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| | *ichelleAKAmandi's profile:I find interest in so many subjects and have researched so many through out the past 21 yrs of my life. If there is ever a question I'm asked and I don't know the answer, I will find it. ~wink~ I love helping people no matter what way I do it.
I live in South Carolina right now, but have lived Virginia, Florida and North Carolina. I've met some wonderful people in all of these states and met many all over the world via internet and look forward to meeting more.
I'm a VERY blunt and outspoken person. I feel since I've found that way of "being" long years ago, it made more sense and never left anyone second guessing anything I said. Some people read me wrong, but I'm merely like anyone else with slight differences in opinions. I LOVE people! I love being a friend to someone who really is in need of help! (I'm one of those people that either you like or you don't. If you want honesty, ask me. If you want honesty, realize it may not be what you want to hear and if you don't like the truth when it may hurt, don't ask me...lol)
Hopefully I'll meet some new and interesting people here.
I do have to add this...
I love helping people BUT... if someone ask for help and are given advice and that person continues down a path that causes them hardships for months or longer, at some point I will ask why and find out if I should go any further with my advice, for I may feel nothing I or anyone else says makes a difference. Many people need help and advice, but when you seem to love the misery and stay in a bad situation then there may be nothing I can do after trying numerous times.
Also people that feel sorry for themselves instead of taking advice, picking themselves up and making things better after a long while, I will stand by you for as long as I can, but help me help you!!
I am here to help, BUT I can't help you if you're not willing to help yourself with the advice I and others give you! That's the number one thing you have to realize.
Oh yeah... LOL
I usually reply to a post before reading anyone else's answers/replies/comments so if I happen to repeat something someone else has already said to you, I apologize, but I respond right after reading a question so nothing clouds my thought process. (I've had to change up on this lately!)
Wonderful to meet you all!!
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Is the fact I'm bisexual causing all the arguments and sexual tension in our marriage?
Q. Being a bisexual female, I choses to be with a heterosexual (straight) male and am happy and content that way. Do you think it may cause conflict with subconscious feelings and emotions? My husband knows that I'm bisexual and he likes it when I ...
A. 12 September 2008: Hello Waz,
I'm apologize for leaving that bit of information out.
I have had sexual encounters with 2 women on separate occasions, one on one I might add, and I am very attracted to females in so many ways. It's not a fantasy because I've been the... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth? Should I trust him? He refused to let me see the cell phone bill!
Q. My husband of 5 years had an affair while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. He said it was over(after 3months). I asked to see the cell phone bill. He refused and I needed to trust him. He gets so angry when I ask. Is he telling me the truth. ...
A. 10 September 2008: Seems you will be a wise one and take our advice and do something with it. Good luck sweetie, I, as everyone else I'm sure, wishes you luck.
Keep us informed on how you are doing.
Take care,
Michelle... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 9 September 2008: I agree that we can't judge how responsible she would be as a mother, if in fact she is pregnant, but it's scary as hell when this generation can say, "I want a baby, how do I get pregnant" in the same sentence. Know what I mean? Keep us inform... (read in full...)
I want to move out and have a baby with my bf...how do I go about this???
Q. I am 15 years old, I live with my mom and 14 year old sister. I have been with my 17 year old boyfriend for six months now, and he wants me to move in with him and he and I want to have a baby. We both feel ready for this. And I know its a big resp...
A. 9 September 2008: Sweetie, at 15 you are not ready to do as you think. Here is your first clue... QUOTE, "I need advice as how to go about well, moving out". If you are not sure of how to do something as simple as that, then you're definitely not ready to make a ... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 9 September 2008: ***seeing how she is only 16 or 17 AND the fact that she DOESN'T know if, "he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?"!!!!!!, I hope she IS NOT!!!! I mean ... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex and he came in me but some of the fluid came out. Am I safe?
Q. ok i had my period two weeks ago and i had unprotected sex yesterday and he came inside of me and some of it came out. does it all come out or doess some stay in and does that cause me to get pregnant?...
A. 8 September 2008: 3 days is not a significant amount of time to know if you are pregnant, a HPT is merely gonna cost you money for a negative and unsure test result, because it's TOO early. You also have to consider the stress of worrying will make you suffer f... (read in full...)
Is he telling the truth? Should I trust him? He refused to let me see the cell phone bill!
Q. My husband of 5 years had an affair while I was out of the country for 2 weeks. He said it was over(after 3months). I asked to see the cell phone bill. He refused and I needed to trust him. He gets so angry when I ask. Is he telling me the truth. ...
A. 8 September 2008: I answer questions before I read anyone else's reply/response, so I don't cloud my own thoughts. In doing so, I believe he IS hiding something! You wouldn't want to see it if he hadn't given you reason to NOT trust him to begin with, so he shouldn'... (read in full...)
Is the fact I'm bisexual causing all the arguments and sexual tension in our marriage?
Q. Being a bisexual female, I choses to be with a heterosexual (straight) male and am happy and content that way. Do you think it may cause conflict with subconscious feelings and emotions? My husband knows that I'm bisexual and he likes it when I ...
A. 8 September 2008: I'll go with ya, I'm not skeered!!...lol I'm always getting myself into a fix anyway. LOL
Thanks again and a million times!!
Take care sweetie,
Michelle
Say hey sometimes since I don't know "who" you are!!... (read in full...)
Warning! Alcohol and it's FX!!
Q. Sometimes, when I reflect back on all the wine I drink I feel shame. Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the vineyards, and all of their hopes and dreams. Now, if I didn't drink this wine, they might be out of work and thei...
A. 8 September 2008: Ok, on my way to Waz'z Bar... save me uh'seat!!
and um you may not be a thunk as I drink you are, but I'm errrr ummm.. frunk as duck!!
and last time I felt.. I mean checked I was a bit feminine so I don't think I'm a weird man either... LMFAO!... (read in full...)
Is the fact I'm bisexual causing all the arguments and sexual tension in our marriage?
Q. Being a bisexual female, I choses to be with a heterosexual (straight) male and am happy and content that way. Do you think it may cause conflict with subconscious feelings and emotions? My husband knows that I'm bisexual and he likes it when I ...
A. 7 September 2008: Hey there again,
My husband, NOW, has the support of the plant manager!!! I got tired of him coming home and complaining that his supervisor wouldn't back him in having these guys wrote up on the first screw up, sent home the 2nd time and well 3 s... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 7 September 2008: Damn-it cupidguy... I said I was pulling myself out of this political crap and would only READ what was being said, but you make me weak...lol
AMEN
Michelle... (read in full...)
My husband called out our 16 month old daughter's name during sex!
Q. What does it mean when my husband called out our 16 month old daughter's name during sex? My husband and I have a 16 month old daughter. During sex, he called out her name by accident instead of my name, saying, "Oh-----------, I love you!" ...
A. 7 September 2008: I was going to say that it could be another woman an ex maybe. I mean there are many people that have the same name, then I read on and the last part of your post sort of made me queasy. He wants to be alone with your daughter? HOW SO? I am seeing a ... (read in full...)
Warning! Alcohol and it's FX!!
Q. Sometimes, when I reflect back on all the wine I drink I feel shame. Then I look into the glass and think about the workers in the vineyards, and all of their hopes and dreams. Now, if I didn't drink this wine, they might be out of work and thei...
A. 7 September 2008: Big Sis... when did you become a weird man? LMAO
I love this!!! Abso-frekin-lutely!!!
You're a hoot... not a weird man...lmao, tell'em to feel ya, don't think they would call ya a man anymore huh?...lol
Pssstt... Save a beer for me...
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He dumped me and even though I don't want him back...do I tell him I am pregnant?
Q. Hey So ... my boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. He said "Things weren't going the way I wanted them to" ... well .. I wished he at least told me before that he is not happy with something ... but nothing. He was acting like nothing is going...
A. 7 September 2008: You are correct in your thinking that he should know. No matter the situation, he has the right to know and he will have the right to be involved with the child. It's big of you and the way a woman should think even though things didn't work out ... (read in full...)
Is the fact I'm bisexual causing all the arguments and sexual tension in our marriage?
Q. Being a bisexual female, I choses to be with a heterosexual (straight) male and am happy and content that way. Do you think it may cause conflict with subconscious feelings and emotions? My husband knows that I'm bisexual and he likes it when I ...
A. 7 September 2008: hmmm... makes a lot of sense. It's sometimes easier to go on someones point of view from the outside and you've helped out.
He works these long hours because he is a devoted man in all aspects. He doesn't know how to slow down... no matter w... (read in full...)
Boyfriend masturbates to porn and then says, "it's not you". Why does he choose this over me?
Q. Hey everyone, I really badly need to get this off my chest (no pun intended). I've been with my boyfriend now for 3 years and when we first got together, things were great. Then I found out he watches porn. One night, I was feeling ill, and...
A. 6 September 2008: Sweetie,
You were offended because you don't think this is normal and when you confronted him, this made him try to smooth things over. This now leaving him feeling as if he has to give something up that is not wrong. Sweetheart, do you realize how ... (read in full...)
I had oral sex with this guy I work with. I found out he has a fiance!!
Q. I have been working with this guy for a few months. When we first met we flirted quite often then it turned physical. We never slept together but had oral sex. I knew before that that he had a girlfriend. I should have never done anything with him ...
A. 6 September 2008: You should walk away from this situation before it get any more awkward. Think of your man at work, he's having oral sex with another woman and is around her every day!! That's something you would be ok with right? NOT!!! Why would you do that to ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted ...
A. 6 September 2008: and she should inform Hannah of her feelings for Mark. I started to state that in my previous post, but tried to keep it short. Maybe your best friend, Hannah, can help you overcome and/or deal with what you are feeling as well.
Again.. good luc... (read in full...)
Would the test result be positive even if you weren't pregnant?
Q. I was just wondering because I was a little confused and curious; If you are taking the contraceptive pill, it tricks your body into thinking that youre pregnant by the changes in hormones. What would happen if you were to take a pregnanc...
A. 6 September 2008: YES a pregnancy test can read positive when you are not pregnant! The test is not going to read positive because of birth control, however; If you receive a positive result from a home pregnancy test it is important to follow up with your doctor f... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted ...
A. 6 September 2008: PsyCookie definitely put it out there. AMEN!
Only one disagreement, you wouldn't be a prostitute, for you won't get paid, you'll be a slut! The only payment you'll get is one from karma. What goes around, comes around. Don't do it sweetie,... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 6 September 2008: Sorry this isn't an "answer" response to the original poster, but I just last night made the exact same comment about something. "If we could all just AGREE to DISAGREE, it would make things easier and better"
Same as people taking creative crit... (read in full...)
A rant on the "battle of the sexes" crap
Q. I'm know for over analyzing and going through things and changing my mindset and either understanding things better or getting more confused. On thing that whenever I think about it leaves me both more confused and with clearer ideas is the whole ...
A. 6 September 2008: The below was a joke, I hope men don't take offense to it. I'm fortunate in not having suffered from any of the list with the exception of the 2nd.
And again...
A great solution to most of what you said is: For men and women to learn how to AGR... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my best friend's boyfriend?
Q. I've known "Mark" for about 4 years and "Hannah" for 11 years, they are my best friends and I feel very close to them both. I've had feelings for Mark for a number of years now but they are not reciprocated - he told me last year that he just wanted ...
A. 6 September 2008: No you shouldn't sleep with Mark.
Reason one, you should wait until you are older to make a wiser decision on "who" you want to lose your virginity too.
Reason two, never betray a best friend or ANYONE for that matter.
Reason three, you said it ... (read in full...)
Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?
Q. I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...
A. 6 September 2008: I have to disagree about "keeping it from her". I mean if you think there is any chance of having something meaningful with her, that is the WRONG thing to do. You don't keep secrets and hide things. They all end up coming out and then causing more ... (read in full...)
Is it considered cheating if I masturbate to porn?
Q. I have a question for the aunts and uncles of DearCupid. I'm a 18 year old male starting university in a few weeks. I have a girlfriend, the same age as me, who is also going to uni, but its a 3 hour distance and i wont get to see her as much. The...
A. 6 September 2008: It's NOT cheating! It's merely a normal thing that SO many people do. Men and women! You are NOT cheating by any means. Your girlfriend may be uncomfortable with it of course as there are many insecure women out there that feel threatened and ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with my female friend?
Q. Im not lesbian but i met a girl that treats me better than anybody else and sometimes i think i fell in love because i cant stop thinking about her but im not shure if im really in love or just obsessed with her ...
A. 6 September 2008: That is a great question! I'm not lesbian either, however; I'm bisexual. I just find it hard to approach anyone because even now in 2008, it's still a very touchy subject with a lot of people. Do you think you may be bisexual? or is that one of your ... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 6 September 2008: I was going to add another comment, but Yos... you make a great point and I did, after all, join this site to help people. Not cause conflict/disagreement which there will ALWAYS be when it comes to politics. Thanks for the nudge! ~wink~ Onto t... (read in full...)
Am I right for wanting to lose weight before I meet him?
Q. can someone please give me an opinion! i met this guy about 2 years ago through a friend, we only met like 3 or 4 times but i fancied the pants off him! then he randomly added me on msn about 2 months later and we got chatting! hes proper amazin a...
A. 6 September 2008: The only answer to your question is: Lose the weight only for yourself. Not for or because of him. I think maybe you have been battling the fact that you are not happy or confident with the fact that you are worried about what he might think. I... (read in full...)
Is it possible to lose your virginity with your clothes on?
Q. I was wondering if I have on my clothes and I come into contact with a male who has on clothes as well and I feel his penis kind of touch my vagina is that losing the virginity?I was in pain afterwards but there was no bleeding.I was emotional and ...
A. 5 September 2008: Sweetie, Big Sis gave you great information. If his penis did not go "inside" of your vagina you are still a virgin. I, as big sis was, am confused as to why you would be sore. After your second or third post you said there was no grinding, so the... (read in full...)
Obama for president?
Q. Wow this is so intense! I origanly come from America but live in Canada! But I cant belive it there could be the first black president! I dont have a problem with couler and have been doing about slavery in history and I think we've came so far! I ...
A. 5 September 2008: After listening "twice" to Mrs Sarah Palin's speech, I can only urge those of you who are not involved in this election to get involved. This great Lady is a wonderful speaker and an asset to John McCain. Don't listen to the media, they give... (read in full...)
A rant on the "battle of the sexes" crap
Q. I'm know for over analyzing and going through things and changing my mindset and either understanding things better or getting more confused. On thing that whenever I think about it leaves me both more confused and with clearer ideas is the whole ...
A. 5 September 2008: Ok... this may get some people in a rant, but I must! DoubleM is so right in the fact that MAN exist in both man and woman ALSO... you ever paid attention to the fact that so many of our complaints/problems/issues have MEN in them? MENopause MEN... (read in full...)
Asking Stupid Questions!
Q. How many woman out there cant stand the "oh babe, is it that time?" Come on you know what i mean, right!? I hate being asked that question. Most of my guy friends ask me everytime i start, to complain. Some dont bother cuz they know not to ask me ...
A. 5 September 2008: I don't let it bother me anymore. I use too, but now I merely warn them before they can ask!! I simply tell them I can't stand myself today, so I definitely can't stand you, so don't go away mad... just go away! or tell them you're not doing ni... (read in full...)
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