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writes:So, the love of my life and i broke up over him just getting sick of me, promises were broken, time has passed, i went through a rough time! He went on several outings, and vacations since and I didn't. Finally 8 months later i decided to take a mini vacation and i did, and while i was there i felt this incompleteness. i thought by taking a vacation i would forget him or learn to live without him. he came to my house in effort to get back with me and then he ended up telling me that he needs more time! he is also dating (screwing) some girl, who i thought i can confide in and she used everything i said against me and is the 'perfect' girl because she is doing everything i didn't do. i have been dating and meeting guys, but when i get back home i have at least one tear crawl down my face. i miss him terribly and i know he is not good for me and will only cause me sorrow. but i still miss him. i love him enough to let him go. but it hurts bc it feels so wrong to be without him. and i told him all of this. i even went as far as sending him a happy 4 yr anniversary card although we never reached our 4 years. But i didnt get a reply. when i came back from my trip he texted me 1 text (not even on our anniversary) saying are you back, no hi, no hello...nothing he just said are you back, i was so sad i didn't reply. its been 1 month since. i haven't been with him in a total of more than 8 months now. and i just wonder why its so hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): I'm going through the same thing, but it's been longer and the pain is still the same. My guy moved away 2 years ago, the last time I saw him was almost a year ago, we still remained in contact until the last few months, now he has a new girlfriend and I am so sad. I don't know how to move on either. I don't see him, we don't even talk now, yet I can't get him out of my head. It's absolute torture. And he's not the right one for me, but I still can't let go.I wish I could tell you it gets better, but I'm not sure. Just try to stay busy, and maybe when you meet someone new you really like, you'll finally forget him. Good luck, I understand the pain you are going through completely.
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (21 March 2011):
I kno how ya feel. The goods far outweigh the bad and u would fight over any hill for your love and then BAM you are just one of their memories. Its good that u r not contactinf him as much because you wont know how to live life without him til you have tried right?
I urge you to begin meeting guys, not dating if your not ready, but just meetinf. The truth is there is a guy waiting to meet a girl like you, dont take ur oppertunity to meet ur true love and miss it for this guy. Its hard because u have a heart of gold that wants to give love that isnt bein gf returmed, but someone is out there waiting for u to give them that heart of gold :)
P.s. I am just losing my gf and she is with a new guy after a month, I wish she woulda fought for me like this...good luck!
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