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3 May 2009: So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...
Sex and STD's
This question has 2 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
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2 May 2009: So, I've been hearing more and more about (young) teens beeing worried about pregnancy and STD's, not just on DearCupid but also at college and from friends. I'm not going to talk about pregnancy but STD's.... Everyone knows that Sex educat...
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I'm wondering if its an STD
Q. Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...
A. 30 April 2009: I've finally been able to go back to see my doctor today after having to wait 2 weeks for an appointment :(
Good news though, it was only thrush and she described me some capsules for it, i took it this morning so it should clear up in the next... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if its an STD
Q. Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...
A. 9 April 2009: He'll be getting checked soon too, we just wanted to wait for my results first.... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if its an STD
Q. Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...
A. 9 April 2009: I went to the doctors again today to have the tests done, she told me to call in on tuesday to ask for the results...
I also asked for the pill which she prescribed me straight away and i'll start taking them when i next have my period.
I'll ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if its an STD
Q. Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...
A. 6 April 2009: Just to let you know, I went to the doctors this morning and I have to go back next week to get some tests done. I'll let you know when i have the results and what they are.... (read in full...)
I went over to talk to my sister's boyfriend and now I am pregnant with his child!
Q. I know this may be long, but I need to tell you the whole story, because if I just say my problem you'll think I'm like all those other young teen "whores". my sister was dating this guy who is 24 and she is 23. she always uses me to bring up things ...
A. 2 April 2009: Well, first off, no one here will think you are a whore. You obviously didn't want to have sex with him and didn't agree with it, therefore it was rape.
You really need to tell someone, although your parents really need to know about this, if you ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if its an STD
Q. Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood i...
A. 29 March 2009: Thanks guys :)
I'll make an appointment asap and I'll let you know how it goes. ... (read in full...)
Did YOU bleed your first time???
Q. Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping ...
A. 26 March 2009: To be honest... I couldn't tell as i was on my period at the time - very nice I know :P
It did hurt quite a lot for me, but it was alright because he was really gentle and took it slow. But it doesn't hurt for everyone, one of my friends told me a... (read in full...)
I'm terrified of what he'll do if he finds out I'm still pregnant!
Q. I turned nineteen about a month ago, I'm a freshman in college, and my ex is still in high school. About a week after I broke up with him, he raped me with no protection. The reasons we broke up was because he physically and emotionally abused me ...
A. 22 March 2009: Hunny, i'd report him if i was you. Far too many out the get abused and keep quite about it. You say he's dating someone else, what if he treats her the same way he treated you? or anyone he may date after her?
Normally I'd say the father has the ... (read in full...)
Points to ponder on advise against teenage sex
Q. Out of curiosity, I was recently browsing through the advice I had given in the past 9 odd months I've been on this website. What struck me is how much "stern" I seem to be when giving advice to teenagers under 18 about sex. I frequently adv...
A. 20 March 2009: Well I'm only 17, but I can see where you're coming from and I do agree.
But it doesn't always have to be a bad experience to have sex as a teenager.
I lost my virginty to my boyfriend of 2 months about 2 weeks ago, yes it hurt, but he was gent... (read in full...)
There's no limit to love, right?
Q. Hi (: first off thanks for answering this, or even reading it haha. Okay so I'm 13 years old, but I guess I'm mature for my age. Me and my friends sometimes add people we meet on our social networking site, and they're not pedos or anything, at ...
A. 14 March 2009: Right, you've already had enough of the 'be careful' stuff so i won't start on that.
Fair enough I'm a few years older than you, but i first met my current boyfriend online. We got talking about 4 months ago, he asked me out 2 months ago thou... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's convinced I think she's ugly and think her friends are hot...
Q. My girlfriend has the worse self esteem issues. It all started when I check out her friend in front of her and say she (my gf) better looking then she is (I was a bit drunk as well). She didn't really care at first until we got home. She scream at ...
A. 22 February 2009: i have to agree with betty on this.
firstly apologise... as often as you have to.
tell her everyday that she's beautiful and that your the luckiest guy in the world.
lay off alcohol for good if your going to behave like that, although its no ... (read in full...)
Is anybody else besides me bothered by how acceptable and common it is for people to cheat on one another?
Q. Is anybody else besides me bothered by how acceptable and common it is for people to cheat on one another? It bothers me a lot especially when I'm on here reading about people saying they've cheated and saying "Oops!" like it's no big deal and then ...
A. 22 February 2009: i totally agree.. i really dont know how people can do that to the one they say they're in love with.
i can understand that a lot of people who do arent in a good strong relationship at the time, but if things aren't going well, then they shou... (read in full...)
Making friends
Q. I am a 15 year old boy who has problems making friends, see when i went to high school all I did was hang around one of my old friends from pre-school and to get those friends all that I really did was just followed them around until they accepted ...
A. 22 February 2009: one way to get more confident and make new friends is to join some sort of club... anything you enjoy..
im not very confident myself and have always found it hard to make new friends, but since i started at my local youth theatre 3 years ago and ... (read in full...)
WHY does sex hurt the first few times if we're meant to reproduce?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl and don't plan on having sex anytime soon but I was wondering - why does it hurt the first few times you have sex, either when you lose your virginity or when having sex with a new partner? Our bodies are pretty much created ...
A. 22 February 2009: first time sex doesn't hurt for everyone... but the reason that it does is because the first time we have intercourse our hymen is broken. not every girl/ woman has one and it can also be broken by other activities such as dance, horse riding and ... (read in full...)
How old were you when you first French-kissed?
Q. Ummm. I've never pulled ( kissed with tounges ) a guy, I'm 13... How old were YOU when you first did that... Am I too young? ...
A. 20 February 2009: i kissed 1 guy when i was 14 (without tongues) he tried but i didnt want to...
im now almost 17 and have not yet french kissed
xx... (read in full...)
Why do children want to have children? It's so wrong and disturbing.
Q. Why are there so many children who want and crave to have a baby?! I find it really disturbing that a 13 year old wants to have a baby. They have no clue about how to look after themselves, let alone a baby. Also why should tax payers pay for t...
A. 19 February 2009: good question...
maybe it's because a lot of us don't get the love and affection we need and/or want from our family and friends.
some may even have had a pretty bad childhood and feel that by having their own baby they can make up for the thin... (read in full...)
I read about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!
Q. I am a virgin at 21. Am I a freak? I read erotic fiction books, own several toys and think about sex all the time but actually doing it terrifies me!please help....
A. 19 February 2009: No you're not a freak. My sister is 23 and has only recently lost her virginity. Just wait until you have found the right guy who'll make you feel special, safe and secure. I'm sure you'll be fine when it comes to it and won't worry about it i... (read in full...)
I quit smoking but have put on 2 stone! HELP!
Q. hi i have put on 2 stone since packing up smoking i am now 16 stone i feel out of breath all the time my clothes dont fit and i might have dibetas now the nurse said. can you please help me all i want to do is eat cause i am not smoking june i ...
A. 11 February 2009: im not expert on this... id suggest that when you feel like eating to grab some fruit rather than fatty foods/snacks. if your having problems breathing when you do just the smallest thing, maybe your showing signs of asthma!? id deff get that che... (read in full...)
My GF's parents think I'm too old!
Q. I'm 20 and my girlfriend has just turned 16, when she was 15 she told me that her parents were strict and wouldn't approve of the relationship, she's now 16 and they found out about us even though we didn't want them to know yet. They've made her...
A. 29 January 2009: well the legal age over here is 16 so no theres nothing the police can do about the relationship as long as your not hurting anyone.
16 and 20 is not a huge age difference and her parents need to realise that she's old enough to make her own choi... (read in full...)
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