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writes:Hey ummm i just turned 19 and im a virgin my bf is not.. he wanted to wait to have sex and so did i but somehow we tried to and ummm he kept putting things in "the wrong places" and i told him where to go... then when he found it we couldnt get it in... it was so AWKWARD!!!! a disaster... we're always flirting an stuff but now it just makes me feel weird an we havent talked about it since... but he still wants to but i dont because im afraid this will happen again which will be worse then ever!!!!! i do love him and i dont want to make him feel bad by saying no.... what should we do to make sure this doesnt happen agian...?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (5 June 2010):
 I don't think your both arroused enough, he's trying to penetrate you too soon and you are not wet enough.. more foreplay is needed, he needs to touch and arrouse you untill there is only lust and no awkwardness.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (5 June 2010):
Sounds like a virgin to me...
mmm.. try going on top and starting from there, then at least he can see what he's doing and know where he's supposed to go.. finish off with you on your back, it's better because he won't go so deep and hurt you too much.
Lube, plenty of lubrication will help. And don't feel awkward, it's supposed to be fun, so laugh and make jokes with things go wrong.
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reader, KeighleySky +, writes (4 June 2010):
 Ask him if he was a virgin. The fact that he was putting his male parts in the wrong places makes him sound like a virgin. Just ask him straight out and if he says no and you suspect a lie just say, you didn't know what you were doing.
Hope i helped :) xx
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