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writes:i am with this boy for five years and we are planning to get married and have a baby...do you think that its right for us to settle down????? or do you think we should wait Reply to this Question
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reader, mystiquek + ♥, writes (3 March 2010):
 No one can answer that but you. If you are having doubts or concerns, then I certainly wouldn't recommend getting married just yet. The odds are NOT in favor of someone your age having a marriage that lasts, but that doesn't mean you can't make things work! Its all up to you and your guy. Have either of you ever dated anyone else? If not, lets hope that if you marry that somewhere down the road neither of you want to know "what you missed". I married at 19, and really regretted it. Everyone is different. Search your heart, talk to your guy.
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 If you can both see each other being with one another for the rest of your lives then sure, why not? Plus it's not about what anyone else thinks, it's about whether it feels right for you
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reader, Psychology101 +, writes (3 March 2010):
Theres no question you should wait. The Fact that your are even having doubts about this is a sign you are not ready for this yet. There is no rush. Remeber you may feel differently 1 2 or 3 years from now. Let me know if i can help you.
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