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i like to give advice to any one who asks for it, but i can sometimes be harsh. But hey - you have to be cruel to be kind sometimes.
I hate injustice, espeically against women and children, but i wont hesistate to tell a woman she's wrong if she is. I like to show people what the other person is thinking, if itll help.
im hoping to become a counsellor one day, im starting university in september. Im going to be there for three years and then an extra three years to get my doctorate in psychology.
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Recently girlfriend cannot orgasm?
Q. Normally oral sex will work every time. But recently it seems she can't orgasm. I've tried different techniques (including the ones that worked before). She will get close but can't get over the edge. She'll rest for a minute or two, then ask to ...
A. 24 June 2010: She hit you in the face whilst you were sleeping, i mean provocation or retaliation maybe i would just surpass it but you were sleeping. It is probably the stress of her job that's stopping her from orgasm, but she has no right to hit you for it.
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Is this depth of pain after a break up normal?
Q. Dear Cupid-- I've recently been broken up with. The world doesn't feel right anymore. I can feel my heart swelling in my chest and find myself physically ill. Driving home was almost impossible. I had to pull over to the side of the road to sob ...
A. 22 June 2010: Sweety you need to go to a friend, we can only give you so much advice and comfort but it sounds as if you need a good hug and a bit of tlc from friends and family.
You need to be taken care of and be held when you feel sick and cry xx
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Do I have any right to be mad at him about who he wants to be friends with?
Q. before i start, this is quite long. but please bare with me.. i really need help! my boyfriend and i deleted facebook last september as we are going to set up a twitter instead (: .. anyway, there is a guy who's 'best friends' with my boy...
A. 22 June 2010: And i've been glad to help, if you ever have another problem and need to talk just come to dear cupid x... (read in full...)
How to get over a crush when you're involved with someone else?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two years which isn't long but we do have a six month old daughter together. My boyfriend is my best friend and has been my first in everything - I had never been in anothe relationship before ...
A. 22 June 2010: It will take time and beleive me it isn't hard ive kinda been there myself. You just need to clear your mind and think only of the man your with. Look at him when your making love so you know that it is him who is loving you and not his brother. Try ... (read in full...)
Who do I pick -- the baby mama or the sex slave?
Q. hi im 21 and i have sex alot. the condom split when i was havin sex withmy girlfriendand she got pregnant. a few nights after i got her pregant i went to a party and had too many beers and got another girl pregant i didnttell one about the other ...
A. 20 June 2010: Okay so let me get this straight....your saying after a practical one night stand you love this girl and want her because she will get and abortion? But you think your girlfriend is hot and ok in bed but she wont have an abortion?
You sound so... (read in full...)
Do I have any right to be mad at him about who he wants to be friends with?
Q. before i start, this is quite long. but please bare with me.. i really need help! my boyfriend and i deleted facebook last september as we are going to set up a twitter instead (: .. anyway, there is a guy who's 'best friends' with my boy...
A. 20 June 2010: For one it isnt the same with your dad as his friends. His friends didn't take part in making him did they? We all have to forgive our parents for whatever they've done because without them we wouldn't have been born.
He cant say it's the same bec... (read in full...)
Does it feel the same?
Q. Hey, up until now I've only had an orgasm through simulating the clit without intercourse, out of curiosity is the feeling of a vaginal orgasm the same, I mean through intercourse?...
A. 20 June 2010: For me it lasts longer and is more powerful through intercourse, but it depends on how much stimulation you get/need to reach orgasm.
You'll just have to try it and see how it goes :) x... (read in full...)
Do I have any right to be mad at him about who he wants to be friends with?
Q. before i start, this is quite long. but please bare with me.. i really need help! my boyfriend and i deleted facebook last september as we are going to set up a twitter instead (: .. anyway, there is a guy who's 'best friends' with my boy...
A. 20 June 2010: Tell him that he cant blow you off for people who use him, he's upsetting you and he needs to learn. I would plan a girls night out and just have a good time with my girly pals.
Do soemthing fun, like go to the cinema or pamper yourself for the ... (read in full...)
Do I have any right to be mad at him about who he wants to be friends with?
Q. before i start, this is quite long. but please bare with me.. i really need help! my boyfriend and i deleted facebook last september as we are going to set up a twitter instead (: .. anyway, there is a guy who's 'best friends' with my boy...
A. 19 June 2010: Me personally? I'd have it out with him myself. You should turn around to him next time you see him and tell him he's a pr*ck and that he owes you an apology. You need to down size him, tell him he's not worthy of a forgiving friend like your ... (read in full...)
Does the length of time determine how 'good' sex is?
Q. Before my boyfriend and I started dating, he told me the longest time he had sex for was several hours. I have a few other friends who have had sex for a similar length of time as well. For my boyfriend and I, our sex lasts for about ten minutes. So ...
A. 19 June 2010: Longer sex is good but very tiring. To be honest it makes me feel amazing when me and my guy haven't seen each other in a few days and when we first have sex and he tries to last longer but can't and just explodes, i find it an incredible turn on. ... (read in full...)
She swore she'd never cheat on me, but did!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost one year now. We love each other so much. We are both on summer break from the college that we both attend. She is living/working in a town over 4 hours away from me. she recently visited me for a few ...
A. 19 June 2010: Ok firstly you must have ahd suspisions to look in her diary/journal. She is a cheater and she's lied to you, she deserves to be finished. If she truly loved you she would not have made out with this guy never mind later had sex with him! hone... (read in full...)
Help! How can I get my parents to accept him?
Q. Just as the topic applies, could you? I'm 23, I have a bachelors in Marketing, going back to get my Masters next year. I make decent money--have my own car, my own place, my own bills, plus splurging money. I come from a wealthy background of ed...
A. 10 June 2010: What would you prefer, a man who is more interested in his wokring life than the one you two have together, or this man who gives you everything he can. It doesn't matter what your parents think, their not going to be with him-you are. If they dont ... (read in full...)
Does anyone know of any good romance novels???
Q. Hello again! I just had a quick question. I'm 19 as is my boyfriend. He is away at work during the weeks of the summer and is only home one day of each weekend for the entire summer. Before work started we used to spend every day together so ...
A. 10 June 2010: Nora roberts books, look her up you'll find lots of books. Mary Balogh, i love some of her books. Gaelen Foley, she has done the greatest trilogy ever known to the romance world, its called the Ascension trilogy and starts with Pirate Prince. And ... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!
Q. Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...
A. 8 June 2010: Aw sweety xxxx You need to tell your parents, if need be dont tell them you had sex before but he needs to be punished for this. Tell your parents and they should call the police. You need to take action on this. As for hitting your stomach you ... (read in full...)
My friend is very "dippy" and it is getting embarassing, what can I do to help her?
Q. Hi, My problem is that a colleague of mine who is also a friend is a bit embaressing to hang out with. Now I'm sure you'll all have a go at me for being nasty and saying I'm bit a true friend etc ... So please just read my situation because I...
A. 8 June 2010: Shes a little clumsy. And forgetful, you cant really blame her. You cant really help her with that, plus the causes of forgtefulness and difficulty concentrating at a women of your friends age can be linked to Menopause. Memory loss is a natural ... (read in full...)
I don't want to come between them but I don't want to lose my friend
Q. Right , I'm starting to get really annoyed with my best friends girlfriend. She's never liked me. I haven't known ,well lets call him A , i haven't known him for that long , and he is the nicest guy and we clicked straight away. He is in loads of ...
A. 8 June 2010: Your not a cow, and to be honest i dont know what he#'s playing at! and honey dont say sorry for asking advice, imperfectly happy to give advice to you. He needs to sort himself out, you need to tell him that he cant turn to you and tell you he ... (read in full...)
How to get over a crush when you're involved with someone else?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two years which isn't long but we do have a six month old daughter together. My boyfriend is my best friend and has been my first in everything - I had never been in anothe relationship before ...
A. 5 June 2010: Just try and get the love back. Tell him you want a ngith in with him, watch a film, make dinner. Ask someone to mind your daughter for the night. Kiss him, make love with him.
Just show him as much as you can that you love him, i can understa... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I want it to hurt during sex?
Q. Hi, Is it weird that i want it to hurt during sex? I like the thought of being handcuffed and forced to do what my boyfriend wants and give him all the control. Is that normal? I feel like a freak sometimes cause it seems like i get turned on by ...
A. 4 June 2010: I like pain in the bedroom. No it isn't weird. You like to be dominated, its perfectly normal. Just give your bf the idea and he might actually like it. Im not really extreme but i like a bit of nibbling and spanking. You can get bedroom toys for ... (read in full...)
I saw pictures of my girlfriend giving her ex a blowjob!!!
Q. Okay I just need to get this off my chest as im cracking up with it! To anyone who'll listen I need to get some advice about this. I'm 25 by the way. Around a month ago I found my girlfriends old mobile phone, I asked her if I could use it as ...
A. 4 June 2010: You need to get over it. She's told you sex with you is special, this basically means your better than he was. She has a past and its horrible that you saw evidence of it but you need to accept that yes she does have a past but it is none of your ... (read in full...)
Embarrassing sex life question... need answers!
Q. Hey ummm i just turned 19 and im a virgin my bf is not.. he wanted to wait to have sex and so did i but somehow we tried to and ummm he kept putting things in "the wrong places" and i told him where to go... then when he found it we couldnt get it ...
A. 4 June 2010: Ask him if he was a virgin. The fact that he was putting his male parts in the wrong places makes him sound like a virgin. Just ask him straight out and if he says no and you suspect a lie just say, you didn't know what you were doing.
Hope ... (read in full...)
Help me find a name for my baby boy...
Q. I'm due a baby boy in 5 weeks.. and i have no idea whatsoever to call him.. please could i have some ideas? I know this site isnt for this kind of question! but im desperate!...
A. 4 June 2010: Nicholas? Jonathen? Ashley? Christopher? really all depends on whether you want an unusual name, if you want and unusual name, or an uncommon name maybe something like Jace? Mikah? personally i love the name Lazar. Just look up on the internet baby ... (read in full...)
I don't want to come between them but I don't want to lose my friend
Q. Right , I'm starting to get really annoyed with my best friends girlfriend. She's never liked me. I haven't known ,well lets call him A , i haven't known him for that long , and he is the nicest guy and we clicked straight away. He is in loads of ...
A. 4 June 2010: Ask him why he doesnt want to break up with her? if he likes you and personally shes a bit of a bitch then why doesnt he dump her??
You know honey sometimes i just wanna give every man alive a slap, they all need one. Ask him why he wont break up... (read in full...)
I'm afraid my sexual experience will cause a problem with the next girlfriend.
Q. Hi there, I've been wanting to get into another relationship but 3 years back I had a bad experience with this girl and for 9-10 months we had sex daily. I'm just afraid that I might hurt any girl next due to my experience in the past. Or even ...
A. 4 June 2010: Some virginal girls like to have their boyfriends experienced, especially if your going to have sex. I dont see why any girl would be hurt by you not being a virgin. I dont think there's any need to worry honey :) x... (read in full...)
How to get over a crush when you're involved with someone else?
Q. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly two years which isn't long but we do have a six month old daughter together. My boyfriend is my best friend and has been my first in everything - I had never been in anothe relationship before ...
A. 4 June 2010: Its the basic human concept, we want what we can't have or what we know is wrong. You need to stop fantasizing, you have a man and a daughter. Your boyfriend loves you and you need to remember that. This isn't healthy, maybe you just need something ... (read in full...)
Are women dating guys for money? To look good?
Q. hey ! im just wondering are women all the same ? heres my story ive dated this girl for about a year . im not the richest person don't make the best wages . the ex was a big spender loved to eat out fancy places , designer clothes , bags, ...
A. 3 June 2010: Well there obviously not good for you, id steer clear of them honey. If a girl turns round and says if you want a date you have to pay then they're not worth it, the only time a guy should pay for a whole date (though i wouldn't let him) is when its ... (read in full...)
Are women dating guys for money? To look good?
Q. hey ! im just wondering are women all the same ? heres my story ive dated this girl for about a year . im not the richest person don't make the best wages . the ex was a big spender loved to eat out fancy places , designer clothes , bags, ...
A. 3 June 2010: Im independant! no not al women are like that, you should turn around and tell her that your not her father, she shouldnt get 'spends' from you. And just because loads of people give their girlfriends hundreds of pounds to spend on the weekend ... (read in full...)
I don't want to come between them but I don't want to lose my friend
Q. Right , I'm starting to get really annoyed with my best friends girlfriend. She's never liked me. I haven't known ,well lets call him A , i haven't known him for that long , and he is the nicest guy and we clicked straight away. He is in loads of ...
A. 3 June 2010: If hes coming to you for advice then tell him what you think. If i were you i would tell him that if he thinks it will work with her then stay with her but there is no point in dragging their relationship on if he doesn't want her anymore, and also ... (read in full...)
Bitter relationship with my ex make me wary
Q. I recently got out of a 5 year relationship with a man i cared deeply for. It ended because I could no longer take the abuse, cheating and disregard for anything that didn't effect him personally. When he cheated she got pregnant. she just moved in ...
A. 3 June 2010: There are some a*rseholes out there who seem to revel in doing this sort of thing. He's left you with a child, you need to try and forget him, he isn't worthy of your thoughts. This new man is with you for you and you just need to try and accept ... (read in full...)
I am worried that my boobs don't look normal!
Q. Hey everyone! :) Ok I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm very self conscious especially sonce I'm over weight! My boobs are kinda bigger compared to my friends and I know it's cuz I'm fat! But my nipples are really wierd! I don't know what its call...
A. 2 June 2010: Who says your fat? Your perfect for who you are. Those girls in films have most likely had nip and tuck, or they're cold because when your cold or aroused your nipples perk and the area around them kinda shrink. Dont be calling yourself fat, it only ... (read in full...)
Will I ever get over my first love?
Q. Do you get over your first love? I want to hear people's experiences and stories of their break ups. I'm going through one myself. I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and we broke up a month ago. My biggest concern is my future in dating. I don't ...
A. 2 June 2010: With time you will get over him.
I met my first love in april of 2008 and it was great. I fell in love with him so fast. AT the time he was 18 and i was 15. we were great for about a year and then due to circumstances we split and i was so heart... (read in full...)
Possibly pregnant to my cheating ex!
Q. Please help... After two weeks after having taken my virginity, he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend (he had broken up with her 4 years ago) whom he had cheated on when he was drunk with a one-night-stand. I haven't spoken to him for two week...
A. 2 June 2010: Oh honey, my heart goes out to you. About the part where he deserves to know about his first child, no he doesn't. For all you know sweety he might have gotten another girl pregnant. If you think it is right then tell him, but i dont think anything ... (read in full...)
She wants to wait to have sex! How do I change her mind?
Q. So I have been going out with my girlfriend for 8 months now. I ask her if she wants to have sex and her reply is "I think I want to wait". How can I change her reply to a "Yes!"?...
A. 2 June 2010: You cant make her change her mind! its her decision, her body her rules. If you try to push her shes going to leave you, my boyfriend had sexual experience before me and i asked him to wait and he did. Saying its alright and that your perfectly fine ... (read in full...)
I hate my breasts!
Q. Okay so I don't have the "model boobs" that you see in Playboy mags, Porn, Movies/Tv and everyday life! I don't have big boobs, I don't have those cute small nipples, and I don't have perfect round ones. I have 34b boobs with big nipples and that ...
A. 29 May 2010: Im exactly the same size as you. But the difference is im 17. When me and my boyfriend make love i used to wear my bra and then he reassured me and now i dont wear my bra anymore, im still quick to put my bra back on afterwards but i feel ... (read in full...)
"Ghosts"
Q. "OPs own title" since I was a kid I could see dead ghost or spirits and I could see the future at random as long as I can remember I m now 15 and I have seen thousands of docters and they all say nothing is wrong with me but why do I still see these ...
A. 25 May 2010: Id say your not, there are millions of people who see and sense ghosts. I personally get a sense of them, actually i have one in my house. But i only seem to get a sense of the not so nice ones. it's only every now and again that i sense the one in ... (read in full...)
My parents don't approve of my 20 year-old boyfriend
Q. i am 15 (and appear 17.. to some).and i have always been told that i am very mature for my age as far as the way i behave, talk and the way relate with adults.i am already in the eleventh grade and ready to graduate next year (two years ahead of my ...
A. 22 May 2010: It doesn't matter how mature your mind is, your body is far from it. I am not saying that your boyfriend will just want sex but he is 20 and despite what he says he is going to have a sexual appetite and you are way too young to be thinking of ... (read in full...)
He prioritises his sister over me!
Q. my boyfriend treats his sister more like a girlfriend than me. he buys her really expensive things and treats her all of the time, giving her spending money and he says he's going to go half with her for her tv, it's like it's his daughte...
A. 21 May 2010: They have no parents. I hate to say this because it goes against my female independance but she is a woman and they have no parents, he is the man and although she's older she relies on him. You cant turn around and blame her for how her brother ... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this terrible, long term relationship?
Q. ok..here is it....i have been with this guy for about 11yrs now...things are not good....we are not married, because he says i have an bad attitude..oh well...he always has an excuse of why i have not gotten a ring after all this time....there have ...
A. 21 May 2010: It is perfectly fair to your son, he is growing up with parents who arent in love. Personally, i would never have a child outside of wedlock but thats just my personal opinion. He sounds self centered and hes using his son as an excuse to stay with ... (read in full...)
Troubled marriage and I need space to think clearly!
Q. I don't know what to do. I've been married for 2 years; together for 7. I'm not happy with my husband anymore but I can bring myself to be committed to leaving. We've tried counseling and things didn't get better. His temper is out of control to ...
A. 21 May 2010: I agree with BunnyTee. If a guy ever so much as raised his hadn to me not only would i leave him but id smack him for his trouble. You are a woman of the 21st century, you have the right to leave him an dodnt let him persuade you other wise. You do ... (read in full...)
How can I get her to stay in the sex positions I like for longer?
Q. hello im writing this in hopes that i may get some good advice on how to deal with my problem. See me and my girlfriend have been having sex now for quite some time, and though we've had some really good intimate moments and usualy lasts mor...
A. 21 May 2010: Ask her if she can stay on top? But you really cant blame her for wanting to change position, it cxan get tiring when your repeadly lifting yourself on your knees, her knees might start hurting or her thighs. It isn't as easy as you being on top. ... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant?
Q. I am freaking out I got my period twice this month, I'm soppouse to be taking birth control but I'm not I only took one pill and that's it. So my first period started on may the 3rd ended on the 7th then again on may the 16th and ended last night ...
A. 20 May 2010: I dont really understand you, do you mean you got the pill only took one and then even though you didn't continue with the pill you had unprotected sex? Or did the condoms continue to break?
Please get back to me :) x... (read in full...)
Are we wrong to want to be together?
Q. i fell in love with my boyfriends best friend a year ago and we've had a secret relationship ever since i ended up getting pregnant and i know hes the father not my boyfriend i feel massively guilty but i don't think i should! I moved a 1000 miles ...
A. 20 May 2010: Why are you bothered about hurtig him if he's cheated on you three times and possibly more. You love his bestfirend and he loves you back, maybe if your boyfriend was perfect and he'd never done anything to hurt you then you should be worried about ... (read in full...)
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