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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): I believe the best thing that could happen to either of these babies, or either of the mothers, would be for you to run away and never have anything to do with any of them. You sound like an arrogant little child and I can see nothing but pain and hardship for all involved if you have anything to do with raising either of these children or being in the lives of either of the mothers.
I mean that in a very nice way, of course.
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reader, Monica1015  +, writes (8 July 2010):
It sounds to me that you are an immature young man. Only that type of so called "man" would ask a question like this. It takes two to tango and now you need to own up to your responsabilities and at least try and make it work. Once you have tried to do the right thing and if it still isn't working for you then separate but at least you tried. If you do decide to choose the potential sex slave just remember that nothing is guaranteed(lol) and your baby is still going to be there. For all you know the other girl might dump you when you least expect it because she found someone else that satisfies her!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2010): do what you want man, it's your life and no one else's.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): You sound soo immature and your not taking responsibit for your actions. Like if ur gonna have sex and be selfish about it then Find a slut that is the same way as you. Don't get Mad at a girl that is goin to be a mother because of you and don't want am abortion. You had sex, so u have to understand pregnancy can happen!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): you shouldn't even be asking this question! you should be manning up and be a father to you unborn baby! these are women, not cars at a dealership! be a dad moron!
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Well the answer depends on whether or not you're a man. A man takes responsibility for his actions. A man takes care of his children and the woman he helped make them with.
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reader, KeighleySky  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 Okay so let me get this straight....your saying after a practical one night stand you love this girl and want her because she will get and abortion? But you think your girlfriend is hot and ok in bed but she wont have an abortion?
You sound so childish. For one you shouldn't have cheated on your girlfriend in the first place because if you haven't noticed she is PREGNANT with YOUR child.
Not only have you gone and cheated on her you've not told the other girl you actually are in a relationship! You say she'll be your sex slave and that's one of the reasons why you want her? your girlfriend wont have an abortion because she probably loves you and i'll tell you something you don't deserve to stand on the same ground she does.
You need to start acting like a man rather than an arrogant teenager. You choose to leave your girlfriend, fine that's your choice but your going to be doing it for the wrong reasons.
Only you can decide what to do but either way your going to have to have something to do with the child your current girlfriend is having because she's goign to need paymetn from you for the child that both of you made.
Plus will this girl that you slept with want to stay with you once she finds out you were going out with someone else whilst you slept with her and not only that but you impregnated them both?
I know ive been harsh but im not sorry you need to grow up.
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reader, Aim.xx +, writes (20 June 2010):
How can u even consider this? Ur girlfriend is the mother of ur child and if she doesnt want an abortion u shud respect her wishes and stick by her and the baby not cheating on her with your sex slave a relationship isnt all about sex and looks. Its about feelings and love and personality
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