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I'm a 20 year old female and live in East Yorkshire (UK) area. Currently taking a gap year from education and should be heading for university this year to study Social Work :) Until recently, I was a part-time carer for my grandmother who suffered from Alzheimer's Disease.
I consider myself to be a caring individual and it gives me great satisfaction to help others in any way I can. This is why I love this website, it allows me to be my true self through offering advice that I feel would be most efficient for that particular person. I'm empathetic and non-judgemental, so I would recommend myself if you're looking for some guidance (without sounding big-headed lol). So do feel free to personal message me and I will be sure to get back to you asap. |
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How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 9 April 2008: To the previous poster,
Okay, I know you think my idea is stupid! I'm gonna say what I have to say under supervision... yeah?
I honestly don't see it as a big deal, all i'm doin is apologising because I feel that i need to! Then that's it, ... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 2 April 2008: I'd just like to thank EVERYONE for all the advice, I'm still undecided as to what to do but I've got about 3 months until the event. Which gives me time to think it through!
I think these are about the only choices:
- Apologise to him... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 1 April 2008: Hi, I'm the original poster. (I'm signed into my account this time) I understand that many of you think it would be more respectful to stay away, but I really want to do this - It isn't just for my benefit, it's for his aswel. I feel genuinely ... (read in full...)
I think my love for a teacher has gotten me into a depression or mental instability, help!
Q. I'm 15 and in love with my teacher (and NO it is not a crush or infatuation) and have been for almost a year, and even though i've been very unhappy since i realised how i felt for him, recently it seems to have gotten a lot worse - whenever i'm ...
A. 15 March 2008: Hiya hun, I totally understand what you're going through - i've been there and still am really! Been in love with my teacher for about a year now. Last year I became so attached to my teacher, that i felt i couldn't live without him. I thought m... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher I like him when I leave school??
Q. Well I kind of like one of my teachers. He is a good bit older than me but I really like him but he is married. I never want to get him into trouble or anything but I want him to know but I guess he already does because of ny friends blurting it out ...
A. 12 March 2008: Yeah, ano how it feels wanting a teacher to know how you feel about them! And I think you shud tell him, but by letter - otherwise, saying it to his face will make it really awkward for both of you. But make sure you do it just before you leave, and ... (read in full...)
I have a crush a on a boy but I don't know how to tell him.
Q. I have a crush on a boy but we are not in the same class at school. He used to stare at me before and I thought he fancied me because when someone has a crush on someone else that is what they do. After a few weeks, he started making fun of me and ...
A. 11 March 2008: Awwwwwwh love happens at such a young age doesn't it! Sweet :) I was in your situation about 5 years ago, a lad used to be kinda mean to me and I never knew why but then his little brother came up to me and said 'Declan fancies you' I was kinda ... (read in full...)
Would it hurt if I told him he has a small one?
Q. would it hurt a mans pride to tell them they have a small penis? especially if they are already an insecure person....
A. 18 February 2008: Hey don't be harsh! If he's insecure then don't say anything to him about it, he's probably already self-conscious of it anyway! xx... (read in full...)
I caught him masturbating with the vacuum, today!!
Q. I am a married mother of 3. My oldest is a boy, he is almost 14. I caught him masturbating with the vacuum, today!! I am dumbfounded. His dad is going to talk to him, tonight. How can we deal with this, explaining the disgust and immoral act... ...
A. 18 February 2008: Hey, don't be so harsh! Putting myself in your shoes, I would feel slightly disgusted however, you shouldn't take it out on the poor lad - Think of how embarrassed he's gonna be when your husband talks to him about it! Sexual pleasure is desired at ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a babies heartbeat to develop inside the womb?
Q. I just wanted to ask a question..... I wondered, I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and I'm thinking I might be pregnant. I just want to know how long it takes for a babies heart beat to develop inside the womb? ...
A. 18 February 2008: Hiya, I didn't know the answer to this question either! But I 'googled it' for you, and apparently its about 8 weeks after conception before the heartbeat can be detected!
xx ... (read in full...)
Any exercise ideas to get flat abs quick??
Q. hi... I'm a 15yr old girl and am wondering on the best way to get flat abs quick, i know the basics. Just want some exercise ideas. please x...
A. 17 February 2008: Try aerobics lessons! Its a great way to tone your body! x... (read in full...)
My bf is somewhat ugly and I'm not sure I fancy him. What to do?
Q. hello i am having a boyfriend problem.see i like him but hes a bit ugly i don't want to hurt his feelings but i don't think i fancy him ?? what shall i do?? ...
A. 17 February 2008: Well if you really don't like him anymore then dump him, but its a bit harsh... Looks aren't everything ya kno! One day you'll learn that personality is more important than what's on the outside. If you decide do go ahead and dump him, then don't ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 17 February 2008: Omg, you seriously don't want to have a baby at 13! You've got your whole life ahead of you. I don't really know what else to say, but I think telling your boyfriend will be a big mistake he might run a mile when you announce you want his child! ... (read in full...)
Looks V Personality, which do girls prefer??
Q. What do girls mostly like personality of the lad or the looks ?...
A. 17 February 2008: Intentionally I fall for guys who are good-looking, but as I get to know them more - I fall for their personality, which is alot more important! But I think as us girls get older, we dnt give a toss about what the guy looks like. The inside is more ... (read in full...)
Should I give my teacher a valentines day card?
Q. Hi i fancy my teacher, should i give him a valentines day card or would that just weird him out? help.......
A. 13 February 2008: I thought about doing the same, but something I did a while back has stopped me! Okay... i'm not making any sense am I lol! Basically I've fancied the socks off my teacher for about a year now, I like to think of it more than a crush though! An... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 13 February 2008: Well its not suprising how many visitors this site has had, Because its the most amazing and helpful website there is! I'm so glad I found this site, Its helped me alot with my problems and I have an interest in giving advice to others - It's just ... (read in full...)
Worried that I'm going to become obsessed by this new girl. Is this a mid-life crisis?
Q. I'm 37 and I have just 'noticed' a much younger girl. During my life I have really fallen hard for two women. Once was when I was 18 - which was unrequited, and the second time was a couple of years ago when I was abroad for a week on business (this ...
A. 13 February 2008: Well I kinda agree with what everyone is saying, you shouldn't leave your wife and kids for a younger girl, think of the pain they'd go through? However, despite me being alot younger than yourself I still know what its like to really want someone, ... (read in full...)
Are my friends being mean to me or are they just lying?
Q. recently my freinds have been kinda of mean to me yet i have done nothing wrong to them its not all my freinds just a few. about three weeks ago my freind said the boy i like will say i am ugly. (all my other freinds said it was jelousy) 2.on thur...
A. 29 January 2008: Omg your 'friends' are awful, how do you cope with them treating you like that? Must be hard for you :(
If I were you, I wouldn't stand for that. There's nothing worse than being in the wrong crowd! Try stick up for yourself, tell them to stop bei... (read in full...)
I like him as a teacher; his staring bothers me. What should I do?
Q. Hi I have a problem to discuss need some advices. There is a teacher at my school he stares at me a lot, and everyday I enter the classroom he always makes an eye contact with me. I heard that he even got married a few months ago. I like him as t...
A. 29 January 2008: Ignore the guy. And just take a look in the mirror at your appearance, you might be wearing revealing clothing or something! I think he might fancy you, but dont worry - If he's a professional teacher, He won't do anything innappropriate. x... (read in full...)
Are guys immediately turned off by a slightly overweight girl??
Q. I am in college and have always struggled with my weight somewhat but I've never been overweight to the point of being unhealthy. I have always been a very active person and I love to play sports. I am 19, 5'5.5" and I weigh 175 pounds but i have ...
A. 29 January 2008: I doubt guys would be turned off by a slightly overweight girl like yourself. If you were massively obese, then maybe they would, but you sound a healthy weight to me! I'm quite skinny myself, and I don't get much male attention, Well not at school ... (read in full...)
I don’t want to loose another person who has come to mean so much to me. What can I do?
Q. Heya, I'm a 16 year old girl who recently lost her brother to meningitis. We were exceptionally close, he was 10years older than me and as both my parents worked 12hours a day he was the one who helped me with homework, cooked dinner and put me to ...
A. 15 January 2008: I'm really sorry to hear about your brother, it must be very hard for you! But with this teacher in your life, it might make you feel worse. Because these feelings you have rarely develop into a relationship so you may end up heartbroken if he ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my teacher when she is starting a new family?
Q. My life is crazy right now. I was really close to my teacher just for a short while. NOT SEXUAL! We just kissed few times and we spent loadsa time together and now its over...well since before last august. Even though it's over I have never ever sto...
A. 14 January 2008: I've been thru your situation, except I didn't have a relationship wiv my teacher - His partner used to teach at my school, she was such a bitch I really hated her! Anyway she was pregnant, and honestly - it broke my heart! Eventually she went on ... (read in full...)
My daughter just turned 15 and is having sex!
Q. dear cupid and everyone here, I have a daughter who has just reached 15 years old last month. She has just admitted to me that she and her boy friend have already had sex. I was terribly shocked and very very afraid and worried that maybe sh...
A. 5 January 2008: You might just be being paranoid, ask her if she used protection... if she hasn't then take her to the pharmacy for a pregnancy test. Try not to worry too much, Okay? xx... (read in full...)
How do I approach my mum on the subject of wearing make-up?
Q. i am 13 and i wan to wear make up all of my friends do i just dont know how to ask my mom plus she doesnt wear make up so i think it might be harder...
A. 5 January 2008: Heya hun! I was about ur age when i started wearing make-up, my mother wasn't too keen at first... she just kept going on about how i didn't need it etc. But i was convinced i did, so kept on wearing it and have never stopped since. The thing is, ... (read in full...)
My cousin and I are both single. How do I tell him I love him, and dare I risk doing so?
Q. Im in love with my cousin who is three years older than me. I had heard that he loves me too. So when recently he came to our home he acted exceptionally friendly with me only. He touched my hand, kissed it too. Even i started loving him since ...
A. 3 January 2008: Erm, well the way ur acting around him will probably make it obvious to him that you have strong feelings for him. It's weird how these things can happen within a family! I had a crush on my older cousin once, lasted a couple of years! But then i ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and the man I like is married and has adorable children. How do I get over him?
Q. I'm 13 and I'm in love with someone who's 36. He's married with two adorable children! I don't know what to do. How do I get over him?...
A. 3 January 2008: Is he your teacher by any chance? I prefer older men myself, and its really hard to deal with when you don't think they'll ever return your feelings. I'm in love with my teacher, i can't get over him... so i'm fighting for him! Yeah, what i intend ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my older sister
Q. hi, i am 15 and in love with my 20 year old sister. when i was about 10 she used to put lip stick on and kiss me on my cheek ect. how do i find out if she loves me without me asking her...
A. 3 January 2008: Oh dnt be silly, you can't be in love with your sister??? Maybe you just look up to her? But if you seriously have strong feelings for her, then for christ sake don't tell her! She loves you in a brotherly way, don't embarrass yourself by ... (read in full...)
After his rejection and moving on to high school, I still cannot seem to forget him. Should I forget him?
Q. Hey guys! Ok, I have a big and confusing problem. Ok, maybe not really but I really need advice. Ok, so there is this guy in my ex-school. As the teacher arranges our seating, he sat beside me for two terms which is 8months. Well, we have always ...
A. 3 January 2008: Awww sorry to hear about your rejection... I know its not what you wanna hear but it'll be for the best that you forget him! You can't make someone return your feelings, maybe at one point when the rumour went round, he did like you. I went through ... (read in full...)
How do I control my anger now I'm working with the girl my bf cheated with...?
Q. My boyfriend cheated with a girl I will now be working with she knows who I am and I know who she is.....what can I do to keep my cool....cause ill start thinking and wanna kick her ass!!! We new each other before she messed with him and she new he ...
A. 28 November 2007: Sorry to hear about your cheating boyfriend, that must be hard enough without having to work wiv the lass he cheated with!!! I would ignore her at all times, pretend she doesn't exist... I know it's easier said than done but for your own benefit it ... (read in full...)
Worried about pregnancy....
Q. I need help... I am 16 years old and i am in 5th year. I am the only one in my year who hasn't had sex yet. I am afraid of getting pregnant but this guy has had a lot more experience than me. He told me he wants to start seeing me but i don't even...
A. 28 November 2007: You are a little young to be having sex...
And are recieving peer pressure from others to have intercourse, but this shouldn't be a concern to you right now, think about your schooling - isn't education more important right now, being in your last... (read in full...)
We're having our 1st anniversary and I want to give her something unique and romantic but won't freak her out?
Q. hey people just a general question..ive been with my gf for a year now can ne1 help me with any unique romantic ideas? and also is it weird to give an anniversary card because i thought that might be nice bt i thort that something married couples ...
A. 28 November 2007: You're a very thoughtful man, i must say! Hmmmm, i'd suggest you take her for a romantic meal and perhaps for an extra gift buy her a lovely piece of jewellery... it may not seem much, but to her i'm sure it'll mean so much!
And a card would be love... (read in full...)
If I do not give him enough attention he has panick attacks or cries, being over-sensitive. How to deal with this?
Q. Hey. I don't know what to do anymore!I'm a mess. I am only 15 but i'm with this guy, he's prone to panic attacks and I've caused him to have three. I didn't let myself in for this! Whatever I do he cries or has a panic attack. A propper one as well. ...
A. 28 November 2007: You sound a very caring lass, but at your age when you've got exams awaiting you, you cannot be dealing with all this stress! This relationship is not fair on either of you, i know you love him and everything but unless he's got the willpower to get ... (read in full...)
How does one flirt?
Q. I need help on flirting! My friends seem to be able to flirt with anyone but i just dont know how! Lads get so turned on by my friends,is there anything i can do to make them get turned on by me?...
A. 5 November 2007: Right hunni, I find the best way of flirting with boys is eye contact - Flutter your lashes, gazing at them with amazement and great interest!
Have Fun! x
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I love my 27 year old teacher.
Q. I'm in love with my teacher. He's 27, 13 years older than I, and please don't say anything like, "It's not love, just a crush, an infatuation, forget about him." I've already tried, but no matter how hard I try, I can't forget him. He's like a dr...
A. 5 November 2007: Hii Hun, i'm goin thru the same situation and i know how it feels! Mine is acutally 20 years older than me lol BIG AGE GAP! I sometimes get the feeling that mine likes me too, and likewise with you - this could be! But ders those unecessary ... (read in full...)
Do you think this teacher knows I have a bir of a crush on him?
Q. I sort of have a bit of a rush on this teacher but i'm worried he might know! i talk to him all the time about the most random things in the corridor and always laugh at him and take the mik outa him...he does it to me aswell. when we have him for ...
A. 3 November 2007: Wow, i'm shocked at the post 'ineedsex' wrote - but it did make me laugh lol!
Why you worried that your teacher might know? It's COMPLETELY normal to have these feelings for a young handsome teacher :P ...I'm in the same situation! Only i actually... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in thinking that I can't please her? What am I doing wrong?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 18 months and in that time I have had a few problems. A year ago, I forgot about her competing in a sporting event. I was away working the weekend and got consumed with the job. She was obviously upset that I t...
A. 30 October 2007: Your girlfriend is being very selfish... You seem a decent bloke, you deserve to be appreciated once in a while by your girl! I agree, there is no please in this woman and you're certainly doing nothing wrong. Tell her how you feel, give her a ... (read in full...)
Can I make my face look older? How?
Q. ok i am 14 years old and about 5"3 when i go out shopping e.t.c i always seem pretty tall and there are a lot of people smaller than me but i have a bit of a baby face it lets me down and makes be look younger any ideas to make my face look older ...
A. 28 October 2007: Looking young is kinda cute, you shouldn't worry about it!... (read in full...)
Big is not bad, but I still don't like being fat.
Q. Hi, I am a 14 year old female and I know I am obese!! I weigh around 14 stone and, Im 5Foot"3Inches Tall. I try to stop myself from eating and do exercise but It only works for as long as two days then I give up because I don't see a di...
A. 28 October 2007: Ever heard that song by Mika - Big girls you are beautiful?
Being curvy/pear-shaped/overweight - it's fine hunny!
You should love yourself for who you are. It's better than being a size zero anorexic! Boys prefer girls when they're bigger anyway, ... (read in full...)
She only shows the kids attection and is considering leaving me.
Q. My partner and I have two children and I love a care for her deeply. I love to show her affection but she does not show me any. She tells me that 'this is me, I can't change get use to it, but she does show our children affection. Recently she has ...
A. 24 October 2007: You seem the kind of relaxed one in this relationship, and just to satisfy her needs you're having to feel pressured! It really shouldn't be like this...
I know you love her and everything, but if you cannot provide her with what she desires ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to normalize my periods?
Q. i haven't got my periods for the last 3 months.I've done a home pregnancy test twice and the results are negative.I have a doubt that i might not be getting it due to stress and change of location.I was doing night shifts for a long time.I'm now ...
A. 24 October 2007: If you're obese or anorexic your periods can stop! Has your body been through a major change recently? If not, then it could indeed just be stress!... (read in full...)
I fantasize about having sex with my mother
Q. I have asked this question before but am still curious as what to do. I am now 17, my mum is 43. 6 years ago, i was living with my mum, i was in the need of the drink, so went into the kitchen to get one, only my mum was in the way on the worktop ...
A. 24 October 2007: Forbidden Love, We've all been there. I thought being attracted to a sibling was weird enough...But your OWN mother!!! It's beyond me how you feel this way about her... Usually i'd say just not to act on your feelings. But as the previous aunt ... (read in full...)
I hate women, why!?
Q. OK, I am having immense feelings of hatred towards women. I am a funny, smart and relaxed (and tall and reasonably good looking!!) guy, but I have ZERO success with women! I HATE how they won't talk to you unless you talk to them. I hate how they ...
A. 21 October 2007: Well, if you're so full of hatred towards women...Then i dread how you'd treat one, when on a date with them! You'd probably spill a glass of red wine over them if they didn't meet your 'criteria'. Why don't you just be gay, from the way you're ... (read in full...)
I'm falling for my teacher
Q. Okay I have a real problem that could get bigger if I don't know how to stop it. I think I am falling for my teacher. When I first started his class I didn't really feel anything but as the days went on I found my thoughts wandering to him. I still ...
A. 18 October 2007: I can relate myself to your problem...I'm in just about the same situation and feel i cannot get over this 'crush'
You remind me of my early stages, however it wasn't long before i became absolutely obsessed with the teacher! It's just a phase and ... (read in full...)
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