I've been told he's taking me to France for the weekend as my present. What can I get him as a present for the same anniversary?
Q. Right i dont know what to get for my boyfriend for our 2 year anniversary. He spoke to my best friend without me knowing and apparently was planning on taking me to france for the weekend! how can i possibly compare? does anyone have any sugg...
A. 1 November 2011: Main gift... Lots of kinky and different sex! Us guys never object to naughty girls haha rock his world the whole weekend. Take em on a romantic dinner and see the sites wnever u arent makin his fantasies realities or decide to take a break haha... (read in full...)
Boyfriend likes me to refer to him as daddy is this a red flag?
Q. My boyfriend sometimes likes to refer to himself or have me refer to him as "daddy". Is this a red flag that he's someone i should never have a child with, or am I overthinking this? ...
A. 1 November 2011: Sounds normal if its during sex. I dnt think,its anything serious unlesss he starts callin u daddys lil girl or somethin lol you should be fine... (read in full...)
Advice for an English girl moving to America?
Q. Hey I'm an English Girl looking into doing one of my university years abroad in the US. There are 2 parts to my question really: 1) I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. we are in a fairly long-term comitted relationship, and this i...
A. 26 October 2011: I got to salisbury university here in maryland. Its a great school and is in a small city type area. Its not small but it certainy isnt big. Its 20 minutes away from ocean city where the beach is and a few hours from new york city. Look it up I ... (read in full...)
Mini-makeout session? girls 18-19: how far would you expect the guy to go on your first date with him?
Q. I am going to get mixed answers here, no doubt. This is aimed at the girls. As an 18 or 19 year old, how far would you expect a guy to go on a first date? Would a mini make out session be too much? How come in the movies couples seem to sleep with ...
A. 15 October 2011: Because movies are scripted my friend lol totally unreal. Some girls do not mind a little maie out session on the first date, but as the man u gotta restrain and b a gentleman. Kiss her lightly, softly, and with discipline. Leave yer wanting more. ... (read in full...)
18 years old and never been admired by a guy. Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I am 18 years old and no boy has ever liked me.No one has ever approached me.No admirers, no suitors, no boyfriend. EVER. I don't think I am that ugly. I'm tall for my age and race and am not too fat nor too thin. I like wearing appropriate clothes ...
A. 29 September 2011: You sounds like a great catch. Im my gf's gpfirdt bf too and she is gorgeous and perfect and everyway. She dresses like u describe urself too. Thing is, we almost didnt,happen beacuse she had no clue I was pursuing her . out urself out there and ... (read in full...)
Insecure about my lips! How do I learn to accept myself as I am?
Q. I'm mixed race (black and white) but I inherited more physical features from my dad's side, including rather full lips. I've always been very insecure about them, to the point that I've even considered cosmetic surgery to reduce my pout a bit. I ...
A. 19 September 2011: Ppl love full lips! Celebs pay for them and u have them free. Embrace them. I bet they make u gorgeous... (read in full...)
Why does my wife wear sexy panties at work and granny panties at home?
Q. I'll try to keep this brief. She wears sexy panties and thongs to work but granny panties at home and sometimes, about 50% of the time, wears no panties to work. When questioned about no panties she explains she wore the same ugly pair because she...
A. 9 September 2011: Doesnt mean its an affiar but she is gEttin attention from someone thts y she is dressing to impress at work and dressing for comfort at home.. ... (read in full...)
Is she a bot, is this a scam?
Q. alright this girl friended me on facebook and I was suspicious to begin with because she is the typical facebook bot. really pretty girl and has under 100 friends. well here is what made me change my mind. My number is on my facebook and she ...
A. 9 September 2011: Tell her to meet u in person cause u think she may be scamming u. If she doesnt comply then somethin is,up. Sounds like someone picked u out specifically too. Not a bot. Bots dnt put in tht much effort to actually call u! Also them sayin they go to ... (read in full...)
Can you share post breakup mood uplifting stories please? But NO 'got back together' stories required thx
Q. My ex boyfriend broke up with me almost a month ago. I am devastated now. I didn't have a very difficult time in the first couple of weeks but this last week has been just awful. I'm hoping this sudden drop in my mood is partly associated with my ...
A. 13 June 2011: Sorry about ur hurting. Dnt worry things will get better. I am living proof. My "aha" moment was after a month or two of sulkin I got accepted into my dream college and became interested in a female friend/ coworker of mine. Now im glad my ex left ... (read in full...)
Why would a guy say he liked me shoes?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says he likes your shoes? Can a man really like a pair of cork wedges, really?! ...
A. 12 June 2011: sounds like he is trying to flirt haha. Yea maybe he wanted to speak to u and didnt kno how. Has he spoken to u before? Sounds like he wanted to break the ice... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before asking another girl out?
Q. I broke up with my gf on Friday and I just wanted some peoples opinion on how long should I wait before i ask another girl out. I wasn't going to do it straight away but some others opinions please?...
A. 12 June 2011: No set time. Depends on wat u feel. R u over her? Def wait til ur completely over her first. U dnt wanna end up wanting her back or regretting losin her in the end. So if u can absolutely be sure u have rid of all your feelings for her, then go for ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has no interest in playing video games together?
Q. My boyfriend lives a few hours away, so our communication is entirely online. He loves playing video games, and they take up a large part of his time. I've never thought much about it until the last six months or so, when I realized it was ...
A. 8 June 2011: Omg you area a girl who, plays video games? That is so perfect. Not all guys like having their girl in on their interests though. I love sports and when I date a girl, I love taking her to the courts for a cute game of one on one basketba... (read in full...)
I like this guy at school but he's flirting with another girl! Help!
Q. Recently i moved from a small girls school in ireland to a big coed school in england and they got a guy and a girl to show me around. The guy was really nice and sweet and kind of geeky (let's call him A)but I asked my new friends and they all ...
A. 7 June 2011: Dnt do anything just yet. there may be a sticky situation brewing with A, b, and this ex. Take some time to figure out ur feelings for one or the other first. Second, make sure tht the guy you chose coud be into u as well to avoid hurting ur ... (read in full...)
Feeling depressed , can't forgive myself for taking someone for granted. How can I move on?
Q. Hi everyone. I really really need some advice. [I tried to make it short but without luck. I'm sorry and please take the time to read] After many disappointments and failed relationships I became bitter and cold. I started a relations...
A. 23 April 2011: Wow..i jabe been where u have been. I dated a girl who loved me so much she believed my lies and sported my stupid controlling ways even tho her family warned her. She finally coulndt take it anymore and left. I did some growing and dated a new girl ... (read in full...)
How do I be confident doing a strip tease for my man?
Q. Okay, so I have offered to do a strip tease for my man, I know he's very attracted to me as we often talk about our intense chemistry howeve this does not seem to be comfort enough for me! I know I'm in good shape but the thought of dancing alone...
A. 23 April 2011: Ur thinkin to much my friend. He is attracted to u point blank so think nothing more than he knows u r the sexiest being on earth. Men love a guy who knowa ahe is sexy! Thats y we often get in trouble with promiscuous women.
1. Tell em to come over... (read in full...)
How do wives know when their husband is cheating?
Q. As a wife, how can you tell if the husband is cheating you?By checking his things? Reading his phone messages? ...
A. 23 April 2011: No one knows a man better than his mother or his wife. So check for a change in attitude . Workin late all of the sudden or finding excuses to leabe the house? Dressin to impress more often? Doesnt want sex ? Doesnt leave his cell phone layin around ... (read in full...)
How can I convince her to try something different from the "same old same old"?
Q. We have been together for nine years and have had a good sex life. But the thing is that I have to satisfy myself with the same sexual positions every time. My partner doesn't want to try new positions even after having a good sex drive. She wants ...
A. 19 April 2011: Sit her down and express ur fantasies together! Its romantic and it gets her in the adventerous mood. really,,sit her down and dim the lights, tell her to express one of her mpst desired fantasies and act it out. Women think its so much sexier when ... (read in full...)
Do you think girls who go with guys to a strip club are trashy?
Q. Guys, do you think it's trashy for a girl to accompany a group of guys to the strip club? I think it's a certain type of girl who is willing to go along on this "adventure," and I dont't think she's the type you wanna bring home to mom/MAKE the ...
A. 19 April 2011: If a girl wants to hit a strip club with me it wouldnt bother me. Makes me feel good tht she can literally be my besg friend. Hpwever, if she would rather not go with me I see that as a sign of respect for my space and privacy. Either way, it ... (read in full...)
My parents think I am fat, should I just lose weight to shut them up?
Q. Hello everyone. I hope anyone out there can help me. Ok so i am 20 years old and am at University therefore i no longer live with my parents. I go to the gym almost every single day and work out, and swim, though in the last week i have slacked o...
A. 19 April 2011: Ok firstly, all women gave beautiful qualities so find urs and flauntt it. Second, from ur exercise and eating habits u sound very healthy. Ur parents sounds like idiots. No offense. All that matters is how u feel about u. U think u look great the ... (read in full...)
Are all men after tall women?
Q. I'm 22 years old, less than five feet tall. i am as pretty as any other girl and healthily thin so will any guy be interested in me?its not my fault or anyone else's why i am the way i am. I'm in college for 2 years and no boy has even dared talked ...
A. 26 March 2011: I think u sound very cute and ur confidence is sexy too. Men are hunters so we all have different preferences. If ur gorgeous someone will come runnin soon enough... (read in full...)
She wants to be friends, I want to move on
Q. It's been almost 2 weeks since my ex and I broke up. We decided mutually to break up, even though she brought it up and that I still loved her, I lied and let her go because I didn't want her keep going with me. Okay can't be arsed to tell the sob ...
A. 26 March 2011: First step is always to cut off contact with the ex. I kno u love her and always want her in ur life but she is an ex now and its time to focus on YOU. Do u have any hobbies or dreams tht u wish to accomplish? If so I would start there. Find a ... (read in full...)
I don't think I want to go to college anymore, I think I want a baby
Q. I'm 20 years old and in my second year of college. My dream career is to become a veterinarian but ever since I started college, I've been questioning what I want to be when I graduate. And because of this, I don't feel like I want to continue ...
A. 25 March 2011: College isnt for everyone and in thos day and age u dnt HAVE to have a diploma to succeed. There are a lot of alternatives that lead to great jobs too. Just be sure that you wouldnt regret dropping out one day. As f our r the baby, they talk about ... (read in full...)
Ex wants me back but I like someone else
Q. i have broken with my boyfriend 6 months ago and these 6 months he was very angry with me because i was the one who broke up but suddenly after 6 months he become friendly with me and know he wants to start our relationship again but know i like ...
A. 25 March 2011: This is exactly y being friends with an ex is is rare. One of the ppl always becomes a friend with the intentions of getting the other back. Im in a similar situation (ex moved on but wants to keep me in storage). I decided losing and not having to ... (read in full...)
9 happy years together, then suddenly says she don't want to be with me
Q. ive been with my gf for 9 years.. i finally asked her to marry me, this was 2 years ago. we have been looking at venues to get married now on the net, pricing things and that. then we went to look at a venue, it was rubish, so we stopped at another ...
A. 21 March 2011: every individual is strange in their own right. her actions were and are very strange. i really think that she wasn't ready for marriage judging what i read though. i think that she was kind of numb to the relationship and then when you proposed it ... (read in full...)
When boyfriend gets too stressed he asks for a break!
Q. Whenever my boyfriend gets stressed, be it work, home, or anything else related, he takes it out on me. When he reaches the point at which everything has built up, and he can't handle it, he asks me to give him some space to think things through. ...
A. 21 March 2011: ok i understand what stress can do to a person but u have to think about yourself here...what if one day the stress is too much and he cuts you out of his life for good? are u prepared for such a thing? because if whenever he gets stressed. the ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room?
Q. What does it mean when a woman touches herself on the rear as she walks out of a room? I share an office with a woman, and it seems that every time she leaves she touches her butt on the way out. Three possibilities come to mind for me: 1. Sh...
A. 21 March 2011: rule number one of being a man...NEVER TRY TO UNDERSTAND A WOMENS ACTIONS!! ;)... (read in full...)
Husband has suddenly started calling his ex!
Q. Hi am married for 5yrs we have 3yrs old girl but my husband has recently started to call his ex girl asked him, told me that am jelours and what to watch over each person he is talking to and dont what him to have friends , i asked him if still love ...
A. 21 March 2011: red flags, i read an article that says 50 percent of men pine over an ex. He misses something about her. i miss all of my exes but once i start a family and have a wife my life with them is unrecoverable. talk to him and tell him you need to know if ... (read in full...)
What does "I care for you" mean to a man?
Q. What does "I care for you" in man language mean??? We've already said I love u. Is this another way of saying I love you? He doesn't say the "L" word a lot he says the word scares him. ...
A. 21 March 2011: it means the same as it does to women lol just with more passion i think. i think when a man cares for someone it is like nothing else in the world. When i care for a girl there inst anything on earth that could stop me from protecting her..but that ... (read in full...)
Does ignoring someone you are attracted to make the attraction go away?
Q. Hi guys. Just a quick question for you... Why would two people who are really attracted to each other avoid or ignore one another? And, does this mean the attraction will go away or will it get worse? Wondering what you all think!...
A. 21 March 2011: yes it goes away if it is just mere attraction with no history. just avoid them and live your life and before you know it some hot person will stumble into your life and you will forget them. IF it is an ex than it will take a looong time of ... (read in full...)
How do I get over someone who is so wrong for me but whom I still miss terribly?
Q. So, the love of my life and i broke up over him just getting sick of me, promises were broken, time has passed, i went through a rough time! He went on several outings, and vacations since and I didn't. Finally 8 months later i decided to take a ...
A. 21 March 2011: I kno how ya feel. The goods far outweigh the bad and u would fight over any hill for your love and then BAM you are just one of their memories. Its good that u r not contactinf him as much because you wont know how to live life without him til you ... (read in full...)
Guys Only: Answer these questions and be completely honest!!
Q. Guys be as honest as you like!!! I'm really curious as i hear many of my friends and random girls ask this. And yes they are all female related Q's haha! 1) What do you think of the girl who wears jeans on a night out, to the girl who wears a ...
A. 19 March 2011: 1. i never really notice lol but i like the skirt look more than jeans if we r in a club or something 2. i think a girl making the first move shows her confidence and determination...very sexy 3. i may think it but it doesn't mean i would act ... (read in full...)
How to convince EX that you are not controlling anymore?
Q. How do you convince an ex that you are not controlling anymore? I've realize that I was controlling and I don't know how to fix it =/ I'm definitely more laid back now than before. ...
A. 16 March 2011: Well u have,her holdin on so thts the important part. Take it slow ans show her u r different with ur actions. She will see for herself over time. Jus keep taking the small steps like u have been.... (read in full...)
How to convince EX that you are not controlling anymore?
Q. How do you convince an ex that you are not controlling anymore? I've realize that I was controlling and I don't know how to fix it =/ I'm definitely more laid back now than before. ...
A. 16 March 2011: well the fact that its been a year and u still are holding on can be a great sign. is she holding on to u as well? ... (read in full...)
Why the sudden deluge of flowers?
Q. After knowing each other for 15 years, since high school, my boyfriend and I have been together a year. We live together, have a great relationship, rarely fight, etc. He is the furthest thing from a romantic, and In all that time, he never bought ...
A. 16 March 2011: I would say he is attempting to give you everything you need in a man. Have you ever told him tht he wasn't very romantic? Maybe he is trying though, so lay back and be treated like the lucky girl you are :)... (read in full...)
Marriage has gone from husband/wife to mother/father
Q. I've been married for 7 years, and have two beautiful children who mean the absolute world to me. Since our first child was born, our relationship seemed to go from husband and wife to father and mother, with the entire emphasis of our relation...
A. 16 March 2011: Counseling my friend. Anythng this delicate needs professional care not us. u want to fix it and tht is very noble of u tho. Dnt give up on her go seek pro help and good luck... (read in full...)
How to convince EX that you are not controlling anymore?
Q. How do you convince an ex that you are not controlling anymore? I've realize that I was controlling and I don't know how to fix it =/ I'm definitely more laid back now than before. ...
A. 15 March 2011: how long were u broken up anyway? because if it wasnt for too long, you arent "fixed" yet my friend and it would only lead to the same things that lead t the first break up. ... (read in full...)
Hey, did I have an orgasm?
Q. Ok, I've been really horny for the past couple of days and I've ignored it but this morning I decided to sit legs spread in front of a mirror and experiment because I've never really had an orgasm or a really intense orgasm by myself, just ...
A. 15 March 2011: ummm sounds like u did..i kno u said u felt like u wanted to cum..im thinking u did and jusr didnt know. the warm tingling and the vagina spasms are pretty much a sure sign. next time u try it and get the feeling dont stop urself because it will be ... (read in full...)
How do I stop getting wet so easily?
Q. I am a married woman and every time my husband touches me, i get wet easily. What do i do?...
A. 15 March 2011: u enjoy the gift that god gave u! im sure it doesnt bother him knowing he turns u on..do u have any siblings in their 20's? lol jk but yea u should be proud... (read in full...)
My Ex is now my friend but he keeps mentioning our past sex life and I'm uncomfortable. Please help??
Q. Hi My bf broke up with me 5 months back. I was devastated for sometime and i got over him. We are good friends now. But my ex-bf keeps talking about our past sex-life with me. I told him that i am just a friend and i dont want to do anything sexual w...
A. 14 March 2011: Tell him if he values ur friendship he will stop. If he is a friend he will if not than he is usin u for sex . U still have feelings I think so be careful... (read in full...)
I know someone is cheating so do I say something?
Q. If your brother's fiancée is cheating, do you get involved? How many times do you say something before you start keeping it to yourself or do you continue to let your brother know what she is up to? ...
A. 14 March 2011: tell him..because if she cheats on him three years into their marriage and they have kids or some other complication, you will feel guilty that you did nothing today. u dont want that guilt... (read in full...)
Cheated, broke up, and unable to move on
Q. I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after that happened. He decided a week ...
A. 14 March 2011: the frist thing u have to do is learn to let it go. not the relationship, the fact that u made a MISTAKE. we all do, and some of us let it toruture us forever and ever amnd ever. ur human and u make mistakes. dont carry thatt burden. seek hel to get ... (read in full...)
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