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writes:I am leaving school next week and before I go I want to put all my wrongs right and leave on go terms.Sounds good?Yet its going to be soo hard, there is a teacher who I used to get on with yet I had a thing for her n always have had! But she started to feelthat way too but told me she couldnt do that, because she didnt want to break the law. However I wouldnt leave her alone n the other teachers noticed... this lead to loads of trouble for me soo I decided to make her life a living hell.N I did just that!!Yet now I want to apologise before I leave even though it was a year- 18 month ago. I still feel guilty but how can I apologise now, I wont live with my self if I dnt do this!!Keep in mind that now she is pregnant,,, hormone raging! But HELP... I need to know how to get this done!=] Reply to this Question
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reader, sweetuffy23  +, writes (10 May 2008):
Hey i think its really good that you want to apologize.I am going through a horrible situation now and i want to apologize but i know i cant because i cant have any contact with him.And contacting him will make things more difficult.This should be the only time you do so.Be prepared,have down everything you want to say.I suggest you do it in person because for any reason if something goes wrong she/he will have evdience that you were the one that pursue this and wouldnt leave it alone or that you were the cause of everything.So its better to be in person preferrably somewhere secluded and private.Email me so we can talk more,because i'm going through the same thing.
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (10 May 2008):
 Hiya, I'm wanting to apologise to my teacher too! I gave a letter to him expressing my feelings, and things turned out kinda bad between us! I need to apologise for putting him through such an awkward situation that could have cost him his job! Anyway feel free to mail me, we could work through this together? Hope you're okay xx
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reader, :):):) +, writes (9 May 2008):
Its nice you want to leave things are good terms. It would also make her feel alot better knowing you're sorry.
Meeting her in person could be difficult and awkward for you both so a short letter or a card would be a good idea.
I'm sure she'll be happy taht you made the effort.
xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): what your doing sounds like a great idea, I say that on your last day of term simply go to her class room when school has finished and say sorry- if your afraid that you'll forget things then write down what yuo need to say.If you cant see her in person, leave a note on her table explaining how guilty you feel ect,im sure she'd respect you alot for doing that,
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): If you contact her, do it only by mail, not in person. Send her a letter and then leave it alone and move on.
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