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Hiii

i like to give advice to any one who asks for it, but i can sometimes be harsh. But hey - you have to be cruel to be kind sometimes.

I hate injustice, espeically against women and children, but i wont hesistate to tell a woman she's wrong if she is. I like to show people what the other person is thinking, if itll help.

im hoping to become a counsellor one day, im starting university in september. Im going to be there for three years and then an extra three years to get my doctorate in psychology.

im happily in love and im hoping to stay that way for a very long time.

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Are we wrong to want to be together?

Q. i fell in love with my boyfriends best friend a year ago and we've had a secret relationship ever since i ended up getting pregnant and i know hes the father not my boyfriend i feel massively guilty but i don't think i should! I moved a 1000 miles ...

A. 20 May 2010: Why are you bothered about hurtig him if he's cheated on you three times and possibly more. You love his bestfirend and he loves you back, maybe if your boyfriend was perfect and he'd never done anything to hurt you then you should be worried about ... (read in full...)

Will he break up with me if we don't have sex?

Q. hi aunties and uncles. my bf wants to have sex with me. we have been going out for a year now. i don't want to because I am too young - plus there is a chance I could get pregnant, so I said no to him. BUT, he keeps touching me and kissing me and ...

A. 20 May 2010: If you feel you too young then your too young. You have to know in your mind and your body that you want to have sexual intercourse with him. Toucing and kissing is perfectly fine, you don't have to have sex to have pleasure. Maybe you could do some ... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with how much time we spend together?

Q. How many times per week should you see your boyfriend/girlfriend when you're in a committed relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We spend weekends together and see each other once in the middle of the week...and sometimes an occ...

A. 20 May 2010: Im the same, i only spend four days a week with my boyfriend because i have college work to be doing and so does he. And as others have said, this is your relationship people work differently. Tell her that this is your relationship and that this is ... (read in full...)

Am I over reacting to my friends sms message?

Q. Am I over reacting by being annoyed and upset that my "friend" sent me this sms? "i think of you and your daughter every single day. More than once a day. I guess I can't wait for a baby of my own. I would be honored to be something more i...

A. 20 May 2010: I'd be freaked out too. If you don't want her to be the god mother because you've chosen someone else then just tell her so. Personally i wouldn't keave my child alone with her, especially since you suggest she isnt a very good role model. You ... (read in full...)

Why do a lot of older people think that teenagers don't know what true love is?

Q. Hey i was wondering why do not all, but alot of older people think that teenagers dont know what true love is? and that it wont work out in the end? Because my boyfriend asked me to marry him, I said yes. I am 17 and my boyfriend is about 7 months ...

A. 20 May 2010: Your in love, your young, you and your guy dont have arguments you've been friends first, been together a while. I say go for it! you love eachother and i dont think its a bad thing to get married young, if i could id marry my boyfriend but im not ... (read in full...)

Parents Versus Boyfriend! Help!!!

Q. Im in love with my boyfriend of 8 months, hes gorgeous, smart, funny, polite, he doesn't do drugs, hes never been in trouble with the police and yet even after all this hes still not good enough for my mum and step dad. He isn't allowed to my house ...

A. 20 May 2010: He is great, and i hope with time she will accept him because i do beleive he is my one. Thanks :) x... (read in full...)

Parents Versus Boyfriend! Help!!!

A. 19 May 2010: Thanks for the help :) and ive asked her she says its because he reminds her of a gay guy???????! i mean he isn't really masculine to her because hes polite and likes t be clean. But when were around my friends he doesn't have to be so polite nad ... (read in full...)

What was this feeling I experienced?

Q. Me and my boyfriend were messing around and stuff and i started having this like tickling feeling near my vag and like i started breathing really hard. What was going on?...

A. 18 May 2010: erm honey, i think you were aroused. DOnt panic breathing heavily is a sign of arousal. Just let it flow and relish in the feeling of being aroused by your man :) Good luck x... (read in full...)

Is there's any thing I can eat or drink that would make my belly stop hurting?

Q. Hey, I'm 17 and i was wondering if there's any thing you can eat or drink that will make your belly stop hurting or not hurt as much when your on your period? I tried taken tums it dint help, Also is there drinks or foods that will make it worse ...

A. 17 May 2010: Try and find some Red grape leaves (not sure where to find them) they have been traditionally used to treat heavy menstrual bleeding. Also red grapes have an anti iflammatory effect. As said by other agony's use a hot water bottle, it does help. ... (read in full...)

Feeling the "poke" during sex. Is this normal? Its painful!

Q. hi guys. this is for the ladies mostly, but guys are welcome to chip in too! any advice much appreciated. my boyfriend and i are very much in love. about 4 months ago i lost my virginity to him. he wasnt a virgin but he was very gentle and carin...

A. 17 May 2010: Try a position where you control how far he does in, e.g you on top. I know exactly how you feel, im constantly being 'poked' by my boyfriend but if we start off slow then by the time hes ready to fully penetrate me im perfectly capable of ... (read in full...)

Fellas: what can a girl do to make you like her?

Q. Ok hear goes nothing. I have a boyfriend, an awesome guy who I really love. "Lila" one of my best friends, has a boyfriend, "Kel", another best friend, had a boyfriend, emphasis on the had, but she's ok. "Jay", my best friend of eight years, has not ...

A. 17 May 2010: First of all you need to reassure her that boys aren't everything. She shouldn't let her grades drop becasue she wants a boyfriend. The time will come and she will get the right boy but you need to tell her that if she rushes it she's going to end ... (read in full...)

He abuses me but other times treats me like a queen. Can this relationship be saved?

Q. I feel like I need to get out but my love is preventing me from doing so. I've been with him for I think about mmm 2 years and a couple of months. During that time he has been in jail for 8 months and no it wasn't all his fault. But that's another ...

A. 16 May 2010: Why are you doing this to yourself? Because sometimes he treats you like a queen. Honey you need to wake up and smell the coffee. You need to get out and now, if he threatens you with 'homies' threaten him with the police. But you need to get out of ... (read in full...)

I don't want my ex to marry his new girlfriend!

Q. I was dumped by my ex boyfriend in August last year. He did it via email and sms. Refused to answer my calls. Even when I went to his place to look for him, he refused to see me. He told me we are not suitable. His friend pitied me and told me he ...

A. 16 May 2010: Listen honey he is the loser not you, you never did anything wrong an you were not a lousy girlfriend. What you need to do now is try and forget him, i know its going to be hard and trying to date other people probably isnt the best thing right now. ... (read in full...)