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3 May 2009: So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...
Sex and STD's
This question has 2 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
2 May 2009: So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...
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I am 13 and a lot of other girls tell me I should have sex, but I don't want to!
Q. im 13 years old and a lot of other girls are saying that i should have sex but i havent gone through puberty yet and i heard that dry sex reeeeeely hurts and i want to lose my virgenity when im married to the man of my dreams what sould i do?!...
A. 3 May 2010: I was in the same situation when I was your age. Best thing to do is to just ignore them. If you don't want to have sex then that's your choice, not theirs! Stick to whatever you believe, trust me, you'll be glad that you did later on in life. I... (read in full...)
Anyone have experience with Cerezette?
Q. Hey, just a quick question... I've been on the contraceptive pill Cerezette for the past 6 months and throughout everytime I've had sex with my BF I've bled. It's not a lot, a little on his penis and I bleed out a little, was wondering if any...
A. 23 April 2010: I've given up on going to the doctors too..
Ever since i first started the pill, sex can be painful for me too, along with some other problems down there... I've had 3 std tests done, 1st one came back with thrush, the other 2 were complete... (read in full...)
How long till I'm fully protected?
Q. Hi. I've recently just started re-taking microgynon 30. I used to take it a few months ago, but have only just been allowed to continue it, as I've been ill. I started the first packet yesterday - but it was after my period (the week before) had ...
A. 23 April 2010: You should be fine after 1 week. Wait 2 if you want to make sure. You could also ask at the pharmacy if you're still not sure.... (read in full...)
Anyone have experience with Cerezette?
Q. Hey, just a quick question... I've been on the contraceptive pill Cerezette for the past 6 months and throughout everytime I've had sex with my BF I've bled. It's not a lot, a little on his penis and I bleed out a little, was wondering if any...
A. 23 April 2010: I was on Cerazette for 5 months and never had that happen to me though.
Whats your period been like with it? I'm only asking because it messed mine up big time.
I'd definitely have that checked out, it doesn't sound like something normal... (read in full...)
Does the spelling change the meaning behind the words?
Q. Does love and luv have the same meaning? When a guy tells you he loves u is it more stronger than when he says i luv u? Or are they the same? It sounds the same but when you text it differently are the feelings behind it not as strong?...
A. 18 April 2010: In general when texting, yes, love would be a stronger emotion than luv. However, it doesn't apply to everyone. I know a few people who will always write I LUV U simply because it's text language not because they don't have as strong emotions... (read in full...)
I'm very addicted to online gaming, how do I get my social life back?
Q. Hey guys so I'm a 15 year old guy and recently my life's been a bit of a mess. I've spent the last few year being an on and off total online gaming addict. I droove away all my friends and spent every bit of spare time playing. I use to be top of my ...
A. 18 April 2010: You could try to set yourself a time limit how long you're allowed to play those games every week. Or you could do it the hard way and not play anything at all. Try going to the gym once a week or join a sports club. It'll get you fit and will mak... (read in full...)
My little sister doesn't know who I am!
Q. This is a relationship question about me and my mother. My parents got divorced when i was 10 and i blame my mother because she had an affair, with the guy she's now with. They have a daughter, Grace, who's 4. I live with my father as my mother's ...
A. 16 April 2010: Who's decision was it for you to live with your dad? Your mum's? Your's? Your dad's?
I suppose in a way it almost doesn't matter. What does your mum say about her boyfriend not wanting you around their house? I think she's letting him control her ... (read in full...)
I'm 17, how would I look if I dated a 15-year-old?
Q. I'm 17 and I'm wondering is dating a girl that is 15 and a freshman is that low class? She is really nice but would that make me look bad...
A. 16 April 2010: Everyone will have their own opinions about it. Some will think nothing of it while others may think that it's wrong.
I don't think it'd be wrong if you dated, but like others already said, stay away from sleeping with her until she's of legal age.... (read in full...)
Symptoms of pregnancy or a reaction to the pill?
Q. so, my boyfriend and i have been having a lot of unprotected sex, where he also finishes inside me. i have only been on birth control pill for a month now. i just got my period today(when i was supposed to according to my pills) but its just a thick ...
A. 14 April 2010: Most likely just your body getting used to the pill. Remember, the pill is a hormonal form of birth control, so your hormones will be all over the place.
As your on your period I doubt that you are pregnant but it's always best to make sure so get ... (read in full...)
Do you think the thrush capsule I took has affected my pill?
Q. Hey all just a quick question! I got thrush ages ago, a very mild form of it too the point it only bothered me sometimes and even then that was mainly after/during sex and i had the discharge. I finally got myself to a chemist where i picked u...
A. 13 April 2010: It may just be you worrying too much. Stress can cause periods to be different than to what we're used to. I was on microgynen 30 too last year, but only for 2 months (it made me feel incredibly sick) then went on yasmin... my doctor changed ... (read in full...)
I forget to take the pill once or twice a week. Is it possible I am pregnant?
Q. I am on the pill but i sometimes forget to take it once or twice a week I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and now im panicing Is it possible to have pregnancy symptoms 2 weeks since? I feel like im going to be sick alot, Im always really...
A. 21 March 2010: Symptoms kick in at different points for everyone. Some women feel the difference right from the start, other not until a few weeks or months into the pregnancy.
Take a pregnancy test to be sure.
And I'd advice you to speak to your doctor a... (read in full...)
Is it OK to let my LDR girlfriend go to the prom with another guy?
Q. My LDR gf just told me today that there were 3 guys who ask her to the prom. i ask her if she going and she said i dont know. Is it really okay to let my gf go to the prom with another guy. ...
A. 19 March 2010: I'd be surprised if my guy let me go to the prom with another guy!
Me and most of my friends didn't have a date for our prom and we had a great time! ... (read in full...)
She thinks she is pregnant but we always use condoms, I'm nervous, any help?
Q. hi i am 18 years old and just started having sex a couple of months ago with condoms but my girlfirend is saying that her period has been late three weeks and her boobs hurt and she is urinating a lot and she thinks she is pregnant but we always use ...
A. 19 March 2010: A condom can easily break without you noticing. Also periods can be delayed through stress. If she is already 3 weeks late she should take a pregnancy test. There is no need for either of you to stress over it when you don't even know for sure... (read in full...)
Is it more of a health factor or is there a limit on being slim?
Q. Is it possible to be too skinny? Could it be a turn off? With being thin I am really flexible. Also, even if I feel fat I do not talk about it all the time and let my husband look at me. I just understand, because everyone always says, “You can ...
A. 18 March 2010: Besides it being unhealthy being really skinny, do you personally think that someone who is pretty much just made out of skin and bones is attractive? If not, then you already have your answer.
And like k_c100 said, your size has nothing to do wi... (read in full...)
Contraception and what would suit me best?
Q. Hi All, Ok, so being at Uni, life has moved pretty fast, and I've found myself falling for an amazing guy, we've been together for a few weeks. We've been sleeping together and I'm currently on the pill. We are both clear of STIs, so that's not a ...
A. 18 March 2010: Injection sounds like a good option for you because you'll only have to go for it every 3 months and not have to worry about it in the meantime. I was on 3 different pills over the course of 9 months, and none of them made me gain weight, the... (read in full...)
When I slept with him I had no idea he had a pregnant girlfriend! Why is this my fault?
Q. Ok so about two months ago i had sex with this guy who already had a girlfriend and she's pregnant. I was the one who asked him to have sex with me but i had no idea he had a girlfriend especially a pregnant one. but anyways when we did it we got ...
A. 16 March 2010: EVEN IF you had known, it wouldn't be entirely your fault as he would have been the one who gave in!
Like CaringGuy said, he's most likely to just be blaming you because it is easier than taking the blame himself. Plus it won't make him look as ... (read in full...)
Questions about the Pill......
Q. Hello everyone after a long decision ive decided to start taking the pill But want to ask some questions Please if anyone can help then great thankyou......... Do u have to pay for the pill? Where do u get the pill from? Is it good...
A. 15 March 2010: You have to see your doctor if you want to start taking the pill. Some people have try out different brands before they find one that suits them. I went through 3, none of them were very good for me so I am now on the patch. You should start ta... (read in full...)
I want to see a virginal vagina!
Q. Of all the porn that is there on the net, and in hard copy, i have seldom come across a photograph of a real virgin girl with her hymen intact. I am a male and from a conservative society, and am going to marry soon. The marriage is an arranged ...
A. 13 March 2010: You can't always tell if someone is a virgin or not. Not by looking or feeling. Like it was said before, some women are born withouth a hymen, and for some the hymen breaks through varies activities, such as swimming, horse riding, any form of ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be her carer as her health worsens so I broke it off with her!
Q. I just ended a relationship with my girlfriend (we been together 2 years, had our ups and downs but shes a good person). She recently found out she has a serious heart condition and will probably end up in a wheelchair and dependant (her health has ...
A. 13 March 2010: Only way to get over a break up is time. But keeping yourself busy can help to take your mind off it.
Call her and say you'd like to talk to her. Sit her down and properly explain to her why you broke up with it. It's not going to be easy for eith... (read in full...)
Yellowish discharge???
Q. Heres the thing this is a bit awkward..... I just finished my last period about 3-4 days ago. But there seems to be a yellowish discharge and I'm not sure whether I should go and see my doctor.... It's quite heavy. I've never had this problem ...
A. 13 March 2010: If you've never had it before it'll be best if you go and see your doctor. It's probably nothing, but it's always best to make sure. ... (read in full...)
Had sex with my step brother then he got mad when he found out I was a virgin!
Q. Ok I am not here so people can say rude things I am just need a little advice form OPEN MINDED people. My step brother is 10 yrs older then me. (We have the same dad). I am 18 and he is 28. He recently moved back home because him and his gf broke up...
A. 11 March 2010: First off, I'm sorry to say but if you have the same dad, he is not your step brother - he is your half brother, and therefore it's incest.
If he was willing to have sex with you, I don't know why it would matter if you're a virgin or not. Only thin... (read in full...)
"Brace" yourself!!!
Q. I am 27 and have horrible upper teeth, I have just seen an orthodontist who has said I need a fixed brace for 12-18 months, I have always felt awkward about my teeth and want them straight but I am constantly worried what people think of me and ...
A. 10 March 2010: No matter how old you are, it doesn't matter if someone wears braces or not. If a guy is interested in you, then he should like you for YOU and not for your appearance. My boyfriend had his one for 5 years and it never caused any problems for us. To ... (read in full...)
How effective is the pill "microgynon 30" ?
Q. hi guys, just a question about the pill im on.. im on microgynon 30 and i was just wondering how effective it is? when my doctor put me on it, i asked her if my partner and i still need to use condoms, and she said that as long as im taking the pill ...
A. 10 March 2010: I was on this pill, only for 2 months though. I didn't get pregnant but it made me feel incredibly sick after the 1st month.... (read in full...)
Does Anyone really find love online or LDR?
Q. Does anyone really find love or a relationship online? Is it possible? I hear stories and know people. But are they the rule or the exception? Is it possible to find love long distance through online. I just like to hear if anyone who has found ...
A. 6 March 2010: Yes it's possible. I met my boyfriend of over a year online, and it wasn't even a dating site! We're 'only' 2 and a half hours away from each other, so we're fairly lucky i guess. I finish high school in july, once i finish i'll be moving in with ... (read in full...)
I got my period but it was really heavy and just for one day. Could I be pregnant?
Q. alright so me and my now ex boyfriend had sex between the day i was most fertile and ovulation and the day that i was just fertile since then ive been showing early signs of pregnancy..i got my period but it was a day early and wasnt a real period ...
A. 5 March 2010: You need to take a pregnancy test to be sure. Periods can change when under stress. And like Emivia said, it is possible to get your period while you're pregnant, although it's not counted as a "real" period. It's fairly rare, but there has been ... (read in full...)
I ejaculated in her face and now she is ignoring me.
Q. Well it all started when my freind suggested we hav sex ill admit it was great but it all went wrong when she went to finish me off she sucked me then told me to cum in her mouth i couldnt hold it long enough and ejaculated that hard i ended up ...
A. 5 March 2010: Most girls don't like it when a guy ejaculates over their face. Some simply don't like it, others find it degrading. So give her time, but if she doesn't get back to you sometime in the next few weeks ask her if you can talk to her and tell her that ... (read in full...)
Is it right for us to settle down or should we wait?
Q. i am with this boy for five years and we are planning to get married and have a baby...do you think that its right for us to settle down????? or do you think we should wait...
A. 3 March 2010: If you can both see each other being with one another for the rest of your lives then sure, why not? Plus it's not about what anyone else thinks, it's about whether it feels right for you... (read in full...)
Why wouldn't he finish while I was giving him a handjob?
Q. Okay, well I gave my boyfriend a handjob. I know he was totally turned on from it. He was hard for a realllyy long time. But he wouldn't cum? He said everytime I almost had it but he just wouldn't. Is there any reasons for this?...
A. 3 March 2010: There could be a lot of reasons for that.
Changing speed can effect it. If it was your first time you may not have got the 'right' movements to make him cum. This doesn't mean you're not good at it, just need to get used to what feels best for him.... (read in full...)
My b/f says it's the baby or him
Q. Hi I am 14 wks pregnant and been in my relationship with my boyfriend for 8 years and we have a 5 year old son together. My boyfriend is not happy about this pregnancy and says he doesnt want anymore kids and is forcing me to choose between him and ...
A. 1 March 2010: I'd choose the baby. Any man that makes you decide between him and your children isn't worth being with! Court usually gives custody to the mother unless she is found uncabable of looking after the child. And I'd definitely go with caring guy'... (read in full...)
Birth control issues!
Q. Hi All- I can't find a good answer to my particular situation anywhere, so I figured I would try here. I am having some birth control issues. I have switched between several brands over the past year and I cannot seem to keep my periods regular....
A. 1 March 2010: The irregular periods will be because you've been switching pills. As for the discharge, i doubt it's anything to worry about, but get it checked if you're worried. I've been on 3 different brands... none of them worked for me and messed with me ... (read in full...)
I have no respect for my wife and don't plan on having kids together. How do I tell her?
Q. Please don't judge me for what I write .... My wife and I have been married for 5 yrs. I love her deeply but I look at her as a whore. We have had a very interesting sex life since meeting, engaging in group sex, 3 sums, public sex and often sw...
A. 8 February 2010: How can you expect any of us not to judge you? You're calling your own wife a whore! If she is a whore, than sure you can't be any better, after all, you engaged in all those activities too!... (read in full...)
My pregnant girlfriend is insisting I move or lose all contact
Q. My girlfriend is 6 moths pregnant, now we are arranging to start living together, she lives with her sister in london and I do live in mantchester, now the thing is she says I should go and live in london with them, but I asked her to come over here ...
A. 8 February 2010: I think your girlfriend is right! she'll be under enough stress from the pregnancy alone, she doesn't need the stress of moving on top of that! ... (read in full...)
Can birth control cause me to become less wet during sex?
Q. So, I get extremely wet right before sex and during sex and I stay very wet all throughout sex no matter how long the session is (lucky me I guess). I've never had to use any lubrication. But I was wondering if taking birth control can change that? ...
A. 7 February 2010: It can, but doesn't always... Every woman is different, some are lucky and it doesn't change, others aren't as lucky and will notice a big difference. Only way to find out is to try it. If you do find that it changes it and don't feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
My sister physically attacked me when I am 7 months pregnant!
Q. Im 7 months pregnant I still live at home with my parents and sister and lastnight I had a row with my sister and she physically attacked me. My parents are standing up for my sister saying that ' I shouldnt hide behind my pregnancy as a way of ...
A. 7 February 2010: I think both, you and you're sister are in the wrong! You may have gone into her room to get something that belongs to you, but you should have just kept asking her to give it back until she did so. She shouldn't have pulled your head back though, ... (read in full...)
She said our friendship willbe over if I date a guy of a different race.
Q. Hi i really need advice here as my really close friend has turned round 2 me n sed our friendship is ova if i go out wid this lad (who is coloured) n i ment 2 b meetin him n he has sed that he really likes me n we have never met b4 jst come really ...
A. 6 February 2010: She's obviously not your friend if she tells you your friendship is over if you go out with him! It's your choice who you want to go out with. And unless she has an extremely good reason to tell you not go out with him (e.g. if he was a player or ... (read in full...)
15 with a planned pregnancy!
Q. Im 15 and Pregent , Me and my boyfriend started haveing sex unprotected for about 2 month but i never i got pregent , Until One day we Both decided to Plan on haveing a Baby. Three weeks ago after he cummed inside of me . I took Three pregencey test ...
A. 6 February 2010: Well first off, it's completely normal to want a baby - however, wanting a baby, and purposely having unprotected sex and planning to have one are completely different things.
Before jumping to any conclusions though, you might want to make sur... (read in full...)
Will the 4 year age gap make our relationship difficult?
Q. I am in a relationship with a girl that is 4 years younger then me we have been together and plan to be forever i was wondering if things are to serious for a 16 year old girl and do i have to worry about when she starts to want to go to parties and ...
A. 4 February 2010: I wouldn't worry too much. I started going out with my boyfriend when I was 16, we've been together for just over a year now and I'm coming up to 18. Well, I've never been a party sort of person and I know that won't change. There is also a 4 year ... (read in full...)
Any ideas of how I can get my dog to chew his food and stop choking?
Q. I dont know where else to ask this question so I am going for it here since most people have pets. I have two 4 month old miniature chihuahuas. They are brother and sister and the female Pixie is larger than her brother Bubba. I am having a problem ...
A. 24 January 2010: Have you tried mixing it into their dog food?
I doubt that this is normal so it may be worth talking to a vet or asking in a pet shop about it... (read in full...)
Any ideas on how to lose weight?
Q. i need help big time i weight about 140 and i need 2 lose weight my friends say im really pretty to the thing is tat im chubby and i dont know how to lose weight buy the summer cuz in the summer my sister i having her quenceyeta or how ever u spell ...
A. 24 January 2010: One of my favourites, even though i haven't been for ages - swimming! It's really fun if you go with a friend, it works just about every muscle in the body and therefor helps you to loose weight as well as tone up!
If you join a gym you will have... (read in full...)
Wondering if my periods are normal
Q. I'm 13 and I've been a woman for a little over a year now, but my periods aren't regular and sometimes I miss 3 or 4 at a time and then a heavy one in the middle of the month that lasted bout a week for the flow to finally stop, and then last month ...
A. 24 January 2010: It's more than normal. I first started mine when I was 10, and it didn't settle down properly till I was 14...
Everyone always says that the pill helps with periods, but to be honest, with me all it's been doing is mess with my body and my cycl... (read in full...)
My best friend and I are fighting over a boy
Q. My best friend is saying stuff about me and I want to punch her in the face..Should I? This all started over a boy....
A. 24 January 2010: I can understand how you feel... but no! It's not going to solve anything. You 2 need to have a serious chat. Because it's not worth falling out with your friend over a boy! ... (read in full...)
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