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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hi guys pleas help me! im not sure if im a virgin when i was a little girl a guy of my age did touch me alot of time. i think it happened once that he did put his finger in me. now today im 21 and i have a bf i dont want to have sex no. i want to wait till im married, but im scared...what if that day come and it happens the first time, and im not even sure if i lost my virginity or not. how can i be 100% sure that i'm still a v?
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 I was abused as a child to and I did have my virginity taken away from me before I wanted it to be. If the guy only put a finger in to you then yes you are still a virgin. The guy would have had to of had intercourse with you for you to no longer be a virgin.
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reader, Midge +, writes (27 August 2007):
 As a victim myself, and what you have described, you are still a virgin. If he did not penitrate you with his penis and actually break the hymen, you are still a virgin.
You hold out for your wedding day. It will be so much more special making love to that one special person that you are going to spend the rest of your life with.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Unless he actually had intercourse with you you're a virgin.If he put his finger in you than you are still a virgin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): Hi Love,
Im sure everthing will be just fine, you have come through something terrible and are now looking towards something wonderfull, be possitive hunny this kind of trauma can affect us in life, if you are so worried go to your doctor he may be able to rest your mind.... Look to the future with peace and love sweety I hope life is kind to you and you find the happiness you deserve LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, smeedle +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Worry not, im sure you are still a virgin.
Abuse is an awful thing and leaves us with all sorts of worries and fears and issues, good for you that you have started looking to the future with a bloke and that you are waiting until marriage to have sex.
Stop worrying and enjoy your relationship.
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