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writes:Hi, Is it weird that i want it to hurt during sex? I like the thought of being handcuffed and forced to do what my boyfriend wants and give him all the control. Is that normal? I feel like a freak sometimes cause it seems like i get turned on by pain, not all pain but the sexual kind. Thanks for any help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): Trust me, it is completely normal. I like it rough too, but no too painful! haha (handcuffs are a plus :])
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Does the word bondage ring a bell? Or S&M? Check it out, it sounds like it's right up your street. Not weird at all. It's a bit out of the regular comfort zone, but there are plenty like you out there in the world. My guess is we all like this type of thing in a varying degree.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 Normal... not something for all couples, but many men and women like sex rough and with a little bit of pain..
Imagine, love bites, they is painfull, but satisfying and people do it all the time. Usually it's about wanting to loose control and be dominated without having to take responsiblitiy for your desires. Common fantasy among women.
And downright sexy and hot if I might say so meself... (well, agony aunts should do their research to be able to give good advice.. :P)
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reader, ladyylove23 +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Its not weird at all, i thought the same when i was younger, but everyone has a different way of expressing what pleasures you, and in your case you like the pain, its OK so dont worry about anything, theres plenty of people who like that as well.
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (4 June 2010):
 I like pain in the bedroom. No it isn't weird. You like to be dominated, its perfectly normal. Just give your bf the idea and he might actually like it. Im not really extreme but i like a bit of nibbling and spanking. You can get bedroom toys for this certain fetish. Like spanking boards and handcufss with a cushioned side so it doesnt rub into your wrists. Look it up, its perfectly normal.
Good luck honey :) xx
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