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I'm a 20 year old female and live in East Yorkshire (UK) area. Currently taking a gap year from education and should be heading for university this year to study Social Work :) Until recently, I was a part-time carer for my grandmother who suffered from Alzheimer's Disease.
I consider myself to be a caring individual and it gives me great satisfaction to help others in any way I can. This is why I love this website, it allows me to be my true self through offering advice that I feel would be most efficient for that particular person. I'm empathetic and non-judgemental, so I would recommend myself if you're looking for some guidance (without sounding big-headed lol). So do feel free to personal message me and I will be sure to get back to you asap. |
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Vomiting phobia.
Q. i am so terrified of being sick or seeing someone else sick. i have such a phobia of vomiting i cant take it anymore! out of everyone i know, im the one whos always feeling sick. helpppp! what can i do?? i need as many answers as possible. thanks....
A. 13 July 2009: i have this phobia too :/ i wish i could give you advice but i need it myself lol once my friend felt really ill at school so i left her standing on her own because i was scared she was going to be sick! how mean am I? lol but answers would be n... (read in full...)
I think I want to give up my virginity..but not 100% certain
Q. Typical question Me and my bf have been dating for about 3 months and I think Im in love. I really want to take our relationship to the next level (sex) but Idk if it's the right thing. He's not a virgin but I am and i did make a promise to my...
A. 28 June 2009: Wait until you're 100% certain before you do it.
Two words of warning though:
- Make sure you use protection, do not risk getting pregnant.
- Your first time hurts like hell. I can't even describe the pain, so don't expect it to be a pleasu... (read in full...)
How important is it that a girl is pretty?
Q. i`m wondering how important it is that a girl is pretty? i`m a 17 year old girl, and i have never been in a relationship. i`m really ugly (people have called me man-face and so on) and fat, and have no selfesteam what so ever. i feel really alone, ...
A. 28 May 2009: Firstly, you need to stop feeling negatively about yourself... I'm sure that you are not ugly in the slighest. In my opinion EVERYONE IS BEAUTIFUL; i'm sure you have gorgeous eyes or great cheek bones - emphasise these with make-up, draw attention ... (read in full...)
Afraid to tell him that I'm into him again
Q. I'm really getting upset about this. I really really dig this guy. Were pretty decent friends. Ice liked him for about 7 months, but only this much for 3 months at the begining and 2 months now. In between we weren't really talking a lot so it ...
A. 27 May 2009: This is similar to my situation; I told my friend i liked him within a month of getting to know him, I was also drunk so it didnt come out as i intended. Things between us are the same really, but he's become very nervous around me. It's amazing ... (read in full...)
Students Falling In Love With Their Teachers.
Q. Students look up to teachers because they're smart. They are mature. They're possibly good looking. They've had interesting lives. All the things all people look for in a character. But students can't do anything about it. So their own passion...
A. 20 April 2009: I completely agree with this, pupils have a very hard time when it comes to being in love with a teacher. From personal experience, I can honestly say that throughout the period I was at the school, seeing this particular teacher everyday until the ... (read in full...)
Tips on being more attractive
Q. i need tips on how to be more outgoing. because i have this freind who use to be a "nerd" untill i met her and i always use to be the pretty one now that i "made" her she is so goregous and her clothes are nice and her hair looks amazing.. i have to ...
A. 11 April 2009: Hi there :)
There is no specific way to look more attractive.
Basically you just need to change your appearance to how you think will look better, but not such a transformation that you are barely recogniseable.
Get your hair cut shorter mayb... (read in full...)
How do I become good friends like before?
Q. too early and she didn't see me that way. I must note that i was kind of being pressured into it which is another thing but i have never told her this. From then to few months = akwardness, couldn't even look at her or talk to her but during chris...
A. 7 April 2009: Hey :) I'm sorry to hear about this situation you're in. I'm in a very similar situation, I told my guy friend last year that i was in love with him whilst i were drunk at a party, and he made it very clear that he did not like me in that way (by ... (read in full...)
Do I text him back again and tell him it was a mistake... again?
Q. I really liked this friend of mine, so I asked him to a girls choice dance. Everything went perfectly! He even kissed me goodnight. I figured after that night I should tell him how I feel, so I did. Apparently that was a big mistake! He was ...
A. 21 November 2008: Oh dear, things didn't turn out too well then? Same with me, I told a guy friend that i loved him (i was drunk) at a party... I then emailed him when i'd got back home and (still being drunk) confirmed that i meant what i'd said, Then he mailed me ... (read in full...)
Is friendship all that's on offer here?
Q. Hey, I've met this girl I really like at my college. I've liked her since we first met and I really really want to be with her, but I can't tell if she likes me the same way or not. One day she practically ignores me but the next she'll ask me if I ...
A. 31 October 2008: I think she does like you, because i actually like this guy at my college (told him i loved him the other day but turns out he's tryin to get back with his ex) anyway, in relevance to your situation - i'm like this girl you mention, i ignore him ... (read in full...)
Pupil/Teacher crush!
Q. Okay I'm sorry to say this but I have the typical female teenage problem. I'm 15 (Nearly 16) and in love with my teacher. Please don't think I'm some silly, naive, clueless little girl because I'm not. I know I have no chance with him whatsoe...
A. 18 October 2008: It's hard to stop obsessing over someone you love, I've been there! But I've left school now and haven't seen him for months - and believe me, the obsession will fade within time. It really makes a difference when you don't have to see them every ... (read in full...)
Can anyone give me some tips about makeup?
Q. hiya erm this is just basically and ordianry girly question but i when i wear make-up i wear mascara and blusher and thats about it i dont really think i need foundation plus its a faff on. but my main problem is eye-liner, other girls where it...
A. 15 August 2008: I think i might be some help to you! It's good that you don't wear foundation - there's no point in slapping it on your face if you don't need it, I used to be addicted but i've stopped applyin it all together now coz i wanna show off my tan :) ... (read in full...)
People are making fun of me because my dad died
Q. hi my dad has died 5 years ago every one makes fun off me because of this what should i do ????????????????????????????...
A. 13 June 2008: Awww you poor thing! Ignore those people that are making fun out of you, they obviously don't understand the pain in which you've been through! All I can say is that they're very immature! but being at a young age, their lack of support isn't ... (read in full...)
I will be unable to see my teacher again as I am leaving school. I'm scared I will relapse into depression!
Q. I developed extremely strong feelings for an attractive male teacher about 18 months ago. His personality is simply 'perfect'. He's such an amazing person! In the course of this time, i've gone through depression (He had a baby boy last year an...
A. 12 June 2008: To the poster asking me to expand on the situation,
Well... I did make my feelings fairly obvious by staring and smiling at him alot, also I used to hang about wherever he was and on the odd occasion talked to him!
Even though I made feelings ... (read in full...)
A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?
Q. Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...
A. 7 June 2008: Hi! please keep us informed of your situation! x... (read in full...)
I took his socks, is it really selfish???
Q. Me and my husband went snowboarding, my feet were very cold, and i stayed in the snow a little longer, than they got to a point that i couldnt feel them any longer so i decided to go put on some more socks on to see if that would help, i notified my ...
A. 3 June 2008: I must admit, I found the question title rather funny!
But once I read your post, i could see the seriousness of the issue. Don't worry about it, You haven't done much wrong really - You took his socks... it isn't a crime! I take it that your hus... (read in full...)
A student is in love with me, how can I as a teacher discourage this behaviour?
Q. Ok so I have a problem, I am a male teacher in the UK I am 25. I teach 16 -17 year olds. Having seen all the young ladies on this site who are in love with their teachers it terrifies me! I have a student in my class who has a bit of a crush. N...
A. 28 May 2008: Hi there! I myself, am a student in love with a teacher. Your situation sounds really awkward, it's interesting to hear a teacher's point of view of a predicament like this. I agree that this girl is acting very inappropriately, she sounds the d... (read in full...)
I am just so quiet, shy and lost... any advice?
Q. I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. I have been so shy, ever since I can remember. Even when I was a baby, I was very quiet, I barely cried or anything. And as I became a toddler and a kid, I was shy, never wanting to let go of ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hiya! I'm a little on the shy side myself! It can give people the wrong impression of you when you don't speak much. They tend to think that you're stuck up, thinking you're too good for them! But it's not that case at all is it? People who are loud ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my teacher. Should I follow my heart?
Q. Hey!!Ok i've got abit of a problem i'm in love with my teacher but there's a 15 year age gap i'm 12 he's 27!!And has a girlfriend some people say follow your heart but other people say don't be so stupid!!I've a feeling that if i follow i could get ...
A. 17 May 2008: Hiya hun, I followed my heart! I hoped I had a chance with him, I wrote a letter explaining my feelings and in advance I expected him to start liking me too! However, things didn't turn out as I'd hoped. I got in a bit of trouble with the school and ... (read in full...)
I wouldn't leave this teacher alone and now I want to apologize! How do I go about this?
Q. I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms. Sounds good? Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she sta...
A. 10 May 2008: Hiya, I'm wanting to apologise to my teacher too! I gave a letter to him expressing my feelings, and things turned out kinda bad between us! I need to apologise for putting him through such an awkward situation that could have cost him his job! ... (read in full...)
I am very pale and want a new foundation, so my boyfriend can notice how nice my make up is... any ideas?
Q. Im not sure if this is the place for this question.... It starts off a bit weird but then i explain myself. I am very pale and want a new foundation. I can't find one anywhere, that dosnt have an orange tint. i dont want to look gothicy i just w...
A. 8 May 2008: Hiya, Well I'm quite pale also; and i'm so glad summer is arriving so that I can get a lovely tan! But anyway... 2 foundations which are good are; Maybelline dream matte mouuse It comes in pale shades too and doesn't have an orangey tint to it, ... (read in full...)
If I wanted an abortion would the doctor tell my parents?
Q. Just a quick and really weird question but I still would like the answer. If I'm pregnant (still waiting for results) then I really don't want any one to find out at all. So if I went to the doctor and wanted an abortion what procedure would ...
A. 6 May 2008: Well a doctor SHOULD keep it confidential!
However, I don't see the problem with your parents knowing? You need support, abortions are tough things to go through. Are you not close to them? Or are you scared what they'd think of you? Sure, th... (read in full...)
I want to be a Model not a Doctor!!
Q. hey everyone i am 19 years old..and i am doing medicine(mbbs)in the first year of school..recently i have lost all my interest in studies and dont want to pursue what i am doin..cause now all my attention is into modelling..i did a few shows and i ...
A. 5 May 2008: Hiya! I think perhaps you should continue doing medicine for the time being until you get a degree. You shouldn't just give it up because, what if modelling doesn't work out? You'll need a back-up! xx... (read in full...)
I'm turning 19 this week and I've never even been in a relationship!
Q. I'm not sure why i'm writing this, but here goes. I'm turning 19 this week and i've never even been in a relationship! Back in school i'd fall for the guys i couldn't have and after 3 years of not allowing myself to fall for anyone, i made a mistak...
A. 5 May 2008: Hey don't worry, there's a right time for everyone! Some people have boy/girl friends from the age of 12 or even younger, I think that's more of a worry, than NOT having one at 19! Don't put yourself down, there's probably loads of guys who have ... (read in full...)
Why do so many teenage girls have a thing for their male teachers?
Q. Why do so many teenage girls on this site have a thing for their male teachers? There are so many posts from teenage girls who say they are in love with their male teachers. Some of these teachers are 20 or more years older than these girls, so it ...
A. 3 May 2008: Well there's just something about male teachers that are attractive to young girls! Looks aren't really important, if the guy is good-looking then that's just a bonus. But what really attracts us is their maturity, intelligence, sense of humour, ... (read in full...)
Can someone please help me...Am I depressed??
Q. I just really need some advice, i guess sometimes it's more helpful hearing advice from people i do not personally know. I'm not sure, but i think I am depressed. I know a doctor can only disgnose someone with depression, but how can one actually...
A. 2 May 2008: Hiya! I think you probably are depressed, I feel the same because of an older man I cannot be with! I can totally compare myself to you, mail me if you like! Take care x... (read in full...)
He's gone grey and I'm embarrassed. How do I talk to him about it?
Q. this may seem a bit like a dumb question but my boyfriend is gray/white at 30 and i'm finding it really a turn off and a bit embarrassing- how can i talk to him about it? because i think he needs to do something. I don't think i'm being unreasonab...
A. 1 May 2008: I understand your problem, but his hair doesn't change the person he is, does it? You still love each other and really that is all that matters. However, You could suggest to him having his hair dyed? If he refuses, have a hairdresser come around ... (read in full...)
My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?
Q. Hi my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it. is this normal or what...
A. 1 May 2008: I think it's normal! Some women are unique and get turned on by unusal things! Paint her, she'll love you for it and i'm sure you'll get plenty of appreciation! :) xx... (read in full...)
I just can't help it! My teacher is just soo different to others! I'm madly in love with him.....
Q. Hi i had deep feelings with dis teacher for 2 and a half year now and that feeling keeps coming back to me! i have my SATS next week and i cnt properly study! i think im goin to fail! :( Every time i dont see him i jus feel like cryin :'( in summer ...
A. 30 April 2008: *sigh* I know how it feels! I'm doin my main GCSE's in a couple of weeks, and I got my mind on this teacher constantly... and his fiance also teaches at the school too and I can't stand seeing them together because it breaks my heart!
Pleas... (read in full...)
What compliments do women like to hear?
Q. Hello Everyone Thanks for taking the time for reading this question. I'd like to know, what do women like to hear when you are trying to compliment them (in letter or in person), e.g your beautiful, sexy, your my best friend, I love being in ...
A. 26 April 2008: Say things like; 'Your eyes are the colour of mud' or 'your lips are like tiny sausages'!
Okay... i'm pulling your leg lol!
Kk, erm how about; 'every moment I spend with you is so precious to me because you are the highlight of my life' or 'If ... (read in full...)
What will he think of my new hairdo?
Q. I feel great!! Went to the hairdresser and got a new hairdo. I've always cut my hair in the past but just decided I wanted something different after all these years with the same look. Also, it's distracting me in a nice way from obsessing with my a...
A. 26 April 2008: Hey don't worry about it! You're still the same person with the same personality. It isn't gonna put him off you in the slightest, and if it does - he isn't worth it! As long as you're comfortable with your new hairdo and are confident with it then ... (read in full...)
Confused by the way a teacher acts.
Q. If one of your teachers makes constant eye contact with you during class and outside of class whenever you see him what could it possibly mean. He blushes whenever you are with him or say hi to him and turns really red even though your behaviour is ...
A. 26 April 2008: Ahhhh I have a teacher like this! It's quite an annoying situation for me really because A teacher who i'm head-over-heals for, shows little sign of liking me back yet this other teacher (His best mate) is quite freaky and always stares at me, lets ... (read in full...)
I'm nursing a burning, secret passion for a teacher. Should I write him a little note?
Q. I am 16 years old and practically on the brink of taking my GCSEs (in fact, I've got my first oral on Monday). Problem is, for eight months I haven't been able to stop thinking about a teacher at school. I would estimate him to be in his late ...
A. 26 April 2008: Hi there!
I understand wht you're goin thru. I wrote a letter to my teacher early this year and I was left very hurt because of the consequences. For me it was the wrong timing, however for you it's a different situation - it may be the last tim... (read in full...)
How can I look and feel attractive with out make-up?
Q. I've worn make-up since i can remember, all day everyday, even on holiday. I don't feel comfortable without it on, the thing is, as you can imagine, my skins already becoming quite knackered out already, i have pinkish skin with dark freckles ...
A. 15 April 2008: Hiya, yeah i'm addicted to make-up myself! The only people I allow to see me without it are my parents. My complexion isn't too bad, i'm just quite pale and have an uneven skin tone! I dn't tend to wear it on holiday though, because i get a lovely ... (read in full...)
Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!
Q. I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...
A. 14 April 2008: 'Eyeswideopen' I know you have summat against me, and you obviously don't know what the many people like myself go through - Of Course you won't understand, as i've gathered from the many remarks you've made on me! Can ya just give it a rest yeah? ... (read in full...)
Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!
Q. I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hiya! I understand what ur going through! Teacher's can have such a massive impact on your life, and it's a really painful situation to go through when you become obsessed/infatuated/in love with a teacher! If ya wish, then mail me - i'm going ... (read in full...)
Please give me advice on what I should do..like should I tell him I'm in love with him? Oh...and he's my teacher!
Q. Tommorow me and my friend might tell my teacher we love him, but i'm not sure what to do. It's been on our minds so much and we dont have anyone to talk to. after we tell him, we're never gonna bring it up again, obviously. I just cry and cry and ...
A. 11 April 2008: Hiya hun, I understand how it feels to have forbidden feelings for someone. But (from my own experience) Don't tell him! It'll probably be dealt with professionally (He'll report you) and you may get into trouble and feel very hurt and embarrassed ... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 9 April 2008: To the previous poster,
Okay, I know you think my idea is stupid! I'm gonna say what I have to say under supervision... yeah?
I honestly don't see it as a big deal, all i'm doin is apologising because I feel that i need to! Then that's it, ... (read in full...)
I reeeeeally like my english teacher and cant get him out my head! Help!
Q. im 16 turnin 17 nd i reeally like my english teacher, honestly hez not very goodlooking but for sum weird reason i cannot get him out of my head nd i try rlly hard to impress him :P whic is pretty embarssn but w/ iv rlly nevr felt this way b4 abt ...
A. 8 April 2008: Hiya, if it's any consolation i've got the same problem! However i don't have any classes with my teacher so its harder to get close to him, more so because he's aware of my feelings for him... and literally all the other teachers know (Okay, i'm ... (read in full...)
I want to give him something when I leave just to say thanks for everything he's done but I don't know how he'll react.
Q. Hi, I leave school in May. I get on really well with a teacher and he calls me a mate. In the past I've given him a leaving present when I left in Year 11 and I gave him a birthday present once. I was going to give him a birthday present in December...
A. 2 April 2008: Okay, well instead of a present how about a letter to let him know you appreciate what he's done! Or even a thank you card, it has more meaning than an expensive present!... (read in full...)
Five guys and I like them all, but which should I pick????
Q. HELP!!!!!! i really need some help i have a real problem i like 5 guys all at the sane time i dont know which to choose cos i know it will be slutty and unfair to pick them all lol well the 1st guy is going out with my best friendso i know he's...
A. 2 April 2008: Hiya!
Guy 1: If he's going out with your best friend, don't even think about it! It'd all end in tears.
Guy 2: If you've only spoke to him online and never met him, you won't know what he's really like. He could be a rite arsehole lol!
... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 2 April 2008: I'd just like to thank EVERYONE for all the advice, I'm still undecided as to what to do but I've got about 3 months until the event. Which gives me time to think it through!
I think these are about the only choices:
- Apologise to him... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 1 April 2008: Hi, I'm the original poster. (I'm signed into my account this time) I understand that many of you think it would be more respectful to stay away, but I really want to do this - It isn't just for my benefit, it's for his aswel. I feel genuinely ... (read in full...)
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