Lesbian cousins on a blood vow... halp!
Q. So im a lesbian and i happen to be in love with my lesbian cousin. Our relationship is going fine, and neither of our parents are homophobic, but we're wondering how they will react to incest. where i live incest has certain rules: sisters or direct ...
A. 5 January 2015: Legal or not, there's another reason people don't date people who are consistent in their lives: the break up. It is VERY unlikely you will be with your cousin for the rest of your life and, if (or more likely when) you break up, it will be ... (read in full...)
I don't like the idea of masturbating and have never had an orgasm - help!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now but I still haven't orgasmed during sex (at least I don't think I have...) He is my first boyfriend and before being with him I was a virgin. After speaking to most of my girlfriends, they all go ...
A. 5 January 2015: I'm in the same boat; I find masturbation pointless (for me), so you can tell your boyfriend how you feel (which you should be able to do, since you have sex with him) or you can try it with him and, if you still don't like it, at least you tried.
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I'm a big man with a small penis. Will women laugh at me?
Q. I know this sounds a bit cliche but it has been troubling me for a long time and I need honest answers. I'm 21 , 6'3" tall, 190 pounds, athletic and I easily attract girls but I have problem that has been worrying me for a long time, I fit in the ...
A. 5 January 2015: I'll just jump to the last question. Would girls choose a guy with physical appeal or a big penis. You're genuinely forgetting the most important part: the personality. Looks and penises only get you so far. Often, a penis isn't remotely attractive ... (read in full...)
How does one get a guy to realise what he's lost? I want him feel the pain he has caused me.
Q. been friends with this guy for years but he's shown a lack of value and respect towards me, because everytime I send goodbye messages ... then a few days will pass and we will talk again. How do I get him to start taking me seriously? How to be ...
A. 5 January 2015: This can be narrowed down to three things and I don't think you're going to like them:
- he hasn't lost you because you still care and want him to be with you
- if there's genuine "shady behaviour" (what did you mean?), it's bad news
- yo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wont cope if they take his licence!
Q. I'm 16 and my boyfriend is also 16. He recently got a speeding ticket for going 89 in an 50. (I know, that's crazy, but he's a teenage boy, aren't they all? Lol) he has a court date set (which I believe is febuary 11) and Is scared they are going ...
A. 4 January 2015: Take it from me, you need to leave him. Having you around helps him avoid his problems - if you leave, he'll find another girl who will distract him from dealing with his issues. He needs professional help and needs to get himself the help. You ... (read in full...)
Is my former FWB guy genuine about wanting to be friends?
Q. I'd like some advice because I'm so confused. I used to be sort of fwb (hate that saying) with someone, which I regret now. He's now married but we still talk. He told me he wants to be friends but he's changed constantly flirting and whe...
A. 2 January 2015: This is your answer: "He told me he wants to be friends but he's changed constantly flirting and when I have seen him he's tried to kiss me."
I don't think its worth bothering with him.... (read in full...)
15 year old dating and sneaking around to see 19 year old.
Q. okay so i recently started dating this guy and he is 19 and im 15.(we have been friends for a couple of months too) which is only 4 years but i really do like him and im currently still a virgin. but everyone is telling me to sneak around and stuff ...
A. 2 January 2015: You know what he wants you to see. I don't doubt that he might be a nice guy and you might be quite mature compared to others your age - and it's right (and good) to want to tell your parents; that's responsible of you, but most 19 year olds who can ... (read in full...)
Why is he INNITIATING texts if he HATES talking to me?!
Q. A guy I like and will start dating soon (after the holidays) always randomly texts, then IMMEDIATELY ends our conversations abrutly, with a "good night". We hardly talk now, if at all it is probably about once a week or twice at the most. As opp...
A. 1 January 2015: You need to have real conversations, either in person or on a phone call, no more texting.... (read in full...)
My daughter wont let him in the house, and my parents say to leave him
Q. I'm 43 been in a relationship over a year and a half I love him but he cheated on me with his ex, we got back together and I fell pregnant all my family are telling me to have an abortion and get rid of him I love him it's over between him and his ...
A. 1 January 2015: Whilst I won't tell you what to do in regards to the pregnancy, I will tell you that you're a grown woman and need to act like one. No more allowing others to blackmail you or listening to your parents family.
You need to make this decision... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to wait until I'm ready for marriage and children?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. I'm looking for some impartial advice and my girlfriend uses this site a lot so thought I'd give it a try. We have been together for 5 years, I am 27 and she is 29, and recently she has been putting a lot of pressure on me t...
A. 31 December 2014: I, personally, think the order should be moving in together (not buying a place together yet), maybe after a year or so of reality hitting, getting married (even if it's just for legal security because you love each other immensely but marriage was ... (read in full...)
Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him
Q. I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...
A. 31 December 2014: Swinging is something you really have to be into; if you're not, it'll cause a whole load of issues, maybe even feeling violated, since you don't really want to do it and are forcing yourself for his sake.
Not all men cheat and not all men want... (read in full...)
I want my ex take an HIV and STD before rekindling our relationship. What if he refuses to do so?
Q. Dear Cupid,I haven't been with my ex for over ten years we are talking long distance now and have hopes of rekindling our relationship, but I am in fear of having sex with him . I want him to take an HIV and STD test before I give myself to him agai...
A. 31 December 2014: You should both get tested (even if you know you're clear) and show each other the results, not just tell each other.
As for asking him to take one, don't threaten or come across as implying something, just say you want to be responsible about it... (read in full...)
I snooped on my boyfriend's Facebook account because I no longer trust him - is it time to break up?
Q. Basically, I've caught him lying to me a couple of times in the last few weeks and I was shocked. I never believed he had it in him and it's taken a lot of begging on his part for me to agree to give him another chance. I've always had an idea what ...
A. 31 December 2014: Lying about drugs is really bad because it's something that can seriously affect a relationship and lying about it makes it worse. Whether he's learned his lesson about lying or not, you clearly don't trust him any more and I don't think you will ... (read in full...)
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