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I don't know who to choose; my old flame or my new love

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Question - (24 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 June 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i used to see this guy about a year ago which fizzled out as we werent honest with each other about what we wanted from it, so then i got with my present boyfriend. i now have feelings for this guy again and he does for me too. me and my boyfriend are having trouble at the moment although i still love him, but i love the other guy too. who should i choose?

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A male reader, leonard j.Douglas Philippines +, writes (24 June 2007):

"Torn between two lovers and feeling like a fool" There is a way that you can have your cake and eat it too. And that is in an open relationship, but they really don't work out very well in the long-run. No one can tell you who to chose. That is something you will have to deside,and no one can do that for you. So chose with your heart and your mind. The two of them together make a pretty good team. You are still young, so don't rush into any long term commitments.

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (24 June 2007):

kenny agony auntAs you and your present boyfriend are having problems at the moment i would be inclined to go with the guy who you used to see a year ago. But really only you can make the decision of who to choose. The most important thing here is that which ever one you choose you are upfront and honest with the other one and don't two time them.

Good luck x

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