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writes:Okay, well I gave my boyfriend a handjob. I know he was totally turned on from it. He was hard for a realllyy long time. But he wouldn't cum? He said everytime I almost had it but he just wouldn't. Is there any reasons for this?
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reader, LilPixie  +, writes (3 March 2010):
 There could be a lot of reasons for that.
Changing speed can effect it. If it was your first time you may not have got the 'right' movements to make him cum. This doesn't mean you're not good at it, just need to get used to what feels best for him. Or it could just have been one of those times where he just couldn't cum. I sometimes get that...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2010): I find it difficult to have an orgasm when getting manual stimulation from anyone other than myself. I don't have that problem with any other kind of contact, but I find that most of the girls I've been with don't know how to do it properly. It ends up hurting, but I don't want to say anything because I appreciate the effort and fear if I say anything that they'll be afraid to try again.
With anything, direction is key. Ask him how he wants you to do it. Put him in the "driver's seat" as it were. Get comfortable giving eachother direction and you'll never regret it.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 March 2010):
He may have been nervous, or his mind might have been elsewhere. Whatever it was, it's no big deal. It;s not your fault, and it's not his. It just happens sometimes, and unless it happens over and over again, there is nothing to worry about.
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