Cheated, broke up, and unable to move on
Q. I was in a wonderful relationship for over a year and we were really deep in love with one another. Then one day I went for coffee with a guy I used to love and we slept together. I told my boyfriend right after that happened. He decided a week ...
A. 14 March 2011: the frist thing u have to do is learn to let it go. not the relationship, the fact that u made a MISTAKE. we all do, and some of us let it toruture us forever and ever amnd ever. ur human and u make mistakes. dont carry thatt burden. seek hel to get ... (read in full...)
Should I return to my marriage?
Q. I'm interested knowing what others think I should do here. My wife and I have been separated for 8 months now. For a year prior to the separation I tried to get her to go to a marriage counselor with me. She only went a couple times; I went ...
A. 13 March 2011: U wont find the right answer here. Its in u. Personally I say never follow ur heart because love is irrational. But im a kid (20). U kno and love this woman. If u believe she can change (and she CAN) then why not? Sometimes we need to lose somethimg ... (read in full...)
My mom has been diagnosed with an incurable disease and my world has shattered around me. Help me please...
Q. Yesterday I was driving in my car with my mom and out of the blue she told me that she's been diagnosed with an incurable disease in her lungs and that she's gonna start some treatment which is gonna be useless. She was crying, saying she was scared ...
A. 13 March 2011: Lost my mom when I was 14 unexpectedly. I feel fortunate for u tht u r atleast aware. My advice is to spend time with ur ma and family doing tgings u all wanted to but never did. Also, find religion or something to help u understand the way of ... (read in full...)
Even after three years my ex is in my thoughts
Q. I cant stop thinking about my ex boyfriend(high school sweetheart).we have been apart for more than 3 years and all the thoughts about him are creeping back.In the deepest part of my heart i trully belive he is my soulmate.I am with my current ...
A. 12 March 2011: Is ur ex still in ur life? Dies he talk about reconciling? How is ur current relationship?... (read in full...)
How do I acheive a flat stomach?
Q. Dear Cupid...if a person wants to have a flat stomach, how many situps would you advice them to do a day? Thank you...
A. 11 March 2011: H.I.I.T. look it up and it only takes 20 minutes a day... (read in full...)
3 months after break up, does she want me back?
Q. So this girl and i dated and i thought it was a good relationship. I really put everything i had in there i would be open and honest with her. I told her everything and i treated her the best i have ever treated a girl. We broke up and i went no ...
A. 11 March 2011: all guys deal with this same situation. im in it now. ur best option is just to continue cutting contact from her.u had it righ from the beginning.. sooner or later u think about her less and less and then the GOOD part happens.. if she fights her ... (read in full...)
I got hurt in the past and now I don't like anyone
Q. I'll keep this short, I'm a 16 year old girl and I have liked guys in the past, but a couple of years ago I got hurt, nothing serious, but ever since then I haven't liked any guys, or had any crushes, or anything like that. Is that normal? And I ...
A. 6 March 2011: The heart expresses itself in weird ways to feel secure, my advice is dont wait on mr right. Dating is far overrated at our ages (im twenty) u def do not want a bf heading to college cause its just icing on the cake considering responsibility stress ... (read in full...)
Do guys not want the hassle of dating a virgin?
Q. is it a turn off to know that I am a virgin at 23??? I mean I am easily aroused and the thought of sex alone, even touching or blowing hot air on me makes me wet...and I have never had sex...and I just dont want that to turn a guy off from wanting...
A. 2 March 2011: Ummm any guy who turns u down because of THIS is an idiot! Somebody will smarten up andd take u... (read in full...)
I'm fed up of feeling sorry for myself, but cant seem to forget about him! Help!
Q. This isn't a question. I am just going through a difficult patch and was wondering if anyone had any advice. I fell in love with a guy towards the end of last year (October/November time). He made it very clear that he didn't want anything se...
A. 28 February 2011: Let it hurt. People say keep busy but sometimes that doesn't allow you to address the feelings. Write how you feel everyday on paper as if you were talking to him and LET IT OUT. Keep a journal. You can ignore feelings all day but it's when you ... (read in full...)
I broke up with him, he's in another relationship now, but I really miss him! How can I get him back?
Q. I went out with this boy a while ago and I dumped him because well its a long story. Anyway he cut his hair, got a new hair style, and he has really mutured...but he's got a girlfriend and he keeps rubbing it in my face like...oh I'm going to see ...
A. 28 February 2011: Ur young dont tie yourself to one guy! Trust me u have plenty of time for tgt. Enjoy life . I was always.in a relationship and now.im 20 single and ok. Besides he is clearly trying to piss u off . He needs time to grow up... (read in full...)
I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?
Q. Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...
A. 28 February 2011: Because u r smarr...stay tht way... (read in full...)
I want to move on. How do I let go and forget about him?
Q. I'm going to try and cut this very long story short. I met up with a guy who i hadn't seen for a long time. We never really spoke at school but got back in touch over Facebook and started chatting on there. A few months later we met up and it wa...
A. 28 February 2011: Put your own heart first. It's human nature to be fond of someone that you wanna sacrafice your heart.for..don't. Heal and it will pay off. Think about it, he is hap ok and you are hurt. Does that make sense? Lol be selfish this time and care about ... (read in full...)
22 year old virgin who thinks she can do better...advice?
Q. SO im a 22 year old female virgin. and i also never had a boyfriend. lame i know. anywayz there is one guy that is interested in me but i feel like i can do better than him. messed up right? hes nice when hes sober, but when hes drunk hes annoying, ...
A. 27 February 2011: He's gross. Find a guy like me...or someone you know is worth it lol... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is best friends with her ex!
Q. I really really like my gf. But she is best friends with her ex. She tells him everything, and it kills me. In all honesty i understand being friends with an ex, but being best friends. Its more than i can take but i cant be the kind of guy who ...
A. 27 February 2011: Be honest..if she cares she will understand. Besides being friends with your ex is usually bad because old feelings could manifest.... (read in full...)
Too wet during sex?
Q. I'm having a problem with my sex life - I'm a pretty tight girl but i get extremely wet during sex to the point where my boyfriend complains that it doesn't feel as good! Does anyone know what I can do?...
A. 27 February 2011: U sound like a dream girl to me...tell him to man up or wear a condom.. Or maybe u two should focus on pleasures besides vaginal sex... (read in full...)
I'm 31, and I don't want a girlfriend right now. Why do others give me a hard time about this?
Q. Hi everyone. I am back and I've got a really important question. I guess all questions on this forum are important. It hasn't happened for a few months, which is good, but sometimes people insult me when I say I don't want a girlfriend. They either ...
A. 20 February 2011: Tell them tht u r one of the few people in the world strong enough to be independent and.not NEED another to be happy. Tht will make them feel dumb. And for the record, I wish I was as strong as you... (read in full...)
She hasn't told anyone we broke up, what does this mean?
Q. what does it mean when you split up from a parter of three years, but they havent told their parents, friends, or even changed her relationship status or pix of the two of you on FB?me and my ex gf broke up and she wants to stop talking for a little ...
A. 28 January 2011: Thanks floridagirl. Can you message me for more help?... (read in full...)
She hasn't told anyone we broke up, what does this mean?
Q. what does it mean when you split up from a parter of three years, but they havent told their parents, friends, or even changed her relationship status or pix of the two of you on FB?me and my ex gf broke up and she wants to stop talking for a little ...
A. 28 January 2011: thanks for all ur answers..we have been seperated about 3 days, we talked on the phone the 2nd night but have really not talked since. She told me she may want to go out for valentines day when i asked her. and she said she wantd to talk to me ... (read in full...)
Leave my girlfriend for someone I'm so compatible with?
Q. I've been with my current girlfriend on and off for almost 7 years. We are very happy and I love her very much. However, recently I have met a new girl, and this girl has so much in common with me it is borderline eerie. Like the same movies, ...
A. 3 October 2010: trust me man compatability means nothing. your just comfortable with ur girl and i understand that. but if it sint broke dont fix it...u love her and she loves u, dont mess that up..cuz if u leave her, sooner or later u will be wondering how she is ... (read in full...)
I have stretch marks and want to get rid of them
Q. Im 16 and I have stretch marks on my breasts and legs. My self-confidence has dropped to ZERO. How can I get rid of them? Im so embarassed - manly because Im embarassed about what boys will think later on in my life. Please help me, how do I get rid ...
A. 7 February 2010: real men dont worry about stretch marks... (read in full...)
Should I confess everything to my husband?
Q. i am a wife n a mother. i have been married for the last 5yrs. my husband has gone for offshore job for 2-3 months. last sunday i had sex with my brother-in-law. from that time i am really feeling guilty. should i confess everything to my husband?...
A. 21 January 2010: i wouldnt be able to live with myself if i did that to someone i love. TELL EM he will respect u for it later and life.. especially for his children.. but his brother in law is a doushe. his own bro...... (read in full...)
I found a girl's hair on a cup in my BF's house. Do I have a right to doubt?
Q. i was over my boyfriend's place , and i found a girl's hair attached or clinging to one of the cups on the table , it got attached with some juice , because it was left for a day or two, my boy friend previously told me that he had friends over ...
A. 21 January 2010: maybe you dont have a right to doubt YET. like the other posters sayd..there is a million places it could have come from. BUT we have all been there. its natural so dont feel like your're being overly obbsessive. Its natural. Just dont go looking ... (read in full...)
A question for men on attraction...
Q. This is a question for men. Have you ever found yourself attracted to women that you may not have been attracted to when you first met. Or is the determination set from the moment you meet....
A. 21 January 2010: in my opinion, every guy has BOTH. Overtime he just decides whether you are a potentiel fling, wifey material, or none of the above lol... (read in full...)
He's not everything I want in a man... and I'm marrying him in a months time!!!
Q. Hi i am a 27 year old female getting married in a months time. i met this guy a year back and liked him, he proposed to me and we dated for 6 months before saying yes to the marriage. But I am very confused whether to get married or not as i ...
A. 21 January 2010: I think the problem that all people has is that you never meet that perfect person..you jus meet that person who loves you enough to want to be that perfect person.. does he treat you well? are you attraced to him? does he worship the ground you ... (read in full...)
How do I break the big heave ho to him... gently?
Q. Hiya, I really need help! I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I love him very much, but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. We met in college, when we were 16/17 and everything was great until about 5 months ago. We have bot...
A. 21 January 2010: he's gonna hate you at first because he is hurt, but as time goes by he will understand. So i agree with caring guy as well..i will warn you though..a guy who doesnt cheat on you and goes out of his way to make you happy...thats rare in any man and ... (read in full...)
Why do I still think about my ex girlfriend?
Q. my girlfriend left me six months ago. she never game a reason but 3 weeks ago she she sent me a request to chat on yahoo messenger. she wanted to know if i had deleted her from facebook and if i still go out dancing, because she goes out dancing ...
A. 13 November 2009: first, realize why you broke up. truely understand. because if u really feel u did everything right, than the breakup wasnt in ur hands at all. but if u did something wrong change it. u need space from her. SERIOUSLY.and if u can never get ovr her ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to pursue her and should I send her this letter?
Q. Letter to Girlfriend My gf and I have recently split, it was her decision. We never argued, always got on really well, we clicked... But we fell pregnant after 4 months and she decided it was best to terminate, and since the initial pregnancy ...
A. 13 November 2009: if you really believe that her love for u was genuine, than jus wait and she will come back. love always prevails is NOT just a saying. space is important right now.this is HER time 2 decide what she needs in her life, you shouldnt intrude...just ... (read in full...)
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