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Hey Dearcupid's!

I'm a 20 year old female and live in East Yorkshire (UK) area. Currently taking a gap year from education and should be heading for university this year to study Social Work :) Until recently, I was a part-time carer for my grandmother who suffered from Alzheimer's Disease.

I consider myself to be a caring individual and it gives me great satisfaction to help others in any way I can. This is why I love this website, it allows me to be my true self through offering advice that I feel would be most efficient for that particular person. I'm empathetic and non-judgemental, so I would recommend myself if you're looking for some guidance (without sounding big-headed lol). So do feel free to personal message me and I will be sure to get back to you asap.

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I'm falling for my teacher

Q.   Okay I have a real problem that could get bigger if I don't know how to stop it. I think I am falling for my teacher. When I first started his class I didn't really feel anything but as the days went on I found my thoughts wandering to him. I still ...

A.   18 October 2007: I can relate myself to your problem...I'm in just about the same situation and feel i cannot get over this 'crush' You remind me of my early stages, however it wasn't long before i became absolutely obsessed with the teacher! It's just a phase and ... (read in full...)

What am I doing wrong? All I do is homework and there's no school mate who likes me.

Q.   im miserable. its as simple as that. these days i cant see any meaning in life. all i can think about is how horrible i am. im fat, small(ish), ugly, all i do is homework and there's not one girl in the school who can actually say they like me. th...

A.   9 October 2007: Oh Dear...You seem a little down! Listen, Don't worry about the girlfriend thing! Sure, you can feel a little left out at times if all your friends have one. But what is the point? Isn't education the most important thing right now...I'm sure you... (read in full...)

I don't think he loves me enough - should I let him get me pregnant?

Q.   dear cupid\ I'm in a distance relationship with this guy, he is working and I am student, I'm 19 he is 24. At times he is all caring and loving, but when he is angry he calls me names and yet he says he loves me, he even wants to inpregnate me...

A.   7 October 2007: You say you love the guy - but he calls you names? and clearly doesn't want you to get pregnant by him? If a man loved you, you would know about it - he'd treat you with respect, be with you constantly and would probably want your kids - but he ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher! Help!

Q.   i'm fifteen and i'm in love with my teacher and it so hard to see him at school knowing that i cant have him. i feel that he treats me differently as when we went on a school trip to germany he was so incredibly nice to me when i was ill and he ...

A.   2 October 2007: Hiya hunni! I know its sooo hard, i've got a massive crush on my teacher too...Well, Actually i fink its more than a crush! Erm, telling your teacher your depressed may seem the answer - but all you'll get is pity and gain more concern from him... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   14 September 2007: Hiya Thank you 'secrets-x-sh!' I hope yur right about getting over him soon cos the pain is like so unbearable - i just wanna talk to the guy and get to know him more but...ah guess i'm just too shy! I know you say that long periods of time away ... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   7 September 2007: If i am as you say 'acting' and making a big deal out of nothing...then would i have the decency to admit i need help? answer = NO! I know dat i need help, it's an obsession got out of hand...Okay, so it sounds a little exagerated! but i can asure ... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   7 September 2007: 'Eyeswideopen' How can you say that about me! Drama Queen...right so you think this is all an act do you? I NEVER PLANNED FOR MY FEELINGS FOR HIM TO GET SO UNBEARABLY BAD! I like this site as its a great way of expressing my inner feelings. You ... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   7 September 2007: Hi people. I am so depressed and upset! I can't even think straight at the moment - i feel my life is worthless! You see, the reality just hit me - i can't ever be with him, having it being confirmed that his wife is definately pregnant. I can't say ... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   6 September 2007: To previous message - SERIOUSLY, we are in the exact same situation! My crush is also a history teacher! lol... (read in full...)

He's part of the popular group at school and i'm part of the geeky group. How can I let him know I like him?

Q.   Hey all - At school there is guy I really like and he sent me messages that he liked me. All my mates said he liked me too - and I really liked him. Then he posted poems and stuff on his profile on Bebo and I was so hopeful it was for me. But ...

A.   5 September 2007: Oh hunni, don't be so hard on yourself! Go for it, if he likes you, he will not reject you! And nonsense about the so-called 'geeky group' i'm assuming this term means unpopular - don't worry about it! Your probably an attractive young girl with a ... (read in full...)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

Q.   Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the ...

A.   5 September 2007: Thanx 'roxyxxx' You've given me the best advice yet! Y'kno when you told him that you liked him, how did he react? And would you advise me to tell mine too? Even tho nothing can obviously happen between us - Could it help me cope better with my feel... (read in full...)

Her main complaint was that I am too clingy! What can I do?

Q.   Okay, I have a tough question to ask. I started this summer with a girl that I really liked. We hit it off, and our friendship turned into a sexual one. We would play around in public and in private. Then all of the sudden, things started to change. ...

A.   2 September 2007: Well i think it is really sweet when a man is head-over-heals for a woman! Maybe at times she does find you too clingy, she perhaps wants to hang with mates for a bit! Most people need their own space once in a while...But if she's changed as you ... (read in full...)

I eat healthily, but i can't seem to gain any weight! Advice, please?

Q.   hello. i am a girl in the 16-19 yrs group, and i need advice on weight gaining. i am 5'5 and weigh around 103 lbs. my boyfriend says he likes me thin, but i get comments all the time from people saying that i look anorexic/bulemic, sickly, boney, ...

A.   2 September 2007: Yes you do appear to be underweight...And being called names is likely to reduce your self confidence even if you do ignore them. I quicky just found this site, which gives some tips! I hope it helps! xxx http://www.snac.ucla.edu/pages/... (read in full...)

I want a friend to tell my teacher I love him

Q.   Hiya, i have a real bad problem. For about 8 months now ive really really fancied my teacher, and its beyond a crush, i kind of love him. Hes all im thinking about to be honest. Lately its getting so bad, that when i start college, im gonig to go ...

A.   30 August 2007: Hunni, i'm so touched by your post - I know EXACTLY how it feels! I'm 15 and luckily have yet another year at my school and have the opportunity to see my teacher everyday :P I desperately wanna tell him how i feel, and this 6 week holiday have ... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of this massive spot below my nose?

Q.   Right, i got this massive spot below my nose! Now, its not like a little zit, that some girls totally freak out about! It's really noticeable, even with foundation on! And i need to get rid of it, i'm self-conscious about my face, as it is with all ...

A.   27 August 2007: Ooooh Thank you sooo much 4 thee advice xxxxxxx... (read in full...)

I accidentally had sex with a 14 year old girl

Q.   ok I have a (hypothetical) question. I am a male in my mid 30's. My wife my 2 daughters (3 and 7) and my niece (15) and her friend (14) went on a road trip to Florida. We stopped halfway there and got a hotel room, my wife and I in one room the...

A.   24 August 2007: The situation is unrealistic enough, but what you're asking is completely ridiculous...COURSE YOU'RE A PEDOPHILE AND SHOULD BE ASHAMED! I think you're trying to make out that you're the victim here, i'm assuming that there's more to it! If you were ... (read in full...)

How do people act when they are jealous?

Q.   Generally, could people be mean to you if they are jealous of you? Also could they treat you differently than other people? I encountered this before and am quite confused about it. How do people act when they are jealous? please help....

A.   14 August 2007: Hi there! You've basically answered your own question - people are mean to you when they're jealous! When you encounter this type of behaviour, you often experience put-down comments! They'll usually try to find a fault with you to make them feel ... (read in full...)

I had sex with my brother and I'm worried about being pregnant.

Q.   I had sex with my brother I only started my period a month ago and I know your not even supposed to have produced eggs by this point but I'm worried and I don't want tests or to tell anyone. Please help....

A.   13 August 2007: This is quite a tough situation! And yes, if i were you i'd be worried about being pregnant too - yu should go to a clinic maybe with a close friend who yu can trust and get sum tests dun - its for the best hunni! Havin a baby with your brother is ... (read in full...)

I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?

Q.   I love a teacher in our school!! What should I do?...

A.   13 August 2007: Hey hunni! I agree with 'Dusky' about the fact why he's avoiding you - I'm going thru a similar experience to you, with me, i make it completely obvious i like him [often without meaning to] And to be honest my first thort was that he was avoiding ... (read in full...)

I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher

Q.   Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?...

A.   5 August 2007: I know since you're underage for a relationship with an older man - i shouldn't be of any encouragement to you, but i can't help but be so! And at the same time, a little jealous! I am soooo mad about a drop-dead gawjus teacher, i'm gonna tell him ... (read in full...)

Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?

Q.   Recently my pet died and i was wondering if there is anything that can give me some advice to help me get over him please?...

A.   8 July 2007: Awwwh Hunni, i kno how it feels! Regardless of how affectionate it was towards you and how long it lived for - You still feel like your heart has broken up into tiny pieces! When anything happens to an animal, you're likely to come to the conclusion ... (read in full...)

I fall in love so easily, I feel it rules my life and my mind!

Q.   One of my life long problems is love. I fall head over heels in love with males easily, and while I've been able to develop a degree of dispassionate detachment, my heart rules my head. For example, my current boyfriend is a long distance ...

A.   27 June 2007: Awwwwh hun i kno how u feel! It's happened twice to me and infact is still currently happening - You fall in love with someone and you just can't let go - some see this as a good thing but it's soo painful and you feel so trapped n cannot stop ... (read in full...)

My friend is crushing on teachers--what should I do?

Q.   Hello. I'm 15 years old and I'm writing because I'm concerned about my friend. She's in love with one of the teachers at my school and gets turned on by another one and says she wants to have sex with him. My friend doesn't see why it's wrong to...

A.   25 June 2007: Ders nothing u can do! You nor anyone else can break up this crush she has, she'll eventually find an attractive boy of her own age to crush on. I'm also madly in love and obsessed wiv a teacher and i kno for a fact dat nobody can ever take these ... (read in full...)

I feel ugly and unsupported

Q.   I am very young and i already loathe my body. i am not only pressured by all the skinny people in the media, but by how all the people in my family are thin and gorgous. i think i have a pretty face but fat thighs and stomich, flat chested and i ...

A.   23 June 2007: Awwwh Hunni, wen i was about yur age i felt the same! I felt overweight and hadn't much self-confidence - Puberty isn't a particularly pleasant stage of life to go thru, your body is constantly changing and you feel let down by it! But hun, once ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher! Help!

Q.   i'm fifteen and i'm in love with my teacher and it so hard to see him at school knowing that i cant have him. i feel that he treats me differently as when we went on a school trip to germany he was so incredibly nice to me when i was ill and he ...

A.   21 June 2007: Awwwh hun you're not alone! I'm in the situation as you and i'm also 15, fancying a 30 year old teacher lol! The only difference is, the teacher i really really love shows no signs of liking me, unfortunately! But I fink he does know tho, coz ... (read in full...)

I had sex with a boy twice before and I'm worried if bleeding is a normal thing???

Q.   ok I'm 14 going 15 this December 2, I had sex with a boy twice before and I'm worried if bleeding is a normal thing???...

A.   12 June 2007: Hun, i'm not too sure about the bleeding issue - but i can't help but be disgusted - YOU'RE 14! sex shouldn't be committed until you're at least 18. Hun, i fink i've read before on dis site dat bleeding isn't a problem whilst having intercourse, ... (read in full...)

Am I too desperate?

Q.   my name is max and i love sex but i can'nt find any who is fit and how want to have sex with me i would love to have sex with some one and you could be in my beb tonight or you could give me someones name for me to have sex with so pllease help me ...

A.   11 June 2007: Right lol...I'll answer your question - YOU ARE TOO DESPERATE! To be honest, i don't fink this is even a real question. How can you expect someone to just have sex with you? Just be patient, wait for the right girl but a word of advice...if you did ... (read in full...)

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