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writes:Guys be as honest as you like!!! I'm really curious as i hear many of my friends and random girls ask this. And yes they are all female related Q's haha!1) What do you think of the girl who wears jeans on a night out, to the girl who wears a skirt? 2)What do you think of a girl making the first move (for example, introducing herself or asking for your number?)3) When getting to know a girl, are you just interested in having sex with her? Us girls think it seems nearly all guys can't get to know a girl without at least thinking of that4) Who would you notice more in a room and be drawn to, a really confident sociable girl or an absolutely beautiful yet quiet girl? 5) Do you think the women you meet out in say a pub are any different to the women you meet in a club. As in do your intentions and thoughts of them differ? If so how....6) Is it true that men can notice when a woman is confident in her skin just by how she walks?7) What is the top three things you find the most irresistible as well as respectable in a female? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2011): 1)I think less the girl wear more she want to get laid that night. if she wear a skirt she thinks that her leg are the sexy part of her body. if she wearing jeans she probably got a top that show of her Brest so she think that her Brest are best part of her body.2)sure it fine.3)100% correct. 4)both doesn't matter to me really as long as she is giving the signs to go and talk to her I Go and talk to her5)not really I live in a city so you get the same mix of girls in pub and club. 6)yes she walking like she on a cat walk hard to stop those girls there always in a rush. 7)tight body dress well nice smile :D8)I think this girl reads way to much cosmo
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reader, Fatherly Advice  + ♥, writes (19 March 2011):
 O K, I'll answer the poll but remember, I'm old enough to be your dad.1) If by night out you mean a date, When a girl wears something special on a date it sends a clear message to the guy that she respects him or at least takes him seriously. On the other hand there are plenty of dates where it would be inappropriate to wear a skirt. There are also dates where it would be inappropriate to wear jeans. I do like to see a little leg.2) I like to meet a confident girl who knows what she want's and isn't interested in playing games.3) I'm old fashioned on this one. I really don't think I could have sex outside of a committed relationship built on real knowledge of each other.4) I have never met a woman that matches either of those definitions. 5) Always go fishing in the right waters. I personally look for other factors before making a judgment. I'm more interested in who she is with.6) Yes, The older we get the more sensitive we are to it.7)a) Someone who is interested in me. b) A spontaneous smile. c) Confidence.FA
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 1) I think the girl who puts on the skirt is more girly and more confident in herself but there is a big difference between what type of each the girl wears. Too baggy for either generally says non confident. 2) I love when the girl makes the first move, it usually is a huge relief because then you know that she is into you. 3) Personally I am always interested in getting to know the girl even if sex is on my mind. I don't see ever having sex with anyone without knowing a bit about them. 4) I would notice the more out going girl but I would be drawn to the quiet one. The problem would be if the quiet one was too extreme and would not be into talking to anyone at all. The problem with the out going girl is competing for attention. 5) I don't really see them as different at all. Most of them go to pubs and bars.6) Yes, the walk gives it away. Chances are if you are confident your shoulders will be back, you will be looking up and the walk will be more forceul. 7) The first would have to be her smile, then her eyes and then the way her body looks. These are the physical characteristics and there are personality but they are really hard to put a term too. They also really just apply to meeting someone for the first time. In a long term relationships there is trust, freedom and someone with a positive attitude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): :) Well first your questions are very specific and every guy is different.1)Skirt is definitely better.2)This really depends on a guy. I Love this kinda a thing. Shy guy is not going to ask you so you have better chance with him if you do it.3)Well if I m looking to have sex with her ofcourse. But if I want to befriend her than no.4)Beautiful shy one. I like shy girls. 5) I wouldn't go to a club to look for serious relationships. So when I go out to a club I just want to have fun.6)Nope. I can notice when she is uncomfortable tho.7)Well in this question you are asking totaly different things. But I respect when she is not "too confident" shes honest and not afraid to say what she thinks. I find irresitable when she got a beautiful smile
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reader, lakers_lover09 +, writes (19 March 2011):
1. i never really notice lol but i like the skirt look more than jeans if we r in a club or something2. i think a girl making the first move shows her confidence and determination...very sexy3. i may think it but it doesn't mean i would act on it..if i find u attractive of course, but i still want to know u as well4. both depending on how i am drawn to them5. women in pubs may be more laid then the club girls6. nothin sexier than a women that KNOWS she s gorgeous ..yes we can see it in her walk7. loves sports or just being one of the "guys" when i need her to be, funny, and sex appeal.. :)
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (19 March 2011):
1) I like it better when girls wear skirts. But some girls look better in jeans.2) Actually that's fine! I would like that.3) Just interested in that? Of course not. But if I like a girl so much that I want her to be my girlfriend, yes. I personally do not like hook ups nor casual sex.4) I would probably notice the sociable girl more. The other girl can be super beautiful, but she wouldn't be as interesting, maybe. To be honest, not sure!!5) No.6) Never heard of that. Where did you see it? A girl's magazine?7) She has to be fun, nice, caritative, HONEST, and positive about life. She has to be with me because she likes me for real for who I am, not for some other silly reason.Hope I added my two cents :D
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reader, Lusol  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 1) Doesn't matter. Women should dress how they want to.2) Takes the pressure off tbh some guys can't take rejection. I should know lol.3) Getting to know a women for me, sex isn't involved. Would rather get to know who she is etc first then take it from there.4) Beautiful yet quiet. 5) Eh every women is different. Standards, desires change for guys I suppose. For me I take people as they come or not at all. For other guys can be complete pigs.6) Lol what? Wouldn't that be related to how a women carries her-self around or personality related.7) A) Self Respect B) PersonalityC) Ability to judge a person for who they are on the inside, not what is only on the outside.
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reader, Andy00  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 Okay, honest answers is what you asked for, so if it'll help, that's what I'll provide you with.1) What do you think of the girl who wears jeans on a night out, to the girl who wears a skirt? - It doesn't matter to me in the least. Some girls don't suit one or the other, but for who I would go for it wouldn't make even a bit of difference.2)What do you think of a girl making the first move (for example, introducing herself or asking for your number?) - This is the God's truth, I've never made the first move in my life. I guess I'm a bit shy like that and it's something I should alter, because I have always made a good impression on a girl once she starts talking to me, it's just the getting started. For me, if a girl makes the first move it shows that they are confident, friendly and brave. My advice, never be afraid to make the first move, though speaking on a personal level I understand it is easier said than done.3) When getting to know a girl, are you just interested in having sex with her? Us girls think it seems nearly all guys can't get to know a girl without at least thinking of that - It depends entirely on the girl and whether I'm attracted to them or not. Sometimes friendship is all I'm interested in and therefore sexual interest never becomes a factor.4) Who would you notice more in a room and be drawn to, a really confident sociable girl or an absolutely beautiful yet quiet girl? - Not entirely sure on this one because the two are complete opposites. For me I want somebody who is both attractive and social.5) Do you think the women you meet out in say a pub are any different to the women you meet in a club. As in do your intentions and thoughts of them differ? If so how.... - In a pub it's a lot easier to get to know a girl, as opposed to a club where it's usually very loud and there's very little room to do anything other than dance. Being completely honest, in a club you are more likely to find a girl to sleep with than you are in a pub. But other than that there isn't a great deal of difference for me.6) Is it true that men can notice when a woman is confident in her skin just by how she walks? - I've never really noticed. I would say it's always easier to spot the uncomfortable ones than it is the confident ones. The confident ones are natural and blend in, to the point that you wouldn't even think "Wow, she's confident", you'd just accept it.7) What is the top three things you find the most irresistible as well as respectable in a female? - Wow, biggest question til last, I see! I think the two categories differ. To sum up, in terms of what I find irresistible: I like a girl who is confident, beautiful and fun to talk to. In terms of respectability: I like a girl to be honest with me, a girl who isn't afraid to tell me when she thinks I'm wrong about something and a girl who will let me have my space when I need it.May I ask why you're asking these questions? Hope my answers were of some use for you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): 1) jeans cooler skirt hotter2)Awesome3) truthfully yes4) quiet 5)No6) in extreme situations like a girl who's all hunched over7)Funny, have stuff in common, and all around just hot
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