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i like to give advice to any one who asks for it, but i can sometimes be harsh. But hey - you have to be cruel to be kind sometimes.
I hate injustice, espeically against women and children, but i wont hesistate to tell a woman she's wrong if she is. I like to show people what the other person is thinking, if itll help.
im hoping to become a counsellor one day, im starting university in september. Im going to be there for three years and then an extra three years to get my doctorate in psychology.
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Is it wrong if my boy friend is 8 months younger than me?
Q. im 14 and my boyfriend is 8 months younger than me people keep saying that its wrong because im older insted of the guy is it?...
A. 17 April 2011: hes only 8 months, its not a year. so your birthdays are 8 months apart your still the same age. ... (read in full...)
I don't like how my partner is treating our child..
Q. hi all, im 29 years old, got a little girl who i love more than anyone (14 months old) sometimes this is the problem with me and my girlfriend of 3 years. i dont look at her in the same way anymore. not because i dont fancy her or some...
A. 17 April 2011: that is child abuse! it is illegal to smack yoru child, and especially a 14 motn old BABY. you need to get her away from her, and quickly. Things like this can really affect a child in later life. I'm doing psychology and seriously this can real... (read in full...)
I have a high sexdrive and my partner doesn't seem to understand my needs.
Q. me and my girlfriend of 3 years have not had what u call a perfect sex life. its been good 1 second next its cold for a few days. she dont moan when we have sex. she just lays there and looks at the roof. she just wants to lay on her back, n...
A. 17 April 2011: why dont you try and give her a break. maybe she feels that you push her for sex. and can i ask why you odnt stop when she's just staring at the ceiling? she's pregnant have you ever considered sex might be painful for her, it sounds to me like she... (read in full...)
How much to shave.
Q. I'm new to sex and everything and i wanted to know do i shave it all off keep some? i would ask my boyfriend but its embarrassing and i dont know what to do! ...
A. 16 April 2011: i agree with odds and caring guy, just ask him. I know that stuff like this can be embarrassing at the start, when you have become real lovers but its something your going to have to over come. The only way your going to truly satisfy your guy in a... (read in full...)
Please rate the experience for me.
Q. I'm 17 still a virgin, I think of it as a major accomplishment. I'm young and I'm not super model gorgeous but I'm very pretty people are always shocked when they find out I'm a virgin and they never believe me. My friends all not virgins keep ...
A. 16 April 2011: The pain all depends on the person. It also depends on how relaxed you are. If the pain scale is 1- very painful and 10- not painful at all i'd say about a 7. For me it wasnt so bad, but i know for some girls it can be very painful. It's good that... (read in full...)
Ladies can you tell me why you hate porn or why you think other women hate it?
Q. Why do women hate porn so much? I agree that when it becomes an addiction, their is a problem. However why, when a guy watches porn only occasionally, and has sex at least once every 2 days? I mean, it's not an addiction but only to spend time. ...
A. 16 April 2011: To be honest im guessing its becaus eyour watching some other woman having sex. For Porn its usually the images that are erotic and stimulating. You are actually watching another woman have sex and are getting aroused, for her this will be an ... (read in full...)
I dreamt that my fiancee impregnated another girl! What does it mean?
Q. I dreamed that my fiancee impregnated someone else. What does this mean?...
A. 16 April 2011: Dreams are wishes for something to happen or for something not to happen.
Thia is just simple fears, you might not feel it during waking hours because itll be locked in your subconscious. But dont worry it doesnt actually mean your boyfriend has ... (read in full...)
Views on kids before marriage?
Q. Hey Agony's :) I just wanted to get the older and younger generations views on premarital children. I see that a lot of people nowadays are having children before even thinking of marriage. I was just curious as to what all of your opinions wer...
A. 15 April 2011: Thank you for all of your opinions, i got quite a range of different ideas on it. I understand that marriage now harbours less importance than a couple of decades back, and im glad this change has occured. I guess from my point of view i see gi... (read in full...)
Any ideas on doing something different on a date? We have done the cinema, going for meals, nights in....
Q. Can you guys give me some ideas on doing something different on a date. We have done the cinema, going for meals, nights in. Any ideas much appreciated....
A. 14 April 2011: How about going for a picnic?
But at night, when its clear and you can see the stars and the moon? ... (read in full...)
After he opens up he becomes distant. Should I break up with him?
Q. Dear Cupid I am dating a guy for the past 1 year, we are kind of on and off. Most of time i goes slient when he feels that he opened up too much to me or he feels attached to me. Yesterday he opened up and we had a great time, today again he...
A. 14 April 2011: first of all im going to tell you why i think hes behaving this way.
It sounds to me that he has been hurt in the past or hes had a bad upbringin. Its like he wants to open up to you but hes scared that when you know him, all of him then youll leav... (read in full...)
Should I change my style to get a girlfriend?
Q. Okay well my mother has brought to my attention that i will never meet a girl unless i start dressing better. See im 18 and i wear funny graphic t-shirts and shorts all year round(I live in NY and i still wear shorts in the winter). I can see her ...
A. 12 April 2011: Maybe try wearing jeans sometime instead of shorts. I like funny graphic t-shirts and im sure other girls were but to be wearing shorts in the winter is a bit strange even in America. Try wearing a nice pair of jeans and try and find out what col... (read in full...)
Calling friends pet names?
Q. Hi. I was wondering do you think the calling your friends pet names (baby, sweetie, honey etc) destorys the intimacy of a relationship and or the meaning of the words?...
A. 12 April 2011: only if you over use them. Save them for a time when their needed like:
Your friend is in tears because she/he broke up with her bf/gf.
You would then say somethig like "oh honey really he wasn't worth it. Cheer up, ill take you shopping" or somet... (read in full...)
Why is it that it's still a man's world, every porn mag is for men, every nude scene in a movie is of a woman? When are woman ever truly going to be treated as equals?
Q. I'm sick of the world that we live in, the expectations and pressures on women today, the young girls who suffer and have low self esteem due to the images we see everywhere, in films, magazines, billboards etc.. Why is it that it's still a mans ...
A. 12 April 2011: Its quite funny this. I really do agree with you. Sometime in england they were going to ban adds for junk food, but they wont ban magazines that have extremely thin women. Im doing eating disorders in psychology now and the main influence on ... (read in full...)
I'd really like to attend my friend's bridal shower but it interferes with my boyfriend's birthday plans
Q. Hi! So i have a dilemma and I'm just looking for advice/opinions.. My friend is getting married in September and I just received an invitation to her bridal party in June. I should mention that we used to be friends in High School, lost tou...
A. 12 April 2011: Your friend will only ever have one bridal shower.
A birthday comes every year.
Tell your boyfriend to grow up, this is a once in a life time thing. Your friend has invited you and its important that you be there, whether you lost touch in th... (read in full...)
Applied for the same job, I got it and my BF didn't...and I lied to him that I didn't make it too!!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf and myself applied for a job in the same place and we both have the same qualification, although i personally think he is more knowledgable than me. Long shory short, i got the job and he didnt. He was very upset that he di...
A. 7 April 2011: he sounds a little pathetic to me, im sorry but its true honey. He's now belittling you because you (a woman) got the job. Tell him that you woul dhave moved for him if hed gotten the job and tell him to stop being so childish, you got the job he ... (read in full...)
Applied for the same job, I got it and my BF didn't...and I lied to him that I didn't make it too!!
Q. Dear Cupid My bf and myself applied for a job in the same place and we both have the same qualification, although i personally think he is more knowledgable than me. Long shory short, i got the job and he didnt. He was very upset that he di...
A. 6 April 2011: This is one of the biggest taboo's in a relationship. You do not apply to the same job.....ti always end badly, either one of you doesnt get the job and the other does, as it is in your situation or you both get the job but then cant move up the ... (read in full...)
Scared that my small penis will cause my first experience to be bad
Q. hi i m 24..asian.. i have never had any kind of experience with any women.. but now i m kind of desperate becoz i think its time to get into a relationship and know women.... above that what makes me most conscious is i have a average sized ...
A. 22 March 2011: You can always try :) If you avoid it you'll never know how it'll go. Plus you dont just pleasure a girl through intercourse. There's foreplay as well. It also depends on the position. Just look up ways to pleasure a woman, refine your techniq... (read in full...)
I fancy my boyfriend's brother!
Q. i think im falling for my boyfriends brother! we went out at the weekend and my boyfriend went home poorly so i stayed with his brother, he walked me back to my house to check on my boyfriend but we ended up going back out, as we got into town we ...
A. 21 March 2011: I'd listen to DrPsych if i were you. This guy is a low life, and it does sound as if he's jealous of his brother. Maybe hes chasing you because he feels tied down and your not. He'll use you if he can, just distance yourself from him, if not phys... (read in full...)
I don't know if I have these feelings simply because he is really caring or if it means something more...
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles : ) So... Through my best friend Sarah I met some really lovely guys because she worked with one of them, although he has since gone travelling. I met a guy Will who I quite liked and after a couple of nights out we went home...
A. 20 March 2011: He likes you, thats for sure but maybe its just a friendly way. Or maybe he's just a little confused.
Id give it a bit more time if i were you, he has to realise himself that hes never goin gto be with this sarah because shes just not interets... (read in full...)
I got her pregnant because she wanted a baby and now she treats me badly. Is that all she wanted?
Q. I met a woman 8 yrs older than me at work 1 yr ago, now shes 29. She was desperatly want a baby. I ve commanded her wish coz i love her very much. Now shes 8 months pregnant. Shes too nasty toward me. She looks young, like we are in a same age. But ...
A. 20 March 2011: This could be two things: 1) a major case of hormones during pregnancy. 2) she's got what she wnated aqnd now she doesnt want you anymore. You'll just have to ask her if she's still interested in you, if not then leave and get half custody ... (read in full...)
What do women get out of sex?
Q. While the end result that's hoped for by both partners while engaging in sex is an orgasm, I can't help but notice how many women on here write about things like "I can't have an orgasm, my bf/husband can't give me orgasms, I rarely get them, I've ...
A. 20 March 2011: Well i personally like the physical comtact. I love how i can just be my true self in those moments. I also love the emotional side of it, i give myself to my bofriend and he gives himself to me and it fills me with a kind of joy that he's doing th... (read in full...)
I'm married but want to talk to my ex!
Q. dear cupid, I 18 years old and married with a daughter she is 10 months I have recently found out that my ex is back from the marines and I really miss him and want to talk to him badly but I know If I do my husband will be mad but I am still ma...
A. 18 March 2011: First of all can i ask why you got married if you dont love your husband?
Also i think talking to your ex would just make things worse, its not going to help your marriage and its certainly not going to help you or him. You need to sever ties wit... (read in full...)
I'm scared that my boyfriend is cheating on me!
Q. I love my boyfriend so much, that i would do almost anything for him. I love him and i tell him that i love him every night. He says he loves me too but i am convinced he is cheating. Well it started like this... I went on our shared laptop an...
A. 29 November 2010: if your confused at why he lashed at you... its guilt. he feels guilty for cheating and so lashed out at you. as all the other agonys said id dump him if i were you.
not only is he cheating but he's alled you a b*tch when it wasnt YOU who did anyt... (read in full...)
Is it illegal for them not to pay me even though I've worked every weekend for the past five weeks?
Q. Hi agony's :) im looking for abit of help/advice on my job problem. ok so i live in the UK and ive recently acquired a christmas temp job. they needed certain ID from me, i gave them my birth certificat (the small one - the only one i have) and ...
A. 25 November 2010: thanks guys :) ill have a look at the sites
much appreciated x... (read in full...)
Stepfather vs. Daughter with mother caught in the middle!
Q. My husband continues to nag at my 15 year old daughter. She is a slop and can be moody, but she is 15. When my daugther is not around, my husband and I get a long awesome...we never argue unless it is about her. She is a good kid (honor roll for ...
A. 23 November 2010: You should listen to all the agony's. i am in the same situation as your daughter, my step father is horrible to me. he and my mother argue about me all the time because ive lefta door open, ive left a light on, ive not had time to wash my plate in ... (read in full...)
Will I get any bigger?
Q. Hey guys, I know this is asked a lot but it's an issue I have to deal with. I'm so discouraged by my penis size. I'm a 16 year old boy and when you look at me you see a buff looking guy who you'd a assume has a larger than average size. But that's ...
A. 20 November 2010: i cant remember a name for it but basically your looking down, when yo look down everything looks smaller. your average size, or is 5 and a half inches average? sometimes larger males can cause pain to their partners and thats a touch thing in a ... (read in full...)
Is this cute and quirky or just plain weird?
Q. Hi everyone. So this a kind of a weird questions and its a bit embarassing, but i'd just like some guys opionions. I have a little mole on the side of my vagina - like on the skin next to it. Will guys find this quirky and cute or is it just plain ...
A. 18 November 2010: i have a small mole on one side on the inside of my thigh, my boyfriend loves it. he thinks it so cute and sexy. i also have a beauty spot on my neck and my bum. he loves them. the right guy will love you for who you are and like caring guy said, ... (read in full...)
We don't want to go all the way, so what else is there besides plain old oral sex?
Q. My bf's birthday is coming up and i want to do something special for him... Both of us are virgins...we both agreed to wait for the wedding night; however i wanna get a bit dirty with him without ...u know...losing my virginity...so w...
A. 17 November 2010: give him a little lap dance?
dress up for him?
give him a huge romantic night xxxx wine (not too much so you dont go too far) rose petals - the works. give him a little lap dance dressed in lingerie, itll probably drive him crazy but atlast it'll... (read in full...)
Got quotes?
Q. got good quotes ? any kind . love , life , dark , light . you name it . I need some good ones for my class . lol . help me out . post one or more(: thanks ....
A. 13 November 2010: Mr myagi bows and then straightens before looking up at Daniel. Daniel then bows back, taking his eyes of myagi.
SMACK!!!
"Never take your eyes off your opponent even when bowing"
or something along those lines
from Kara... (read in full...)
Aren't I supposed to feel something?
Q. So this is a strange question I know, but about a month ago I lost my virginity (we used protection, no worries) and it didn't hurt at all. Whenever I hear stories I always hear about it hurting the first time. And I know sometimes it doesn't hurt ...
A. 13 November 2010: This is to nime, i just wanted to say that some girls do get really bad pains even if they dont have those conditions that you mentioned. Before i went onto the pill every month was horrid for me. The pain sometimes got so bad i passed out from it, ... (read in full...)
Ladies, would you give me a shot?
Q. Ok. I Have a question out there for all the Ladies. I am 26 and still have not had sex. Yes I am still a virgin. Is this normal. Do you ladies still find this attractive? I feel weird when all my friends talk about sex. They expect me to have had ...
A. 13 November 2010: its perfectly natural for you to want a smaller more petite girl. Its the biological behaviour we've never been able to shake off. you want to have someone you can protect, someone you can wrap yourself around. my boyfriends nearly six foot and im ... (read in full...)
What can I say to engage her in conversation?
Q. Ok so I asked this question a couple of days ago but I didnt get any responses so I figured I would ask again so here it goes... I know this might sound like I am shy but I am really not that shy. I have a calm personality but I am not afraid to...
A. 8 November 2010: well its kinda hard to help you here. maybe ask one of your friends who she is, if they know her they can introduce you. there's also the option of helping her carry her school stuff, just go up to her and say 'hi, do ou want help with your b... (read in full...)
She doesn't even care...
Q. Uhm Hi. I'm only 16 years old, going on 17 and my girlfriend is the same age as me, though 8 months younger. I've been with my girlfriend for a bit over 17 months. Things were really good when we started going out: she was really nice to me, she ...
A. 8 November 2010: your reason for not breaking up with her is a little silly, im a year older than you and i may have a little more experience but we're both young. we won't understand love properly until we experience it a few more times. i undertsand that you love ... (read in full...)
She's had sex with her friend before, now he wants to meet her to "catch up" and this bothers me. Am I being unreasonable?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 and a half years. All is grand. She used to have a best friend, a guy, who she maintains she was very close too. One night, they had sex, she insists it was a mistake, 'a complete one off' and tha...
A. 8 November 2010: well you haven't explained if you've done anything. Being a little cautious around your girlfriends ex lover is perfectly normal, just ask her nicely if she'll not meet up with him alone, or suggest you all go on a double date. Your allowed to be ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my wife that an occasional non emotional sex night is not cheating or a threat to her?
Q. I am happily married. I love my wife very much, and would never contemplate having an affair. No interest. However, I really miss seeing and touching other womens naked bodies. The newness the excitement. It's just more exciting than the same old ...
A. 20 September 2010: Yes it would be alright for aman but how would you feel if your wife turned to you and said, 'hey, im tired of having sex with just you all the time, its kinda getting a little tedioius, i know its my duty as your wife to stay loyal but i just fancy ... (read in full...)
Abortions, what do you think?
Q. *OP's Original Title* Hey aunt and uncles. I just wanted to know your opinions on abortion. About a year ago i went with my brother and his ex girlfriend for them to have an abortion. I know it wasn't me having an abortion but it really a...
A. 4 July 2010: Thanks guys, all of you. I know that everyones opinions are different and heres mine: I am on the pill and we regularly use protection so if i became pregnant i would abort, because i dont want to bring a child into the world that i dont want. I w... (read in full...)
How can I reduce how wet I get during sex?
Q. Okay, so I get extremely wet while having sex, almost to the point where I can't feel the pleasure anymore. My boyfriend tells me that I get too wet, but we continue to have sex anyways. Is there anything I can do to not get so wet?...
A. 2 July 2010: Usually wetness is a good thing, but i perfectly understand where you come from, i tend to be the same but rarely.
Try having little foreplay, and lube can sometimes cause the bad wetness affect so try not to use that.
Also if you do get too w... (read in full...)
What is the best thing to say back when someone tells you they love you and you're not sure if you do yet?
Q. What is the best thing to say back when someone tells you they love you and you're not sure if you do yet? I suspect my boyfriend might say he loves me soon - he's told our mutual friends he does and last night when we were holding each other in ...
A. 1 July 2010: Dont lie. Thats the best thing you can do, but dont be harsh about it either. If he turns to you and says 'I love you' kiss and hug him and then look him in they eye and tell him that you care for him more than anything, but you need more time. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't appear to respect the fact that I don't like anal sex!
Q. just recently me and my bf have been having an aguement concerning anal sex. he absolutely loves it which i appreciate, however its just not my thing. it makes me really uncomfortable and i dont enjoy it. on a couple of occasions when he has asked ...
A. 28 June 2010: Listen to Tisha she's scarily wise x... (read in full...)
Does cheating count when your a kid still?
Q. So, I'm 16 and I've had a boyfriend for quite a while now. Things are good we care about each other and everything but here's the thing, I recently got a job about 3 months ago and since then I've made good friends with a boy who works there. We ...
A. 27 June 2010: As the others have said cheating is cheat. Your contradicting yourself when you say you don't want to be tied down, yet then you say breaking up isn't an option because you've been together a long time. Well, when you've stayed together a long ... (read in full...)
Recently girlfriend cannot orgasm?
Q. Normally oral sex will work every time. But recently it seems she can't orgasm. I've tried different techniques (including the ones that worked before). She will get close but can't get over the edge. She'll rest for a minute or two, then ask to ...
A. 24 June 2010: She hit you in the face whilst you were sleeping, i mean provocation or retaliation maybe i would just surpass it but you were sleeping. It is probably the stress of her job that's stopping her from orgasm, but she has no right to hit you for it.
... (read in full...)
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