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My wife wants to be painted nude. Is this normal?

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Question - (1 May 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2013)
A male Australia age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi

my wife would like to have a nude painting done of her and is quite turned on by that fact that people will see it.

is this normal or what

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A male reader, The Artist United Kingdom +, writes (17 February 2013):

Crossley Fine Art specialise in nude paintings for couples.

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A male reader, hari India +, writes (4 June 2008):

There is nothing abonormal in it. Its a sexual enjoyment to be painted nude by the partners. My wife also enjoys to be smeared with bhasma as three line tilakas (Indian way mostly used by men in temples)all over her naked body by me during sexual play. So, proceed and enjoy!

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I've let this answer through, but I'm a little dubious as to exactly what 'bhasma and 'three line tilakas' allude to. I hope it's nothing rude. I'm going to have to look them up I think!

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (18 May 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntPornography or art ,normal or abnormal?

This depends on where you live and whether you are an ultra or a conservative.

If there is no peace between you two ,

then it is better to grant her that wish with certain conditions or whatever.

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A female reader, diva girl United States +, writes (17 May 2008):

i think that you should respect her decision, but i would talk to her about it and see why she plans on doing it. it's not unusual for a woman to get a nude picture drawn of her. it make them feel beautiful. yes it is normal. relax! don't freak out!

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntI adore nude art, I think its wonderfull that your wife would want to do this. She must be very secure with the way she looks, and thats such a wonderfull thing to hear in this day and age.

Suport her, and let her know that you are a uncomfortable about this. I'm sure she will be able to explain that your fears are unfounded.

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A female reader, Love_is_all_youu_need United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

Love_is_all_youu_need agony auntI think it's normal! Some women are unique and get turned on by unusal things! Paint her, she'll love you for it and i'm sure you'll get plenty of appreciation! :) xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008):

I am a 34 yr old woman and have been thinking of a having a nude painting done of me, to hang on our bedroom wall. I would want to make it suttle and tasteful and not slutty. The reason is that it makes me feel sexy and is something that I would like to share with my husband. The idea adds a great spark to our sex life. Normal, what is normal anyway?? Gladly we are all different, otherwise the world would be a boring old place!

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (1 May 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntIt's fine, but I think she really ought to consider whether or not you would be happy about it.

One of our neighbours, a very "respectable" and quite prim and proper lady, regularly posed nude as an artists' model for over fifty years right into her late seventies until shortly before she died. She told me she found it exciting to know that so many people had seen paintings of her over the years, and that her husband had never really approved!

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 May 2008):

TasteofIndia agony auntGetting a nude painting is a heck of a lot classier than having Playboy style pictures taken. I think it's great that your wife wants to embrace her beautiful woman's body in the form of art. Let's face it - a woman's body IS a work of art and is so often appreciated as such - just check out any art museum.

Find someone who's work you appreciate, get her painted up and hang it in your bedroom. I think it's a really cool idea.

xx India

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A female reader, rorowes United States +, writes (1 May 2008):

rorowes agony auntWomen love to be admired. Saying that, if it bothers you, share your concerns with her, and see where that takes you. Hopefully she considers your feelings.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (1 May 2008):

Danielepew agony aunt"Normal" is sometimes a tricky word. I'm sure she wants people to see her naked. I'm not sure if this is "usual".

I suppose she should take into consideration that you find this disturbing.

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