How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?
Q. For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ...
A. 20 February 2015: I'm glad you seem to have come round to your "correct place" in his life because you were doing more than friends should - kind of butting in to his relationship. The fact here is that, even though he's vilnerable right now, he is still competent ... (read in full...)
How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?
Q. For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ...
A. 19 February 2015: This *is* his decision - you all just don't like it, but are accepting it. He's not mentally incompetent - he *knows* what she's doing and, right now, that's what he wants. If he really wants to live on his own, mental illness or not, he'll do it - ... (read in full...)
How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?
Q. For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ...
A. 19 February 2015: You haven't accepted the situation because youre still bashing her. Like I said, he *is* consciously keeping her there. He may have a mental illness, but it's still his choice to have her there, she isn't forcing him to. Sure, she seems ... (read in full...)
How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?
Q. For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ...
A. 18 February 2015: What I'm saying is that you *can't* buy him more time. I have mental illnesses of my own to battle, but that's just it; it's our *own* battle and who we let into our lives *is* still a conscious choice.
I had a friend like yours who was like a b... (read in full...)
How can I help our best friend who’s fallen ill and is being used by a gold-digger sociopath?
Q. For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ...
A. 18 February 2015: "For several months my husband’s and my best friend has had all sorts of problems and we stubbornly stood by him doing everything we can to help him. The only positive development is that he had left a horrible marriage behind, everything else ... (read in full...)
Crush on my professor..should I smile at him?
Q. Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me. He got to know that I like him from some source. When...
A. 18 February 2015: By the way, when I said "he's your teacher" I mean that he's a teacher where you study, so I think he can't still get in trouble and even lose his job for dating a student where he works. Please don't jeopardisers for him by making it more known ... (read in full...)
Crush on my professor..should I smile at him?
Q. Hi! I am a student. I have a huge crush on one of the professor who isn't from my department. He is just 5 years elder to me. The professor was also my dad's student once. He kind of knows me. He got to know that I like him from some source. When...
A. 18 February 2015: He's your teacher, so you need to treat him as such - not as a potential boyfriend.... (read in full...)
We've been on three dates now, so why isn't he making any moves or asking me out again?
Q. I have been on 3 dates with this guy I met online 3 weeks ago, we plan one date a week. The last time we went 3 days ago out we met up with another couple (my friends) for a meal then after we hung out alone for a few hours just walking around town ...
A. 18 February 2015: It may be common for touching/kissing on the third date, but your friends were there, so it may have put him off or he may not be ready for that yet - doesn't mean he's not interested.
Why can't you put the effort in? Or have you before with him... (read in full...)
My friend and I are keen to have some fun with my fiancee!
Q. Hi there, i am in a long term, committed relationship and i love my fiance with all of my being. I have told him openly and honestly, regarding the fact that i would love for us to have a threesome, after we're married, not because he do...
A. 18 February 2015: Honestly, if you truly love him and do want a future with him for definite, I wouldn't advise it. The reason I say that is because the risks here are much higher steaks than in a relationship that wouldn't matter too much if it ended, which ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 18 February 2015: I think that there are so many problems with this relationship that it doesn't seem worth pursuing.
However, since you're still young and she doesn't seem to want a relationship with a future, I don't see a reason to tell you to stop seeing h... (read in full...)
Online stalking obsession
Q. Hi there, I have a major issue thats been controlling my life, I have a very bad habit of internet stalking people, my boyfriends ex, friends of friends, my ex and his new gf, its like an addiction, it think its interesting watching peoples...
A. 17 February 2015: The good news is, acknowledging that it's a problem is a start, now you need to get some professional therapy to get to the root of your insecurities and resolve them, then you shouldn't feel the need to stalk people (but you'd still need to talk to ... (read in full...)
I walked in on my 15 year old cousin masturbating
Q. I walked in on my 15 year old cousin masturbating. My mom told me to go see if he was sleeping and if not tell him breakfast was ready. It was silent and I thought he was sleeping so I peeked in to look and forgot to knock (worst mistake ever) I ...
A. 17 February 2015: To be honest, most (not all) people do it and yes, it's awkward to walk in on it, but he's your cousin and the awkwardness should pass in time if you both acknowledge (to yourselves) it happened, accept how awkward it was and let it go :)... (read in full...)
Should I move in with boyfriend of 4 months? He's been acting standoffish
Q. I'm widowed but seeing someone. OK he has 2 children 10 and 12 I have 1-19 we have been seeing each other for 4 month. I need to move so I decided to move in with him. I'm unemployed. He owns his house. But lately he's getting stand off ish.but ...
A. 17 February 2015: It is a VERY bad idea. People who move in together so soon usually break up quite quickly because of the pressures of being 24/7 so early on. Also, you'd be dependent on him and, quite frankly, that's not wise.
I strongly advise moving in with fam... (read in full...)
I care for my husband but don't love him. I'm confused and made to feel guilty because I want out
Q. Hi all, I am a little confused at the moment and am not sure what my feelings mean! Please help. 9 years back I opted for a traditional marriage with a cousin from India (I'm from the UK). Before we were married he said he had business ...
A. 17 February 2015: You are *definitely* doing the right thing! He's been using you and it seems he has no financial sense.
If you are from the UK and he is from India:
- why did you want to do a "traditional" marriage?
- had you spent much time in person befo... (read in full...)
Wife and I fought over circumcision
Q. My wife and I recently found out she is pregnant. We don't know the sex of the baby yet and probably will let it surprise us anyway. We were talking about baby names when my wife asked me about circumcision. This wasn't a topic we had ever disc...
A. 17 February 2015: To be honest, you can't say "most women prefer circumsised guys" because you don't know that - same with her.
She had a poor choice of words that came out with frustration because you were making vast claims about what "most" women prefer and she ... (read in full...)
My husband wont stand up for me with his family, he doesn't wont the confrontation!
Q. Hello. I have been very happily married for 12 1/2 years. We have three beautiful children. Two have ADHD and one is Autistic, not high functioning. My husbands family pretends that they accept me. I say pretends because there is always something ...
A. 16 February 2015: My mum and I (after I was 12) stopped seeing my dad's mum because she was making snide comments about both of us and had been since my parents got together, and to me since I was about 10.
My mum put up with it for about 10 years, then stopped ... (read in full...)
How can I defuse arguments with my boyfriend before they erupt into chaos?
Q. I am happy with my boyfriend most of the time but when we do argue it becomes a huge event, rather than just a small quarrel. If I stay and try to talk it out with him I will say nasty things because I am upset and provide more fuel for the argument...
A. 16 February 2015: You can try to work on not fuelling the fire but, at the same time, he's being childish by deliberately trying to get a rise out of you when you try to walk away and calm down.
If he won't agree to working on it and actually show progress... (read in full...)
How can I get over my current beliefs and accept my partner's past?
Q. Hey guys, I am in a relationship with someone of "20...30... i lost count" sexual partners and past bursts of casual sex with a casual view on sex, in comparison to my 4 partners, including her and conservative values. I love this person and thin...
A. 16 February 2015: Her past isn't the problem; you need to feel secure in why she's having sex with you.
I understand that you wonder "if she can have casual sex with others, how much could our sex really mean to her?", but you need to forget her past (provide... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to tell my cousin's ex-crush that I like him?
Q. I have this huge crush on a guy in my class. I've liked him on and off for 5-6 months now. We met through my cousin and he's a really sweet guy. First thing's first, I'm nervous about telling him how I feel. I've dropped hints about it, pretty ...
A. 16 February 2015: Read this OP's post about her friend liking her ex-crush; it could be how your cousin would feel: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/shes-falling-for-my-ex-crush-how-can.html
I think that, if you have good reason to believe he does like you in t... (read in full...)
Why won't he kiss me?
Q. Hello, I met a new guy almost two weeks ago. We've gone for coffee and talked for several hours, walked the dogs, had dinners, lunches, watched movies and have spent a lot of time together. We are both mid 40's. We get along well and definite...
A. 16 February 2015: I agree with Janniepeg - "let's make out", touching your breast and phone sex suggest sex is all he really wants.
You can stick it out for longer, if you want - but, if you do, ask him directly *why* he won't kiss you, but will touch your breast a... (read in full...)
Young male, older female, advice for breaking news of relationship to her kids
Q. Hey! I'll get right to it... I'm in a relationship with a woman in her 50s and im in my 20s (male). I started it since i fell in love with who she is after knowing her for a few years and the love is mutual. I just need advice on how to tell...
A. 16 February 2015: Aren't you being a bit dramatic: "for survival reasons"? If he's a genuine threat, don't be in a relationship with her!
Also, you are young 20s and dated her daughter a few years ago? This is definitely messed up and, unless you don't want kid... (read in full...)
I want a break now. Life was simpler five years ago before knowing him
Q. My bf isn't romantic, didn't expect anything for V-day so I was happy to just spend some time with him. Then, I find out he had plans for tonight. I wasn't included. I always work on Saturday nights, he never asked me to take the day off etc so I'm ...
A. 16 February 2015: I agree with the other two lovely aunties; there was nothing wrong with how he spent Valentine's Day.
However, on reading your update, I think you should do what Honeypie suggests and either ask him about it and/or break up. There's no room for... (read in full...)
He bounced between me and his wife
Q. I keep getting sucked back into a "relationship" with a guy who one minute wants to be with me and the next wants to be with his ex wife. (Separated, not divorced.) I try to walk away or stop him getting to me but he just says the right thing and ...
A. 16 February 2015: Ultimately, you deserve better than you're giving yourself. Stay single, appreciate your independence and live a little (safely) without getting all of those hormones involved with guys who aren't good news :)... (read in full...)
Is there any point in me telling him how much I love and admire him?
Q. If you like/love someone, should you tell them how you feel even if you KNOW 100% that nothing will happen between you? Like is there any point? Only asking because I have feelings for someone and the only reason I want to tell them is because I ...
A. 16 February 2015: I second Tisha's question: *why* can't you be together? Are one or both of you in relationships?
I suggest writing all of your feelings down in a letter, but not posting it. What you do with the letter is up to you, but I'd advise reading it over,... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend doesn't trust me
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend a little over a year. We met online, and eventually met in person. As of right now we're LDR (long distance relationship.) again, just for a few more months. Ever since day 1, he has had trust issues. MAJOR. At fir...
A. 15 February 2015: I do agree with the other aunties, that's why I advised living apart, to see if you can both live (and support yourselves) independently and have an "in person" relationship for 9+ months before assuming you could live together straight after ... (read in full...)
I believe he is sorry, am I crazy to trust him?
Q. I'm 18 and have been friends with a guy from school for four years , he has an older brother who is 21, he has always been friendly but nothing major. When he was in high school he was a complete player dating lots of girls, after high school h...
A. 15 February 2015: Janniepeg, the guy sent a girl's racy pictures to his friend - I'd say that was very wrong.
I'd suggest taking it very slowly to see if his actions match his words. I don't think it would be wise to have any form of sex with him any time soon and... (read in full...)
He bounced between me and his wife
Q. I keep getting sucked back into a "relationship" with a guy who one minute wants to be with me and the next wants to be with his ex wife. (Separated, not divorced.) I try to walk away or stop him getting to me but he just says the right thing and ...
A. 15 February 2015: She's his wife (not ex-wife) until they get divorced - don't let him use that term to trick you.
You were drunk and he used you! That counts as rape, you know? It's taking advantage of someone who isn't in the right state of mind.
He hadn't end... (read in full...)
We keep talking about meeting up but nothing comes of it!
Q. I have been talking to this guy for a while and we always talk about metting up but nothing ever becomes of it. We go to different schools so I see him once a week in the bus and even at that he smiles and then sits with his friends. We talk all the ...
A. 15 February 2015: My Facebook was bombarded with "Happy Valentine's Day" messages and posts, so I think it was likely just to be friendly, or light-hearted.
If nothing is coming of it, it may just be a fantasy thing.... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend doesn't trust me
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend a little over a year. We met online, and eventually met in person. As of right now we're LDR (long distance relationship.) again, just for a few more months. Ever since day 1, he has had trust issues. MAJOR. At fir...
A. 15 February 2015: Well, as with anyone - adults included, I advise against moving in together until spending 9+ months together without there being a long distance between you - otherwise, should you break up, one of you is stuck.... (read in full...)
Is it OK to buy someone a birthday trip if we can't cover the full cost?
Q. Hi guys, I just want your opinion on a birthday gift. I'm hoping for a parents opinion if possible! I'm 21 and my sister is 19, our father will be 50 in march. My father has a good/well paid job and my mother also works. They have a large amount...
A. 15 February 2015: I was wondering if they've already given him the money or if you could all chip in, secretly, to pay for the trip (with you and your sister paying for most of it)?... (read in full...)
I'm feeling resentful towards my wife for her lies about her sexual past. Has this permanently changed our relationship?
Q. I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further....
A. 15 February 2015: The answers to this are here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-have-resentful-feelings-for-my-wife-lying.html :)... (read in full...)
Do I call her less to make her miss me? The intensity has left our relationship!
Q. Hey guys, this might be a long one.. So its like this girl that I'm in a relationship love each other.. We studied in the same university and eere were here till the last DeDecember now I'm still here in this university and she has moved to a differ...
A. 14 February 2015: When do you *see* each other and spend time *in person*?
How long is the relationship going to be long distance for before one of you moves local to (but not in with) the other one?... (read in full...)
Should I stay even though he says he won't love me anymore!
Q. I'm married with two kids. I have been married for about 11 years,going through some tought time with my husband. I'm so stress out, will my husband wants to end marriage because he says I don't listen to him and is always talking back, I feel tha...
A. 14 February 2015: Talk back? That's something you tell a child off for, not your partner - so I'm assuming you mean he thinks you're argumentative because you want to tell him when he's got something wrong about you?
I'd suggest couples therapy but, if he's unw... (read in full...)
I have resentful feelings for my wife lying about her past!
Q. I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further. A ...
A. 14 February 2015: She should be remorseful for the lying, but not her past because it is just that: her past - as in, before you.
If she's not apologetic about lying, that's a big problem because it shows that she thinks it's okay to lie.
As for your flirting, y... (read in full...)
I want to go out and I have family issues
Q. Recently I was scolded for not doing what my mother asked (she told me to, put the orange towel inside my room, so I ignored her and put it outside because I wanted it there.) Because of that I got told off and scolded. My older brother comes in...
A. 14 February 2015: I didn't say you lied about your age; I said the tone of it sounded like it was coming from a defiant 16 year old who wanted her own way all the time - most of us have been there at some point and for some of us, like you, it happens when you're a ... (read in full...)
I know I'm his bootycall. What should I do?
Q. Hey, I'm writing, because I would like to get some help. Any help would much appreciated. Well, there is this guy I've known since October, and everything was going quite well. I then developed feelings for him, and I thought that he liked me t...
A. 14 February 2015: Honey, 5 years older is not okay until you're 18. I'm 19 and I'd find it a little odd to date someone that much older because we are at different life stages.
If he tries anything with you, it's illegal. Believe me, I understand having a crush on... (read in full...)
Do women really regret their sexual past?
Q. This question goes out to the ladies and girls out there. Do you regret your sexual past especially when you've only dated losers then finally one day meet the man of your dreams and you wished he was your first or that you had met him in the past?...
A. 14 February 2015: There are times when women do regret their sexual pasts, but they wouldn't be who they are today (or meeting the person who's perfect for them) without going through their experiences.... (read in full...)
Is it OK to buy someone a birthday trip if we can't cover the full cost?
Q. Hi guys, I just want your opinion on a birthday gift. I'm hoping for a parents opinion if possible! I'm 21 and my sister is 19, our father will be 50 in march. My father has a good/well paid job and my mother also works. They have a large amount...
A. 14 February 2015: I understand where you're coming from because I tried to set up a trip for my parents 20th anniversary (to send them on a weekend to their first holiday together), that was 5 years away, but my brother and I wouldn't have been able to save enough to ... (read in full...)
I know I'm his bootycall. What should I do?
Q. Hey, I'm writing, because I would like to get some help. Any help would much appreciated. Well, there is this guy I've known since October, and everything was going quite well. I then developed feelings for him, and I thought that he liked me t...
A. 14 February 2015: "Booty Call" implies, well, calling over for "some booty" - I've never heard it used for anything but sex.
Like I said, he hasn't said he has feelings for you but, either way, I wouldn't advise sticking around waiting for someone who enjoys t... (read in full...)
My husband calls me fat and useless, I think he is cheating on me!
Q. My husband Is cheating and denies ces So rude towzrds me and everytime He tells me am So,fat,uselesscalls me idiot.he sends secret messages to a particulzr girl,once i asked himhe shouted and got annoyed of me and pretend he didnt know anything....
A. 14 February 2015: I forgot to add at the bottom of my other response that you don't deserve this and you should leave so that you don't get hurt by him any more.... (read in full...)
My husband calls me fat and useless, I think he is cheating on me!
Q. My husband Is cheating and denies ces So rude towzrds me and everytime He tells me am So,fat,uselesscalls me idiot.he sends secret messages to a particulzr girl,once i asked himhe shouted and got annoyed of me and pretend he didnt know anything....
A. 14 February 2015: What's the question? You know you need to leave him for cheating. You know you need to leave him for his abusive words (name calling). You know you need to leave him. Full stop. No excuses.... (read in full...)
What did I do wrong, she knows I love and want to marry her!
Q. Hi all, I'd like to share my problem and I need your help. I'm not going to tell the 8 years worth of story so I'll try to keep this very short. Okay so me and my ex got back together after 6 years. I broke it off due to unavoidable circumsta...
A. 14 February 2015: Like YouWish said, you've both changed in 6 years (hopefully) and need to treat the relationship as such, as in, start from the beginning.
You need to resolve any issues from the past relationship and agree to begin again (from scratch) with thi... (read in full...)
My LDR boyfriend doesn't trust me
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend a little over a year. We met online, and eventually met in person. As of right now we're LDR (long distance relationship.) again, just for a few more months. Ever since day 1, he has had trust issues. MAJOR. At fir...
A. 14 February 2015: Before I could respond to this, I need to know how 16 - 17 year olds are only going to be LDR for a few more months?... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 14 February 2015: If your mother-in-law is as evil and nasty as you're making out, you have to move out. It really is that simple because there are problems you'll have to deal with if you stay or go and, at least if you go, you won't have to worry about the witch ... (read in full...)
In love with a very famous professional athlete
Q. I had a chance encounter with a world famous professional athlete last summer on social media. I began tweeting him cute silly things figuring he'd never notice me because he gets virtually thousands of tweets everyday, especially from women. Thin...
A. 14 February 2015: Assuming his account was verified? If not, it wasn't him. If it was, it was probably his PR/management team. Repeat to yourself, every time he pops into your head, "he's unattainable, the chances of it actually being him are like 5% and I have a ... (read in full...)
I know I'm his bootycall. What should I do?
Q. Hey, I'm writing, because I would like to get some help. Any help would much appreciated. Well, there is this guy I've known since October, and everything was going quite well. I then developed feelings for him, and I thought that he liked me t...
A. 14 February 2015: When I read the title and saw your age, I could have cried. Luckily, the term "booty call" was virtual and not sexual. Having said that, you wrote booty call and that term carries a lot of weight, since it means having sex when he feels like it - ... (read in full...)
I want to go out and I have family issues
Q. Recently I was scolded for not doing what my mother asked (she told me to, put the orange towel inside my room, so I ignored her and put it outside because I wanted it there.) Because of that I got told off and scolded. My older brother comes in...
A. 14 February 2015: I do have a similar situation to you, but you said not to say this because, quite frankly, you're full of attitude and want everything your way. You have a problem, you asked for advice, you'll have to take what you get - or we can't help you.
... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 25 January 2015: You can't be reading these responses through;
- you won't answer the questions,
- think we are "insulting you about therapists" (not sure what you meant by that?)
- and ignored when I suggested Cognitive Behavioural Therapists b... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 23 January 2015: Why were you having a child that you didn't want?! Just to live with her?! That's ridiculous! Sure, she shouldn't have said that, but why were you risking getting pregnant if you weren't ready for a baby and didn't want one?
How long have you been... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 23 January 2015: Just because you're unemployed, doesn't excuse you expecting more than she's already giving you.
OP, you haven't answered the other questions and I'll add some new ones:
What does your husband say about this?
Is he employed?
Are you act... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 22 January 2015: She hasn't lied about helping you; you're living under her roof, presumably with husband and baby - THREE more people. You are being very ungrateful; so many people who lose their jobs have nowhere to go at all. Her money, his house, their ru... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 21 January 2015: They spoil their daughter because she is THEIR DAUGHTER. Your father in law moves stuff because it's HIS HOUSE.
You have to find a way to move out; you may not realise it, but you're being very ungrateful and are acting like they owe you.
... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 20 January 2015: Whether you like it or not, you MiL is doing you a favour by letting you live with her, so you shouldn't criticise her spending HER money on clothes and only allowing HER DAUGHTER to criticise her.... This is all pretty common sense.
Thera... (read in full...)
My in-laws are difficult to live with
Q. I've been living with my in laws because of financial reasons. My mother in law put heaps of pressure on us despite being in a bad financial position. I had lost my job and got no redundancy. But she said don't worry about it. Then didn't help. Yet ...
A. 19 January 2015: How long has it been like this? Have you got another job? Looking for another job? Where is your spouse in all of this?... (read in full...)
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