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| | *ethalInjection-x's profile:My name's Laura, &I'm from Birmingham, in the UK.
Admittedly I'm young, but I like listening to people, &I think I'm able to give level-headed, unbiased advice.
People fascinate me, &I'd rather sit back and watch a crowd of people than actually be involved. There's nothing more interesting than how people react to the things around them.
There's been so many times that I've wanted an answer to something, or someone to give me their opinion about a situation, &there's been no one. Which is why I love this site, and also why I make time to listen to others.
If anyone wants to know more about me, feel free to visit my myspace, you can talk to me via that aswell.
www.myspace.com/noonehearsmyscreams
I'll always have time for anyone, &I always reply to anyone who messages me.
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I don't want to be unhappy in my life, nor do I want to lose the "one"
Q. Hello Agony Aunts and Uncles, Please help me. I have been having serious doubts about my relationship for some time, but instead of acting on these feelings and breaking off the relationship I worry that perhaps I'm giving up the love of my life....
A. 7 September 2009: It could be that you fear breaking off the relationship because he is everything that is familiar to you. Steady relationships provide comfort and are a constant in your life, so it's hard to give them up.. even when things are no longer working.
T... (read in full...)
I love my cousin and want to be with him but I don't want to disappoint my mother!
Q. I am 18 years old and I am in love with my cousin we have been secretly dating since I was 13 I never meant to fall for him We met in NYC after not seeing each other for 7 years I didn't feel him like family He is my best friend the one person that ...
A. 7 September 2009: You've been dating for a very long time, so it's obviously not just a fad. If you really do love him then you need to be open about the relationship. You could try talking to other family members first, preferably ones that you can guarantee will ... (read in full...)
I just want to try and understand my girlfriend!
Q. Hello, I guess I should start with a bit of background. . . I am rather new to published material forums etc relating to relationships. I used to think therapy, counseling, etc, was for people who could not handle things themselves, but now ...
A. 7 September 2009: Of course we'll take the time to read it, it's what we're all here for!
Firstly, you must understand that although what you've read about males and females can be true, it's purely stereotypical really, and there are always exceptions to the rule... (read in full...)
Why does my husband prefer anal sex?
Q. Anal sex, why does my husband prefer it? we have a great sex life and we both enjoy anal sex, however it makes me feel like my vagina is second best because he tells me that his first choice is anal sex. He tells me the reason why is the forbidden ...
A. 7 September 2009: He's given a reason as to why he prefers anal sex, I also wouldn't rule out the fact that anal sex feels much tighter, and thus a "better" experience. I can understand why it's left you feeling that way though, as a vagina is something only women ... (read in full...)
21 year old in need of wise words!
Q. So here's it is. I'm 21 years old and have never been kissed, in a relationship, or even asked out. As weird as that seems, that's not the problem. The problem is that, although I "fall in love" everytime I leave my house with some random guy or ...
A. 7 September 2009: Firstly, it's good that you don't see a problem with the fact you've never kissed etc. Most people fret about things like that and get worked up for no reason. So well done you.
Hmm, there isn't really a normal or abnormal when it comes to thin... (read in full...)
Should I cut my hair if my friends disagree?
Q. My friends say I shouldn't cut my hair but i think I should what should I do?...
A. 6 September 2009: It's your hair :) If you want to do it then go for it. However, if they're ALL saying no to cut it, ask them why, or perhaps if they have any suggestions as to what you could do instead. It might be that they all realise it wouldn't suit you, and ... (read in full...)
Why after 8 months would be be in touch?
Q. I dated a guy back in December...started dating on Dec. 1st and dated for 28 days. We knew each other for two weeks before hand. A friend(Brian) of mine from college set us up,Chris went to another college (actually the one I am at now). They were...
A. 3 September 2009: Because he's manipulative. It's likely he's trying to worm his way back into your life, which you should be very wary of. ... (read in full...)
Are my periods just irregular or could I be pregnant?
Q. Right, i need help. And before anyone judges me, i know i shouldn't have done this, but i'm on her for help not to be patronised. I went to the doctors for the birth control pill and i got told i was to start it on the first day of my next perio...
A. 25 August 2009: Regarding pregnancy, when people say "I'm late", if they're pregnant it usually stays that way. I.E your period wouldn't restart. However, it is possible on the rare occasion that your period can continue throughout a pregnancy, so periods aren't ... (read in full...)
Question protected sex with person with HIV
Q. Ok, here's the thing and it's a pretty big thing. My girlfriend and I have been together for almost a year. We dated for about four months before we got more intimate. First it was 'making out', then she would give me a 'hand job' for want of a bet...
A. 19 March 2009: I'm so sorry to hear about the trauma she's been through, it's such a shame that it's left her with something so physically damaging, let alone the mental damage.
I think it is possible to contract it via oral sex, but I also think it's poss... (read in full...)
Well endowed and anal sex help...
Q. hi all, i have had anal sex with a previous b/f, maybe, twice. he was average in size. it was ok and there were no dramas with mess from me or anything. i am now with another b/f, who is very well endowed. we are wanting to have anal sex but...
A. 19 March 2009: If he is much larger than your previous boyfriend you definitely need to slowly work up to anal sex. Using fingers or even small sex toys that are designed specifically for it.
Never just go for it though, you could do yourself some serious dama... (read in full...)
How do I put my daughter on birth control without looking as if I'm OK with underage sex.
Q. I am I single father of a 16 year old daughter. Last week she had her "boy"friend over and they were watching a movie, she calls him her boyfriend but I never seen them as a couple because she is so young. I left to do some work outside and when...
A. 12 March 2009: I'm not a parent, but I am a teenage girl so maybe I could provide a perspective similar to your daughter's.
Firstly, I'd say be glad she's open that he's her boyfriend, more problems arise when teenagers don't even tell their parents their spou... (read in full...)
Is there a chance I could be pregnant?
Q. i slept with my fiance 4 days after i had my period. is there a chance i could be or get pregnant?...
A. 14 November 2008: Yes. If you didn't use any method of contraception then there's always a chance you could become pregnant. Although there are certain points in your cycle when you are less fertile than others (and vice versa obviously..), you can still become ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I asked my mum to put in a tampon for me?
Q. Hello, i am quite worried. I have had a period for 2 years, and i wanted to start using a tampon. i couldn't get it in, so i called my mom and she put it in for me. Is that really wierd :S I don't know, i'm just a bit freaked out....
A. 24 October 2008: I personally wouldn't say it's weird at all, though I can understand why you feel a little "freaked out"
Your mom merely helped you with a personal issue, it's one of the things she's there for.
Just be grateful you have a mom willing to help :)... (read in full...)
I made fun of my Indian friend's lack of fashion sense and he's very offended, will he forgive me?
Q. My good friend (male) and I were teasing each other and I made fun of his lack of fashion sense (brown belt and black pants), and I called him a "dork". He took great offense and hasn't spoken to me for a week. I apologized every day, and then he ...
A. 20 September 2008: Perhaps he took that particular comment more serious than the other things you both may have said, maybe his sense of fashion is something he knows he struggles with so he could see truth in the tease. If he still won't speak to you he's probably ... (read in full...)
What can I do, if anything, to make my periods lighter?
Q. hi, my periods a re really heavy, is there anything i can do to make them lighter? ...
A. 1 September 2008: There's actually a drug available on prescription to help with it. I think there may even be more than one. Go to see your doctor, they'll discuss it with you and find something suitable for you.... (read in full...)
How can I get him to genuinely like me and not wind me up?
Q. i really like this lad but he is 3-4 years older than me and he likes someoneelse. i talk to him on msn every nite and we flirt with each other but in his case he is just winding me up because he knows i like him. how can i get him to like me back ...
A. 17 April 2008: You can't force someone to return feelings, it just doesn't work. Plus, everything else is acting against you, the age gap, the fact he likes someone else. It seems like there's no chance of anything coming from the situation. My advice would be to ... (read in full...)
He is two years younger than me..but mature for his age, could it work out?
Q. I have a little problem... My cuzins and I gather together 3 times a week and this guy teaches us dance... Since the first day I realized that he keeps looking at me and flirting with me. Wen he teaches us the dance he keeps coming by me and holding ...
A. 17 April 2008: 2 years is such a small gap. &If he's mature for his age then the gap won't even be noticeable. I'd say if you like each other, go for it. &Have fun :)
x... (read in full...)
I've never went out with girls before, only boys. She plans to kiss me in public, I dislike the idea and don't know what to do!
Q. hey everyone I just got a girlfriend yesterday . It's kinda weird for me because she is the only girl I have ever liked and gone out with. I would be nervous even if I was going out with a guy but since she's a girl it makes it that much more n...
A. 14 April 2008: Firstly, if you're not entirely comfortable with it.. DON'T.
You could end up embaressed and regretting it completely, making kissing someone a bad experience for you.
Secondly, if this is your first girlfriend, and the first girl you've been ... (read in full...)
Dry skin and dandruff - how can I make these less noticeable at least?
Q. Uh... Hi. This is embarrassing. Well, I suffer from really dry skin and kinda bad dandruff. I use moisturiser and special shampoos and conditioners but nothing helps! I've used sensitive stuff as well but everything I've tried fails. I'm wor...
A. 11 April 2008: If special shampoos & moisturisers aren't working for you, you could try speaking to your doctor, they can provide subscription moisturisers and shampoos which are specially made for that skin type, and they're generally so much better than "off the ... (read in full...)
I have this big phobia of pain...the idea of feeling that long hard penis.........frightens me!!!!!
Q. Hey guys,I'm too scared of making love with my boyfriend. I enjoy massaging my pussy but when it comes to poke my fingers in that hole, it gives me shivers. I have heard that it is very painful and as thus never even tried that, so taking that long ...
A. 11 April 2008: By allowing the fear to take over you worsen the situation.
Before you can even think of inserting anything you need to be relaxed, completely. Your body's response to it will depend on whether you feel comfortable, and if you're not, you simp... (read in full...)
Is liking a 13 year old girl wrong, since I am 16?
Q. hi, i recently been hanging around with a girl, i really like her but im 16 and she is 13 is this wrong if i was to ask her out cos of the age difference? bearing the fact that i dont want sex i just want her ...
A. 30 January 2008: Perfectly fine, and to the person who implied it would only be slightly ok if you were very immature, boys mature slower so a 15/16 year old boy could and would have similar interests/thoughts to a 13/14 year old girl.
You said you don't want sex ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to be TOO nice to women?
Q. How do I avoid being nice towards women? I've had relationships but they always end in me getting dumped. My best friend says its because im too nice. what does he mean?...
A. 30 January 2008: Your mate was probably basing that on the old "treat 'em mean keep 'em keen" notion, which is generally not true for most females.. but it has been known to be true.
I think maybe listening to your mate on this could be a bad thing, he could have... (read in full...)
I like him but I don't know what to do
Q. Okay, theres this guy i REALLY like, he knows I like him, but I dunno what to do =/...
A. 30 January 2008: Okay, so, you like him.. do you talk to him? Does he seem to get on with you? Try spending time with him, get to know him and see how it works out.
OR you could go for the blunt approach and just tell him.. but sometimes that creates sticky situ... (read in full...)
Should I grow my hair long?
Q. I am thinking of growing my hair long. i am a ginger 13 YR old boy and have been told by my classmates that i would not suit long hair. i still want to grow it though. they say that gingers cant have long hair. i am also wondering what style i ...
A. 30 January 2008: Firstly, if you want to do something, and providing it isn't against the law, go for it! No one should influence your decision.
I know lots of red-headed people with long hair, one of my male friends has bright orange, waist length hair, and it REAL... (read in full...)
She won't have vaginal sex with me, only the back door kind!
Q. Hi, I have been dating this girl from past 3 years now. We tried having vaginal sex many times but every time i have been unable to penetrate her for some or other reason. Either she is too scared of the pain either she is too tense etc.We tried ...
A. 30 January 2008: I think a lot of the responses here are far from anything you needed to hear.
I sympathise with you, and I admire you for sticking this out.
Firstly, I was exactly the same with my ex, we did exactly the same as you, although, I encouraged the use ... (read in full...)
I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?
Q. Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...
A. 29 January 2008: I have a lot of respect for you, most of the girls and guys I know would go for it purely to be able to say they did it.
Clearly you didn't want to do it, whether it was a clear thing to you or a subconscious thing telling you that maybe it's not ... (read in full...)
I have a horrible feeling if he could trade me for his dead ex gf, I'd be dead and he'd be with her. I've always been the type to think the worst. Help before I ruin my relationship!
Q. I lost my virginity to my boyfriend at aged 20, I'm 21 now, he is two years younger than me, I was sensible about it as I've had over 15 boyfriends and he was the only really genuine guy. This is becoming an obsession with me though now, he lost his ...
A. 29 January 2008: I think the previous answer to this covered most of my views too.
If you waited until you were 20 and decided he was the most genuine out of 15 relationships, then clearly that shows how good a guy he is, indicating to me that he must clearly care... (read in full...)
My Abusive Ex- Boyfriend
Q. My Abusive Ex Boyfriend... The abuse started on my 21st birthday just last July. He beat me bad and I was really scared. I was new to the City and staying with him till I found a place so I did not know anyone yet. I stayed in the relation...
A. 29 January 2008: Keep telling yourself that you have the right to remove yourself from an uncomfortable situation, and that you deserve someone who can treat you right in all aspects of a relationship.
I've found that lots of girls and women I know of still feel... (read in full...)
I had fantasies about my wife being slutty with other men, but now we're acting them out I'm not so sure!
Q. well where do i start,im 35 and been married for 16yrs,i have 3 children with my wife,i have worked away from home for the past 14yrs and i am away for long periods at a time,for yrs we have had fantasies about my wife being a slut,as of recently ...
A. 29 January 2008: You really need to try to have a sit down, calm talk with your wife, explaining to her that yes, it was a huge fantasy previously, but looking back you can see that it should have stayed a fantasy.
I think maybe before speaking to her though, you ... (read in full...)
Been ignoring him after the sexual encounter as he is too silent in bed for my taste. Should I give him a chance?
Q. Hello Everyone, I am recently a single girl again and very passionate in bed. I started seeing this guy, we had sex, but I am totally turned off by him because he does not make noise in bed. Sorry if I sound like a man but say something already, I ...
A. 29 January 2008: I've found that quite a lot of guys I've met are like that, and a lot of women I know have mentioned it too.
My current boyfriend was the same actually.
You need to talk to him, ask him why he's quiet, find out whether he's trying not to make noi... (read in full...)
I'm terrified I could be anaemic!
Q. My mother has terrified me... She told me I could be anaemic! Reason being that I often start my period every 3 weeks and according to her, it's not normal and is caused by lack of iron! Could she be right? If so, are there any consequences from it? ...
A. 30 October 2007: Don't worry about it.
I'm not much older than you, &I've been anaemic.
As the other aunt said, you just need to eat more foods that contain iron, it doesn't take much.
Also, your period arriving every 3 weeks isn't abnormal.
Sometimes gir... (read in full...)
What does he mean when he says he has fallen for me but doesn't want a relationship?
Q. hiyyya, i'm really baffled a little help can go a lonnnnng way in makin me feel more LESS confused haha welllll... i've liked this lad for a while and only recently found out that he likes me back! :D massive complication though :( he's been t...
A. 29 October 2007: There could be several reasons why he said that, and there's no way of knowing which one it is without him telling you really. He may not want to be tied to someone else at the moment, maybe he has lots of other things "on his plate" already,... (read in full...)
My girl is acting weird. Does she want me or not?
Q. My girl is acting funny. Last night on the phone I tried to fix our relationship problem, but she said she was "too tired" to keep talking. I called her back shortly after words, because my mom unplugged the phone because we went over the hour time ...
A. 29 October 2007: "Too tired" could mean a variety of things. I know I've said it on several occasions with my boyfriend. She could have generally been too tired. Or maybe she didn't want to talk about it at the time or even she wanted more time to think about it ... (read in full...)
How do I make her feel more included??
Q. Hi i've just come across this website so i don't know if this is a type of question you can help me with but i'll give it ago. I'm 16 currently at college/6th form. About 5 weeks ago there was a new girl came into our college, she is in nearly a...
A. 29 October 2007: Firstly, you've been really considerate and I admire you for trying to make things better for the girl, she would obviously appreciate it.
Right, well, as she's shy, by all means try to include her, but avoid making her centre of attention too ofte... (read in full...)
Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.
Q. Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do....
A. 4 September 2007: I'm not going to comment on whether you really do "love" her or not, bu I think it would be a very stupid thing to do to have sex now.
You don't appear to have taken in all the possible consequences of what you "soooo badly" want.
To be honest, ... (read in full...)
I'm a lebian and i'm 13. I'm fine with it but how do I tell my mum and dad?
Q. Heya every1, please can you help me with something. I am 13 and am a lesbian. I am fine with it and don't mind what the outside world thinks of me but I am worrid about how my mum and dad will react if i tell them i'm a lesbian.I would hate to upset...
A. 4 September 2007: I'm not much older than you, &I was in a similar situation a while back. Although, I'm not a lesbian as such, just bisexual who strongly prefers girls.. but anyway.
Don't feel you HAVE to come out yet, there's no rush, as if you ARE lesbian, it will... (read in full...)
I lost a bet and now have to dress as a girl for a week! What should I wear?
Q. I lost a bet to some girls and have to dress as a girl for 1 week. skirts make up dress and dat. help what will i wear?...
A. 4 September 2007: There's SO many ways you could get round this without going the whole way.
Most of the girls&women I know wear trousers or jeans now, with "girly" tops, I'd definitely suggest the jeans/trousers, as it would be easier for you to find something in y... (read in full...)
I just started a long distance relationship. How can I make this work?
Q. I've just started a long distance relationship and i'm already finding it really hard. He lives about 4 hours away on the train, and seeing as im still at school, I'm finding it dificult to find the money to go and see him. I really want it to work ...
A. 4 September 2007: I'm in the same situation as you, my boyfriend lives about 3/4 hours away from me too. However, we've been going out for nearly 6 months now, so it can work.
Have you tried buying train tickets online? They're a lot cheaper than buying at the stat... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my friend is lying to me? And what should I do?
Q. i think a boy named josh is lying to me. i like his friend and i asked him out and he said no, and josh has been saying he likes me and that the only reason he said no was because i never spend any time with him. and josh said he talks about me ...
A. 4 September 2007: It's difficult to really "find out" whether someone is lying without speaking to the guy you asked out about it.
If the boy you asked out said no, he most likely means it, afterall, if he really wanted to go out with you he would have said yes, unle... (read in full...)
He keeps pressuring me to give him a blowjob and I don't want to!
Q. My boyfriend is two years older than me and has had a lot of sexual experience, whereas I have had none. He keeps pressuring me into giving him a blowjob but I don't want to. I don't know how to tell him to stop pressuring me and will he think less ...
A. 21 August 2007: If he is pressuring you into something you don't want to do you can do so much better than him.
If you're under 16 then it's also illegal aswell so he could get into a lot of trouble.
Just calmly tell him you don't want to.
If he's worth your t... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend, but I really want to have sex with a girl just once
Q. Okay...I've been with my boyfriend for nearly three years, we live together and I've known him for most of my life, we've always been great friends. He's the greatest boyfriend I could ever wish for-he's kind, affectionate and supportive and I ...
A. 17 August 2007: You need to talk to him about it.
But, if you do go ahead with fulfilling your desire, you need to be prepared for possible repercussions. What I mean is, once you've had sex with a woman, you may feel you prefer it to men, your boyfriend ever and ... (read in full...)
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