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writes:My best friend's wife gave permission for us to sleep together as their sex life was non existent and she couldnt be bothered to try and improve their marriage. We did this on many occasions and eventually fell deeply for each other , but when she realised how close we had become she made us cease contact. We still spoke without her knowledge and now we realise we are in love.The problem is his wife is the very cold and dominant one in the relationship and he is scared to leave her incase contact with the children (5 and 3) stops. I have never met anyone in the whole of my life who i have such a connection with on so many levels but we wont meet up till we can decide the best way forward .we only talk by phone. Please help my heart hurts so much.........
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUPDATE.she has now left him with the kids. She has admitted she has been having an affair with a woman for a while and has packed her belongings and gone. just thought i would let you know. but thanks for comments
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 There is nothing anyone here can help you with. The problem is your lover needs to find his balls. Firstly he has to see a lawyer to know what his rights are for his kids. Then he will know what he can do.I do not see a future for this relationship of yours. He is too submissive. He wants his wife to mommy him. I do not think he has the capacity to think for himself.After you are gone, she will let him sleep with someone new, but I do not think he will ever leave her, unless she gives him permission. -Frank B Kermit
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reader, leonard j.Douglas  +, writes (21 June 2007):
Dear "Permission to use his body" It does appear that their sex life may be dead, but her possesiveness is very much alive. She no doubt has tried an open relatonship, perhaps, with their childrens well-being in mind. However, In trying to keep him sexually happy, If this was her goal. she has now seen, her permissiveness as one big mistake. that may or may not keep him at home. You had a half-loaf relayionship before, and even if it were Okay with her once again. You would still have a half-loaf togetherness His kids are the glue that, no doubt, will keep them together. Lots of luck, You'll need it in your dead-end love affair.
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