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writes:i think a boy named josh is lying to me. i like his friend and i asked him out and he said no, and josh has been saying he likes me and that the only reason he said no was because i never spend any time with him. and josh said he talks about me behind my back and doesnt want me to know what he says. how do i know if josh is lying and what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2007): well,it's farely simple just ask your crush what he really says!
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reader, LethalInjection-x +, writes (4 September 2007):
 It's difficult to really "find out" whether someone is lying without speaking to the guy you asked out about it.
If the boy you asked out said no, he most likely means it, afterall, if he really wanted to go out with you he would have said yes, unless of course he has other things on his mind or doesn't want a girlfriend at this moment in time.
If you get on well with the boy you asked out, why don't you try spending more time with him? If he gets on with you, even if he DID mean it when he said no, there's no harm in spending time together and it could help you build a stronger bond.
Maybe you could ask Josh to stop getting involved so much, and if he does carry on, you could try asking the boy you asked out if any of it's true; but only if you're confident you get on well, otherwise you could look like someone trying to wreck a friendship.
If it's all too complicated then move on.
Hope that helps, &good luck.
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