sounds like he is cheating. dont put ... (read in full...)
I found it I was pregnant and he started calling me names
Q. I am very confused and in need of advice . I hv been a commuted relationship for three years. I just found out I was pregnant , not sure how my birth control failed , I use depo shot. Anyways I told my boyfriend I was pregnant and he freaked o...
A. 13 December 2010: Well give him space then invite him over, explain that you are keeping it and that you dont need him to raise it, but his support would be great. If he is going to dump you and his child for this he doesnt deserve to be a dad and do you rily want ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and want to keep it but my fiance wants abortion
Q. I'm 20 years old , I have a 13 month old son ... My fiance has two children , we just found out three days ago I am pregnant.. At first I didnt know what I wanted to do , but now I realized I want to keep the baby.. We have talked about it and have ...
A. 13 December 2010: explain all this to him. Someone else posted about her bf forcing her into having an abortion and she hates him now and regrets it. dont do anything you dont want to. dont regret it... (read in full...)
Sex with a big guy, will it hurt?
Q. ive had sex with my ex boyfriend almost everyday and he did not have a big package down there and i have been dating my current boyfriend and we did not have sex yet but his package down there is quite LARGE and i am afraid if i will feel the same ...
A. 13 December 2010: It may hurt if a minute but ull get overit and enjoy it... (read in full...)
Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want ...
A. 13 December 2010: If you love someone you wouldnt do anything to hurt them. or risk losing them. Him cheating doesnt hurt you? its selfish. even if apart of him does love you he loves himself more. Why would he leave? Most other girls would leave him if he cheated ... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 13 December 2010: But ok the last thing she did (leaving you for another guy) wasnt nice proving she isnt as nice/loyal as you say. And if thats the last thing she did why would she randomly go back to being that way. If you want to know how to solve your problem do ... (read in full...)
Anyone, can you help my married friend?
Q. Ok I have a friend and his wife is so skeptictal about every woman that speaks to him they have been together for 13 years she constantly calls she is 33 and he is 44 . She burned right through the deployment money, she traveled to her home town , ...
A. 12 December 2010: How would you like us to help him? His wife is a Biotch. IF he isnt happy with her why is he with her. I cant believe that she wont recognize his other kids. This is partly his fault to. He needs to learn how to say no. To do what he wants. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend ends up kissing her best friend whenever we're on a break!
Q. please i need your opinions , every single one possible , i just do not get what my girlfriend means when she tells me she always had feelings for her best male friend ?.. i know that they kissed and done stuff together but i dont know what to think...
A. 12 December 2010: Uhm if she loved you why would she kiss him in the first place. and why is breaking up what u do when you break up. IF she is breaking up with you then its because she wants to kiss him without cheating. its pretty screwed up. And you dont know that ... (read in full...)
How is this possible?
Q. my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?...
A. 12 December 2010: Her mom could have passed it to her but she would have noticed before now. She cheaated with someone who had it. Had a blood transfusion or got the blood of someone infected on.in her. You can only get it through blood or semen. not spit or sweat.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend aka his ex, has convinced him to dump me!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We've been through so much together, our relationship has been nothing but a crazy roller coaster ride! It all began 4 years ago, at the very beginning of our relationship. At the time I ...
A. 12 December 2010: Break up with him. He will never stop contacting her and he will keep lying to you. You will always b wondering if he is getting back with her what she is saying to him. ... (read in full...)
My neighbor asked me if I would engage in a FWBs with him?
Q. My neighbour recently approched me online about the idea of friends with benefits. We had been casually talking for a couple weeks. At first I was totally offended he thought that way about me but lately I've really been warming up to the idea. He's ...
A. 12 December 2010: Honey generally friends with benefits go further then second base...you can talk to him about it, but be prepared to get pressured into going further when things heat up.... (read in full...)
My ex keeps emailing me, I want her back but I'm pretending I don't!
Q. Summary: Breakup three weeks ago. She blamed it on a couple of mistakes I've made but I know she left me for a neighbour much younger than her. I've been working in another city for a couple of months, which is why she went looking for the new guy. ...
A. 12 December 2010: WEll you have to decide what you want. If she left you for another guy how do you know she wont do it again. Ending all contact esp since youve been moving on seems like the best idea... (read in full...)
My cousin flirts with my boyfriend when she has a girlfriend!
Q. Recently my cuzin sits there and flirts with my boyfriend even though i tell her to knock it off and she wont she has a girlfriend .. and i dont hve any class'es with her and him so i dont know what she does exactly ... Thursday this past week she ...
A. 12 December 2010: Start flirting with her gf? Maybe try telling your mom and hers. It seems lame but obviously telling her wont matter. Also have you bf ask her to stop. Tell him you know he says not to worry but it still bothers you.... (read in full...)
Why does he cheat, there's nothing binding him to me?
Q. I have been in a relationship with this guy for almost 4 yrs. I have caught him cheating on me a couple of times. But he insist that he want me and dont want to loose me. So why would a man cheat on you if he is really in love with you and dont want ...
A. 12 December 2010: He will tell you whatever he has to to get what he wants. He gets the love and affection from you, and then he gets to sleep around because so far you havent done anything. If he loved you he wouldnt cheat. Period.... (read in full...)
Should I be bothered by my girl sleeping with my friend before I met her? I feel like its my fault.
Q. Alright so this is the situation: I was drinking with a bunch of guys at the bar, and a girl who mutually knew my friend came along. Her and I ended up chatting and having quite the conversation regardless how loaded I was but my friend ended up ...
A. 6 December 2010: It shouldnt bother you. I know easier said then done! She did it before she knew she could feel that way towards you. Honestly maybe just try tlking to her about it. Dont be mean or judgemental. Tell her you really like her, but it bothers you. ... (read in full...)
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